Politics / Re: Snubbed By Tinubu In London, Osinbajo Ready For Presidential Fight Of His Life by Amanda4life: 9:17am On Oct 24, 2021 |
PLEASE, OSIBnJO SHOULD NOT COME. HE WILL WEAKEN OUR HANDS. TINIBU SHOULD COME OUT, HE WILL WIN |
Family / Re: Are The Kids Good Enough Reason To Endure & Stay An Abusive Marriage? by Amanda4life: 6:18pm On Oct 23, 2021 |
brownemmanuel43:
Once the money is their, or once a man can provide the basic amenities, I mean standard basic needs, the wife tolerates alot. But once their is no more or the standard basic needs are not met or diminishes, that's when the woman will bring her through colour. I'm talking from experience, then some men are not worthy to be called men. Some are boys in men skin, WHEN YOU MARRY BOYS. THE ENDURANCE NA FOR EVER. YOU JUST BE WISHING A NATURAL SEPARATION |
Family / Re: Are The Kids Good Enough Reason To Endure & Stay An Abusive Marriage? by Amanda4life: 5:21pm On Oct 23, 2021 |
ethicallyright: Yes, if you do not mind if the kids would grow to become abusive or risk being beaten to death one day.
It is instinctive for a smart mammal to put his/her offspring first.
More Cubs die of infanticide perpetuated by big cats and other carnivores of their kind than any other reason because these animals can never raise another Cat's cub.
This means that no matter how kind a step-parent is, they can never love a step-child more than their biological child.
If step-kids are maltreated and discriminated in polygamous marriages where their mothers are still present, what do you think will happen when they live with a new wife who knows that their mother is no longer in the picture?
Smart parents try to resolve their differences for the long-term good of their kids and it is an intelligent step towards self-preservation.
But if the marriage has broken down irretrievably, the separated spouse who takes custody of the children must place the safety and comfortability of the kids first.
That means, the separated parent must make it clear to the new spouse that he/she will not tolerate abuse of her existing kids in the new relationship. The parent must act on his/her word if the kids are abused.
Disclaimer
As a bachelor avoid marrying a single mother who makes it clear that she values her existing children more than you because she'll love them more than your own children when she gives birth to them.
As a bachelor avoid marrying a single mother whose ex-husband or baby-father is still alive because she'll always be attracted to him because they share a child.
As a bachelor avoid marrying a single mother whose ex-husband is dead because what killed the ex-husband may kill you too. THIS IS A WHOLE LIE. BUT FOR ME , IF IM OUT OF THIS MARRIAGE. IM OUT OF MARRIAGE FOREVER. FOR me TO LEAVE. A MARRIAGE, THE ACTRACTION HAS ENDED. ONCE I LEAVE I LEAVE, IF YOU LIKE BECOME DANGOTE OR BUHARI IF STAYING WITH A MAN, WILL NOT ALLOW ME TO BE IN MY RIGHT FRAME OF MIND TO TRAIN MY CHILDREN. THE BEST FOR ME IS TO LEAVE. BECAUSE, IM MORE PRODUCTIVE, WHEN MY MIND IS POSITIVE. I CANT FAKE IT. 1 Like |
Business / Re: Obituary: Chief Udala Philip Ekwosi Burial Poster (Photos) by Amanda4life: 5:18pm On Oct 23, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: We keep saying RIP to every dead person. Every carbon based life form will die one day, such is life and when you die, that is the end,
there is no heaven not hell, there is no afterlife.
Chief udala is dead, he would decay like every dead organism, even legacies will be forgotten. His son may inherit his wealth, but what if he is stupid in money management, everything chief udala has worked for will be gone in just one generation,
Leaving a legacy is a scam by religion to make you feel good, even dead people don't enjoy memorial service, but religion will tell you what you want to hear.
My point is this: once you are dead, its final. A living dog is better than a dead lion. If humans can work together, we would defeat death, death is just like every other disease.
