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Family / Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Amanda4life: 10:20pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.


DONT WORRY.

JUST MAKE SURE YOU DONT CHEAT

FROM EXPERIENCE, IM SURE THAT OVER TIME, GOD will ADJUST YOUR SEXUAL TO MATCH HIS.

THIS IS GOING TO HAPPENED OVER TIME, SO LONG AS YOU DONT CHEAT NOW TO MEET UP YOUR SEXUAL WANT
Politics / Re: Gunmen Attack Professor Banji Akintoye's House In Ekiti by Amanda4life: 10:09pm On Nov 02, 2021
I NOTICED THERES ALREADY FULL BLOWN WAR IN SOME PART OF THIS COUNTRY.

I JUST PRAY IT DOESN'T TAKE US UNAWARE
Crime / Re: EFCC Arrests Obi Cubana Over Alleged Money Laundering by Amanda4life: 12:07am On Nov 02, 2021
WHICH EFCC WILL ARREST THOSE DUPING THE POOR MASSES.

EMBLAZING OUR MONEY.

IS EFCC MEANT FOR THOSE WHO ARE NOT IN POWER?
Properties / Re: Prowess Engineering On Ikoyi Building Collapse: Why We Withdrew Further Services by Amanda4life: 10:13pm On Nov 01, 2021
jojo1415:
I listened to the audio of one of the survivors that the owners of the said building including senators were among the dead ones still trapped in the building.they were doing meeting with the engineers when the building collapsed
THE BUILDINGS HAD BURIED THE BULDERS
Properties / Re: Prowess Engineering On Ikoyi Building Collapse: Why We Withdrew Further Services by Amanda4life: 10:12pm On Nov 01, 2021
GOVERNMENT SHOULD STOP CONSTRUCTION OF ALL BUILDINGS ABOVE 4TH FLOOR IN IKOYI AREAS
Education / Re: Ikpeazu To Rename Abiapoly, Abia State University Of Science And Technology Aba by Amanda4life: 4:27pm On Nov 01, 2021
WHERE ARE THE FACILITIES?
Family / Re: Promiscuous Dad by Amanda4life: 9:35pm On Oct 31, 2021
emmyluizzz:

he is an old man ...yes

but useless no....you are the useless one here...cos nobody knows you

U ARE AS USELESS AS THE OLD MAN

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Romance / Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Amanda4life: 9:34pm On Oct 31, 2021
MODERNISATION IS THE PROBLEM

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Family / Re: Promiscuous Dad by Amanda4life: 9:22pm On Oct 31, 2021
USELESS OLD MAN
Family / Re: Promiscuous Dad by Amanda4life: 9:19pm On Oct 31, 2021
Iamdboss:
Leave him alone.... Nah his life, no amount of what u have to say will make him change overnight, he would have heard more than what you can say. The worse is that it can affect ur relationship with him or at the worst ruin ur home.
Apply wisdom and move on


And any time he dies , LET THE DAUGHTER

PLEASE GO AND TELL THOSE SIDECHICK TO CONTRIBUTE MONEY FOR HIS BURIAL

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Family / Re: Promiscuous Dad by Amanda4life: 9:18pm On Oct 31, 2021
TELL HIM TO MARRY ANOTHER WIFE

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Politics / Re: ISIS Releases Video Of 12-year-old Terrorist Executing Two Nigerian Soldiers by Amanda4life: 9:00pm On Oct 31, 2021
IF ISISI ARE INVOLVED IN THIS MATTER.

GOVT SHOULD SETTLE THINGS AMICABLY.

BECAUSE, THE ISIS I HAVE BEEN HEARING OF HAS NEVER BACKED OUT DURING WAR.

USA CAN TESTIFY.
Politics / Re: ISIS Releases Video Of 12-year-old Terrorist Executing Two Nigerian Soldiers by Amanda4life: 8:57pm On Oct 31, 2021
AntiBMC:
It is finished.

So this is happening, yet security agents are busy, acting action film with bad scripting in idemilli, anambra state. Woe!



ISIS HAS ENTERED THIS MATTER.


