₦airaland Forum

SweetDipBenny:
True tho but una own too muuuch

una own? who be the UNA?

you wey get time to dey check wetin too much that means you really get time. If woman bill me and I am fine with the billing then I will pay and if e no make sense to me then I will shun instead of complaining.

phemmyfour:
I m talking from experience...you should try and do the same

seems you are doing selective reading. if you actually read my reply to you then you wouldn't type all this. No, i am talking from IMAGINATION.

phemmyfour:
It's different out there even in South Africa. You don't even need to go to Europe

So in the whole SA there are no demanding women? I mean with respect their economy and all the benefits from their government. I lived in SA for 2 years and I came in contact with all types of women because I worked with them.
Even inside Buckingham palace, there is surely a girl that will bill you.

GOSPELTRUTH31:
I believe you're still a teenager! Grow up!

Don't mind that guy. If the babe doesn't ask he would still be the one to cry that she is getting it from someone else. He still dey watch ZeeWorld.

spiritedtete:
Yes it is different... and very different. All this stupid attitude is just exhibited by blacks and Latinos. If you live in Europe and come back to date black girl you will be very passed.. with their entitlement attitude. ( I am speaking from experience and experiences. However money is not my problem just have solid goals as a woman).

I do understand what you mean but even right there in europe, there are girls with the "relationship entitlement" mentality just the same way there are females here who are more of givers than asker/takers/squeezers.
Yes, the population of both types vary (here & europe) but they exist but the OP was trying to make it look like it was originated and even made exclusive by Nigerian ladies and that is where I disagree.
Thanks, signed out.

DaddyCoool:
Not true. Among people with money love and sex are NOT transactional (for the most part) unless one of them is from the poorer population. In other words, a "rich" woman will not give you sex/love for money, while in the ghetto that's the normal practice!

And let me tell you again. Even rich babes & guys look into prospects, social & financial status, social benefits and other factors when relationship or even sex is involved. The demand might be indirect or bit-by-bit but it will happen.
You think wealth equivocal to behaviour? think again. It is just like saying kids from rich homes don't steal or lie. It is a behavioural trait.

Like I said before, not all females (and even males) are so materialistic or focused on benefits in relationships. It all depends. And if you find yourself with a demanding person and it doesn't work for you, then there is option to leave rather than complain.

Case closed.

Beremx:
Waiting for IKEDC to start their own madness of upgrading meters. They should be ready to dance DISCO music from their customers.

Ndi ara

NIGERIANS WILL DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. they will submit their meters last last and the worst they will say is GOD WILL JUDGE DEM, GOD WILL HELP US.
We should know how this country works by now.

DaddyCoool:
Any place there is poverty or want love and sex are transactional. It applies everywhere, NOT only in Nigeria. Go to any ghetto it is same. Among people who have money it doesn't apply - including among Nigerians with money

it is EVERYWHERE. Even in the wealthiest area codes in the world. Some women hardly ask while some keep asking for prada, holiday tickets, diamonds, stocks & shares, shopping trips. It has been like that since the first day women came to this earth and it will not change.

theInfinity:
Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction .

Why the heavy emphasis on NIGERIN WOMEN as if they invented this behaviour and it is exclusive to only them? Do you sincerely think it is any different with ALL THE WOMEN from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

EnglishUsa:
Lugard It shall not be well with you

May his corpse come alive in that useless coffin every night for him to choke and die again repeatedly. Amen.

MrUgo4christ111:
she was already asking me if she dies while giving birth,will I marry another wife?

Wetin men dey see.
Thank God for his mercies. congratulations

pink slip..

she is fully aware of what she is doing. you think women remember anything called shame in the period (it fades with time or turns to hate) when they are filled with desire?

She knew what she did and she probably did it to inspire jealousy in one of your colleagues. Amongst those guys giving you advice, one of them is jealous.

Your boss will not let the axe fall on you if the office is attached to you (you play key roles, bring valuable input, have work aura and complete tasks on time) but you will be cut off if you are the one attached to the office (like a leech with zero value) just the way these online PAY PER POST miscreants and the rest of them will be cut off when they finally become useless.

the heart of men

mistakenly?
so sleep is now a mistake just because he is chatting with a girl? what kind of jelly belly men are we having in this generation for heaven's sake?

frankyychiji:
Typo error? Are you not supposed to vet what you typed before posting? Says alot about your real life.

real life talks are for those who actually have one. that useless boy disguising as a woman, has no life

IconicR:
It's truly a scam if you couldn't detect typo error. Akpoda

it would have been a typo if you had written BAD or BUD or BID but you wrote a four letter word with a similar sound (homophone) which clearly shows that you are so daft that you don't know the difference between BED & BIRD. And here you are calling it a typo?

Seems you come from a long line of foolish liers. Get smart with your lies and hide your shame.

IconicR:
I sleep early and wake early.
Early to bird, early to rise.

school na scam.

Mankashi:
IPOB in Zamfara? Make una tell us who attacked you guys mbok

School na scam. Na dem be this.

endsarrrs:
How I wish some Nairaland people can be taken to court.

and you think you will be free

abc115:
the defendant had spent one month in a psychiatric home and four months in a Correctional Centre

Many Nigerian lecturers will fail psychiatric evaluation tests. government needs to start making it compulsory as a prerequisite to entering such a sensitive profession.

BALLOSKI:
You and your chic went for the screening, right?

Yes we did but it was CENSORED

so everyone who was screened should get an appointment or start crying wolf?

Flangelo12:
Oh boy, you go take anything wey you get.

na lie. we get pass that okpa

We don't need him.

They didn't make me minister too. WHO DID I OFFEND?
even my side chic didn't get. Who did she offend?

rubbish sense of entitlement

Finally Wike will only do what he can do and leave when it is time to leave. Nothing more.
I hope he takes it easy on the poor people areas (avoid using BRUTE FORCE) because it would be a dark comedy if the FG is giving out palliatives to poor people and wike comes to render those poor people homeless and jobless (the markets too).

after escaping & surviving all the wars and bullets. Physical Fitness brought him down. This life.

RealEmilokan:
JP please minus the $3 billion they borrowed last week through NNPC. E remain 700m

Shey Kanye West no go come buy this country like this?

The sooner we scrap the word PALLIATIVE from the Nigerian sociosphere, the better.

this has become a master key for high level looting

ahnie:
Covering my head with helmet....bullets go soon fall like pellets on this thread.

pellets small. HAIL STORM with a little mix of brimstone.

okay. why is her face and hands different colour and one people like that Lucky Dube song?