Who says you will be bored if we become immortal? If humans can defeat death, we can defeat everything else I M NOT UNDERSTANDING. please WHAT DO U MEAN |
Religion / Re: Battle At Synagogue, Trustee Alleges Threat To Live, TB Joshua's Daughter Reacts by Amanda4life: 10:53pm On Oct 22, 2021 |
IM SENSING THAT TB JOSHUA MADE HIS DISCIPLES TO BELIEVE THAT THE WIFE DOES NOT HAVE RIGHT TO BE AT THE FOREFRONT, HENCE THERE IS POWER TUSSLE. NIW THE WOMAN BELIEVE S THAT SHE HAS RIGHT OVER HER HUSBAND BUIZ BY FORCE..
NOW THE WOMAN IS SAYING WHETHER YOUR DEAD BODY LIKE IT OR NOT , I MUST INHERITS YOUR PROPERTIES.
THIS IS ALWAYS THE REWARD OF MEN LIKE THIS |
Celebrities / Re: Teacher Bullies Mercy Johnson's Daughter, Purity Okojie In School by Amanda4life: 10:11pm On Oct 22, 2021 |
HOW ON EARTH WILL THE TEACHER ENVY YOU?
MAYBE, SHE IS envying YOUR LONG NOSE OR HANDSOME husband.
MCHEW |
Celebrities / Re: Teacher Bullies Mercy Johnson's Daughter, Purity Okojie In School by Amanda4life: 10:07pm On Oct 22, 2021 |
ITS OBVIOUS MERCY JOHNSO N WANT THIS TEACHER TO BE SACKED.
please, IS THE TEACHER FORMER WIFE OF YOUR HUSBAND?
SO WHAT DOES SHE WANT TO DTAG WITH YOU?
PLEASE GO AND TRAIN YOUR CHILD T HOME |
Celebrities / Re: Teacher Bullies Mercy Johnson's Daughter, Purity Okojie In School by Amanda4life: 10:05pm On Oct 22, 2021 |
NOW I KNOW MERCY JOHNSON NO GET SENSE. |
Religion / Re: Former Sex Worker Receives 13 Flat Estate As Wedding Gift From OPM Church (Pics) by Amanda4life: 9:38pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
sEE WHERE SHE COME HOLD THE PASTOR |
Politics / Re: #EndSARSMemorial: Survivors Of Lekki Shootings Recount Ordeal (Video) by Amanda4life: 9:24pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
When will this blood sucking stop |
Politics / Re: Anambra Elections: "Dialogue With Nnamdi Kanu" - Primate Ayodele To INEC by Amanda4life: 10:01pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
letristian: This government think say everything na by force and clampdown.... Them go soon watch film Itink season two is uploading. Seeing the way this are Tc |
Politics / Re: Yakubu Gowon Celebrates His 87th Birthday Today by Amanda4life: 7:47pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GOOD HE IS ALIVE TO WITNESS THOSE BLOOD SHED IN HIS HOME TOWN |
Travel / Re: 2 Co-Wives, Their Family Member And 7 Others Die In Kwara Auto Crash (Photos) by Amanda4life: 7:41pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
DEVIL DON BUTER BREAD FOR ALHAJI. ALHAJI WILL MARRY ANOTHER NEW CHASIS VIRGINs
I BEG NA WHERE I GO GAIN EXPERIENCE FOR CIVIL AND WATER ENGINEERING?.
MY SOUP IS BURNING ON FIRE ALREADY. JUT WAIT I DEY COME |
Nairaland / General / Re: Have You Ever Walked With Someone That Greets The Whole Community? by Amanda4life: 7:36pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
AH AH
MY MUM CAN GREET FOR AFRICA.
