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MrBrownJay1:
This will only happen IN YOUR HEAD, but any court in this world would grant the biological father his paternal rights for visitation. If you think women can decide who has right or not, then I suggest you think again.

They BOTH have the same rights over the kid (whether sperm donor or not), being pregnant grants you nothing more. Wake up!

Keep omitting the denial part. You can think/believe whatever you want. You will never know until you are in it..

Op can go to court and try his luck.

MrBrownJay1:
So men who marry someone else than baby mama automatically loses Their paternal rights.... Bwaaaah another emotionally confused woman.



Some of you women have lost your damn mind..... Hear yourself?! A man doesn't marry you therefore he loses his paternal right?! Arrant nonsense that even the most clueless lawyer will sort out.



And here ladies and gentleman is where we understand how emotionally deranged some women can be. Read how this lady believes that because a man has a new wife and kid, and she has only "their" child, therefore having visitation right would "take away her only source of Joy. HAHAHAHAHAHA!
Here is a clue: because its his PATERNAL RIGHT
to see his kid.



Should he lie to accommodate an emotionally deranged woman, instead of letting her accept her situation



Nonsense from hypocrite women who now say its OK for dads to abandon their children, for their selfish agenda. NO man should abandon their kids, whether he has 20more children or not.

You think just donating sperm automatically qualifies you as the child's father? If he was never there from the beginning of the pregnancy especially if there was a denial, then he has no right whatsoever upon the child except the mother decides otherwise.

You were not matured at 26 to father a child, what happened when you became matured? You settled for another woman. Now you are here sounding like a broken record.

The truth is, you have no right over that child. Friendship does not own a child especially if you denied the child upon conception. She battled the pregnancy alone and suddenly you reappeared from no where seeking rights. Like someone rightly said, you are just a sperm donor, live with it.

You have your wife and daughter, why then do you want to take away her only source of joy? Like you wrote, she may never get married again. Why are you reminding her of a past she choose to bury as if the child is not enough reminder, you want to add insult to injury by being selfish and wicked..

My advice to you op, sire sons with your wife and leave the baby mama and her child alone. No body can help you in this case, not even the courts. Unless she decides to let you close or the boy grows up and ask for his father. Until then, live with your loss.

Tiffbuxas:
I love boys.... The way we process can be scary a times... Buh it's fun @ d end... Abegg op I can't help you in this madness spree but I can refer you to a very power naturalist doctor his name is Dr okpaka1.. If you want any assistance but physical and otherwise he's potent enough to render you impotent so that you don't produce another disaster like yourself

Hahahahahaha this cracked me up real bad...

The op is indeed a mad man

Lolx! I can relate. You tend to think more' than feel.. You keep finding flaws where there's possibly none for a normal person...

Am a woman, to some extent I don't like it. Am trying to beat it, so help me God

tollyboy5:
Thank God people like you are from delta state if not of tribalism delta state governor should try and associate with Lagos state people because the state has more potentials than PH but they would be chanting Biafra . misplaced priority when the youth were bombing many of my delta friends were not happy but my Igbo friends were expressing satisfaction yet instead of moving with developed state you'll see them saying we are not Yoruba's. see Lagos kebbi collaboration that SS ana SE would not have agreed on if it were them. nothing is too late you are the one to develop your state your future is in your hands your are still among the richest just use Lagos state strategy to generate more revenue then you'll see Lagos and delta planning light rail connection

You must be a very useless and tribalistic fellow! What concern igbos/se with the lack of development in delta? Or Igbo are now their leader? What is wrong with you Yorubas that you can't seem to face a topic without robbing in south east into it??

Your mischievousness can very well be seen, posing as a friend while you true intentions is to cause trouble between both parties.. You are nothing but a pitiable miserable being who thinks that another person's struggle is the reason for your failure..

Op, for the record, if your nice thread is turned to a war zone, you know who to direct your anger at..

I spit on your pettiness

Elkay3:
You're right. It doesn't matter the situation, for me, I just don't swear. I've had situations in which people be like "just do it since we all know you're not guilty". [b]If you believe I didn't do whatever it was, then why should I swear? If you have no doubt that I did it, again, why should I swear anyway? I[/b]t's simple as that.

At the bolded, exactly. Whatever you believe, you believe wether I did it or not...

jakeboss:
but d man wont have beat her if she just take the oath if she didnt it means shes guilty marriage is not relationship dat u can walk away. I wish we be friend I like how u typed

What if her faith is against swearing to a deity? There are other ways to go about it.. What if it's a conspiracy between the man and the juju man to either kill her or make her mad? Haven't you seen such??