IT IS FINISHED

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Romance / Re: Has A Serious Erection In Public Gotten You Into Trouble Before? (Pictures) by Amanda4life: 2:42pm On Oct 30, 2021
AmazingELixir:
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My woman told me how one man nearly pierced her skirt out of lust...one of those crazy rush hours in Lagos when workers were struggling to catch rides to convey them to work..after waiting for close to 30mins no vehicle and the traffic jam was crazy that day...and the crowd was steadily building up, a bike just came from nowhere and she was lucky enough to hop in ...ordinarily she rides alone but due to the crowd she just allowed a responsible looking man that had already jumped in to ride alongside...Omo how can after about 3 mins on commencement of the journey she started feeling a hard thrust from behind, she had to adjust forward toward the rider to create some space inbetween, within a short while the guy has consumed the space and this time the thrust was with vigour and any bump on the road the man seizes the opportunity to thrust forward,..at some point the rider oblivious of what was happening was almost on his fuel tank because of my baby's constant adjustment...got to a point she couldn't take it anymore she beckoned on the rider to stop the bike ..the rider was confused because they were still far away from their destination...she raised her voice before the rider decided to stop the bike....Oya nau, Oga wey dey back seat come down make madam drop nau...for where mr man refuse to come down oo..the rider was like " Oga come down nau make she drop" for where the man refused asking they continue the journey my poor baby girl and the okada rider had to shout at him before the man sluggishly alighted...Omo she said what greeted their sight scared not only her but the okada rider...the man's Instruments was as turgid and erect as julius Berger pillar with semen soiling his trousers.

Madam screamed and ran away to join another bike and the rider was in utter shock...she said the rider engaged the randy man on verbal attacks..people started gathering and she zoomed off with her new bike man with a vow never to board a bike with anyone else not even her fellow woman.

The undeniable truth is that some men lack control when it comes to women, some by mere sighting of a female they get erection, while some have taken it to extreme of rape and abuse even to minors...some when even standing on a cue behind the opposite sex gives them erection. Such men are victims of their own lust with total lack of self control. It's TRUE men are moved by sight but some are so wired that what they see triggers wide imagination which cuts off self control and sets in intense sexual urges.



MMMH?


GOOD TO HEAR THE TRUTH " WAYS MEN BEHAVE
Politics / Re: Osinbajo: Nigeria's Population Grows By 5 Million Annually by Amanda4life: 11:34am On Oct 28, 2021
THIS MAN DEY GO OFF SOMETIMES, WE DETALK ANOTHER THING , HIM DEY TALK ANOTHER
Politics / Re: $200 Million Mosquito Nets Loan Request Was Not From Us ― NPHCDA by Amanda4life: 11:32am On Oct 28, 2021
THEY ARE JUST USING THE POOR MASSES DEY LIE UP AND DOWN DEY COLLECT MONEY FROM ONE COUNTRY TO THE OTHER
Education / Re: Another Male Student In Tears As His Girlfriend Dumps Her (Video) by Amanda4life: 11:25am On Oct 28, 2021
OF SMALL ARE USING KAYAMATA

KAYAMATA AT WORK
Business / Re: E-Naira App Vanishes On Google Playstore Amid Poor Reviews by Amanda4life: 11:22pm On Oct 27, 2021
E-BOYS
I DEY HAIL
Family / Re: After Eviction By Brother-In-Law, Imo Court Returns Widow To Husband's House by Amanda4life: 8:34pm On Oct 27, 2021
MOST OF THEM A DIABOLICAL.

THEY WILL USE JUJU CALLED " TALK NA DO" THIS MEANS THAT EVERYTHING THEY TELL THE MAN IS WHAT HE WILL DO " THEY WILL PRETEND TO HAVE YOUR BACK. YOU WILL BEGIN TO SEE THEM AS CONFIDANT BUT last LAsT THEY WILL USE YOUR SECRET AGAINST YOU
BY THE TIME THEY HAVE FINISH KNOWING EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU. THEN THEY WILL USE SAME JUJU TO GIVE U ONE SICKNESS THAT WILL KILL U LAST LAST AFTER THAT THE WILL INHERIT EVERYTHING.
Family / Re: After Eviction By Brother-In-Law, Imo Court Returns Widow To Husband's House by Amanda4life: 8:31pm On Oct 27, 2021
MOST OF THEM A DIABOLICAL.

THEY WILL USE JUJU CALLED " TALK NA DO" THIS MEANS THAT EVERYTHING THEY TELL THE MAN IS WHAT HE WILL DO " THEY WILL PRETEND TO HAVE YOUR BACK. YOU WILL BEGIN TO SEE THEM AS CONFIDANT BUT KAS LADT THEY WILL USE YOUR SECRET AGAINST YOU
BY THE TIME THEY HAVE FINISH KNOWING EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU. THEN THEY WILL USE SAME JUJU TO GIVE U ONE SICKNESS THAT WILL KILL U LAST LAST AFTER THAT THE WILL INHERIT EVERYTHING.
Family / Re: After Eviction By Brother-In-Law, Imo Court Returns Widow To Husband's House by Amanda4life: 8:19pm On Oct 27, 2021
WICKED BROTHER INLAWS, WILL ALWAYS WANT THEIR RICH BROTHER TO DIE BEFORE THEM , SO THAT THEY CAN DEAL WITH WIFE AND INHERIT ALL THE MANS PROPERTIES
IF ANY IDIOT TRY THAT WITH ME.
I WILL USE CATAPILAR YO LEVEL ALL THE BUILDING IN THAT COMPOUND, SO THAT ALL OF US WILL START AFRESH.

