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kestolove95:
My only prayer is that people from SadEast should not support Harris pls, we don't want her to loose this, they should support Trump

They have since made their choice, Trump is their man.

Them cheat you bro, Na 9,800 you supposed pay

And some guys died trying to show her sege banza. Dey play

Indaboski007:
Please help me I don't know what to do. Is there any problem with me. My girlfriend is seriously complaining

Sometimes being a one minute man can be due to anxiety or high sensitivity of the cap , to overcome these two you need an understanding woman, be she your girlfriend or arranged olosho, in either case you need more time for the sex, that is after the first round, you both have to relax, chat and play till you gain erection again, however while the play go on, don't pressure your 3rd leg to raise because the more you make it a focus, the more you have the fear that it may not raise and believe me, it won't rise, so take your mind of it and just enjoy yourselves playing till it give you a signal that it's ready to rise then you can focus the romance towards making it rise. You will be surprised that your second round gives both of you the joy you are looking for.
However if the problem continues, don't give up until you have had like 4 or 5 failed trials during the second round, then you have to look for people that specialize in that area with herbal treatment. Good luck

Congratulations to her and to all Nigerians

There is something called file photo

Well that is what you people called fighting for the one you love.
If he had just walked away, the lady would someday asked him, why not fight for me when you knew you love me, why did you just walk away?
May he enjoy his space in prison in peace. True love is worth dying for.

Nigerian elites are doing everything to frustrate this man. They can stand to witness an end to their massive corrupt practices in the oil sector but sooner or later, they will realise that everything that has beginning surely will come to and end

Successtube:
I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.

Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.

“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.

But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.

My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.

I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.

The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.

I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.

Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush!

No time is enough to study a partner but be prepared to make up for the shortfalls whenever he)she show her true colours, this include letting go if that is what it requires. Life is too short to be unhappy.

That is his own portion of the flesh as shared by God, so the choice is his

Somebody don finally scatter the table

1. Brain jotter
2. Brain jotter
3. Brain jotter
4. Others

Person wey supposed dey fresh more than before.
Health is wealth

They just finished praying, you don't expect them to carry cutlass and start pursuing each other, besides they are friends by region and tribe which are bigger than their political career.

Great

immortalcrown:
A Nigerian without a name?

If you don't get the name then look at his head and give him a name.

gracealonev:
For Naija, campaign grounds dey overflow.

But for the day of election……

Maka why?

POV: Campaign ground is a collection of various words and units, looking at the kick off of the campaign(both APC and PDP) I think the election day is more crowded than the campaign when you consider the total vote at the end.

Another unreasonable activist. Why wishing them divorce just before they enter the marriage when you are yet to understand the circumstances surrounding the union?
In some part of Nigeria, this usually happen in a family where the boy is an only child, only surviving male child or has an underlying health challenge that poses threats to his survival in the near future etc.

ictmikky:
When dem come count our TV wey we no know?

Don't mind them, they probably go to GOtv to collect data, forgetting that some people don't have go tv but dvd

I smell something fishy, something beyond labour matter. The way Ajero is going around the story without blaming the security agents for the invitation but rather trying to manipulate the mind of the gullible ones to see him as a victim even before a bigger issue ahead tells me that something is hiding. The Ajero I know doesn't talk like this when he is fully on his right but misunderstood or wrongly accused. Let's watch and see.

May their soul rest in peace.

Fearless or predator? These journalists at it again

Ogba nne Na nwa, happy birthday Sir

That is his life and he has chosen how to use it.

Ok

The moment I saw the topic, I was able to guess 90% correctly, the author.

Putin didn't see it coming, small Ukraine is now giving Russia sleepless night. Wonderful

Redemption88:
Nobody is turning him down, he said what he said because they've been billing him like mad. Go and listen to the statement.
He meant instead of asking for things, they should just be nice


When you trying to ask out this set of girls he's talking about, if they ask for money for something and you don't have, they will start saying nonsense such as do you know how much my skin care product is worth, do you know how much I recharge my phone, you can't carry my responsibilities, blah blah blah

Mr mouth piece, allow him to speak for himself. From the video up there, he didn't say they asked him for money besides, if it were to be that they asked him for money, even that is not enough to start calling them ashawo except you are saying they offered him their bodies in exchange for money but unfortunately, that doesn't align because you can't be telling someone who throws herself at you for money that she is doing shakara at the same time.

This one dey smoke something mixed with dog blood. Would she had gotten the needed attention if she had kept quiet about her challenges, obviously no but now she gets the needed attention, thanks to the power of social media. Make I no talk much sha before person go say I don insult am.

First he said they are doing "shakara" which means someone has been turning him down and then he takes to name calling and black painting Lagos girls, shame on him.

Kobojunkieee:
If that happens, that would also mean that the government is also lying in this.

The man was vindicated and reinstated since 2023. The whole drama was a gang up against him.

Ayodele will return and will likely do better, untill 2017 when they came up with selfish interest to invade the NIA office, that agency was doing its great work without many Nigerians in the know of it existence. Till date, I still felt bad about the way the whole issue was handled then.