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The Redpill keep validating itself everyday
I'm inside one Whatsapp group like that relationship sh*t the advice those vaginarians give guys about love there is just

One guy was narrating his ordeal with a cheating ex, the screenshot below

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Wawoo

Donnie835:
Hi Guys
I really appreciate everyone here for your immense work so far.
Ubunja, caveadullam, Martinez, heart of city and many others.

I'm a young man in my late twenties, a university graduate but still trying to gain ground financially, I earn 40k monthly.
I met this young lady 23 years around February this year and we became friends. In the course of our friendship, she was down to earth, the attraction was there for each other, submissive and she depicted good characters too. So, we became friends for two months, then I asked her out in May, she said YES after a week.
The redflags and issues started 3 weeks into the relationship, she started saying she wants "a man that can take care of all her needs" I never took those words to heart then. Reality sets in when started demanding and desiring many outings. I tried my best with the little I earn to take her out and she had fun, on different occasions.
On my birthday in September, I received the first gift from her which is a cap, I smiled and I appreciate her for that. On her birthday too, in the same month, I did my very best to put a smile on her face and she was glad about it.

When I started noticing that this babe is all after what a man can offer her, materialistic, I started withholding my resources, then last month, She labeled me that "I am not giver" despite what I have done for her in the past few months

Cave, Martinez, bloodysperm and others,your comment please

You already have the answer you need, people don't really change, they can camouflage or hide their true colors for some time but they can't change, a leech will always be a leech, you guys never marry, she's already telling you she wants a man that will take care of her, as her parents or what?
Women don't think that way, they don't give a f**k what you've done for them in the past, it's all about NOW, and once everything goes south for you God forbid, they will leave you without looking back. From now on hoard your resources, don't give her anything again, withdraw yourself from her, stop thinking about her and move on, eliminate the oneitis, the ability to move on is the bargaining power.
Stay blessed.

Welcome back brother, I've missed this, keep dropping dem

Herbsworks:
Sometime ago, my family had something to do at our hometown so my eldest sister invited her friend while my elder sister invited her girls. I noticed that my eldest sister’s friend was always on the phone with a guy she’s probably cohabiting with cos at a time she told him she had cooked soup and stew and put in the refrigerator pending when she’ll return.

My eldest sister had probably told her about me cos she was excited to finally meet me. During the day she was always asking me for drinks and I kept giving her from the ones I bought. So a friend of mine drove to my hometown and we were outside sipping wine meanwhile this lady was still on the call with the same guy. I’m very sure they spoke for more than two hours and the girl was always telling him she love him and the guy was saying same.

After she was through with her call I invited her to join me and my friend outside. She came out and mhen this girl can drink. At a point my eldest sister told me that her friend will finish my drink o! Cos she knows that she can drink. I started talking naughty with her and she was responding well. At a point my guy went and slept inside his car leaving me and her outside drinking. I noticed after my friend left she started using the “baby” tag on me. At around 3am she said she was going inside to sleep and she kept saying it.

I stood up, dragged her up and we started making out outside (this is the same girl that just ended a two hours call with her man).
Las las we went to the back of the house and she gave me the pick pin style

I once advised married men to be very sensitive whenever their wives are traveling for an event or work outing but some moral police wanted to arrest me. This encounter with this woman proved to me that I wasn’t wrong.

This said lady lives with the guy and according to their conversation the guy is probably the simp guy who isn’t naughty and adventurous. Mind you, while they were on the phone the lady accused the guy of camping a girl in their house cos she wasn’t around meanwhile she had plans to fu*k me.


I am going to write later about my encounter with one of my elder sister’s girl and how her “playing hard to get” backfired.

emmaodet:


It is a cold world bro and in most cases I know, the men hardly get back on their feet rather they get down to their graves.

You are right bro, in most cases they don't, this bros still never recover till date

A crazy and cold world truly. You summarize everything that is happening to an average man perfectly, I've witnessed some of the things you mentioned, I was there, it happened to one bros I knew then, he passed through 80% of what you discussed here and his wife still left him when everything goes down the drain.
He lost 1 out of the 2 children his wife left to him due to sickle cell, he lost all his life savings on the boy but he still died.
What pained me most about the whole thing is that the day the boy died, her mother was actually at the party, imagine, she still had the audacity to go to party while bros was there with the boy. It is what it is.
He had the plan to buy land and build house then, but immediately he got married, everything changed, he couldn't execute anything because of his to-match wife.
KINGS, BUILD YOURSELF FIRST EVEN IF YOU HAVE A PLAN TO MARRY, DO EVERYTHING YOU WANT TO DO FIRST BEFORE CONSIDERING MARRIAGE. MARRIAGE IS NOT AN ACHIEVEMENT AT ALL, AND HAVE IT AT THE BACK OF YOUR MIND THAT WE LIVE IN A COLD WORLD AND ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN, SO BE PREPARED ALWAYS

emmaodet:


