dre11:


https://thenationonlineng.net/lagos-to-float-airline-build-airport-in-lekki/

Lagos is the only state on the news regarding development. Other states governor just dey go government house go sleep, chop, cruise free car, form activities, chop money n leave. At the end still dey collect pension for doing nothing for 4-8 years.

Even if you dey steal try dey do correct work. Lagos get plenty debt but they are credit worthy because of work done in the state even though we know how some of the money went down.

omoakinsola:
Yes! What will you do if your grandma slaps your mum in your presence.

Not your business. Walk away.

WebOracle:
I made a post on my Facebook about my accommodation issues in school and how I needed help with a new one.

This guy went to my DM and asked me to delete the post, that he’d help me.

Asked me to come to Umuahia from Calabar, I asked for tfare, he asked me to come first with mine, after all na me dey find help.

I traveled down two days later, got to Umuahia only for the guy to tell me to find a place to lodge and he’d join me later because he had to attend to an emergency.😳

I managed to lodge with what I had which was even a deposit and told the hotel receptionist that my host will balance up when he comes.

He came later in the night with “Nutri Milk and Bread”.😡

He coerced me into having $3x with him based on say I dey vulnerable to his help.😭

4am he took excuse to rush to go for another emergency.

Na so Orjiako Emmanuel Japa from the hotel and left me stranded o.🙆🏽‍♂️

Balance of hotel e nor pay.
Food e nor give me chop.
Transport e nor give.
Money for rent e promise e nor give

Blocked me everywhere and left me in more vulnerable and terrible state.😭😡

Nobody treats any human like that no matter what
You don’t ride on people’s desperation to make yourself feel good.

Orjiako Emmanuel is a terrible human and he should be famous by force!!!

Here is his number

He cannot block the whole world!”


Source: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02EiZU9md1JwvN4dHLJ9VxCVGprtYNYcqt84HJLJujrynodkeGo1hnXZYyRmWvUHXHl&id=100001866995599&mibextid=2JQ9oc

That's the problem with some girls, no sense. How could you risk everything for ordinary word of mouth. No single commitment from beginning to the end. Shameful honestly even though I feel sorry for you.

Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages.
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm!

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even beat and rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. . Bunch of sickos!!

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

Hi, the abusive relationship you spoke of is it marriage?
But honestly I mean no offence but I discovered that when people bring topic on marriage, the single women are usually the most offended. I noticed this trend over n over.
I have issues with my marriage like many others but I know it is the best life when compared to being single.
The companionship is great, children giving you joy, wify ups n downs is entertaining, seeing the growth in your family is a bundle of joy, the needs in the home makes one want to strive harder, wify support n prayer,sometime wify discouragement make you test your management skills etc

In all, marriage is full of challenges but fun if both are committed and matured.

Printme:
The movie was cool. A Nollywood movie I actually enjoyed in a long while.

At the same time, I think it reflects on a very key aspect of life that most people never give much thoughts to.

That is, a male child will always need their father.

Regardless of how much a woman will love the male child, they will always need their father to be good influences in the society.

She gave birth to five children and all their fathers were absent. It's a lesson for women. Once you spoil your life, men will continue to chop and go.

No man will ever want to settle and train another man's child.

It doesn't matter how much you try to manipulate them with the "it's a mistake" or "a real man ought to take care of another man's child"

It won't work. They will just chop you and go and probably add their own seeds since you want to be unfortunate that way.

Also, statistics shows that male children raised by single mothers tends to be the "bad eggs" in the society.

And we all saw that in the movie. Not even one of the children turned out fine for the society. Instead, they were filled with that selfish love that put only their needs into consideration and never the needs of others.

And that's the kind of love women can give their children. Only a father's disciplinary love tells the child that other's needs are important.

It is the father that seeks to make sure the male child, no matter how strong he is, he never used that strength for his own benefits alone.

If she had thought the children to protect others and not just herself, they probably would have turned out fine.

Overall, I think the movie was entertaining but the lessons were still there except you choose to ignore it.

