₦airaland Forum

Enahi:
Don't get it twisted I have been fortunate to meet good guys too and have male friends.
My male friends also tell me stuffs they do to ladies and that pisses me off.

I know you won't like the truth but 90 percent of naija men are cheats.
My question is what's the essence of marriage when the man will end up cheating on the woman for life.

Love does not exist in the dictionary of Nigerian Men, to Nigerian Men women are just objects of satisfaction.

i swear.. Trying to convience or correct u is a waste of time. U say my friend tells me this and that, i have met him and his. Pls. U talk as if u have no mind of ur own

Tallesty1:
Seems like some people's brain switch off when they want to post on Nland.

Men ain't worth it cause one man that wanted to marry you is a cheat, I bet you av 4goten that your father, brothers, uncles and the person that will later marry you are among the men that ain't worth, or maybe your father has a fine vagina between his legs. It is not impossible.

Nonsense.

BTW ever wondered why you attract cheats?

she lost it.

clevvermind:
if u are in that situation will u stay?

hey bro. If i let her know and she agrees to find a Solution together with me. And she loves me. Forget, i will stay calmly

daretodiffer:

You are a retard
What in God's name are you trying to say?

u can never learn or know.such a waste

daretodiffer:


You are a retard

What in God's name are you trying to say?

u can never know. U are just a bitch. So im not wasting time on u no more

daretodiffer:


You are a retard

What in God's name are you trying to say?

u can never learn or know. So im not going to waste my time on u. Byeeeee

Estharfabian:
You're obviously a waste of my time...

You're dumb√√
You shorten Your words√√
You're Highly immature√√
You're a walking Cliché √√
Did I forget to mention You're Outrageously dumb? Oh! yeah! I fücking did!

tsk tsk tsk. I find u more boring than u find me. Ur fucking fucking words uve been hollaring shows ur are the type that isnt worth my time. Really. Lols u are diseased

daretodiffer:
What stupid respect? How many women bear their husbands names and that have no respect for them

I thought saying something about the Westerners. It is their culture not mine.

Popular practice for those who want it. It does not mean that it is right

You need to kill yourself. African norm ko African norm ni

lols.. U sound daft from the beginning to the end. She doesnt want to bear his name for no good reason. Do u see any reason on the script?? And u think she will respect t him?? If u dont copy westerner culture why cant u give a good reason for refusing ur husband name? So daft. As for africa norm ko or africa norm ni. Go and tell it to ur father u disrespectful beast of no origin

Estharfabian:
In English please?

blind bat how will u know english when u see one. Olodo

xklassic:
ok.

u are welcome

daretodiffer:
Id.iot!

Where in your culture was it stated that women take their husbands name after marriage? And not all Western cultures agree to that BS at least not in Belgium

bitchy LovePeddler. I didnt tell u of my culture in the first place u daft retard. It is not cultural but it is just a popular pratice that confers respect to the husband though not compulsory. I cant believe im lecturing u on african norm and u will claim african see ur life.

xklassic:
Read my subject "Some men" And will you deny the fact that there are men that are guilty of this?

u should have said some men before. Pls spare me ur arrogance

Why do men shout wife materials are scare,
Decent women have gone into extinction, Ladies
are after there money and nothing more, and
many other derogatory remarks they make about
ladies of nowadays. But when they met the
decent,unconditionally loving,wife material 100%
kind of lady, they take her for granted.
Why is this so? That is ur first message. U pratically accused all men of unappreciation. So stop lieing about saying 'some men'. In that message

allyon:
theres no benefit in insulting u if u dont ask for it. U came here hallowing as if u have interviwed all the men population in naija and found them all guilty. U need real facts to make confrontations. Abeg o

about that some men u just quoted u should have quoted it on ur first and main feed. So hey, leave how to present ur self or u will get judged as u presented ur self

xklassic:
Have encountered enough to know that "some"men take good girls for granted. besides, i dont have to date 3 scores of men to make my assertion. And pls, learn how to comment, ask questions on places like this without been insultive. its not good for your personality.

theres no benefit in insulting u if u dont ask for it. U came here hallowing as if u have interviwed all the men population in naija and found them all guilty. U need real facts to make confrontations. Abeg o

Estharfabian:
First of all...Permit me to Say Your brother is an "Asshole".... Threatening to call off the wedding coz of a Lil issue as this?? Ridiculous!



Anyways...i also wouldn't wanna Throw my surname away Too..."Fabian" Is just to dope to be replaced by one "Ebuka" Or "Obiorachukwu" Or "Suleiman".... that ain't happening abeg!

go Bleep ur father. Marriage is what can tie him down to her. So he can call the wedding off if she wont be reasonable. People like u form westerners even when ur westerners are agreeing to their husband last name.crawl back to ur hole

JustHere2Observ:
Your brother is not ready to marry if he cannot compromise. For one their children will not use the compound name but his own.
Threatening to call off the wedding on top this small issue shows he is not ready to be a husband.
So if they have small issue after wedding he will threaten to divorce?