I will rather have a divorce than swear to a useless deity, guilty or not..

jakeboss:
did I know pains my ex put me thru a girl I neva sex for 2 yrs I was savin her for myself to take on weddin nite

I too have had my own share of pain, does that justify me subjecting the next guy that comes my way to unnecessary suspicion and useless oath?? If you thread that path then hardly will any r/ship work for you..

It takes a strong heart to be in a r/ship, if you can't stand what may eventually follow, don't even start one.. It won't always be rosy

Omojudy:
Good thing u took the decision early than late.

Am telling you, it wasn't funny at all

jakeboss:
cos u never proof ur luv to him

That's your kind of person, nothing your woman does ever satisfies you...

By proving my love I should disconnect everyone I've known before him including my family members and never have friends.. Even with that, your type will never be satisfied..

Perhaps until I put a rope around my neck and hang my self for him that's when he will know that my love have been proved..

Rubbish

Elkay3:
There's no need to swear with any oracle. If he doesn't trust her,seek for divorce, no amount of swearing would change that. It can only postpone his suspicion about her.

Or they seat down with open mind and discuss.

This is so true!! No matter how well you try to prove your innocence, they will never believe you..

Who knows, the man may even want her dead or insane there by planning with the juju man to make her guilty even though she's innocent..

Any man that tries to subject me to such will be out of my life with no second thought.. I no fit shout

jakeboss:
simple did u cheat on him

No I did not...

Such guys with low self esteem usually have trust issues, I won't have any man subject me to silly oat bcz of his low self esteem...

I won't give a man such privilege, if he can't trust me then that's his problem not mine...

Even common Facebook comments na problem, any guy that comments nicely on my post is already my lover...

jakeboss:
hmmm

See them... Why not lay a trap to catch her if you suspect she's cheating Why subject her to such cruelty??

Very useless, silly and unfortunate being of a man... Such men are overly jealous and annoyingly suspicious.. Every man that greets you is your boy friend and every of your female friends are linking you up with a man...

I once had a boyfriend like that, it got to a point he started saying I should swear if I've ever cheated on him I was like, what the Bleep is wrong with these nigga I had to dump his silly ass before he kills me with his low self esteem..

You can never be happy with such men no matter how much you love them, they will always kill your joy with their useless suspicion and nagging.. That one almost gave me hbp...

Op you think that is a sympathetic story!! Wait till you hear mine...

She's even sitting in one place to sell

This dude is clearly sick... He needs help

jhudit:
Before your Nigerian boyfriend uses you as WhatsApp dp, just know he has blocked like 10 girls.

This is soooo true and the mumu girl will be jumping that he used her pic as dp

Why are the mods deleting the comments na the whole comments on page two was deleted.... Abi una no want mk we talk for wetin the show us


Going by these pics and the last beach party, it's safe to conclude that romance section is filled with kids...

I don talk am come and beat me

Women should make their marriage work at all cost blah blah blah... As if a tree can make a forest.. Nonsense..

If you like, chase all the women, drink your self to stupor then come home and turn her to punching bag and expect her to stay bcz she's a woman... As if the cheating is not bad enough..

ToriBlue:
AS wey full everywhere.

Lolx well, am AA and so is every member of my family and mostly people I've come across hence, my reason for the conclusion.

For me I believe AA is the most common as I hardly come across AS..

distilledwalex:
I wonder wetin dey worry our mod this days.. See loads of crappy post in front page.. I think they usually do this of their own..if not youll see loads of educative post that never made it to the FP... Mod wey dey do this kind thing no fit make heaven. .. And here we go dey, dey complain about our leaders. . aving said that.. No amount of childish post like this can make me denounce my love for huge mammary gland... God knows i love them HUGE

Honestly Nl mods never seize to disappoint..

At the bolded that's why the op is loosing sleep over it seems a huge boobs babe took her man

And a mod pushed this crap filled with kids comments and bragadocious low lives to front page how disappointing I know fp has gone to the dogs but for gods sake, must it be bingo!!!

As for the op of this thread, your post reeks of nothing but jealousy and envy, how do you know all these when you aren't the one carrying the boobs?? Your intention was to mock and never to educate, you couldn't give a single advice as to how the effects you mentioned could be managed..

Pls, stop hating before you choke on jealousy allow the carriers and men who droll over big boobs to complain.

Is cv needed for the ushering job?

Op source pls!

May God grant him eternal rest amen

Scary

Lolx all these church brothers claiming God fearing never seize to amaze me..

That how I met one that is claiming minister, he even had communion and communion wine in his fridge yet he was trying to sleep with me barely two days we met claiming he love me as if that is an automatic ticket to sex. I just dey shake my head..

To the topic, op, your life is your own no one is going to live with her but you.. Search your heart and find the answer therein.

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