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blackbeau1:
I've been pondering on this issue for a longtime. Someone please tell me what to answer when a guy says I love u and u don't love him,yet u don't wanna hurt him

If u ve noticed it but don't love him back just say "" I know". it is an honest answer and he will understand!

if u don't feel it's true, nothing to show or whatsoever just say """ thank you""

I hope that solves it

fine

18. sh!t happens

ok

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how is her stature? very important, in the long run u will understand
did she tick all the box? if yes go and marry her.
age is nothing but number

thesuave10:
Op I can sense some low self-esteem issues and insecurities lurking around the corner. You're not there yet but you're trying.
No. 14 and a few others are wrong. Walk into a room and assume everyone likes you because you're an awesome person and there's no reason why everyone won't like you. Just be original and everyone will like you that's a way better mindset. But the best mindset is as long as I'm being original and being myself, I don't give a flying Fuvvcckkk whether anyone likes me or not

u too much

How to improve your looks

1. Shave, and “manscape”

2.Wear some nice SUBTLE cologne (don't go overboard because a lot of girls hate an overpowering smell)

3. Invest in some nice clothes, try to educate yourself on current fashion trends for men. Places to look for designer trends are magazines, and social media. I also recommend trying to find a sharp suit because suits make you look cool. Sunglasses also make you look cool and mysterious

4.Get a nice haircut (subtle highlights look really nice)

5. If you have acne, get in contact with a good dermatologist

6. If you're a little shorter and need a boost buy some platform shoes (trust me they're worth it)

7. Buy a nice watch and some cufflinks (they make you look extra sharp)

8. Bulk up (lets face it, majority of girls prefer lean/buff guys)

9. Get a slight spray tan (spray tans accentuate muscles and are good for toning out your body)

10. Get a manicure and pedicure (just to neaten your nails)

11. Stand straight and walk straight. Have your head up high and shoulders back. Push your chest out a bit when you walk. This shows your dominance when you walk into a room.

How to improve charm:

One thing women can't resist is an assertive, strong, confident man.

Learn to assert your power and be confident with these steps:

1. Never let anyone push you around. Always put yourself first in any situation and refuse anything that makes you uncomfortable

2. smile in the mirror and tell yourself you’re one irresistible motherf*cker everyday. Make sure to believe it

3. Make eye contact with strangers and hold it until they look away (amazing at confidence building)

4. Wink in the mirror casually from day to day

6. Learn to be independent (make sure you fill your day with as many activities as you can that will benefit you physically, emotionally, or intellectually, or even all). Women love a man that can be independent and strong on his own.

7. Get a job and find a place of your own. Save up to buy some sweet furniture for your new bachelor pad.

8. Take leadership classes/courses and etc. If you learn leadership you learn the basics of confidence. Be the leader in any group but also respect the people around you.

9. Be courteous, but never let a woman think you like her. Be nice to all women/men generally. Women try harder to impress you when you treat them no higher than others and they like you.

10. Surround yourself with positive people. Positive people will stimulate you emotionally and encourage you

11. Rarely take no for an answer. Try your best to persuade someone by being nice and not too pushy. Use lines such as “I consider you to be incredibly intelligent..” etc

12. Read up and educate yourself on various topics. Learn very specific things so you can never run out of interesting topics to talk about. Other ways to never end a conversation is to stick to F.O.R.D (Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Dreams). If you stick to asking questions in this formula then you’'ll be fine

13. Realize that everyone is self conscious and imagine intimidating people having diarrhea. For example let’s say you want to talk to a hot girl but she’s just too intimidating. Imagine her having diarrhea and it'll be much easier. Never tell her though!Don't force an interaction and make a conversation flow naturally. If someone isn't stimulating you emotionally and etc, simply leave. When you leave you show others that you value yourself and your time too much to stick around for bullsh*t

14. Enter every room believing people don't like you, this will also make it easier for you because you won't feel the need to impress them since they already dislike you

15. When someone comes for advice always ask what they want and repeat their answer back to them (in your own words) and add “I support your decision”. People will automatically like you.

16. Never compliment an attractive woman on her looks, always notice little things that no one else does and compliment her on that.

17. Always tell people “you know I'm not too sure if I like you” then people will automatically want your approval, and will work hard to get it.

18. See how long you can stare at yourself in the mirror and while you’re doing so come up with as many compliments about yourself as you can

19. Realize having friends/girlfriend isn't your biggest priority. Once you make it about you and improving yourself everything else will fall naturally

20. And lastly keep a calendar/journal to record your progress, a video to capture it works as well

The more you work on yourself, you’ll naturally feel an increase in your confidence.

Feel free to post pictures of your progress because I'd love to see! I know you'll do amazing dude and you'll find a girl of your dreams. As well as making lots of friends.