THEY NEVER JAM

I SWEAR

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Politics / Re: Osinbajo: FG To Create 21million Jobs, Lift 35 Million Out Of Poverty By 2025 by Amanda4life: 8:08am On Oct 26, 2021
TheRareGem1:
Many Nigerians don't know how government works, they admin already has her plan to achieve a target over the course of years, put everything on motion, eg created a new ministry that will see to empowerment etc, nesp designed to cushion the effect of covid19 thereby seeing to the affairs of Nigerians....there add up to the target to be achieved.

FOR THE PARTY MEMBER S AND THIER RELATION S
Family / Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Amanda4life: 8:18pm On Oct 25, 2021
HE DOESN'T LIKE U.

PLs QUIT THE MaRRIAge
Family / Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Amanda4life: 8:18pm On Oct 25, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.





AUNTY U CAN QUIT BEFORE ITS TOO LATE
Celebrities / Re: Angel & Mum Mock Maria Over Husband Snatching Accusation (Videos) by Amanda4life: 8:06pm On Oct 25, 2021
MARIA IS LIKE A BIRD,
SHE DIDN'T EXPERIENCE OR SAW LOVE BETWEEN HER MUM AND DAD, THATS WHY SHE DOES NT RESPECT INSTITUTION CALLED MARRIAGE
Celebrities / Re: Angel & Mum Mock Maria Over Husband Snatching Accusation (Videos) by Amanda4life: 8:01pm On Oct 25, 2021
THAT USELESS GIRL NEEDS TO BE MOCKED. IDIOT

I JUST LIKE PERE FOR FINGERINGS, DISGRACING AND DUMPING HER.

USELESS GIRL

THAT KAYAMATA SHE USED FOR THE MAN, ANOTHER'S LADY WILL USE THE SAME KAYAMATA TO TAKE THAT MAN AWAY FROM HER.

AMEN.

SAME GOES TO ALL LADIES USING KAYAMATA ON people's HUSBAND
Celebrities / Re: BBNaija's Boma Celebrates His Relocation From Lagos Mainland To Lagos Island by Amanda4life: 8:27am On Oct 25, 2021
EACH TIME I HEAR BOMA, I TELL MY WIFE TO REMEMBER HER HIJaB
Celebrities / Re: Cubana Chief Priest Accuses BBNaija's Maria Of "Snatching His Sister’s Husband" by Amanda4life: 8:22am On Oct 25, 2021
MRDEE01:
Maybe it's the man that gave her dollars she was flashing and oppressing her fans with few days ago.

Even Iyaebe was hailing her as rich woman.

She fit don serve the man man Kayanmata.




KAYAMATA DON FINISH MARRIED ME.


KAYAMATA IN PUSSY HAS scattered MANY HOMES
Religion / Re: Why We Shut Down Synagogue Church - T.B Joshua's Widow Evelyn (Pics) by Amanda4life: 12:25pm On Oct 24, 2021
Munzy14:

This is the Faith of most wealthy men who keep their wives behind while running affairs.

If anything happens, his aides will devour everything he laboured for.

A wife is their for a reason.. Till the kids grow up to takeover.


A WIFE IS A HELPMATE THATS WHAT THE BIBLE SAID, BUT MOST MEN HAVE TURNED THEIR WIVES AS ENEMIES INDIRECTLY, BUT THE AFRICAN WIVE WILL keep COOL UNTIL, SOMETHING HAPPENS, THEN YOU WILL COME TO KNOW THAT AFRICA N WIFE GET SENSE.


MEN NO GET SENSE
Religion / Re: Why We Shut Down Synagogue Church - T.B Joshua's Widow Evelyn (Pics) by Amanda4life: 12:20pm On Oct 24, 2021
Dalil8:
Everything this man toiled for is going down the drain. So sad.

.


THIS HAPPENS WHEN YOU KEEP YOUR WIFE AT THE BACKDOORS, WHILE YOU ARE DOING BUSINESS WITH STRANGERS, THINKING THAT STRANGERS WILL HAVE YOUR BACK WHEN THE unexpected COMES.
Family / Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Amanda4life: 12:13pm On Oct 24, 2021
duyox2004:
I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.

I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.

I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��

When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.

Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �

I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �

Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! ��


ONLY IF YOU WILL CONSIDER A PROSPECT, WHO IS IN BLOCK INDUSTRY BUIZ VERY RESPONSIBLE. IBO TRIBE

THE DUDE WILL CONSIDER ADOPTING , IF NO BABY COMES.

VERY RESPONSIBLE,

CONTAcT ME
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage, Davido & Chioma At Ifeanyi Adeleke's 2nd Birthday Party by Amanda4life: 9:25am On Oct 24, 2021
AutoBodyParts:
My prayer is to celebrate my son's Birthday in Canada


Me too

Remember me oo


Just for visitation.

I won't run away because I have kids too

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