You are right on spot.

Discussed same thing with my wife after watching it.

Hope this is true.

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

Big mistake is to sue. You will mess your relationship with her and that of your daughter up. Just be patient and keep being nice to them no matter what

larryUG:
Baba, I spent close to a million for my baby stuff.
What you need to understand is that baby things are generally very costly. Secondly, escalation has taken a toll on the prices of things . It seems a lot of people have not taken into account the effect of the naira losing value in the economy
I gave my wife 350K initially but she bought wasnt substantial.
She added her money and i gave her additional.
BEd alone is 170k-200k depending on the quality. Breast pump (for when your baby my not have the mum around) is 50k in the market. just these 2 items have taken 220-250K out of your 400K. now talk about feeding bottles, diapers, clothes (there are several types your baby will need), Powder/soaps, baby oils, shoes, other stuff, wardrobe alone for kids na 120K. Haba

If you like, you can spend as much as you wish on baby things, like your case, you can decide to buy gold plated baby bed if you wish but we are talking about basic things and 400k is more than enough. We bought breast pump(12k(check Jumia)) which we never used till date.

Even 150-200k can even work for some people.

Please be careful with a message from so called "NMFB". I strongly suspect it to be fake as the real site is nibloans.nmfb.com.ng and not the nibloannmfb.com.ng sent to people by this fraudulent people. Also, note that the page graphics is different from the original site and looks substandard too. Also, if you update your details(as requested by them) with nonsense it will be accepted and this shows they lack data integrity. Data integrity is key in cyberspace transaction.

Be careful with your token, it might be the key to your money in your account. Be guided please.

Kindly move to front page to save people from becoming a victim.

psychologist:
This story no clear

How can lastma arrest notorious robbers?

Eko for show

Modified for those quoting me


The post have it that, they were been chased by people, and they were driving recklessly to evade arrest

How did lastma arrest them? Did they chase them with their Vehicle? Did they throw spikes on the road, did they shot at them? Did they jump into the robbers bus and forced the driver to stop

Just explain to me, how a lasma did not just arrest a robber but a notorious one?

Where did they get such skill?

It is obvious you don't reside in Lagos.

TruthsFM:

https://www.pulse.ng/news/local/senator-natasha-commissions-800-street-lights-on-roads-across-kogi-central/gyzcgds

Model for other senators not just Kogi.

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

Looking closely, I think your character influenced most of her reactions but the bottom line is that you are guys are most likely not compatible. Walk away but this won't be easy for none of you especially you cos you are already attached to her but trust me she will be fine.

Chimezie198:
He wanted to go ahead with the wedding but his family said no.

Some guys get mind oo

The guy is emotionally in a mess. His soul is messed up by the lady, he needs to break from her or else, the lady will deal with him in the relationship.

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

The next person u might be dating might be worse and she will never mention it to you. Stick to her but do this:
Make a big deal out of the issue to see 1. how she reacts and 2. to let her know that such will never be tolerated.
If after you made a big deal out of it and she felt calm and undisturbed, run n leave the relation as it is a clear indication that she doesn't value and she is still seeing someone else n possibly the NYSC guy.

Newsmic:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xKXkZcvI_Kk

Drama queen

jeff1607:


If a woman knows how much you have saved up as a man , be it gf or wife , it is guaranteed she will pressure you into taking bit by bit ,and still encourage you more will come till it's finished.

She will still be the one to blame you for spending recklessly

I stand with you on this anyway.

Valoromega:
My wife and I are expecting our first child, so currently I'm saving up money before the baby comes, we are also trying to get baby things of almost 400k.

But she wants me to buy Christmas rice for her mom. I've already decided that I'm not buying anything for anyone this December, including my own mom. But she wants me to buy for her mom which I refused becauze my baby is more important.
Mind you, she has elder ones who can't even get anything for their mom this December (she's the youngest). I just lied to her that I'm broke and I don't have any money. But I have close to 1.7 million which I want I to save for the baby and also get a car for when the baby comes.