I WILL JUST LEAVE HER DEY GO FRONT. AND TELL HER TO MEET ME AT HOME |
Romance / Re: What Happened To A Newly Married Couple In My Car Yes by Amanda4life: 7:28pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Kalubolt: Good day Nairalanders, I don't know how to place the subject of what transpire ystday but just read and share your thoughts. I am a driver working with one of the e-hailing companies (BOLT). Ystday by 7pm I got a request from Bera estate by Chevron drive to one hotel close to Skymall at Sangotedo. When I got to the pick up zone it was a guy and his babe. They look so young so I didn't know they were married at first. Before picking them I was playing a Phil Collins track (You'll be here in my heart). . When they boarded, the guy said I should change the song to something more upbeat which I did. When we got to Mega Chicken opposite Askamaya Hotel, there was a heavy traffic as usual that comes all the way from Ajah Bridge so we were moving slowly. Before we got to VGC traffic light, hubby's phone rang and he picked it. After the normal hello he asked who's on the line? And the caller answered it's me Aisha cus I got to know when he said whose Aisha. It seems Aisha at the other end was telling him why are you pretending not to know my voice bcus I called with unknown number after you refused picking my lines. Hubby was adamant, pls I don't know you and I am with my wife and he cut the call. . By this time I have reduced the volume of my radio, so wifey was asking him who's that? He said he doesn't know who she was. Wifey said are you sure and he said yes. Not long after the number called again and hubby picked and said pls leave me alone I don't know you. As Wifey wanted to collect the phone from him, hubby cut the call. Wifey was somehow angry but kept her cool. Not long after again same number called again, but before hubby could say anything Wifey collected the phone from him and picked the call. And then put it on speaker for both hubby and me to hear. . She then calmly said hello, I am the wife of the person you are trying to call how may I help you. Aisha too calmly said, pls don't be offended give the phone to the owner he's the one I want to speak to. With this, Wifey provoke and started shouting at her. Who the hell are you to tell me who you want to talk to? All this while hubby moved a bit to my side and was trying to explain to me: driver see me see wahala o, person say him no know you and you dey insist. Which kind problem be this. I didn't say any word to whatever he was saying cus he has distracted me from hearing the main gist between his wife and Aisha. And by this time Wifey has off the loudspeaker and was now listening to the other caller carefully and silently. After some minutes of careful listening she cuts the call and burst into tears. Hubby tried to get close to her and ask what's wrong, she shouted don't touch me. After some more sobbing, she voiced out: Andrew (not real name) why, Andrew why are you doing this to me? We are barely 2 months into our marriage and you have started cheating on me. Andrew retorted back, honey what are you saying? I don't know her, don't believe whatever she's saying, that's a home wrecker. . Wifey replied back while sobbing, you don't know her but she knows your name and your best friend's name you use to hang out with. And you guys even hang out with her and friends just last week, Andrew why, why? Hubby started explaining that doesn't know her, maybe it was one of the girls my friend use to carry along when we hang out. Wifey said she has heard enough and he should just let her be for the time being. With that Wifey place her head at the side glass of where she was sitting and continued sobbing slowly. Hubby now confused and don't know what next to do or say just sat bewildered, I was watching them both from my inner mirror. After about 5 min total silence and us approaching Ajah Bridge, hubby came close to my ears and told me to look for that Phil Collins song I played earlier when I came to pick them. I nodded and proceeded to look for the track on my Playlist and then click it. . As the song was playing, to my surprise hubby started singing along the song to Wifey in an Indian movie style hahahaha. What got me laughing inside myself more was when he sang the part in the song: Don't listen to them Cus what do they know We need each other To have to hold. Hahahaha hahaha, guys honestly I almost burst out laughing here. While the song was about to end, I have already set another track by Celine Dion and R. Kelly (I am your angel). Immediately Phil Collins ended I click that one. Once again hubby sang along and by this time Wifey has stopped sobbing. The next thing I saw was a tap in the head and when I looked back, hubby gave me a thumps up signal. Meaning my head dey there hahahaha. Another thing that amused me was that hubby knows those old school blues words for words, lyrics for lyrics. And me kukuma get them in quantum. . Before that one ended, I slot in Toni Braxton (Breathe Again). With this one, hubby yell softly wow! As I turned back to look at him, Wifey is already lying on his chest while hubby held her gently. This Toni Braxton was the one that kill it the most, when hubby sang the part: I will never breath again without you. Wifey now crying softly again while lying on his chest muttered some words: you know I love you, while do you want