₦airaland Forum

ggrin:
Andy is that u

MrKontrovErsy:
u are big a fool!!
so just because u want to earn likes with ur comment dats why u typed rubbish
''u fear ur peoples way of getting money'' sounds dumb
that man could have been from any tribe, hausa or yoruba
there is no tribe in nigeria where u cant find good and bad people
u cant generalize just bcox of one case
i dont even think u are an igbo, but if u are den u are a big disgrace for ur comment
before u type any comment here use ur head!
dont just type randomly
common sence is not common

ronald4lif:
Lol! Baba I(alberto) dey learn work from you(ronald4lif) na

ronald4lif:
Another interesting topic...

The male ego is extremely fragile and this is all the more true for the Nigerian male. They must be the bread-winner, must provide for their families. Men still are expected to pick up the check on a first date. The ultimate prize for any alpha male is always financial. Having the woman earn more often leads to a deflated ego, depression and general bitterness. So how does a man handle a successful woman? Oh well

So let’s not take the ultra feminist stance, that won’t help the already egoistic Nigerian men to cope with the fact that his wife/girlfriend is more successful than him. Flaunt your success by all means but don’t belittle your spouse for being less successful in any way, even in jest. For a man, the key is to be open minded and be strong. If your relationship is based on a strong foundation of love and commitment, the pay check should not matter. You should be a team. You go out, you buy things, you party, and you invest together. You do all this together. When you feel smaller in any way, talk about it. When you feel low, express it.

Differences in salaries should not be a hindrance when it comes to relationships. Men need to let go of their egos and women need to make their men feel special. This is an age old debate and there are no definite sides to take. There are some matured and settled men who have no problems with their wives being more successful and richer. And then there are men who will feel threatened by their wives earning more.

Having Nigerian men not get intimidated by successful women may never happen. We're way too egocentric and believes we must call the shots at the home front. And that our women should do our biddings always. Successful women will always want to have an opinion on matters of the home (which is very okay) but most Nigerian men will always want to subvert or disregard their wives opinion. Theirs should be final. This is where their ego gets deflated hence their insecurity on successful women.

Logicalmind:
Cool

You stay in Nigeria, right? What state?

You attended Spanish class?

iceberylin:
Slept with her best friend...
Thats risk

Logicalmind:
Alright, No P.

You live in spain or just know how to write Spanish?

Logicalmind:
Being around them is different from dating them. That's my point

To think you were the first Nairalander to antagonised Missjenna.

missjenna:
Yes it works for cheap and purposeless ladies
This stuff can't work on me. I am an independent and purpose driven woman. I ride the vehicle of my life. I can never take the back seat.

McLove:
what made him a bus conductor?

ivyT:
False..
*him go die on top the 1 bwea$t*

standd:
Lol All your feelings have been wrong from the very beginning. Haven't I told you this before?