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Mandem12:
I had to open a new account for this, pardon me for Punctuation errors. I have to go straight to the point so as not to bore you... My story goes thus

I'm a young man of 25. I met this very beautiful girl, aged 23 now, we've dated 4 years now. She's so humble, the love grew out of nowhere. She does everything a woman would do for a man and I do everything a man will do for a woman.

I found myself not doing anything without her and she cannot do anything without involving me, we actually love each other very much.

She started pestering me to have a blood oath with her because she was scared I would leave her. I laughed it off cos I knew I wouldn't cheat on her, she is everything I wanted in a woman.

Trouble started when I brought her home to meet my parents, I was actually happy that I had found my wife...

When she left, my father asked me where she was from, and I told him and my father told me I can't marry her because she was from the same village with me and thereby related by blood thereby marrying her is an abomination that she was my sister so to say and said our kinsmen would not be Involved if I insist on marrying her... I felt my world crumbling down like a pack of cards...

I told my girl and she was like, it's an old tradition and nobody will dictate to her who she would marry and she loves me and there was no going back...

As a man, I thought about it and wanted to let her go because I wouldn't want the stigma to be on us and my unborn kids... I showed her some attitude to make her hate me but she didn't, rather she would rather beg me not to leave her even when I'm at fault. I feel bad anytime I do anything to hurt her feelings...

Now, I actually want to get her pregnant and damn the consequences, do a court wedding if the need arises and relocate with her out from our state and start a new life elsewhere...

Another mind is telling me to let her go so we can move on with our lives, or even be a fugitive for her... I however know she will hurt herself if I leave her... I'm very confused about everything, I seriously need help... Why is Igbo tradition this way? I found love with this girl, now everything is about to be stripped away from me, just like that... I seriously need an advice please...

I love this girl so much and she make me happy


Please move this to front page so I can hear from others please...

Jamescosmas:
No i don't do over time..I have a betking shop..Im even planning to make it a 24 hours thing..Thats round clock..She do come around the shop , but I normally tell her to go once is 7pm..She will not say anything..

cnonyechi:
And you say him hustling and can confirm that he wasn't out with his own lover abi?

professore:
Just don't encourage people to spread STDs, why not say wife instead of saying girlfriend.

decatalyst:
So standing up like Buckingham palace guard shows that the man is strong like Zuma rock, shey?



Wisdom is truly not by number of years spent on earth.

decatalyst:
So standing up like Buckingham palace guard shows that the man is strong like Zuma rock, shey?



Wisdom is truly not by number of years spent on earth.

Davash222:
It’s better you use the time in increasing the volume to increase your sense of reasoning, you this Night newspaper.

victorian:
Are u minding davash 222.

Look at Nigerian single celeb ladies or single successful upward mobile ladies and see how Fresh and sexy they look even in their 40s and 50s.

But unfortunately marry a typical nigerian man and age massively!!! With million problems for your troubles. He will frustrate his wife with stds,and bossy attitude, fuckving the wife when shes so tired, I won't say rape but it's that bad. No single rest. Then his in-laws will add their own problems on his wife, blaming her on anything blameable, his side chicks will add their own competing nature in his wife's life. Sighs it's one hell of a tornado union. Why won't women stab and kill their husbands, even though I don't support their actions.

But such wives have had it to the neck! They can't take it anymore. Their psychic has been turned upside down in marriage.

Marriage these days makes a innocent loving girl. Into a monster. Sighs may God help the men

I look at my school mates who are married with kids, they've aged like kilode, with wrinkled forehead, enough worries on their faces and bodies, dragging along 4 , 5 kids.
Some even dodge when they see me. That's their wahala.

There is the peace surrounding a successful single lady, which is rare to see in marries women these days. The married men are looking younger, their wives are aging rapidly!


Taraji is not married, that's why she still look firm and sexy.

My uncle asked when are u getting married? I laughed!

Uncle got angry and started spitting fire! U better think of settling down, do u think u will look young forever. I just stood up with smiles and I replied with the way Nigerian men are these days?

Uncle Pls don't wound yourself o, just take it easy , I'm off to work. He was still rambling on, as I left his house with smiles.

johnmartus:
Very good.

Davash222:
At 49, this lady is sexier than 90% of Nairaland girls.
Irony of life.

How many ladies here can boast of having such firm and upright breast?


Mchew.

Is she doing the work we dey do?








PS: Argue with a pictorial evidence, please.

itsme01:




Yoruba Amaka!!!


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engrsyer:
Your analysis doesn't matter when it comes to Donald Trump. Trump told you he wants to return America to Americans and that's what he's doing.

OED

infogenius:
Storytellers.
These guys don see Nigerians finish.

A govt that can't protect it's citizens except for cows
A govt that can only impoverish
Is it the Govt that will pay refunds for ransoms?

Someone will just wake up in the morning and start talking trash thinking he is talking logic!

helinues:
And na Fg kidnapped them?

2023 presidency ambition Don dey make Mr Falana miss yarn these days

Tookool:
Women are all the same everywhere ..... they detest humble men. This xo guy is a noise maker. I can never take any guy that shows off wads of cash on a regular serious. Dude lives his life on the social media

Jamescosmas:
good question...I'm abt to get marry next month..I normally come home every day by 12 midnite and my woman is not saying anything. Maybe, she is waiting for me to marry her before she starts complaining...