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Programming / Re: Simple PHP AJAX Using Jquery by Alexsmith20(m): 10:43pm On Feb 28, 2023
Nice
Family / Re: Is Baby Mama Sydrome one of the Cause Of Poverty In Nigeria? by Alexsmith20(m): 6:09pm On Jun 20, 2018
I agree to disagree
Romance / Re: Note To Women: Stand By Him At Owner's Risk by Alexsmith20(m): 2:35am On Dec 31, 2017
Missali:
One of the qualities men look out out for in a woman is the ability for her to stay true by him during trying times and a woman who cannot do that is termed a non wife material and slay Queen at best and at worst, a gold digger.
It is believed that when a woman supports her man and he comes to, in turn he will respect her and share responsibilities as he should but often times, this is not the case.

Many at times we have heard experiences from family, friends, colleagues or even gone through it.
Here's mine: I had this boyfriend that was struggling in every sense of the word. We kept on despite his financial shortcomings and I would travel a long distance to see him knowing fully well that the trip expenses and all that came with it were on me. I did not hesitate to oblige favours that I could give and ensured I went out with him during his jobs just to give that moral support.

Things seemed to be going on well until the day I was sitting with some friends and one of them asked how I was enjoying with my boyfriend. I responded with a light laugh and he asked "now that your guy has made it, what is the way forward?"

Me: Made it how?
Guy: Your guy hit over one million in that online betting promo.
Me: Yes yes, it's not easy... Such an unexpected favour at a time like this.

I pretended to be aware and happy but I wasn't myself till the end of the day. Everybody knew the good news except me.
One week, two weeks, one month passed and I got no call from my estranged boyfriend to even tell me what had happened. I refused to call too.

I heard news about how he had become the man about town, declaring free drinks for people he met at our street bars, dashing money to those who came to celebrate with him etc. Whenever someone who knew us sighted me they asked, "are you not M's girlfriend?" and I mumbled any answer that came to mind.
Months later I got a call from him begging to see Me. After many refusals, I decided we meet. He went on his knees apologising, saying he knew I was aware of all that had happened but was too ashamed to contact me. He went on about how he rented an apartment for one girl, was giving out money with reckless abandon, purchased an expensive mobile phone which he ended up selling at an abysmally low price (due to hardship) and how he was popping bottles at bars et al.

The length and breadth of the story was that the money was all gone. The business idea we had brainstormed he made no use of the money to invest. All his friends and girlfriends had left him for good and he felt lonely, he remembered the one who stood by him sincerely.

At the moment he had not a penny, with an empty stomach and looking for a way to get a small job. I could tell he was miserable from his looks alone. If only he had the right company who would have advised him at such a critical time, he'd never have had to go hungry again. I took him to a restaurant and we had a nice meal. He called me a good girl, a loving friend, a confidant blah blah blah.

Ladies, they will come at you with twisted words tell you they want a good woman, a patient woman, a supportive woman etc. Some will even tell you that they can never respect a woman who does not struggle with them. Do not fall for it. Most times, what they want is someone to take their excesses while they move on to cast their net elsewhere. For tens of stories about men who stick by their women when the going got smooth, there are hundreds of untold stories about men who looked the other way.

Playing the supportive role is the case of it may work and it may not. It is not stated anywhere that after standing by him and he leaves for another woman, he will be mobbed. You will simply be remembered as 'the one who once was', that's all.

It is a case of driving into a place with the words "cars parked at owner's risk." Nobody will tell you not to park your car but you hold yourself liable should anything happen to it. Hence, stand by your man at owner's risk.


Sorry to say your story sound all ficticious to me. How can a man in this era lavish all his money frivolously on beer and mere follies. I think your mission is to mislead ladies out their. and create a negative impression about men who are in similar state.

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Romance / Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Alexsmith20(m): 1:45am On Dec 31, 2017
RadicallyBlunt:
O boy God go help us o. You fit get educated queens-english speaking girl as gf and she no go get booobs and butts. You fit come see d one weh get weh no dey enlightened at all...