I honestly like those dudes that always ask nairalanders to compliment their looks! it takes a lot of confident bro

I was in ss2 then and my school was close to my house. I had this girl that I always bang! I am the last born and mummy so believed in me.
on that faithful day,everyone has gone out, and they are not supposed to return sooner. so I had my girl come over after school as she always do.
after we were done making love, I entered bathroom to shower, and she was completely naked on my bed when mumcy enter my room!

the rest is history

k

ok

Originalsly:
@Op.... soooo many girls you have bleeped... but this one you bleeped last nite you had to rush to social media to let the world know?..why? Or is it really the first time and you don't know who else to brag to? This write up shows how foolish you are and don't even know.... you'll soon find out that the whole neighbourhood already bleeped her...or they know she is HIV positive and be bleeping newbies like you before you can learn about her. I know you'll be back here in a week under a new moniker asking for advice on how to get rid of burning while peeing or ulcers popping up on your skin.

funny boy!

wao

Prettythicksmi:
I dont blame you,i blame the hoe that spread her legs for u.Some ladies can be so stupid sha.They fvck anything,no class.

honey don't misunderstand me! am not here because I had xx. am here cos ladies like u ain't loyal. try to be

RaggedyAnn:
Congratulations, you got laid. And now you're coming here to brag about it. Classy. One day you'll be blessed with something more than a libido: sense.

talking about being laid! I got more ladies a week than u do in ur entire life

Tahrah:
He's a fvckboy.

a loyal fuckboy.
fuckgirl how are u

1StopRudeness:
What are u happy about? A small girl just used you for sex...
You are now here claiming you fvcked her...its a two way street bro..she's probably lying on her bad saying I fvcked that guy lame with no strings attached and i'll still use him again when I need him, at least I already told him I have a boyfriend.

#just saying....

I like u! u re smart!

good morning

hopeforcharles:
You are a little silly Bleep boy.
I just wonder why all you chewing gum boys don't ever grow up, so you are opening a thread because you had xx with a girl and so what do we do now? Jobless scumbags

I know people with shallow brain such as you won't get the message am trying to pass!

just like a doctor who tried to explain why people shout stop drinking alcohol! let me share with u

a doctor brought two glasses, put earthworms in side both of them.
the glass one, he poured distilled water and the worms where swimming joyfully.
the glass two, he poured alcohol and all the worms died!

a guy like u in the meeting was joyous and said "this is why I will increase my intake of alcohol because it will kill all worm in my system". lol

hi everyone good morning!

I just want to use this medium to pass a message!

why will after telling a guy u are in serious relationship, u still go ahead to f**k him?

do u ever think he will take u serious or do u plan breaking your long lasting relationship for him?

I know I have one big issue, if u ever discuss ur relationship with me, I must f**k u! unless you are dating my friend. I don't go around my friends girlfriend or sister.

I am very picky, I take time to select date! if u don't meet my standard, I would have to f**k u once and leave! that's little about me, that being said, here is why I created this thread.

there's this girl in the neighborhood who keep telling me all her boyfriend has done for her, they include paying for her WAEC, plenty outings, phones. plus he's now part of the family in the sense that her mother knows him, she has even been to his village, spent time with his mum and bla bla bla bla bla! in fact call them fiance and fiancee.

but yester night she visited me and I banged her! supper funny I just started talking to her!

now what is she expecting from me? love? relationship? trust? or what?
though she's not my kinda person cos she has shallow reasoning! I am only comfortable with intelligent ladies that know what they want!

now that's what happens! ladies are quick to throw away that guy that has been by them from day one for just f**k boys. why? they end up loosing both on the long run.

keep ur man and be faithful!

am still single, I'll looking for what I want.

good morning!

TheLoneCitizen:
Let me be frank here, dude. You see you're one of the reasons why this society is not ebbing forward, but there's no need to be ashamed for you are just one of the many. Have a nice day, brother, you're not alone.

I don't know who you are, but I can tell that u re a fat fool without common sense!

next day u will blame me for not providing u with breakfast.

OK! so I should be taking pictures up and down abi

our choices in life is who we are

daviesblaze:
guy u bad pass me o

lolz!!!
I was only a kid then bro

optional1:
Ah Small pikin doing party.

dear! what else could I have asked for

fhavourish tell us the truth

I was in primary 5, I should be 10 or 11yrs and it was with two girls! funny but true

I',ve been fortunate to have met beautiful ladies!

my first girl made me pursue school first instead of business! today am a graduate! during my early years in school lvl 100 to be specific, she sent me 5k. her chapter is closed though.

2nd girlfriend was in my 3rd year!(2012) super hot (model type) she had awesome personality. my roommate always wanted her around cos she's very good in the kitchen. she got me wristwatch. she always visit with food stuffs though. we re no longer together.

currently no girlfriend!

I always find good in people no matter what!
try it and u will enjoy people!

oh my people

f**k me!
is this for real?

are u done talking? ;Dare u done talking?

Laird:
Kindly go to the Hospital

will do sooner