Lol

Most women don’t know how hard life is until the responsibility of a man is shifted to them.
That is when they start having sleepless nights, high blood pressure and taking anti-depressant.
There was a lady I was close too sometimes ago, she works with custom and a divorcee with a kid.
She always complain to me about hard and difficult life is with a kid and always asking me for help regularly despite earning 120k then.
Funny enough, the major reason she separated from her hubby is due to financial problems because the hubby was earning 90k as a civil defense guy then and the said lady literally wanted to dump all responsibilities on him.
From what I know, any time the lady uses her money to get things at home, the man there not touch them.
A case study - there was a day she went to work and the hubby switched on the gen after getting home around 5pm to cool down and watch tv. On getting home, the lady flared up because the petrol in the gen was bought by her yet the hubby is there in the parlor, sitting and spreading his legs using her petrol. Something that is meant to be done by a man, he is there shamelessly using his wife’s petrol/money. Before you know it, kasala burst, raising voices, cursing each other, to the point of about beating each other.
Now the said lady is single again with their daughter, earning 120k and always complaining about money not enough DESPITE -
1. Packing back and staying with her family. Meaning she is not paying house rent nor the pressure of house rent on her head.
2. I believe since she is staying with her parent, feeding cost will also reduce because she may likely just be dropping maybe 20/30k to her parent monthly to add to the house feeding money.
3. Now that she is staying alone, she now knows what it means to be a man.
A woman who sees a man earning 90k or something less than 200k, will want him to save and buy car, save and buy land and be building it, regular car maintenance, house rent, kids school fees, family monthly upkeeps, inbetween she will still be grumbling why he is not giving them money for shopping because the clothes they are wearing is either getting old or not sizing them again, in all these he has to find a way to save and he must also have enough to invest because they are not getting younger and must invest for their old age and retirement, occasionally support her family aka in-laws while his own family/parent are also screaming at him in one corner about how he has not been sending money home to papa and mama that trained him to that stage, his junior ones will be keeping malice with him for not giving them anything despite working (what a useless brother) and above all these, the occasionally financial draining events like burial, wedding, naming, hospital bills incase of health unseen challenges will crawl in and not to talk of bad investments/bad businesses that went wrong and then Gbammmmm!!!!!! A mama is totally broke and indebted and his wife will DUMP him.
Unfortunately, when the man comes to nairaland to narrate his ordeal and share his pains and experiences, what does he get? How stop that silly story of yours and go out there and Hustle.
- Oga double your hustle.
- You fuuucked up, you should have invested your money wisely when you were working- for those who lost their jobs.
Etc
A crazy world.

Op no well at all, he is sponsoring another man's wife cos I'm very sure the girl will dump his ass very soon.
Leave him, it's oneitis that is disturbing him.

leetylee:


When I saw the post I was grining, op went out of his way to make her too comfortable to ask whenever she feels like, knowing op will deliver. And the female who made that comment, made it obvious that sex with a female is a favour to men and must be paid for materially, smh females and delusion are 5&6

Akinbahm:


Just imagine he ignorantly accepted the offer and realize later the one child is not his biological child double wahala.

Lord, I pray these type of women I don’t want me and my generational sons to jam them amen.

Amen to your prayer
She's a selfish woman, she wants one child, the guy grudgingly accept not willingly, if she wants to do family planning on herself, no problem, but she wants bros to do vasectomy.
Why can't she do it on herself, apart from paternity fraud, what if they lost the child, or worst they divorce. Because she is close to 40 or 45 and menopause is already knocking that's why she wants to do it so bros won't even have the mind to cheat on her.

I almost puke reading comments under that thread
Imagine one lady telling op that since he's already having sex with her, he shouldn't complain and he should keep giving her money, when did sex that both of them are enjoying equate to money.

I don't even understand op sef, he sponsored her for nd1 and nd2 and he's still thinking of sponsoring her for professional something again, he is even giving money and some stuffs to her parents too , it will only end in premium tears

Redpill is the real deal man
Stay redpilled

Lightheaded:
https://www.nairaland.com/6881129/asked-cant-parent-provide-basic


An example of "sunk-cost fallacy". When you head into a relationship with money flying around, you just started what you can't finish.

Some said he should marry her so that his "investments" won't waste, it sounds like sarcasm to me.

A red-piller shouldn't even be in this situation from the get-go.