I'm I making the right decision by ignoring everyone this December or should I take like 100k and just buy a bag of rice and share to the mom.

Personally I don't want to spend a dime on anyone because my child is the most important thing right now

1. You have 1.7m but you can't use 0.055m as Christmas gift to your mum n mother-in-law.
2. You lied you are broke to your pregnant wife. I just hope you are taking good care of her enough.
3. I just pity your pregnant wife n una future as you guys have along way to go on this your habit. I just hope your wife knows the kind of person she is married to and prepared.

vanbonattel:
This will be okay in the eyes of many biased bats

If adeboye were to be an Igbo pastor, a lot of people will say he has no respect for traditional authority.

Na tribalism go kee Nigeria

Don't you think he was praying and dedicating the seat?

fergie001:
Dauda Lawal is currently, the Governor of Zamfara State



https://www.nairaland.com/6456911/dauda-lawal-supreme-court-orders#99837169

Previous Thread:

My husband and my entire family members including my Nigeria lawyer based in the United Kingdom knew my relationship with Dauda Lawal Dare, the current Zamfara State governor whom I entrusted over 9 billion dollars for safe keeping while he was the Executive Director of the First Bank Nigeria PLC .

“Unfortunately, it has now come to a point that Mr Dauda Lawal is no longer picking my phone calls and even worked in Collaboration with UK police to put me under Surveillance, may be to claim the money I entrusted to him when I die.”

https://www.nairaland.com/7947368/im-dying-cancer-allow-me

Those who loot enough(loot extra for the judge, EFCC, police and others) don't go to jail in Nigeria.

GO0DHardDick:
Nigerians should shun tribalism if it wants to grow higher!

It is worthy to note that Tinubu supporters are the problem here on nairaland, to them you dare not criticise Tinubu because he is a yolluba man but they forgot how they disgraced and dragged innocent Jonathan to the mud despite how the country was prospering gloriously under GEJ.

All Nigerians are asking Tinubu is for him to take Nigeria back to how he met it during GEJ era abeg! Take the country back to the days of PDP corruption. It is far better than this Tinubu tribulations! May God have mercy on yolluba people come 2024 because the suffering just began

True true you make sense but Na u dey ask people to stop tribalism and Na you still dey 'tribalistic'. With your last sentence, you are equally guilty of your own preaching bro. To end tribalism, we must focus on issue and much less on the tribe even if guilty to avoid derailing from major issue.

Addme:

https://politicsnigeria.com/bua-group-chairman-declines-nomination-to-head-apc-finance-committee-says-he-is-not-a-politician/

Setup from competition

plaindealer:



Ogun state alone generated more IGR than the top 3 states in the SE combined.

WOW!!!!

I was trying to ignore that part but I think the seat at home in the SE has to stop. It is a bad image for investors. SE has great business potential. We in the SW are really exploiting the gained knowledge and paying off. Investors are welcome, irrespective of your tribe. This has really paid off, no man is an island.

Looking further, this review shows we don't need to split but learn how to exploit our individual resources.

guobe:
Nigeria lady cries at the airport as she told his boyfriend that he should promise to come back for her.

He does not look like he is coming back.

ManWater:
Very Good. As 2Baba's deputy and Second in Command, he is very much culpable.

I noticed too. I can also see handcuffs sign, that might be the cause. Police no go take am easy with d guy.

.

nonxo007:
This report is half baked and it’s without context. Who wants to sign this Bill? Plateau State House or the National Assembly? Under what ground was this Bill presented ? What is the content of the Bill? I honestly don’t understand the report and the need for the protest because nothing was said. Already there is a Law in Nigeria against practicing LGBTQ, so what Bill and under what circumstance is this Bill being signed?

Our journalist and their half baked news.

I just did my research and just found out that this Bill isn’t actually a Bill but an agreement between European Union, Africa, Caribbean and Pacific (EU ACP) countries where human rights which also includes rights for LGBTQ is also enshrined in this agreement. This agreement was slated to be signed on the 15th of November but the Nigerian government said they haven’t accented to this agreement yet.

