ForG:
I moved into this apartment about two weeks ago. Mini flat, only myself, excellent neighbourhood; I'm constantly indoors and not social.

But the landlady has been a pest so far.

The property has three tenants, but only one has been there for over a year.
The renter I replaced still works for her today, but quit the house only after a year.

The longest-tenured tenant (five years, married man with kids) warned me about her before I moved in. That she meddled in the affairs of her tenants. He is also desperate to leave the house this year.

Under the pretext of protection, she herself told me that she routinely informs her tenants' families of every move they make.

Today, the camel's back broke.

A female acquaintance of mine recently stayed with me for some days.
The landlady took offence and informed me that she does not want any female visitors except a known girlfriend.

Before relocating, she had also said that she did not want much male visitors in order to avoid disruptive behaviour. Made sense to me security-wise.
Wasn't a problem since I don't have male friends.

The next day, I saw her and informed her that an animal was running in the roof, as well as other anomalies I had noticed in the apartment.
She said that it seemed I was dissatisfied with the home and that she would provide a full refund without delay.

I made certain to inquire whether the prohibition on female visitors was on security grounds, but she said that the residence was a Christian home where everyone must be family, notwithstanding the fact that the tenant before me was a muslim.

Today, my agent came on my door and informed me that the landlady had complained to him. We subsequently met with the landlady, who once again threatened a complete refund.
She continued by saying that I am too young to have female companions because they would destroy my life.

I'm 23.

This evening I took the decision to collect the refund, cut my losses on the agreement and commission, and look for a new flat in the vicinity.

I had only heard rumours, but I had no idea such toxic home owners exist. The husband of over 33 years is pretty laid-back and even made a joke about my bringing a female acquaintance around to my guarantor.

The wife on the other hand is hell's fury.

You don dey enter landlady eye

olamidedivotee:
Lmao, see the boldness. 😆

I feel like Hiring the guy and Firing him the day he will resume work.

Overconfidence has been one of the major reasons most people failed woefully in their academics and career.

I'm a content writer, check my signature for contact details.

You are jealous of overconfident people. Hater

Blackfire:
Igbo and you yoruba are the ones spoiling this country...




Na wa o

Carry agberoism to someone's land

Thunder fire you! Since you do not have the range to think beyond ethnic sentiments, I will address you as the swine that you are.

Have you forgotten Abdulmutallab? Where is he from? Oh, maybe you do not know him because you are dumb, abi you can not remember his story because you are an imbècile.

Your parents are the problem with Nigeria for birthing an unfortunate thing like you. A waste of potential. Achieved nothing in life except multiple user accounts on nairaland.

It's funny when people say politicians should "deliver" their ward, unit, or state when it comes to elections. That lingo has rigging written all over it, especially when said politician is unpopular in his zone.

olamilekan9:

no bro, i remember when i still dey young back then, even babe wey pay my bills due to my being broke,she still see enough shege from my hand lol...what i am saying is me i will always get two woman or more ,i am very prone to polygamy.that's all

That means you are okay with your babe having another guy and them doing everything the same way you run your polygamy, yes?

Sammy07:


Dangote refinery should be fully ready before government remove subsidy.

Imagine, the crude oil we have here, we take it outside the country to refine, then they sell it back to us.

Once dangote refinery is ready, govt should try to use the subsidy money or by all means make all available refinery to be active and functional.

Have you bought cement before? The cement that Dangote is now lord and ultimate provider of in Nigeria is the most expensive in our market. What makes you think you will get cheap, good quality product from his petroleum refinery?

He is now qualified to become president.

The Nigerian kabal has a knack for putting ex-convicts as president

Money approved, but a thief is refusing to pay the worker.

Yes, the person is a thief

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

When you were chatting and frolicking with married men in your youth, you did not know it will happen to you abi?

These are the type of men that never want Nigeria to progress. They will continue to push religion and barbaric age-old practices as long as it gives them money and allows them fulfill their paedophillic cravings.

ecolime:

Dem wan snatch person wife, you still get mind dey beg am for money.. Na waoh

Everybody get him own problem

Klass99:


Wives already go through such in Naija so they have the requisite experience in dealing with it, it is nothing new to them, it is familiar territory.

However in UK the difference is that instead of fasting and praying incessantly like they do in Naija, they can very well decide you know what......I have had enough of your BS and I am done praying.

While the Naija community will encourage wives to continue to fast and pray for husbands/marriages, the UK gives them more options than prayer, which some will gladly take because they've simply had enough and are tired.

I also think we give the devil too much credit and power by blaming everything going wrong in our lives on him - he is not that powerful or relevant in the grand scheme of things. He can only operate when we create cracks or give him room by our choices, it begins with us.

All this big talk, abeg, if you don tire for ya marriage, kuku end am. After all, una no announce here when una wan marry.

ldon444:


Oh well I asked this same question just to see what the response would be. She said par of the book to be used for the assignment was gotten from the library reason why they had to go there. Because I hear sey people dey kpansh for libra oo.

I for blow your head just now, but e be like say you no go school so make I leave am. In this 2023, which information wey dey library wey you not fit find for internet? Which kain olden days format be dis?

imagrg:
I saw this question somewhere and it kept me wondering too.

The question is, Why do most women date married men after leaving their husbands?

Methinks they have realised that married men have more experience in handling women. Perhaps they are more caring.

What do you think?

So many reasons, but most importantly is because THEY HAVE FISH BRAINS

ldon444:

Coco, we were talking about something and I mentioned the issue to her, she was like its just assignment na, and nothing else. I didn't further the talk, am just waiting for another day when the same will be arranged then I can make my stand known.