. Village girl dey form city girl. Lol

ILoveToFuCcK:
Please am not a good writer bear with me..Thank you

Ermm where should i start from seff??

My big bro is currently in this dilemma..
He has a fiance ..They're wedding date has been set already(although they have not started printing the Invitation card)..

Last three weeks he was jokingly playing with his girlfriend(wife to be) when he uttered the statement "Very soon you'll be known as Mrs Adekunle" (not the real name)

Then the girlfriend responded that she wants to keep her surname and add it to the guys surname... that she doesnt want to completely throw away her surname
My bro rejected the idea.. it all started like a joke but now its a big problem

My bro is threatening to call off the marriage just because of this funny issue
The girl is also forming "strong head" claiming she will stand by her decision (NB shes a lawyer by profession )
Funny enough her mum is also fully behind her(her dad is late)

My brother said its either she sticks with only his surname or He calls off the wedding

My brother loves the girl.. and I know she loves him too
Do you think my brother is being immature with this issue?
Should my brother go on with the wedding or should he Call it off??

No p if she doesnt want to change the name. Then they should agree on seperate financial contribution and accounts in the family

xklassic:
Why do men shout wife materials are scare, Decent women have gone into extinction, Ladies are after there money and nothing more, and many other derogatory remarks they make about ladies of nowadays. But when they met the decent,unconditionally loving,wife material 100% kind of lady, they take her for granted.

Why is this so?

er.. Pls madam how many men do u know and how many men have u encountered and how many marriages have u gotten full account of? Because u open mouth dey drain like pap say some men this and that. How many have u dated and experienced? Have u dated 60m men? Just asking

I can never be surprised. I already know how their biafra crap will be

stonecoldcafe:
I guess at the end of the day we all have different orientation albeit sexual orientation. I am firmly of the belief that nothing is wrong with masturbation (when one not is addicted though. I'm talking with moderation) whether the person is married or not.

In addition, I don't see the correlation between masturbation and becoming a gay or lesbian. So many boys/men masturbate and it dosent make them gay. I see no reason why the goal post should change for women. We men don't like to admit it but women masturbate too! Though not as much as men.

Talking about toy, I don't mind at all. I don't mind if the wife owns one. I'll like to use it with her during our love making sef. I guess I'm a sexually adventurous person by nature.

I guess if I were op's husband, I won't be upset in the slightest if I caught her doing that. I repeat, I will promptly take off my clothes and help her out. Good morning sir.

lols i dey laugh u o.seriously. If u are familiarized with philosophy u will understand me. Honestly i dey laugh

Money is the only thing they know? Maybe. But im scared o. One time i chatted with a female on whatsapp and i told her the reason im not into dating naija babes and sometimes dating is because naija babes demand money a lot . And the next time i spoke to this babe she misquoted me and said i said money is the only thing naija girls know. The girl piss me off

stonecoldcafe:
I'll be happy to see my wife do that. I'll take a seat somewhere and ask her to continue then i'll probably join her and start touching myself. Once we're done, we'll do the main thing. I could never pass on an opportunity like that and i can't be upset seeing her in that position. Shiit would turn me on sef.

i see. You have for gotten that things are not always what they look like. I hope it will turn u on on when ur wife will say no to your sexual advances as she has satisfied herself with out u. Or u catch her in lesbian act. I also hope it will turn u on. Mehn guy u dont know what should turn upon instantly

Speechless. I for cry small

Jolllyjoy:
ok.

ure welcome

Jolllyjoy:
e pain am

Of course such stupidity and recklessness is pitiable and wonderful. Cheating. Really.

Jolllyjoy:
but you cheated on her!

When? How? Its not on the script.and in truer fact. I would never cheat in a relationship. Id rather die

I will tell her i for give her. I will smile. Later i will produce a nude tape of her. And breakup with her. Then release it after a year or two. Since she likes to LovePeddler and betray

Jolllyjoy:
See them,shouting and ranting unecessariliy.


You will sure end it and refuse her a second chance forgetting there is no worse cheater than you.


Mtheeeeeeeeew boys are their selfish attitude.

. I dont blame u when u know nothing of trust. Just reckless

blessedfavoured:
Murderer

. Dont mind him. He should have given her darrhorea and sent her going

Zambux:
I hail u EZEIGBO 1 OF IMO.... #MRPERFECT

ewu. U should have said betrayal of trust is normal