I don’t think this is about the state government of Plateau but rather the Federal Government.

That means the children were right after all.

Atiku dragging Tinubu in the face of USA can only lead to more woe to Nigeria. I believe Atiku should know better and stop the mess of pushing his rightful justice if he truly loves Nigeria. I have waited for this as I predicted to a friend during the certificate saga. USA would always support your crime as long as you do their bidding. There are more to come and it would be unannounced and Atiku would be no where to share in the wail. Tinubu must not be allowed to carry out any of the USA bidding.

oloriooko:
the eediot so called dishonourable is paving way for future guber seat
he's breeding future yahoo hoodlums
how on earth can having phones make you digitally enhanced?
instead of giving them an entrepreneurial training (learn a trade) and the phone as addition
digital economy and commerce space does not run on dataless phones, will he guarantee their data consumption before they can stand to make money with the phones?
surely, many of these phones will be sold at cheap rates and the money lavished
these so called shallow thinking lazy leaders are the bane of 9ja's deep shiiitt

People like you are hard to satisfy. Goodluck in life.

Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please

They don't know.... Make I tell am?

She wan give u what u asked for earlier n carry you current title(fwb) give someone else. Dem no dey too give bf Puna, Na sideguy get am.

nlfpmod:


Source: Olori Enem

Ok we don see her details. We also want to know who owns such money too, make the matter no go be like say one thief dey report another thief. Make police pack all the thieves involve.

jeromestarks:
I have dated a handful of girls. Yes ! I have. In fact, I am currently dating three girls ( FWB aside).
But I have never met a lady who talks to me THE SAME WAY as do my mother.

I mean, this girl uses the same words like my mother. She faces me like my mother. She expresses confidence in me like my mother. One time, she told me that she would go to a caterer and book for 10k cake. I was like " hope you have the money for it?"
Her reply was " you won't buy it for me? You will buy it for me don't worry"

As if she kept some money with me. Shuuu.

Same thing my mom said sometimes ago. She needed to buy a cloth of 12k for one occasion like that. As we were talking, she said " ehen, I will go to mama Ada and collect my clothes"

I said " that's nice"
She said " that all you will say? Don't tell me you won't buy it for me ooo"
Before I could say anything, she added " you will buy it for me don't worry"


This girl and my mom don't live close to each other. They don't talk on phone. In fact, they don't even cross path.

On many occasions, I have seen similarities in them. Their choice of food is the same. Their perception about life is similar. Their style of dressing is similar too ( my mom is not the type who dresses to impress. She wears what makes her comfortable and doesn't give a fvck about what others think)

If I am talking to this girl, I feel like I am talking with my mother.
What's more shocking? This girl is only 19!

(The funny thing is that this young girl refused to be my girlfriend. She visits me like every day but won't allow me to do her).

If not that my mom is alive ehhh, I would have said this girl is her reincarnate.


Ever had such experience?

U better no go knack your family member.

MS247:




I hope the Man pays her reasonable allowance outside upkeep

You must make full house wife very very happy

Go to Gulf countries like Qatar and see how many house maid they get for their wife, their wife shop all evening for big brands, LV , Gucci Prada



.

Try dey read small small.

Kobojunkie:
Your psychotherapist says you need sex to calm your subconscious? Are you kidding me?

OP, no offense but try to be practical abeg! Your number one issue and focus should be your mental health and how to manage your condition best without depending on others for favors. You declaring your husband needs to give you sex for you to calm down screams of potential trouble looming abeg! Please work with your doctors instead to find other ways to dispel all that sexual energy some other way. Running about carrying husband-problem on your head all while dealing with a major mental illness.... these things should not be by force. It is OK to let somethings go so you can better manage yourself and your situation.

Avoid this advice from top to bottom. 1. Sex can help alot, better than drugs
2. Even for those without mental disorder, leaving love ones can mess with your mind talk less when you have mental disorder.