oviejnr:
Why are you so quick to insult?? I see you didnt read my post carefully before jumping on my ass, i condemned domestic violence totally before i stated my opinion. Theres another side of the story which you have to figure out yourself, she knows the kind of man she got married to and he must be traditionalist to have asked her to swear on Juju. Thats why most marriages fail, people just want to get married but they arent prepared for the storms that come after. Mutual agreement on religious beliefs should be considered before marriage.

Elkay3:
There's no need to swear with any oracle. If he doesn't trust her,seek for divorce, no amount of swearing would change that. It can only postpone his suspicion about her.

Or they seat down with open mind and discuss.

oviejnr:
Why are you so quick to insult?? I see you didnt read my post carefully before jumping on my ass, i condemned domestic violence totally before i stated my opinion. Theres another side of the story which you have to figure out yourself, she knows the kind of man she got married to and he must be traditionalist to have asked her to swear on Juju. Thats why most marriages fail, people just want to get married but they arent prepared for the storms that come after. Mutual agreement on religious beliefs should be considered before marriage.

Benwems:

true talk. most girls these days are cheats. They hide under the fallacy of trust me and i can't swear to commit infidelity.

AmazingElla:


No I did not...

Such guys with low self esteem usually have trust issues, I won't have any man subject me to silly oat bcz of his low self esteem...

I won't give a man such privilege, if he can't trust me then that's his problem not mine...

Even common Facebook comments na problem, any guy that comments nicely on my post is already my lover...

AmazingElla:
Very useless, silly and unfortunate being of a man... Such men are overly jealous and annoyingly suspicious.. Every man that greets you is your boy friend and every of your female friends are linking you up with a man...

I once had a boyfriend like that, it got to a point he started saying I should swear if I've ever cheated on him I was like, what the Bleep is wrong with these nigga I had to dump his silly ass before he kills me with his low self esteem..

You can never be happy with such men no matter how much you love them, they will always kill your joy with their useless suspicion and nagging.. That one almost gave me hbp...

lozanni:


It's possible that she don collect, but if she is your sister, will you advise her to take such an oath, without knowing its real intended purpose?
That husband belongs to the pre-historic period and I will advise the lady to quit such relationship.

Snow5:


I can buy you crates of beer in one sitting.... But I wont drink a drop...

You know why?...

That's cos beer is bitter and it's useless to me!!!


So you see? Not every parable applies to everyone!!!

jakeboss:
cos u never proof ur luv to him

gypsey:
in your case it's different you want to stay healthy by not drinking beer perhaps.

gypsey:
in your case it's different you want to stay healthy by not drinking beer perhaps.

Omojudy:

Good thing u took the decision early than late.

AmazingElla:


That's your kind of person, nothing your woman does ever satisfies you...

By proving my love I should disconnect everyone I've known before him including my family members and never have friends.. Even with that, your type will never be satisfied..

Perhaps until I put a rope around my neck and hang my self for him that's when he will know that my love have been proved..

Rubbish

oviejnr:
Some men are cruel, say no to domestic violence. But i no see big deal for this matter, You too goan swear now or you don collect?? Sometimes you do somethings not because you want to do them but you want peace to reign.

AmazingElla:


That's your kind of person, nothing your woman does ever satisfies you...

By proving my love I should disconnect everyone I've known before him including my family members and never have friends.. Even with that, your type will never be satisfied..

Perhaps until I put a rope around my neck and hang my self for him that's when he will know that my love have been proved..

Rubbish

gabinogem:
who tell u say na everybody wey dey drink beer no dey healthy!?

jakeboss:
did I know pains my ex put me thru a girl I neva sex for 2 yrs I was savin her for myself to take on weddin nite

countsparrow:



Don't mind the ill mannered fellow, when fools dont have reasonable things to contribute, the result to insults...

AmazingElla:


I too have had my own share of pain, does that justify me subjecting the next guy that comes my way to unnecessary suspicion and useless oath?? If you thread that path then hardly will any r/ship work for you..

It takes a strong heart to be in a r/ship, if you can't stand what may eventually follow, don't even start one.. It won't always be rosy

crackerspub:
hahahaha i swear woman matter worse pass HIV


There is no smoke without fire



Just don't put your mind on women because no easy way to death



Its left for her to cheat or not to cheat



A faithful wife will always be faithful no matter what



there is no smoke without fire, just focus on the kids not on the woman hahahaha

GloriaNinja:
WHO MARRIAGE EPP THESE DAYS? NOBODY.

HaneefahRN:


Mttcheew, women should be the ones saying this.


Some men are crazy ordinary seeing their wife greet another man even while he is there means she is dating him.

dee02:
Men who beat or lay hands on women dont deserve heaven!
Walahi.

jakeboss:
but d man wont have beat her if she just take the oath if she didnt it means shes guilty marriage is not relationship dat u can walk away. I wish we be friend I like how u typed

AmazingElla:


What if her faith is against swearing to a deity? There are other ways to go about it.. What if it's a conspiracy between the man and the juju man to either kill her or make her mad? Haven't you seen such??

I will rather have a divorce than swear to a useless deity, guilty or not..

GloriaNinja:
Marriage is over-rated