I see busty and yanshy pepper sellers on d market near my street but how person go come go propose to such a person?
Baba those kind proposals nah for nigerian film e end o.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army Begins 2018 Recruitment Of 77 Regular Recruits: How To Apply by Alexsmith20(m): 10:36pm On Dec 30, 2017
And what do they mean when they say tradesman and non-tradesman?.
Romance / Re: Artist Turns His Breakfast Eggs Into Works Of Art(photos) by Alexsmith20(m): 1:47pm On Dec 29, 2017
Wonderful piece of work....it take a creative mind to come up with such.
Celebrities / Re: Checkout The Hilarious Captions To This Davido's Photo by Alexsmith20(m): 11:28am On Jul 04, 2017
celebrities living the fake life, which an average youth emulate.
Celebrities / Re: [video]: Beef Is Over! Falz And 9ice Have Lunch Together by Alexsmith20(m): 11:21am On Jul 04, 2017
And this is how sane men settle dispute.
Celebrities / Re: Comedian Bovi Shares Throwback Pic Of His Son, David by Alexsmith20(m): 4:06pm On Jun 29, 2017
what do you mean life was cheaper, no be you and your cohort basketmouth follow campaigned for for the current regime... no make me ves.
Celebrities / Re: #osisuavechallange Trends On Twitter, See Hilarious Tweets by Alexsmith20(m): 4:02pm On Jun 29, 2017
I had my first trip to the moon on my 18th birthday @osisuave
Celebrities / Phyno Hits Back At Hushpoppi, For Calling Him Out On Wearing A Fake Watch by Alexsmith20(m): 3:44pm On Jun 29, 2017
phyno happens to go hard at hushpoppi for daring to call him out on wearing a fake watch.

Celebrities / Re: Photos Of Mercy Johnson Okojie And Her Family by Alexsmith20(m): 12:09pm On Jun 27, 2017
gorgeous looking family.

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Politics / Re: Quit Notice On Igbos: You Cannot Speak For Us- Southern Kaduna Union Tells North by Alexsmith20(m): 3:00am On Jun 10, 2017
Good. A northern Christian would never be in support of the stupid decision that carry out by the arewa youth council.
the southern kaduna's consists majorly of Christians, and for them not to be informed means they were not regarded as northerns.
Politics / Re: God Made Egyptians Drive Israelites Out Of Egypt, Same Repeating Today? by Alexsmith20(m): 2:22am On Jun 10, 2017
singing*

PHARAOH! PHARAOH!
THE KING OF EGYPT
GO TELL PHARAOH
PHARAOH LET MY PEOPLE GO.

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Sports / Re: Have A Dream Of Becoming A Professional Star Footballer?? Here's Your Chance by Alexsmith20(m): 2:18am On Jun 10, 2017
Even on Nairaland.

see what buhari has caused.
Politics / Re: Chisco Transport Company Offers Free Fare For Igbos In North... by Alexsmith20(m): 1:47am On Jun 10, 2017
That is a nice brotherly sign of affection... which is peculiar to the south-easterns. i envy them.

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Politics / Re: Arewa Youths Ultimatum To Igbo Uncivilized, Barbaric – Orji Kalu by Alexsmith20(m): 1:38am On Jun 10, 2017
Singing*

PHARAOH! PHARAOH!
THE KING OF EGYPT
GO TELL PHARAOH
PHARAOH LET MY PEOPLE GO.
Politics / Re: Biafra Has Fallen!!! by Alexsmith20(m): 1:32am On Jun 10, 2017
NATIONALPASTOR:
Yes it has fallen upon your keypad.
Lol.

Afonja how market.

