Lsofdk:

i think it was worth it after all. maybe OPs bro thinks she retaining her surname(adding hers to his) means he would do same b4 opening the thread i was thinking d lady was refusing the guys surname totally

He would do same? how?

Uh..either ways...He's still crazy!

ILoveToFuCcK:
Please am not a good writer bear with me..Thank you

Ermm where should i start from seff??

My big bro is currently in this dilemma..
He has a fiance ..They're wedding date has been set already(although they have not started printing the Invitation card)..

Last three weeks he was jokingly playing with his girlfriend(wife to be) when he uttered the statement "Very soon you'll be known as Mrs Adekunle" (not the real name)

Then the girlfriend responded that she wants to keep her surname and add it to the guys surname... that she doesnt want to completely throw away her surname
My bro rejected the idea.. it all started like a joke but now its a big problem

My bro is threatening to call off the marriage just because of this funny issue
The girl is also forming "strong head" claiming she will stand by her decision (NB shes a lawyer by profession )
Funny enough her mum is also fully behind her(her dad is late)

My brother said its either she sticks with only his surname or He calls off the wedding

My brother loves the girl.. and I know she loves him too
Do you think my brother is being immature with this issue?
Should my brother go on with the wedding or should he Call it off??

saraphina:
your brother or u?but seriously itz no big deal sha.

JustHere2Observ:


Your brother is not ready to marry if he cannot compromise. For one their children will not use the compound name but his own.
Threatening to call off the wedding on top this small issue shows he is not ready to be a husband.
So if they have small issue after wedding he will threaten to divorce?

Estharfabian:
First of all...Permit me to Say Your brother is an "Asshole".... Threatening to call off the wedding coz of a Lil issue as this?? Ridiculous!



Anyways...i also wouldn't wanna Throw my surname away Too..."Fabian" Is just to dope to be replaced by one "Ebuka" Or "Obiorachukwu" Or "Suleiman".... that ain't happening abeg!

allyon:
go Bleep ur father. Marriage is what can tie him down to her. So he can call the wedding off if she wont be reasonable. People like u form westerners even when ur westerners are agreeing to their husband last name.crawl back to ur hole

In English please?

Estharfabian:
He would do same? how?

Uh..either ways...He's still crazy!

Truckpusher:
Your brother is sitting on a long thing.

If they can't agree on this simple matter now ,It is important to call off the wedding before they'll end up calling off the marriage after the wedding.

If you want to keep your family name you'll have to be bringing in plenty money into my bank account or plenty connection like that of Dasuki - Or you better find your elder brother and marry him.Simple.....

allyon:
go Bleep ur father. Marriage is what can tie him down to her. So he can call the wedding off if she wont be reasonable. People like u form westerners even when ur westerners are agreeing to their husband last name.crawl back to ur hole

Lsofdk:

it just like the wife deciding to answer philip(her initial surname)+obiorachukwu(husband's surname) and the husband is thinking he's also going to bear same (philipobiorachukwu)

LoL

That's silly!

daretodiffer:

Id.iot!

Where in your culture was it stated that women take their husbands name after marriage? And not all Western cultures agree to that BS at least not in Belgium

Estharfabian:
In English please?

allyon:
My mum is bitchy LovePeddler. I didnt tell u of my culture in the first place u daft retard. It is not cultural but it is just a popular pratice that confers respect to the husband though not compulsory. I cant believe im lecturing u on african norm and u will claim african see ur life.

SINNZ:
Although its fast becoming a norm these days but i believe your bro is the head of that family so he should be the one calling the shots and not her.



I know of a female court Judge who married her court clerk! . In court he addresses his wife as "Your Honour" all day!! But at home, he's the boss . That's how it should be.

allyon:
. Village girl dey form city girl. Lol

allyon:
blind bat how will u know english when u see one. Olodo

You're obviously a waste of my time...

You're dumb√√
You shorten Your words√√
You're Highly immature√√
You're a walking Cliché √√
Did I forget to mention You're Outrageously dumb? Oh! yeah! I fücking did!

daretodiffer:


Don't bring culture into this where in this same culture was it stated that women would cease to be their fathers' daughters and lose their names because of a divey dicey relationship


@OP, your brother has some issues he needs to reduce within himself. She is still her father daughter's and she had every right to keep it. If anything happens now, he will either go back to where he took her from to report or ask her to go back her parents.



Good thing my religion does not support that BS!

Truckpusher:
Could you please explain further on the highlighted please?

daretodiffer:



What stupid respect? How many women bear their husbands names and that have no respect for them

I thought saying something about the Westerners. It is their culture not mine.

Popular practice for those who want it. It does not mean that it is right

You need to kill yourself. African norm ko African norm ni

daretodiffer:


In my religion, no compound names. You retain your father's name.

allyon:
lols.. U sound daft from the beginning to the end. She doesnt want to bear his name for no good reason. Do u see any reason on the script?? And u think she will respect t him?? If u dont copy westerner culture why cant u give a good reason for refusing ur husband name? So daft. As for africa norm ko or africa norm ni. Go and tell it to my father u disrespectful beast of no origin

Truckpusher:
Never heard about that.

Estharfabian:
You're obviously a waste of my time...

You're dumb√√
You shorten Your words√√
You're Highly immature√√
You're a walking Cliché √√
Did I forget to mention You're Outrageously dumb? Oh! yeah! I fücking did!

daretodiffer:


It is going to be HER name not his.

SINNZ:
Where u by chance formerly using a moniker known as "insidous"??

daretodiffer:




You are a retard

What in God's name are you trying to say?

daretodiffer:




How did you know?

daretodiffer:


I know

It is not popular

There are so many things people don't know.

daretodiffer:




You are a retard

What in God's name are you trying to say?

daretodiffer:


You are a retard
What in God's name are you trying to say?