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Toks2008:
For the benefit of this piece it is important i define what chase in this context mean.. "To chase simply means making repetitive attempt to win the desire of a lady who does not want you"

A man should show a desire for a lady and not desperation but when you begin to chase a lady then you have crossed the line and if she eventually says YES, it will probably be because she has run out of time waiting for her preferred type of man or she just feels worn out by the pressure you mounted on her and will rarely be because she really wants to be with you..and the worst part is that you will end up being the one who will be making more sacrifices towards making the relationship work since you made it look like you desperately won her like a trophy or medal you have to keep fighting to keep.

For every lady you chase, it is most likely that there is a man out there that she is craving for so why ridicule yourself?...It is interesting to know that Nine out of every Ten single ladies already have a mind made guy they would love to be with?...simply put, almost every lady has a spec and if you don't meet up to the spec there is absolutely nothing you can do than to move on to another lady who may likely have you as her kind of man.

Some ladies have crazy desires and turn-ons like beards, 6pack, height, skin color, Age, Tribe, P*nis size and several other weird and funny preferences that attract them to a man and if you don't have their desired qualities just forget wasting your time chasing them.

The best bet is to approach a lady in a mature way, tell her about your desire for her and be very sensitive to her body language.. if she wants you then go for her but if she rejects you simply tell her to be your friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON...

And no matter how you look or how your condition is, you must understand that there is a lady out there who is hoping to meet a guy just like you so stop wasting your time chasing a lady who does not want your type.

I hope this makes sense.

SKhanmi:
"but if she rejects you simply tell her to be friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON..."


Who wan become chairman for friendzone.

otipoju:
People wey no well. Las las dem go still come borrow from people wey dey work 9-5. Arrogant pricks.

martyns303:
Modified:

To those quoting me, I stand by what I have said, that a company will go an extra mile to get you if they need you and I am typical example of what I have said. The only thing you need is a strong skill, with a strong skill, everything else will fall in place. Getting a job shouldn’t be as difficult as it’s being portrayed. 90% of those quoting me are your average Nigerian lad with a Bsc and nothing else to back to it up.

Connection: except of course it’s a government job, no company will compromise productivity for connection, recommendation may get u the job, but won’t keep u in the job.

Interview: only mediocre companies will be doing interview like it’s a gateway to paradise, attend interview with decent companies and you will find out they careless about how u dress but what u r bringing to the company. God knows I met my company HR wearing jeans, t shirt and sneakers and this is a highly professional field. My CV is already speaking for me and he knows it.


CV: I spent almost N10k plus hiring “professional cv writers” here on NL to help me design my CV, and still nothing. Truth is, let ur CV be as fanciful as a peacock, if it doesn’t have the right qualifications it won’t matter.


Location: Based on how strong the company is, if you like be staying in Sokoto and the company is in Lagos, if you have the right skills, the company will rent accommodation for you. I have a friend that recently started working in Dangote refinery project and they moved him to Lagos with accommodation.


All you need is a very strong skill, I bet you my last penny this guys will look for you. The only reason why the OP posted this is that, all the people attending an interview for a position are all, Bsc with 2:2, a few 1st class and some 3rd class with some funny certifications to make up for the 3rd class. Too many options for the company to pick from so they look for minor and irrelevant things to make the selection process.

I think this whole thing is based on stereotype, people just go on with what they have been told, read and very little of what they have experienced themselves.

If a company needs you, they will go extra mile to get you.

joseph1832:
I don't really watch this show but it's a shame, a real shame that a nonentity can start comparing herself with someone who is obviously smarter, brilliant and more intelligent than her.

What even baffles me is we still have people who still support her. I guess those people are just as brainless as she is.

solmusdesigns:



Seyi is the fool here, he shouldn't had associated with that unruly girl, dude was even going to apologise to that trasha before she started shouting till seyi cleared her back.. she had to revenge exactly during the eviction show in front of millions of viewers accross africa with potential sponsors watching.... That girl is too dumb to play Queen Ceec the lawyer's script..

Seyi a doctor, whose cousin is the wife of the Vice President, whose father heads Export Promotions council of Nigeria, and his.beautiful Fiancee is a Uk based profession. Couldn't associate with kimoprah, Venita , Diane or Jackye even cindy sef... it was an unstable tacha he fell for.
God bless u , u just spoke my mind.
The guy fall my hand. He suppose don sideline the babe since. The guy will regret that conversation he had with her b4 the eviction night. person we no send u, y u go send am?
Some guys self smh





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ise82:
They are uselessness and good for nothing ppl.

ValCon888:
He should be happy.
The 'fattening" of a man after marriage shows marital stability.
It is also the inevitability of conjugal compatibility.

judgementyard:
Bob_risky na you ?

Gadafii:
see brother wey mumu

AKA was not hateful when he tweeted that SA should have lost to Egypt instyof NIGERIA, during CAF...


Are u okay at all,they all harbor this hatred and envy towards nigeria and Nigerians

AKA had better stay away from where nigeriand are found in numbers, because the albino don sheeet for church,ND he go use his hands pack am

computergeek:
If you take time to read her post, you'll see that she made a lot of sense.

It's not just about celebrities posting on their Instagram pages and making meaningless hashtags trend. It solves nothing!

Freeze is a yellow, fat fool. Go down to the streets and protest, he will not, he's here on his IG page asking celebrities to talk.


That man is just a dumb ass that knows grammar.

sinaj:
2face should better embrace silence if he has nothing better to say.

If they use the same energy they used on Fatoyinbo/Dakolo saga or the same energy they use on bbnaija and other irrelevant things, this xenophobia would be a thing of the past.

But they wont because the people dying in SA are not celebrities.

Aidejay:
An idiot has sopken.........

Fountainofyouth:
Stupid question, as many as possible.

OTayobami:
That salah na very stupid fellow, na all those kyn players dey make person dey get problem with coach, he always thinks the ball gets to him magically, he nor dey reason say na people like them firmino dey sacrifice their goal scoring chances just to pass to him when he's open to score..

Do you know?
Last season all Mane's 22 goals last season had no assist from salah but the idiot(salah) scored couple of goals assisted by mane but still on still na still 22 goals each dem get

naijacentric:
Money must be made i trust adeboye nigerian spiritual yahoo limited

Timmy301:
That guy na fuu
And he thinks he'd get her with his dumb English
Sick lines
"You make me natural"

pocohantas:
Naso. Na your type them go send "Can you come over?" on WhatsApp and you will appear before it gets 2ticks sef.