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Politics / Re: Niger Delta Also Wants An Independent Country Called RONDEL. by Alexsmith20(m): 1:10am On Jun 10, 2017
Rondel ke!
Oh now i get it, hez an author and he is only tryin to write a book called RONDEL.
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To be published on 1st October..
very creative.
Religion / Re: Muslim Imam Converts To Christianity, Becomes Preacher; Dad Tries To Murder​ Him by Alexsmith20(m): 12:22am On Jun 10, 2017
"That the only woman's name mention in the koran is mary"... i find this story hard to digest.
Politics / Re: Senate Passes Bill To Protect Whistle-Blowers by Alexsmith20(m): 2:57pm On Jun 08, 2017
With such development, even your brother go join blow whistle untop your matter...after that he wear their mask..mtchwwww of a goverbmint.
Politics / Re: Biafra: IPoB Carrying Out Massive Evangelism and Recruitment in UNN by Alexsmith20(m): 2:49pm On Jun 08, 2017
Regions that are intrested in the call for Biafra, should join now before its too late.

A word is enough for the wise.

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Celebrities / Re: Igbos Cannot Fight Together, They Are Not United - Pete Edochie by Alexsmith20(m): 2:29pm On Jun 08, 2017
And the time comes we will know if the igbo race are united or not.
Politics / Re: Quit Notice On Igbos: Asari Dokubo Tells “fellow Biafrans” What To Do by Alexsmith20(m): 2:18pm On Jun 08, 2017
Nice to know that the south southerns are now coming to their senses.
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knowing that they are more in favour with Biafra than Nigeria.

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Politics / Re: The Oil In Delta Belongs To Jigawa(video) by Alexsmith20(m): 12:48pm On Jun 07, 2017
If the N-D oil belongs to jigawa, i think other northern states would claim the remaining oil states.



these people are jokers.
Foreign Affairs / Re: UK Parliament Debating Whether Trump Should Be Banned From UK. See Reactions by Alexsmith20(m): 9:37pm On Jan 30, 2017
seems they gon build their own wall too
Celebrities / Re: Kanu Nwankwo Poses With Laura Ikeji & Ogbonna Kanu At Their Traditional Marriage by Alexsmith20(m): 12:12am On Jan 29, 2017
see her Shining her 33 teeth... she don catch maga.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Donald Trump Replies A Nigerian Who Supported Him Online. PICS by Alexsmith20(m): 10:39am On Nov 04, 2016
this man would fit as comedian anytime.
Business / Nigeria’s Economy Bounces Back, Overtakes South Africa, Egypt by Alexsmith20(m): 11:44pm On Oct 19, 2016
Abuja - A new report from the InternationalMonetary Fund (IMF) has projected Nigeriaas Africa’s biggest economy, in spite of its current challenges.

Nigeria is placed ahead of South Africa and Egypt which are second and third respectively.

In August, Nigeria was reported to have lost its position as Africa’s biggest economy to South Africa, following the recalculation of the country’s Gross Domestic Product (GDP).

But the IMF’s World Economic Outlook for October, puts Nigeria’s GDP at $415.08 billion, from $493.83 billion in 2015, while South Africa’s GDP was put at $280.36 billion, from $314.73 billion in 2015.

According to the report, Egypt’s 2016 data is not available, but its 2015 size remained at $330.159 while that of Algeria, one of thelargest economies on the continent, is put at $168.318 billion.The United States, China and Japan maintain their spots as the largest economies in the world, ahead of Germany, United Kingdom and France.

According to a review in September, the current economic recession will outlast 2016, with a Gross Domestic Product (GDP) contraction of 1.7 per cent.


The IMF had predicted that Nigeria’s economy would grow away from a recession in 2017.


The country last witnessed a recession, for less than a year, in 1991, and experienced a prolonged one that started in 1982 and lasted until 1984.

President Muhammadu Buhari’s administration has so far disbursed over N700 billion in capital expenditure this year, part of a record N6.06 trillion (S30 billion) budget for 2016.



http://www.news24.com.ng/National/News/nigerias-economy-bounces-back-overtakes-south-africa-egypt-20161019

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