BEENUEL:
Are we okay on this part of this world?


What is this?

You sharp bro....I thought I was the only one that saw in the party....that guy mind has gone farrrrrrr

Bishop God bless you so much

Benekruku:
And some people will still come to argue that Messi is better than The Great Christiano Ronaldo!

Messi is better than him by far

Rip MA

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Fulani herdmens and Benue people fighting

DedeNkem:


I'm married! You f*ucking id*iot!!
For you to physically abuse your wife without any remorse, shows you've a serious mental issue. Someone like you needs a serious beating!!

No matter what your wife did, you've NO right whatsoever to physically abuse her!! We're in 2018 not 1918! Be a civilized human and stop behaving like a f*ucking wild ape!

There are many humane ways to punish a partner without being a f*ucking abusive imb*ecile!

Mr man....come do your worst. If she Bleep up again. I go flog her well well.

DedeNkem:


When I read to where you stated you "slapped/kicked" your wife, I stopped reading immediately.

You're a f*ucking monster. Did the slapping and kicking of your wife make you proud? Did it erase your low self esteem? I hate imb*eciles like you who beat women!!

You're lucky I don't know where you id*iot live, I would have made a few calls to give you a beating of your pathetic life! You f"ucking idiot!!

Go and marry and pay bride price first before replying my post. Seeing your wife misbehaving and always claims she is the head of the house. Not taking instructions from you, not once, not twice, abandoned your 2years baby in bedroom by 11pm and went to man house.

I pity you

SilvanusII:
So, it would seem more acceptable and less suspicious if the neighbour were a married man abi? I'm not really sorry to say u r quite daft acting in that manner.
Besides, ur wife is NOT ur slave. I applaud her steadfast refusal to have her turn a doormat.
Sit her down, and looking for thw trust that existed before u decided to wife her, ask her whats up between both of them. Take her answer HONESTLY. If she is lying, trust me, one day, the truth will be exposed and she will be disgraced. Leave ur children out of ur stupidity abeg.

I pray what befall me will come your way in Jesus name, Amen.

I have nothing to tell you bro.

I don't think you are married......so me warning my wife of what I dont like made me daft abi?

In your village, between a husband and a wife who takes order from each other? Who decides how a home is been run. That I told my wife to stop something made me daft abi?

I pray you marry soon and face what am facing.

Nice one

This is when even this little fulani boy was harmless.....but today, even a little Fulani boy can kill and bury.....

If we are wise, let's just take this little advice from OBJ.....although his is among the people that install Buhari.

AllforJesus7:



Lol I understand you. There is nothing between you and the lady. You only flirt with her and she sent you a bill. Because you respect your home.

Same with your wife.

There is nothing between her and the neighbor. They only just flirt with each other and she sends him her bill and picks items from his fridge.

See?


Fact is you are just childish and immature like I said. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. The fact that an anonymous lady sends you a bill puts you in the same shoes with your wife. Both of you have issues. And I'm very much sure if we hear her own side of the story the opinion of many people here about you will change. They will see you in your true color.

Let the change begin with you. Grow up! When you do your wife will stop visiting neighbors.


Stay blessed.

Pls to correct you OK, run a check on all my headline, you will know the kind of woman I married...


God knows, I have been the one keeping this family.....


I bet you...if you face half of what I face because of her, you will never till death take your life marry her or even advice you relative to marry her.


Is just that I love her......

If you r to set me and her on a cheat now....I think I will win with a big margin.....but no no no, I have my reasons.

hakm5:
she is gone. This situation happened to me exactly. The worst part of my own situation was that the neighbour guy was like our errand boy . Whenever I am not around .He always be with her. I warned to stop let him be around her whenever I am not around or going to him for charging ,resting or whatever. To cut the long story short,as a punishment I stopped calling for a month, the following month I saw on Facebook they engaged with my woman carrying two months pregnancy for the guy. This is the first time I am sharing this story. Too embarrassed to tell anyone.

Is well bro.....I bet you, you will laugh last..........

AllforJesus7:


Alfred... You would have to prove that you are indeed not a YEYE MAN.


Here is a thread started of you last year November about your side chicks. https://www.nairaland.com/4186404/lady-thinks-im-atm-machine.....part#62537444

How can you a married man be in a relationship with another? Marriage is not maturity. Likewise old age is not maturity. I'm not sure you are matured.

This is the problem your wife is having that is making her seek solace and confide in another man. I really pity her. Poor woman, she may be depressed.

In life, one of the most difficult things for a woman is to live with an IMMATURE MAN as a partner.

My prayers are with your wife. May God help her through this trying times and see her through.

Stay blessed.

Pls read between lines, I never said I'm in love with her or I'm dating her, point of correction.

If truly I want to revenge her on what she and the guy did to me, I will be flexing all slay queens in Enugu. But I respected myself.

I have what it takes to give the babe everything she wants. But due to I have a family I decided to do what I did.

As I said, if you don't have anything meaning to say, pls keep quite.