to break my? Hubby rubbed her face to her hair and said you know I won't do such. After Toni Braxton I put some other numerous love songs that got them in the mood. As we were almost getting to their destination which is hotel, Hubby told me to give him my account details. I gave him and he said when he ordered the ride, the price was #2300-#2600 so he sent me 3k and said even with the hold up it won't be more than that, but if it's more than that then he will send me another money. Within seconds I got the 3k alert. We got to the hotel parking lots and I ended the trip and it reads #2500. I brought out #500 to give him and he said I should keep it, that he loves my ride and the songs I played for them, I just smiled and say thank you. . They came down and headed to the hotel lobby, I was just looking at them shaking my head and smiling when all of a sudden Wifey turned back and ran to where I was still parked telling hubby she forgot something. As she came, open the door and pretended to be looking for something she handed 1k note to me and told me thank you for everything, before I could say anything she just said bye and left. Me I started my car still smiling and I left, lolz what a way to end the day. See as I take style turn relationship healer hahahaha....... Idiotah drver 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Tega Dominic Shares Stunning Photos After Returning To Instagram by Amanda4life: 7:20pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Dry ssEE BOMAS HAND |
Politics / Re: Maduabuchi Nevobasi To Buhari: Igbos Will Always Support You by Amanda4life: 9:50pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
EYA OGA MONARCHS SORRY |
Family / Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Amanda4life: 8:58pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
I HOPE U DONT WANT YOUR DAD TO DIE ANY TIME SOON. |
Politics / Re: Soldiers Chased By Unknown Gunmen In Anambra (Video) by Amanda4life: 9:13pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Army don't run |
Politics / Re: Kill Anybody You See - Soldiers In South-East Threaten Over Death Of Colleague by Amanda4life: 9:54pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
AVIRIBODI YI SI KEEL, AVIRIBADY U SEE KEEL |
Crime / Re: Chidinma Ojukwu Pleads Not Guilty To The Murder Of Usifo Ataga (Video) by Amanda4life: 9:44pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
THE STUPID AND FOOLISH IS NIW ROTTEN.
I SORRY FIR YOURVCHILDREN |
Education / Re: Class Room Population, Does It Matter To You? by Amanda4life: 9:33pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Aforxzy: In as much as i don't like a crowded classroom because the teacher will not know each child's ability and no direct relationship but a class less than 12 is also is too small cos there might not be enough competition amongst the pulpil.
For me the classroom should be big enough to accommodate the pulpils and small enough for the teacher to know each child. Prop or Hm sighted here |
Education / Re: Class Room Population, Does It Matter To You? by Amanda4life: 9:26pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
IF U ARE PAYING UP TO 150K yes, the school can have 15 but if you are paying less than 150 25 pupils is okay |
Education / Re: Class Room Population, Does It Matter To You? by Amanda4life: 9:20pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
FOR PRIVATE SCHOOLS,
25 at most is still okay.
unless the teacher is not effective |
Politics / Re: Soldiers Attempt To Arrest Woman Wearing Biafra Outfit (Video, Photos) by Amanda4life: 6:47pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
SO IF MAD PEOPLE ARE THE ONES WEARING THIS FLAG, IT MEANS THEY WILL ARREST ALL THE MAD PEOPLE IN ANAMBRA |
Politics / Re: Soldiers Attempt To Arrest Woman Wearing Biafra Outfit (Video, Photos) by Amanda4life: 6:39pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Federal govt should find a betterway around this. This is a woman, indoctrination start from family, mother's
BECAUSE IF A WOMAN SHOULD DO THIS IT MEANS
This country called Biafra cannot just die like that |
Celebrities / Re: Niyola: Banky W’s EME Wanted To Market Me In A Sexy Way (Video) by Amanda4life: 6:32pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Beehshorp: Apart from the sexy way what does the female gender do to stay relevant in the entertainment industry? Sincerely. Big question |
Phones / Re: MTN Subscribers Lament Service Outage, MTN Apologizes by Amanda4life: 6:19pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Nonsense apology I can't make calls till now |
Education / Re: Bawa To Students: No Shortcut To Wealth, EFCC Will Catch You by Amanda4life: 10:52pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
BRIBERY NKO? |
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Amanda4life: 8:11pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Coldie:
Maria so much didn’t want whitemoney to win HER HATE TOWARDS WHITE MONEY TURNED AROUND TO DISGRACE HER ON NATIONAL TV. EVEN ANGEL DISGRACED HERSELF. SHE IS NOW SEEN AS A SHAMELESS LovePeddler 7 Likes |
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Amanda4life: 8:06pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
6 Likes 1 Share |
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Amanda4life: 9:07pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
IS EITHER YOU PLAY THE GAME, OR YOU WILL BE PLAYED 2 Likes |