₦airaland Forum

onoikenna:
His life was threatened.He will be the biggest fool 2 go to Ogoniland

Just like the incident that happened in Zaria, the security forces could not have taken it lightly with those youths if they accosted the president.

Luckylife:
How will that solve the problem of Niger Delta bombings .

Niger bombings is not a problem, it's a solution in disguise. Oil has been Nigeria's major problem, my own opinion though.

You can't do it alone, a community is one thing you need. My advise to you is to join a religious group where you will not only develop yourself spiritually but also learn to be organized and make friends who you will feel accountable to. You'll also get support in your academic work through the tutorials these groups organize and meet with some gurus who are in higher levels.

Behind every successful marriage, there is a always a great woman. God has wired the woman in a very special way that she can make even the most powerful man act like a child. While I may not be absolving the man of his own responsibilities, in my own opinion a lady, most especially the educated one who wants to give reasons why her marriage failed is merely confessing that she is unfit to be a house wife.

Wish universities in Nigeria got sanctioned for overcrowded lecture halls.

Peaceworld:
The OP also brought the storm on his head by putting up such a funny title. Rather the title should be... SIX FACTS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW IN ORDER TO AVOID POSSIBLE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FROM VIOLENT-PRONE MEN IN RELATIONSHIPS. Thank you.

Good observation.

sabiguy:
So what about a man who goes out to work in order to feed you and the kids while you stay home doing nothing also have every right to insult, deny u sex and beat the crap out of you right??

You are a good example of r e t a r d e d n e s s and imbecility. The man wey go marry u don suffer. I rebuke your kind of Lady in my life. Amen

Please don't be too harsh when replying to their comments as most of them are the products of abusive marriages. Tell me why any sane lady who is breed in a happy home will think it's right to insult her own husband.

kaziblake:
I totally disagree with no 3...A woman who goes out to work in order to feed you and the kids while you stay home doing nothing have every right to insult and even deny you sex.

Mecheww

Real men don't beat their wives

Gosh! My sister marriage is not meant to be a war front. Never continue to endure what you feel is a burden to you.

UjSizzle:
What's the relationship btwn the situation on ground and what you just typed?

Good question, I wasn't able to read what the guy wrote. But I could presume that the both of them were wrong, and was very angry, especially with the lady who is the bearer of the most consequences. The incident I tried to narrate is about a lady who despite warnings from her guy had refused to let go of her ex. Now her only weapon of choice against the guy when be finally dumped her is curses which to me didn't deal a blow to the guy.

CopyLearner:
i think the guy took out time to tell his tale and hers. And from his story, she did nothing wrong to him, he only got bored. And by bored, he meant sexually. From his tale and her text msg, she was ever loving. Didn't change. He already judged himself. And him seeking for public sympathy and for others to help him pacify the lady means he knows he did everything wrong.

Thanks very much for the clarifications. I couldn't read what the guy wrote.

This isn't good at all. But let's not be quick to draw conclusions when we have not heard what lead to his action. Imagine you caught your girlfriend pants down in her house with her ex. This girl wasn't even nervous at all, instead she had the nerves to accuse you of spying on her. You ended up doing the apology for failing to notify her that you were coming, after which, you seriously cautioned her against such act. In just two weeks, same poo happened. You called several times to give notice you were coming around but there was no response and later her younger brother who answed the call to told you that she went out. You still came anyway, lo and behold, you saw her coming out of the ex's room. She couldn't give you any proper explanation so you threatened to end the relationship. This is the time she brings up the issues of the abortions she had done for you and time spent in the relationship. Advice.

Broke girls! Sounds odd to me. I think we don't have any broke girl, only broke guys. It would have been better if the advice appeared in the beginning, as I see only a few girls reading this to the end.

kingarizona1:
London

I think he meant which part of Minna.

andyanders:
Well said. He never knew it will nosedive this way. He was hoping that she will come back begging him not to say those trash.

Yeah it's actually trash because I don't think she can provide evidence to sustain any of her claims if he refutes them all.

I hate to read people whose analysis and opinion only adds up to an existing problem.

This is quite sad. But one thing I strongly believe in is that in most cases, shit don't just happen. Let's be very mindful of how we treat our parents today else tomorrow, people will be shocked at how our children are treating us. Call it seed time and harvest.

Sad news, poor reportage. I know it's just a brief, but at least every vehicle on the road has got a specific direction it's moving.

That money is savings from a piggy bank, a very big one indeed.

D. Savings.

Except if your uk relative owns hospital, I advice that you grab the present opportunity.

Khd95:
Op is high on osogbo grown raw cassava

abeg leave tiwa jerey,she is goin thru alot

One thing is obvious, it's either you did not read the write up at all or you read but could not comprehend what he wrote. This kind of write up is what I'll refer to as a constructive criticism, even Tiwa will not wave it aside.

new2020:
Niger Delta oil at work. ND are the biggest blockheads I have ever come across in this life including my father and my uncles. By the time they finished our oil money, and developed their region with it, they will call an end to one Nigeria...then our eyes will open.

Bros, it's not your fault that you were born into a region of blockheads. But for you to be a blockhead after they have wasted a fortune on your education is quite unfortunate. Wise up to the reality and do your region proud by at least posting sensible comments here on nairaland and giving your people back home good advice based on the knowledge and experience that you have acquired.

fuck419:
The MASSOB must be sick at this point. Did the herdsmen info you before killing your people? You must at all times be ready to give teeth for teeth to the vampires amongst us. Wait for no negotiations, give a counter attack with hundreds dead before you negotiate anything. These things are not normal beings, they are wild animals, kill them allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll

These are the kind of comments that annoy me, mostly, the people writing them don't know nothing about real fighting than they know about running their mouth and compounding issues. MASSOB is there giving a 30 day ultimatum to the F.G, a time so long enough for the enemy to map out better strategies. You are here ranting a tooth for a tooth, kill them all and I believe you are not even resident in that region to bear the consequence of any wrong move.

This is a very sad news. May God grant the dead eternal rest, and the injured quick recovery. I wept for Nigeria the day I read some guys from the east making jest of the victims of fulani attack in other parts of the country, innocent people were killed and these guys referred to the victims as cowards. They were here hailing Biafra saying it's impossible for the fulanis to carry out a successful attack in the east. It's indeed very sad that the worst has happened, but I hope they now realise that we all have a common problem to tackle. Coming here to rain insults on those in authority is a waste of time and a wrong application of the knowledge that has been acquired through education. Don't add to the problem, suggest a solution.

DonaldGenes:
Damn..this is serious, even till 10.pm

swap Naija swept my hard airtime to God knows where twice.

Wish him quick recovery.

killshot20:
Are you saying its a network problem?? Because I can download from every other place except play store..

I am not saying it's a network problem but am saying it could be a network problem. What network are you using?

Had this problem when I was using glo, now that am using Airtel the problem is solved.

Davindal:
I hv nt broken up with her. The only problem is her size...very, very big!

Exaggerating your only problem can compound it. Note, the poor girl too might go to seek advice elsewhere. You don't know the kind of girl she might meet. Stop exaggerating what you have tagged to be a problem and begin to find ways how to solve it.

@Op, I feel your vibrancy now. But beware that the emotional trauma you are playing around can mess you up big time. Don't let your experience to teach you a lesson you can learn from others. Imagine you @36 saying had I known.

Dating is not marriage. Even in a marriage, separation is allowed based on certain conditions. I think parties in a date need to begin stating rules that will guide them in the relationship. They should also draw out plans on how the relationship would progress to marriage, not forgetting conditions for dissolution. There is no point going about making commitments and sacrifices that can leave you emotionally frustrated.