smallsmall: Any Father with your type of mindset, is a "Sexual Pervert" and should be nowhere near any Child! I bath my two daughters all their Baby-Life. It does not feel different, to bathing my Boys or even a Doll, for that matter. What is this world turning into?
I understand that wicked Women are doing everything they can, to demonize Men, and fathers in particular but good Fathers, Husbands and Men out there must resist this Nonsense. I know most White Men are 'raised differently' (they dont have natural boundaries) but we are NIGERIANS, we dont do such 'Shyt to, or with our Children
I felt like crying after seeing d topic. This topic will cause a lot of psychological issue for some family. Some of those talking rubbish are not even father yet. U judge all men by what some very few psychopath did. No sane man will do such except for ritual or madness.
ebubeson: Is it right for a wife to prevent her husband from bathing her little daughters? Is it also right for a wife to monitor her husband in the name of protecting her daughters? It is wrong.
If you married a responsible husband, such actions should be out of it. It is like an insult restricting or monitoring your husband when he is with your daughters. You may go rent another apartment and stay with your daughters. But if in any way you notice any funny behaviour from him, deal with it to the root.
How did we get here. Why would a sane father became a danger to his own blood. Such a man should be seen as a bigger danger to the society. Is like a man looking at his own ass in d mirror n being sexually turned on. That must be a curse, else it is naturally disgusting. I pray for the few men in such position be delivered or put away for life.
Starz825: I think he is right...since adultery is a biblical reason to divorce and remarry...then he is right..
The wife Left him to be with /sleep with another man.....
Adultery is not a reason to remarry, but it is a reason to do separate. Being separated doesn't mean u can remarry. I know this might sound crazy , it is the fact.
Dogalmighty17: I don't understand. Isn't the bible clear on this? If one spouse moves out and proceeds to remarry, nothing stops the other spouse from remarrying.
I like your approach and love but..... I was born and bred in the north and spent greater part of my life in the north. I think the north has started improving on the appearance of the food which I think is needed. Also, you can't beat the north when it comes to pastries both in improvisation and creativity. Masa/waina is one of my favourite meal especially when the soup comes with moishanu.
For the hygiene, the north is more tolerant to dirt and this makes people feel every northerners are dirty but the truth is hygiene is a personal thing. My masa seller in Jos is neater than many Yoruba food vendor I know in Lagos. So is my maishai in Lagos, he has high patronage because how neat he is, in fact neater than me and many people I know.
Israel5: Please (even though I know my appeal with fall on deaf ears too numerous to count in this forum), approach this issue with logic and without prejudice to the people involved.
My wife and I are duly blessed with a son who is in his basic 5 now. Also, we decided to get the daughter of one of my cousin to stay with us. She is one of 7 children. So I wanted to help raise a CHIMAMANDA.
As my rule, every child of same age under my room attends the same school and calls us Dad & Mum. The school part didn't quite seat well with my wife, who had a different opinion, but I prevailed anyway. Because na me dey pay school fees.
The girl is a year older than my son, but due to the level of education at the village before she came over, we made her be in the same class as my son. She met my son in primary 2. Now they are both in basic 5.
A shocker happened: This girl keeps coming up in the class, while my son keeps running away from the top. We've tried extra lessons, even tried changing schools. Now it looks as if the girl is better suited for school than my boy. She reads, spells and memorizes things too marvellous. I bought a dictionary cos of that.
I even buy gifts for her (for coming top) more than I do for my boy, to make him sit up, but my pikin nor send me o. Guy use cry & Woman power make me buy am bicycle. 😁
I would think he's being a spoilt boy, who believes daddy & mommy is there, I don't really know. But I am hopeful.
Now, my major issue is my heavily pregnant wife. She wants the girl to be changed/enrolled at a different school. In her defence, she wants her to be available to help her take care of things. The kid's school close by 3pm. She suggest government school that close earlier. I see sense in what she said but I feel like I'll be unfair to this young girl.
When I tried to have a healthy debate on the idea. Na so madam start to dey talk plenty tins wey I nor fit type. I have accepted to do her wish from September for peace.
Please, do you see another way I could avoid problems?
Is she right to have asked that I changed the girl's school just because she needs help around the house & her business?
Bros you might regret it if you follow your wife's decision at night time n your son will pay too for your decision. If she is indeed your daughter as you prefer, would she ask you to change school just so she will be helping her? Nature will favour your family in the long run if you are fair even if it doesn't feel so now.
Get her house help that comes and goes after working.
If you do what she asked, she will ask for more. You need to let her know where she stands on such issues so she could adjust.
[quote author=Chilipepper post=136021061]A lot of men are scrambling to find out which state this dowry list came from 😂😂😂 Why? It's unbelievably cheap!
Deepspirituals: Barren for 19 years, The Woman is well to do , Husband Couldn't impregnate her , She is fed up , She wouldn't wants to leave this world without a Child, Armed Robbers Invaded the House , Raped the Woman, She went to Hospital to Clean herself . Yet She Became Pregnant , What would You Advise her.. To Terminate ?
If she keeps the child, she will regret it. Even the child will disappoint her.
thunder74: The additional N350,000 added to the rent is likely to be for Agency, Agreement and refundable deposit. Now that he has given them his house without agreement and caution, hope he will not complain if something is damaged tomorrow? Secondly, whenever there is any trouble with the tenant, hope he will also not call the agent to intervene? The truth is that the additional fees are for the professionals he engaged or how does he intend to pay for the services of the Agent that brought the tenant and the lawyer that will prepare the agreement? The caution deposit is for a security that the landlord will keep to be refunded whenever the tenant is moving out if nothing is damaged.