Akinbahm:


Guy, small small now, funny enough nah when I come enter toilet nah e I come open this thread come jam this post of yours, Baba be careful oooh.

heartofcity12:
A true redpilled man will not do this, it can only be a simp, we don’t condone violence here. Being a simp is more dangerous to ladies than anything else but it’s redpillers these myopic females love to hate.. A true redpiller will not hurt a fly, instead he walks away from females that don’t have genuine desire in him in the first place, instead of the indiscipline act of trying to buy her interest with hard earned resources. What did the emotional simp expect?.. Women will scam and play you without thinking of the consequence if you give them the room to!
Stay redpilled. Don’t pray your daughter ends up with a simp, pray she ends up with a good masculine redpilled man.

Simping is a disease
Stay redpilled

Martinez39s:
Our former soccer god Ronaldinho is in trouble. Because he stayed with his girlfriend in a relationship up to a certain period of time, the state sees them as a "common law couple". This means that she is entitled to monthly maintenance from Ronaldinho after their break up; Ronaldinho was ordered to pay her £13,500 a month. Now, Ronnie is being threatened with jail term to pay up. The common law situation can be seen in some parts of the developed world as well. Know the laws and stop trusting these females not to weaponize them against you.

https://www.nairaland.com/6865824/ronaldinho-faces-jail-time-over#107926309

Here is another picture of a common-law couple. Till weekend.

Matters arising

Pure madness

Oyin2212:

Madness

K

ichidodo:
How much is IVF??! When we say Redpliers are broke boys now, you people will be foaming in the mouth like Rabid Dogs...Gettat..

I can't believe I listened to toxic redpillers .
It will really end us, let's try to save dem hoes, our reward is in heaven.
How much is IVF sef that we can't do for them if truly we love our wives, even though she whores during her A days, we have to forgive her past atrocious activities because she has changed, she is godly now, we have to stick with her because marriage is for better for worse, till death do us apart
God punish devil
Abeg if you don't get the sarcasm, don't quote me, God no go punish us.

ichidodo:
These toxic masculinity group called Redpillers will be the end of us all...I have one friend when we were in UI medical school, he didn't haff money before,he haff plenty plenty money now and he married his juliet and they now haff two shildren...That is the Romeo and juliet story all men should aspire to even if Juliet come with expired products after my friend has plenty money I will still advice him to marry juliet after all in medical school we were taught modern medical procedures like IVF, Artificial Horse Insemination, Surrogacy even Spermatooplasty...Las las adoption will end the discussion...Win-win situation for everyone..Juliet cashes out with my friend even after running through CCs in her hey days, My friend gets his reward in Heaven because God love White Knights and I get a nice peaceful family to squat with when I fly in from the abload....

No na

ichidodo:
Pity them and marry them...God will reward you in Heaven.

If she gives you silent treatment, then give her dead person treatment

Winnerly:


Golden!!! Golden!!! This is why we come to this thread and not for stupid arguments.

What do you suggest we do when we come in contact with such women that feel like they are the prize?

You free them and move on

Winnerly:


Golden!!! Golden!!! This is why we come to this thread and not for stupid arguments.

What do you suggest we do when we come in contact with such women that feel like they are the prize?

He was just catching cruise with all the comments

Smartb0y:

The comments on there made me wanna throw up

MJBOLT:

https://www.nairaland.com/6864480/dont-female-friends-again-because#107901953

The guy is just a troll

Martinez39s:
It's not a new thing. This too shall pass. The various accounts that are deliberately conniving to argue with themselves will leave when they are tired.

It will pass truly

I don tire for him aswear
It is what it is, let's move on abeg

Peaceyw:
Intact we are not open minded, don't come and use "open-minded" to score cheap points here. Let us be narrow minded, we love it like that. Imaging saying " I thought redpillers were more open-minded". Which means you don't even see urself as a redpiller and u want to come and tell us what to do here... Abeg getat

Redpill goes on with or without them.

luminouz:
If you like, spin tales of yidiyada

If you like, pretend as if you be with us

If you like, attack and act as if you are not of us,

We see through y'all bullshiit and we DONT CARE


Redpill goes on and we fuqin love talking those pills.

Lightway:


You have no respect for yourself and your parents.

Everyone is not here to share their opinion. Everyone is here to learn and when you learn you want what's real.

Why get married and date girls is a question for intelligent people.

Go and greet your parents for me

You are a very funny person my friend
I don't blame you and I won't abuse you, I wasn't even replying to you but you let your insecurity get the better of you, you validated what I just said up there.
When you are small, you are small, it's not only about money, common sense is not common.

