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wiseone28:
When you see say time to stop the paper is near and you have not written anything

Why are you like this nah? Was that supposed to give him orgasm?

AdeeT:


I've betrayed her trust, I have really hurt her, I wish that I could undo all I've done. But it's too late, and I'm reek of guilt, it's all over me.

I just cheated on a beautiful lady that has stayed with me through thick and thin for years, a wonderful soul that anyone would dream to have. Cheating might be a common thing, but the moment you cheat on a pure soul, an innocent woman that gives you all, WITH HER BEST FRIEND, then it's beyond cheating.

I am charming, good looking working class guy, guys and girls easily comment how good looking I am, my fiancee is so proud of me, and my achievements that she easily shows me off at the slightest opportunity. She attended the same Uni with her friend, and ever since then, they've been a very good friend. They even served at the same place(worked out), to show you how close they her.

Now my fiancee works in the southern Nigeria, we planned to seal things up next year, and live together here in Abuja. Her friend came for a job interview here, and my woman advised that she rather stay with me for the period instead of her spending a lot on hotel accommodations since I live alone in a bedroom flat. I obliged, and she came down here, little did I know that things would get messy. Long story cut short, I fell in to her seduction the second night of her staying after some series of events. We ended up having sex couples of time before she left. I feel terrible now, though she felt nothing, I can't even flow well with my woman on phone again, guilt is all over me. I don't know how I will stand her whenever we meet. Of all girls in the world, she's the least anyone would want to cheat on.

I'm thinking of telling her. Mind you guys, I'm not a weakling, I've never been one. Before I met her some 3 years back, I was on the other end of life. She changed a lot for good for me, and helped stop many bad things, as well as starting several good ones. I don't know what her reaction would be after telling her. Her friend still communicates with her as if nothing happened.

I'm in pain guys. A serious one. I need advices.

It's glaring you do love your woman, you need to really prove this (to yourself now) by hurting her with the truth than being unjust to her (by keeping her in the dark) and to your conscience.

I will suggest you type two messages; (1) letting the friend know the regret you felt and how painful it was to you (2) confessional one, stating in summary how and what happened. Send the first to the friend and the second to your fiancee. Note: Both must be sent at the same time

The expected outcomes are as follow;
A)Which ever way, it coming out now or later (which will eventually happen, either from you or the friend), your fiancee will be heartbroken.
B)She will loose her friend, and "may" loose you too (but if she truly loves you as you think, she might forgive you, she has her fault in this too). Either way it happens, you both don't deserve to be in her (your fiancee) life.
C)Your conscience will be true to you and her.

The final onus still rest on you. Let this event be the most responsible decision you will ever make. I wish you the best!

harrikoko:
So my wife of 4 years and I decided to confess to each after things went a little sour in our marriage. She told me my friendly taunts that 'babe you're getting old oh, I am sure you aren't getting toasters again' led her to commit adultery. That she actually slept with her old crush who happens to be a lecturer in her former school last year. She told me she was going for a make-up job over the weekend last October, I even gave her money for transport and all. She still used my money to lodge herself and her married lecturer man friend in the hotel and got dicked. She said that was the first time and she regretted it. And that she stopped talking to the man right after the Bleep.

I also told her I had a side chick for about 6 months and had a couple of flings with other girls but quit all after my side chick said she got pregnant and wanted to start blackmailing me. And I later discovered the pregnancy was 'audio' she only just wanted money.

We both felt sorry and forgave each other, but my big question now is, if she dated someone right under my nose and I didn't notice, and she perfectly did it. plus she's this church kinda wifey.

Should I be worried? When she told me I almost fainted as I had always trusted her and could bet my life on it at any shrine she wouldn't do it.

...and how are you sure she hasn't opened her own thread the same way you did?
You should have just let the sleeping dog be, now you have planted "distrust" in your "relationship"! If I may ask, what was the aim in starting the Confession Session (s)?

Mummymahdi:
eyyya see one kind understanding, how will all be the same? as a sec schl student I have never seen such or any of the experiences u mentioned. some parent side are far from kids room and doesn't even play within the neighbourhood. i attended sec school 90 to 96. but never did or see nor even heard any1 among my mates did something like this, u need to understand sometimes back no exposure to certain things , I grew up abit b4 knowing adults pee and poo cos each parent has toilet attached to his / her room doesn't see people pooing along road or bushes like now. never been touched as in abuse by any 1 when growing hence make some ppl like me not sexually active on time . our minds is at cleaning shoes and wearing well ironed uniform, and been the among the best so as to do shakara with it

Count yourself lucky!!!

Although you didn't tell us when you finally ...(@ the bolden) ...but we no vex!

