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my friend recently got a job in lag and have extented an invitation to come and stay with him, and then search for work from his place. But the problem now is that, I don't have enough cash for logistics while going about looking for a job in lag considering the way the transport system is in lag. So am appealing to kind hearted Nigerians to plz help me out. Am willing to do any type of job, even if na messenger, driver (just that I don't think I can drive in lag). plz any job that will just put some money in my pocket no matter how small will be really appreciated. My friend stays around ajah. thanks and God bless as you help me out.

Saved2Serve:
I studied chemical Engineering too but a professional. Can I take a peep into your CV, let's work on and then I push for you. Let's start from there. Never loose hope for this period is for a testimony. Pm me...

Hello sir. I have sent my CV to your mail. Thanks.

Saved2Serve:
I studied chemical Engineering too but a professional. Can I take a peep into your CV, let's work on and then I push for you. Let's start from there. Never loose hope for this period is for a testimony. Pm me...

wow... Am so so grateful... Will send you my cv 2mrw...

unofficial:
www.nairaland.com/2179358/gods-sake-please-me-fed

Please go through that thread,,,,see and learn how its done.... He's a desperate job seeker like you and I, yet, his attitude is in check...

Bros, abeg, do something about your attitude. It irks

relax. Dat am ranting here doesnt mean that its how i behave outside. I jst offload my frustration here online. And for the records, if i have cash, i'd have gone for my masters.

toprealman:
GO TO ANY SECONDARY SCHOOL AND ASK FOR TEACHING JOB. AS A CHEM ENGR YOUR OPTIONS ARE MANY. GOOD WAY TO START BEFORE THAT YOUR DREAM JOB.

ye. I have gone to sec schs, supported my applications but they said they will call when there is vacancy.

taiwolusol:
Now I'm beginning to loose faith in you.

You know why? Your post(all of them reeks of frustration)

In my opinion, successful people don't get frustrated.




A happy man is a fulfilled man.....I'm sure it somewhere in the Bible



My advice to you is this, change your outlook of life.....start being happy and start afresh

If only you know how it feels being so broke, you wont be saying this. Am really frustrated. I jst dont knw why all my effort in job hunting cant yield something positive. Even if its a small one.

A year and nine months now, no job for me. For how long will this continue.

hmmm... nawa oo. Una sef dey dull. na just because I made 2.2. if not I for massively begin send messages to all news paper and social media including psin. Even though I made it to the interview, I already knw dat my 2.2 is enough to disqualify me as most of my sets are 2.1 and some with masters from foreign university. you guys seems like you font want justice to be done.

I have tried my best. I didn't leave a way ward life and I tried in my own way to stay away from sin. So why is my case different.

bosunolu:
Praise is what you do when you don't know what else to do.

Have you tried praising God? I mean crazy and fearful type that must get heaven's attention. God relocates His headquarter to the scene where He is praised!

Try it. It works like magic.

Let me not start making comments that will make others lose faith. But my relatijnship with God is on the brink of going south.

I no longer blame people who turn atheist. Right now am not seeing or feeling the presence of God around me. Despite my prayers and sacrifices.

What Is it that I have not done to earn a decent leaving, but nothing is working for me.

Am feeling suicidal right now. why is everything abt me going south. The PTI job I was hoping on didn't work and the man that promised me some cash by end of the mouth so as to start up a biz has started singing another song.

why me.?

despite all my effort.

right now. am feeling like the earth shld swallow me. I can't believe that I didn't make it. two years after service, no job to show for it.

Chai... God plz let me not be disappointed...

For how long will I continue to be under the roof of my parent.

God!!! Why are all my application returning with a "regret". Just today alone, I received 2 regret mails. Is this the life that You have for me.

Forgive me if my post is too long.