Smartb0y:

You're living in delusion,take responsibility for your actions and stop blaming satan.

Learn to be accountable, don't be like the pussynarians ffs

Let him keep blaming Satan, he will understand very soon, before we say jack, they bring morals into the discussion, for once throw away morals and look at the world with a keen eye, you don't have to go out of your apartment to see the way people are gaming the gullibles, life is all about game, it's either you play or they run street on you.

I believe people should mind their business, do what pays you, if you believe marriage is good for you, then marry, if you don't like it, then stay single.
It's as simple as ABC, why attack another person with different opinion, you people sha like to show your insecurity and validation anytime.
I've decided not to marry even before I come across Redpill, it just doesn't worth it, don't attack my opinion, it's mine and mine alone, and not your f*ck**g business. If you can't just agree to another person's opinion or use constructive argument to engage the person without involving religion and societal sh*t, then STFU!

Dizzyyish:

All of them.....

See double standard o "a man needs a woman in his house all the time" but a woman doesn't need a man? Anything they like is a standard but if it's not beneficial to them, then it's a taboo.
It's a cold world out there for men

emmaodet:


I once told my mates in church that did they noticed that 90% of the married women in the church are either jobless or underemployed (virtually just doing something to be busy but not productive enough to fund the family).
I told them if we swap the situation and our women are the one gainfully employed while we are either jobless or struggling with a megre job that most won’t have dated or married us and any of them who did it did it accidentally and not deliberately- that is, the man was earning well above the woman but on the long run lost his income thereby becoming an accidental decision.
Most women I know always detest their husbands when they lose their incomes. The women mostly get tired of the marriage and want to elope from it. They see the men has unnecessarily burden that is not productive anymore.
My mom was always complaining about how tired she was when my dad retired and bringing in little income into the family from his pension while my mum was still at service as headmistress. If not for the olden days tradition and culture imbibed in her, she would have eloped.
My MIL same, no difference. When her hubby was earning higher, working as a doctor in Dubai in early 90’s and had a high SMV as a man then, she was enjoying the man and proud to be the wife of a well to do man. She was the envy of the average lady then in my area.
Today the man is broke and partially paralyzed and my MIL has lost interest in the marriage because the man is more of a burden to her than asset. He is a liability. If not for tradition and culture plus religion, she would have eloped.
She once said when she paid us a visit that now a days ladies are enjoying. That they can decide to pull out of a marriage if it is not meaningful unlike in the olden days when a lot of people would frown on them and the stigma was very high.
That if she is a modern woman, she won’t have married. She will just give birth and enjoy her freedom since she is a principal.
I told her too that I won’t advise a modern man too to marry because the stress, liabilities and all outweighs it’s benefits.
That if am to marry now, I won’t. I will just get a baby mama and enjoy my freedom. Travel round the world the way I like.
She was jolted up with that my statement. Said a man needs a woman in his house at all time. Moreover, I am a very selfish person.
These two women are traditional women. Religiously inclined yet still thinking this way how much more a modern liberal minded woman.

The gut sef

DarkCaesar:
I asked Banny out 3days ago, banny curved me and prefer friendship instead….today we both met at a bank ATM, we greeted and was about to go my way when banny requested I wait for her since she it was almost her turn………banny say make we head to a mini mall, banny did her grocery shopping and asked me to pay, told me the money she withdrew was for her mother. I smiled and told her Infront of the cashier that I’m not paying for none of what she bought and we both left. Saw banny message later on my WhatsApp that I should block her cos I caused her embarrassment, laugh to myself and left her on ghost mode on WhatsApp. She’d text back when her head has drawn enough oil to boot her dead brain

Qasak:
In my simping days I remember when I almost chased out my guy out of my house who later in life is still my destiny helper, if not for my guys who knocked sense into me then. Any advise a woman you are romantically involved with gives you would always come from the selfish part of her.Take the advise with a pinch of salt. And like an O.G till this date my guy has never used the past against me. Not once.

Bros over hos anytime any day

heartofcity12:


She can’t even cook for him. What a bad deal. Lmao

The guy is an idiot simp
Very bad deal

You are actually right bro
They don't have sense
Na so one girl don move in with one yahoo boy for my crib now, when the guy dey grind around May June, she was nowhere to be found but when the fool cun get money small, he go carry liability, the girl don dey stay with am since September full time.
Na the guy dey buy clothes for her, feeding 24/7 is also on the guy, what she's contributing is only sex, she no even dey cook, not to talk of washing, but the guy dey do everything. I wan make the fool learn before I introduce him to redpill.

CaveAdullam:


When I say women are only for fun and fvcks...idiots where are thou?