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snnazzy24:
Honestly this is going to live with me for a lifetime, One time I traveled from Asaba to Lagos and was stranded when our driver decided Jibowon was his last stop and not Mile2, poor boy like me was koboless because we lived at Mile2 around this time, I tried getting help from two men but was turned down before I could complete my statement, I lost hope but summoned the courage to ask this young girl ( younger than myself) for a kind guesture. As a broke ass I was stuttering telling her of my situation, Alas i got the shock of a lifetime when she counted 5k and handed it to me, I froze, i couldn't move or say a word, I have just asked her for 5h and she gave me 5k, bluntly refusing to take it back even when I told her 5h was enough to take care of my predicament, I lost every idea on how best I could show my appreciation and gratitude. Not a day when I don't say a silent prayer for her. She might be human but to me I had a contact with an Angel.

Imagine...and a particular guy somewhere will still take such a girl for granted or break her heart! Chai...such ladies need continuous prayers from guys like you for real.

2nd July

I'm Alex, 31, a graduate and working. Based in Ibadan. A strong introvert, but can be a parrot with the right person at the right time (which is why I am here in the first place) sad Interested in a very serious relationship (morally upright female, please) from 23-29. Contact no.: 08116628202

P.S.: Just to be clear, I'm YORUBA, based and living in Ibadan. For the NCAN group!

2nd July

I'm Alex. 08116628202 (Southwest-based females only, please)

coolDude1145:
My name is Jerry,27 years old, a model, tall, handsome with a firmly built body to die for. Am the definition of a kool dude navigating life, merging traditional values with all it means to be a modern day gentle Man of ambition. I have got the Wit of Sherlock combined with the sarcasm and intelligence of Dr. House, the charisma of Idris Elba with a sprinkle of the "bad-assery" of Marlon Brandon. A genuinely responsible young man with ambition and a great work ethic. I truly believe "responsibility" encompasses all the admirable traits. Am a guy with an open, non judgemental mind. I ve a put together appearance that would appeal to any Woman.

I'm very good @ capturing minds with crisp sentences due to the fact that I was born to write like Soyinka, Achebe, James Hadley Chase and the rest of all those who were born with a Pen in their hand, but I'd just go on and list random words that best describes me; "I am Loving, Caring, God fearing, Sensitive and Romantic.

I'm the type of Man any Woman would love to be with. (I would literally give my everything to make sure people I love are comfortable) as I'm fiercely protective of those in my life. I'm always seeking opportunities to improve myself whether career wise or just my personal life. Hopefully all these analogy is descriptive enough of myself but let me not also forget the fact that am also VERY GOOD in bed. When it comes to satisfaction on bed, I can boast of the fact that I have something beneath my underpants that can be described as the " TRADITIONAL TASTE OF SATISFACTION". something , Big, Strong and Reliable. If you think am just ranting,then you need to see it for yourself to confirm it. Lol.....

If you've read this far, you must really be something ,so stretch a bit, give yourself a pat on the back maybe grab a drink and go on.......

I'm looking forward to meet a Caring, Loving, Amazing and Awesome SUGAR MUMMY and hopefully form a great friendship. A genuinely caring Woman.
I promise to treat her with much love and respect.


If you are that Woman, feel FREE to Call or text me .....this are my low-digits : 07068866940.
E-mail : willablow@gmail.com


I know some people would read all this and begin to judge me and make all manners of comments. What I do believe is that , everybody has the right to their own personal beliefs and opinion.

My number again is : 07068866940.
You can call or text me anytime!

Wow! Your CV is impressive!!!

Alex, 31, AA, a graduate and working. Based in Ibadan. A strong introvert, but can be a parrot with the right person at the right time. Interested in a morally upright and disciplined lady from 23-29 for a serious relationship. SMS or call: 08116628202

Alex, 31, a graduate and working. Based in Ibadan. A strong introvert, but can be a parrot with the right person at the right time (which is why I am here in the first place) sad Interested in a morally upright female from 23-29 for a serious relationship. SMS or call: 08116628202

Alex, 31, a graduate and working. Based in Ibadan. A strong introvert, but can be a parrot with the right person at the right time (which is why I am here in the first place) Interested in a morally upright female from 23-29 for a serious relationship. 08116628202

I'm Alex, 31, a graduate and working. Based in Ibadan. A strong introvert, but can be a parrot with the right person at the right time (which is why I am here in the first place) Interested in a very serious relationship (morally upright female, please) from 23-29. Contact no.: 08116628202

P.S.: Just to be clear, I'm YORUBA, based and living in Ibadan. For the NCAN group!