My advice to single/newly married ladies

The way so many families, esp newly married couples break up is really alarming. This has eventually led to the high number of single parent in our society, most of them struggling to feed the kids and being entirely ignored by their husband. Not just only on the side of break-up, but also, death and some unforseen circumstances might lead to this problem. So many atimes, families break up or the death of one of the partner might happen (esp the man) and the other partner(wife in this case) is then left at the mercy of her inlaws who might make life miserable for her. There is one thing that I believe in this life... Trust no one... Even your own self. Most time, the inlaws might be pretty good to you when your hubby is still alive. but the moment he dies, their true color is then revealed and by then, you will be regretting that you dont have somethings in place before death of your hubby. In this modern age, I see no reason why the man of the house shldnt draft out a will (immediately after their wedding) or set up something tangible for the wife only so as to protect the welfare of his family when he dies (no one is praying for death, but one thing is certain, death is inevitable). Also, I see no reason why a woman will comfortably sit down at home doing nothing all in the name that her husband dont want her to work, thats sheer foolishness. If something shld happen and the husband can no longer fed for the family, what then becomes the fate of the family. There is nothing wrong for a women to demand from her husband to draft out a will and use her and the kids name as the next of kin in his business/accounts and properties. So many women have fallen victims in this scenario where the in laws come in to claim what ever the husband left behind. Women also need to wisen up. even if your hubby dont want you to work, dont just sit at home and enjoy his wealth. Ensure that you are fully involved in his business, ensure that you know about all his landed properties, their location and other investment and if possible, make sure that you not only have a signatory to all those properties, but let your name appear as his
next of kin, "for what ever belong to him also belong to you"... But its unfortunate that your in-laws may not agree with that statement in quote when he dies. If your hubby truly loves you, he wont find it difficult in doing that cos its for the good of his family. Dont think that you are wishing him death by proposing for such, its a basic thing that needed to be done for the well being of the family. There is a case that I knw of, the hubby died from an accident. Surprising enough, the woman knws that her hubby has alot of landed properties in about 5 states, but she have no idea where the documents are or the location of the properties. Now that the hubby is gone, who then takes charge of it. though her in-laws didnt really disturb her over the properties, but am pretty sure it will be difficult to claim the land since she dont even know the location of the land or even where the documents are. This type of scenario and other similar ones abound and the end point is that the woman is being left with nothing most esp when she have nothing serious doing.

Dont always feel that since your in-laws are good, they will protect you when things like this happens, well sorry you might be disappointed and there is hardly anyway out of this scenario except you have the connections to people/groups that will help you fight for your right...
No one is praying for the untimely or immediate death of your partner, but the way the world is now, esp when your inlaws arent that reach and exposed, its best to prepare for the worst case scenario in other not to be caugth off guard.

I think its high time churches start encouraging court marriage or better still let the church ensure that the man writes his will within 6months after the wedding and then the will can be updated every year to keep it in line with the family growth.

The reason for writing this is cos within the last 2 years, I have seen about 3-5 widows that are in logger heads with her inlaws over the properties that her hubby left behind. though some of them won the case, but its better to present it that face the figt and win cos you never can tell what else your inlaws will do to you as they will definately not accept defeat and shame.

I didnt recieve any mail o.

Him for still put minimum of First class with a masters degree and phd in view...

Driven:
In the end, everything will turn out well.

Amen my brother...

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After going through some thread about job seeker on the front page. Am a little bit lifted up seeing that there are people out there whose own story are far more serious than mine... In all, I give praise to for the life that we have... Hoping that the best is yet to come...

In a sane country, that tree would have been condorned off for scientific investigation. But 4 here, everything na spiritual.

Harkynkunle:
This pain is getting more unbearable..... almost 2 years after service. .. yet no good job 2 show for it

The annoying part is just that am broke. Would have started a little biz, no matter how little the income is.

GreenBobo:
Am not being philosophical.
But all you require in life, God has already given you!

Well, seems like I missed it or have not seen it. :/

Why is things happening this way.
Its not like I played away my time while in school. Due to my family background, I have been hardworking all along, studied very well, my mates always come to me for help both academically and other wise, my lodge mates all come to me for their assignments/"explanation" even though they are all in a different department (the power of internet) all these I do for free. Where could I have gone wrong. Its clocking to 2years after NYSC and nothing to show for it. My friends got their job in "super firms" within 6months after NYSC. Worst of it all is that am damn broke. That am browsing is because of a friend who shares his data with me. GOD PLEASE HELP ME.

Emmysteve:
Pls take it easy. When did u finish ur service?

2013

Looking around me and seeing people rushing to their different place of work makes me feel like a "very big" failure.

Just wished I didnt come into this life

Feel so bad waking up in the morning (esp on monday morning). With no where to go, except for the usual roaming about looking for something to do.

I dont just get it, I have done all I could do in search of job, still nothing is forthcoming. Where could I have gone wrong.

Dem never ground beans, moi-moi don dey smell.

Am just short of words... Look at what man is doing to his fellow man...


If these guys get nuclear weapon, they wont blink in using it...

Plz, properly relate with boko haram so as to stop all these killings.