Which kain assigment dem no fit do via zoom or skype? Make I talk before I spoil your marriage

IyaebeTheGreat:
Bride price is just a token, allow him to receive it peacefully and after that you move on with your life.

Ask her father if he paid her mum's bride price

This girl don pass 30 years since

What were you doing in when you were 21, 22?

BigIyanga:

Keep talking nonsense like a typical Naija. He knew it was illegal to pay for any organ.. had to make the guy lie about their blood relationship. An agreement btw 2 parties that violates UK Laws, is considered void.. with no effect. An absolute nullity!

Thank you for clearing the air. The parties involved will face the law

destiny4luv:
Good day Nairalanders.l; let me go straight to the point. I work off-shore so most of the times I am not always around, some times I can be at work for three months and be given one or two weeks time- off that's just the nature of my job.

But they is something troubling me seriously, when I give my wife instructions regarding anything at all she will first of all ask my Mom before she carries out the instruction I give her, that's if my Mom is in support of the instruction. Recently I gave her an instruction regarding a particular matter while I was on time-off, only for my wife to call me fee weeks later that she has carried out the instruction when the time I told her to carry out that instruction is not yet. I was so mad at her I asked her why can't she wait till the time I told her to do it; she said my Mom came over to the house and told her to do it so she did it. At that point I cut the call.

Later that day my Mom called me and was asking why I cut the call on my wife and refused to pick her call even why she was calling back, I told her she was the course, and she said how, and I told her why will I give my wife instruction and u will come to counter that instruction without the both of u letting me know not after the did has been done. My Mom was angry that can't she have say in my home, I told her to an extent not to the point of countering my instructions. She was very angry we both had some argument on the phone before I told her am late for work I want to cut and she hang up, she knows I was seriously angry with her. Since that day she hasn't called me and I haven't called her too.

My wife called me and apologized that it won't happen again. I forgive her and we both made amend. Now my Mom is not talking to me and my wife at the moment. Please what I did was it wrong or did I over reacted?

I love and respect my Mom likewise my wife, but I won't want her to control my home for me. Should I call her and apologize to her or just let her be till her mind comes down?

You should know that your mother will ALWAYS have your best interest at heart. She is not trying to control you. FFS talk to her and find a good solution.

I do not know what the matter is and I do not care to find out. Stop causing trouble where you have peace

Sisib15:
Continue wailing on another person's post

Rat!

clydecarson:



Lmaoooooo broke baittchhh no worry you go see 57 years old man marry

you are talking as if age of her future husband will stop her from getting married. You know very little bro

Treasure17:
Those responsible for the emergence of Buhari in 2015, 2019 and still stupidly campaigning for APC. Aye yin ma ba je ni.

Two of them are fighting tooth and nail to enter aso rock this year.

If you check well, this girl go don tell the guy say she no want but he kept pushing.

There is no bottom in Nigeria, everything keeps going down

These kind of threads reminds us that Nigeria is a forever shithole

VOsimhen144:
I feel a twinge of envy for the white people. I love their way of life. I wish I was a white guy. The white people are highly intelligent, they advanced technology to make life easy for everyone, they are blessed with good leaders. The society produces it kind so definitely they must produce a good leader.

But here in Africa, our society is bad reason we produce bad leaders, we are all monkeys. Infact the word Africa should be changed to Zoofrica. We are all animals in this continent.

In 2022 we're still carrying out jungle justice and lynching people like barbecues.

In 2022 we're still shouting UP NEPA, even with the fact that they denied us the light we paid for.

In 2022, majority of us aren't even educated. Even the ones that are educated can't think for themselves.

In 2022, all we do in Africa is work, work, and work till we die like slaves, some people can't stand straight becus of too much work. If you notice Most Nigerians do bend if they are walking on the road. someone will go to work around 7am and close from work 9pm. No time for vacation, no time to spend with our family. White people don't work for such long hours and yet they go on vacations. The system is well designed for them because of their productive brains.

In 2022, despite the fact we know that this particular presidential candidate is very corrupt, yet we mumu will still support the candidate.

We are barbarians, we're monkeys in this Africa. I wish I was a white guy. I so much love the white people. I question God everyday why he didn't create me as a white guy.

Africa is blessed with natural resources but we don't have productive brains to use it. Rather is to Loot Loot Loot! There is no single country in Africa that is as standard as just one European country. What a curse.

God in my next life I don't want to be a black man.

There is no next life, you have only this one

There is no such thing as a god

eni070:
I misbehave and I lost so much. I almost run mad.

That's what you always say, you will go back

zeuss:
But bear in mind that your biological clock is FAST ticking.

Make she dey play

Reliableman:
Divorce her before she disgraces you

SHE DON ALREADY DISGRACE Afodot0022

abimic:
Who now raises men of nowadays? Men of old don't tolerate this nonsense, even their wives can't try this shit.

Baba, your wife dey shit, you dey give am second chance, even relationship sef, no second chance.

Men of old never had access to nairaland. I tell you this because nothing happening today is new to us, wives have been fuçking their lovers and birthing children from other men from their husbands since humans created this thing called marriage.

You only get to know about it more often today because of internet forums and social media.

Nextlife1:

She is bagging me like this funny enough I still love her but i have given her condition of coming back beside am working on a project that will take me off for some times.
Am just not happy with my self my wife want back to visit his boyfriend on 13th of this month

Thanks for the update as you promised, but wait, she is coming back to do what?