I don't live a life of pretends.... Check yourself pls....

I'm just few month in Enugu here.

darlenese:



which kind of man be this ?


Oga u are not ripe enough for marriage at all . your post is annoying I swear . see how u are sounding as if your wife is your slave , msheeeeeeeew.


yeye man

Pls I beg you with God, don't ever call any man yeye, becos one day you will definitely marry.


I don't want to insult you because I'm not a kid...a father of two..... Better go and face your life, let me face mine since you don't have anything meaningful to contribute.




For those who gave me valuable advise, may God bless you all and surprise you this year.


You guys are wonderful

Nice one

sulakishop:
You are still single

Im a father of two......my daughter is four this while my son is one...

Is well ohhh

Oyindidi:
No fear, the op and the guy are close and the wife is taking their closeness to another level.

Sincerely is not everything I will say here. I have gone through a lot just because of both of them. More than two neighbours have complained about two of them to me. If not for the sake of God and because divorce is not encouraged in my place i would have divorce her now that God have bless me.

Donald3d:
Not again , person come dey fear to marry na , una wey don marry just dey make person fear everyday .Shey I go marry like this sha ,chei
Anyway.....
Situations like this to be honest would be very hard to solve(she is unwilling to do anything about it) , this is why you should always make it clear the things you like and the things you dont like before marrrying your partner .

Your madam was very very very very wrong on all levels ,
1.She is not supposed to go to a single guys room and vice versa
2.She is not supposed to collect anything from him , You should be the one to go to him if your family needs his assistance.
3.The height of it is her inivting him to your house at night to watch match by 10pm !!!!, like what the ....

Now to your own part
-If she has not always being like this, then something is wrong , and its at the foundation
-How often do you and your wife do things together ?, because from the look of things , if you observe critically and psychologically , its not just about collecting things from him , and she also might not be cheating on you, the koko here is SHE ENJOYS HIS COMPANY.Thats why she finds it hard to stop .
-Is your wife your best friend ? , how do you correct her when she is wrong (by shouting or in a loving manner)
-How well do you tell her sweet words and comment on her beauty
-How well do you give her time just to listen to her
-I know its hard creating time for all these with work and everything but you have to try .
-Women love someone who makes them feel safe and alive, someone who listens to their fears and worries and anything they have to say -Be her friend !
-Have a heart to heart talk with her, tell her calmly why what she is doing is wrong .
-Never stop telling her you love her , even when you are angry with her
-Try and get her busy , so she would have less time to even think he exists
-Bring back respect into your home , not just her respecting you , but you also respecting her .She has obviously lost respect for you
-Above all while you take actions talk to God about everything .

Act fast , because that guy na sharp guy, he knows where you are lacking and he is capitalizing on it , thats the advantage side chicks and side guys always have over the main partner "filling the empty spaces"

No matter what you do ,use wisdom and be calm and loving about it
God bless your marriage


MODIFIED : Women please stop assuming your husband would automatically know what you are thinking or feeling , talk to him if you feel he is not doing something right , not all men are mind readers biko, sometimes he honestly has no clue what you need until you open up,same goes for men too

Thanks so much.... May God bless you so much for me. You are wonderful.... I pray God to give you a wonderful woman to marry. Thanks once again.

I will try and make it brief...few month before I got my new job that took me out of my former location. During that period, I do all I can to make sure me and my family feed well and manage the way we can.

During that period, there is this guy in my neighborhood that my wife always confide in, at times she goes to his place to collect whatsoever she want in the guys fridge to eat. Which I warned her to stop doing and always manage what we have in the house with the children.

One night around 10:30pm, I caught her carrying things in her hand coming from the guys room, with that annoyance I slapped/kick her not minding the same guy coming at her back. Although, me and this guy do help each other whenever we do need each others help.

After that incident, I seriously warned her to stop entering any single guys apartment and to stop allowing guys into my apartment whenever I'm not around.

Just last two weeks, I called her around 10pm to wish her a wonderful night rest, during that call, I heard a voice in the background, I ask her who was that, only for her to tell me is the guy I asked her to stop entering my place whenever am not around. That he is watching match in my parlour. Immediately I banged the call.

The next morning, I called her and was correcting her of what she did, I asked her just one question 'what did she think the neighbours will say if they see him coming out of my place by that time of the night?......She started nagging on the phone and said she have her life to live, and I have mine and I can't stop her from the way she live her life....I now reminded her that I'm her husband and she should live to my expectations and abide by my rules, she said never. With that annoyance, I told her I will never send her feeding allowance to her again, that whenever she needs the children food, she should go to the supermarket across and collect their food. Although I do deposit cash for the children provisions up front.

Since that day, I stopped calling her and she never calls. Right now, I'm thinking of pulling my children away from her before she will corrupt the children.

House, pls kindly advise......pls if you don't have any useful advise, pls jump and pass ohhhhh. No insults pls

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Chilling out with my Precious baby girl..Precious Alfred....my first fruit from baba God.


Pre birthday pix....

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