I am a Covenant University graduate. Some years ago during my 200L I enrolled for a course themed "CHM212: Physical Chemistry". After the semester end, half of the class failed the course miserably. So we retook the course in 300 Level as a "carryover", then I failed this course again. Then in 400L I enrolled for this course again.
This time around I read severely for the course because a failure would amount to an extra year. But when I got to the exam hall and opened the questions, much of it looked like Arabic to me. I couldn't even make sense of what the question was talk more of what the answers could be. Beyond writing my name, I could only attempt a few questions.
Looking around I could see how the 200 level Chemistry students where flipping papers. I could only curse my own department for making us enroll to Chemistry courses that were of little relevance to my department. To make things worse, some of these 200 level students where requesting for extra papers and I was wondering why anyone would need extra papers.
From afar it was clear that my 400L class mates also retaking the course where equally in disarray. One was sweating under AC, the other had that look - you know that look of a clueless person who was certain of failure and the last was making unsuccessful attempts to 'giraffe' another student. Some minutes later, some people started submitting scripts, then the principal supervisor declared 10 minutes more for the rest of us.
The moment she made that declaration, it was as though the reality of an extra year came blaring at my face. I could feel tension surging down my body from neck down and then my muscles contracted. Two seconds before, I was now certain I was going to have an ejaculation. I immediately held my head and pretended as though I was having a painful headache as one or two people looked my way wondering why I had a 'squirting face' and was in apparent discomfort.
After the ejaculation I felt peace of mind. So I immediately stood up and dashed towards the exit with my almost blank papers in hand covering my groin. I submitted and ran back to my hostel room before anyone could notice any wet spurt on my trousers. I changed over and ran back to Chapel begging God for even a D so I can graduate.
Glory to God, when the results came out I had a D - which is the minimum grade you could evade a carryover/extra year at CU.
But till today I wonder why and how I could have had that disgustingly embarrassing experience. I would be grateful if Doctors or Biologist could explain why such a thing would happen to me at an examination. I would like to know if anyone has experienced anything remotely close to that. Thank you for your time
I experienced it too once, during an exam. I think it is a way your physiology handles your biological pressure. You experience calmness when it is triggered. Ejaculating might be better than stroke.
Zionmdde: If he decided to carry nepotism on his head like buhari, then he should be proud of it and not trying to deceive anybody Come out with your full chest and say "yes I am proud to engage more of yorubas in my government " heaven won't fall.
This country has never been and will never be one. So let's continue with the turn by turn nepotism. Why hiding it.
None of my business though. Even those zombies defending him, we all are in the same boat. None of family members or relatives are part of the government
If the Yoruba are categorised as north, then they deserve it, except they want to realign the categorisation. You can't be counting them only during election.
Ever8090: Ok...hope him mother and sisters are hard working like the Chinese women Shaa...let me know the location of their shop so k can take phone there for repairs
So women's fate is connected to VDM'S family members fate? See thinking.
Truth Na truth Na, no matter who is saying it. A criminal speaking the truth doesn't invalidate the truth he spoke even when you doubt due to his life style
The Chairman of the senate committee on ethics Neda Imasuen has come under fire and strong criticism over the bad state of the road that leads to his house.
Meanwhile, Mr Imasuen, as chairperson of the Senate ethics committee, he was involved in the recent suspension of the Kogi Central senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan, who accused the Senate President, Godswill Akpabio, of sexual harassment.
After receiving a report from the Mr Imasuen-led committee, the Senate presided over by Mr Akpabio, suspended Mrs Akpoti-Uduaghan for six months over alleged misconduct and refusal to comply with the chambers’ sitting arrangement during the plenary session on 20 February.
Mr Akpabio referred the senator’s sexual harassment petition to the Senate ethics committee. The chairperson of the committee, Mr Imasuen, ruled that the petition was “dead on arrival” and would not be entertained by the Senate.
Therefore, netizens called on him to urgently fix the road in fulfilling promises made to the electorates.
If una give that money for the road, e fit chop am with the kind accusations I see online.
7lives: Yoruba language has so many dialects, but a true Yoruba will easily decode any of these dialects. Yorubas are decoding Yoruboid dialects among Igala folks. Ga, Fon and Adangbe of Ghana speaks different dialects of Yoruba and people like us still understand.
yummy001: I am Okun and I am 100% Yoruba. Apart from the fact that I have a full understanding of my lineage and bloodline, I do not need the validation of ignorant folks who think the great Yoruba race are limited to only the South West of Nigeria..
We even have the Yoruba Ajase who migrated from Ancient Ile Ife to the present day Benin Republic.. They are not even Nigerians.. They are even more Yoruba than some Yorubas of the South West who are more Arabic or European in their worldview compared to these non-Nigerian Yorubas who are more culturally grounded.. Same way we have Yoruba Anagos in the Gambia and Togo who are not even Nigerians..
What you are saying is similar to an indigenous Hausa man who hails from Mali or Ghana waiting for the Hausa man in Northern Nigeria to validate him as a Hausa man because he thinks the indigenous Hausa man can only be found in the Northern region of Nigeria.
You should be the one apologising to the general public for displaying an incredible amount of ignorance in the public space.