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ImaIma1:
Many of them are strangers to their families but friends with their phones

True talk

ChristineC:
I suppose you are speaking from experience

Of others yes

Are they even good at sex, Forget romance some african men do not know how to relate with their wives and children.
They just believe that paying school fees and houserent makes them good husbands and fathers.

They are rarely there for their family even when at home to relate or communicate with the family is a problem.
The only thing they are good at is to behave like lenin at home.

Before it was Ghana must go now it is Nigeria must go

5thElement:
Who are the they? Catholic priests or humanity?

Quite easy to point accusing fingers when our own faults and failings are well hidden from public gaze, right?

focus on the issue at hand nobody is without sin I agree.They should stop abusing young boys

Indispensable85:
Buhari will win in NW,NE,SW.
Atiku will win in SS,SE.
Both candidates will share votes in NC.
Atiku looks good in Plateau and Benue.
Buhari looks good in Niger and Kwara.
Kogi and Nasarawa too close to call.
However whoever wins in NC, will do so with little margin.

My thoughts too.
I am not supporting Buhari but I feel he would win.

SternProphet:
Buhari by landslide

He would win but I believe it would be a close call.

hardbody:
13. They are home reading and typing on NL, watching developments on telly and sipping cold beer or kunu, knowing that the election will be won by the best rigger and in any case, the contestants are not deserving to even lead or manage a professional football team. So why waste time, energy or even resources

Truer words have never been spoken it is the uunfortunate reality we find ourselves in.

haladadon:
na so wey Linda ikeji been dey form feminism till them pregnant am abandoned her with the baby.

when you claim you're too wise. you get fooled by your (insert word here)

Spare me the crap.
This Linda ikeji example you lots give on this forum is becoming stale.I am not her so forward your grievances to her.Look for something new and better to counter my argument.If you have none don't quote me.
And your post makes no sense in relation to my earlier comment

OkaNaUbe:
Bia, talk ya own. Hippocampus

While trying to defend yourself do well to spell hippopotamus or is that one still hard for you?

Nobody owns a man or woman

OkaNaUbe:
Father owns mother, husband owns wife

Trash,everyone is a free born and is not a slave to be owned by anyone. A woman is not a man's appendage and vice versa.
Instead of answering the question you had to show your male chauvinism.That is how people fail exams.
Your post belongs here

SAMBARRY:
nahhh.you're still in fantasy land.your head is above the cloud,in lala land my dear

You don't know me so stop assuming you do.
You are actually the one in fantasy land for thinking you do know me and our realities are different

SAMBARRY:
I hope you learn to be realistic as you choose and grow your career this 2019

Realistic is my middle name.
I actually am and would continue to be realistic.
We all have experiences and our experiences are a part of our reality and realistic view point.

I hope sambarry reads this
So that she would not discourage women who want to enter politics.

mogbojaiye:
Madam go and manage ur family, ,,if u husband kw fucke u well u go do face like agege bread evrybody for that office na war them go hear,if monthly menstrual period show na every body go kw say u day pass tru something and somany other shite I can't even list


Lady go and take care of ur household bye bye

Cave man.
Anyway you only have one vote it changes nothing and women in Nigeria and beyond would continue to seek for political power and there is nothing you can do about it.

OGHENAOGIE:
idols of cave mentality is really hard to school..so dora,okonjo,ezekwesili,amina Mohammed,nobe Nigeria dem function...hw well have d men perform...u need to read and have an open mind u hear...liberia had a female president and she did well hand over too...if we have female principals vice chancellors CEO of establishment and de ae doing well in Nigeria Wat is d big deal in Nigeria leadership

Do not waste your time with that primitive fellow.

SAMBARRY:
I don't care who is controlling who in her marriage. That's her and her husband's issues but my own is that women cannot handle power.look at the women in leadership positions for example that aren't even governors or local government chairmen, look at how domineering, overbearing, caustic and temperamental they are. The day they have pre menstrual syndrome, na everybody go feel the heat for office

The day Mr husband no fok am for 3days,every surbodinate will feel the heat,not to now talk of female president

Take for example buhari walked into House of assembly, people were booing him,he handled it, I remembered when jona was in power. I know how mama peace was misbehaving up and down

I remembered a governors wife that evicted a pastor out of his house because he didn't give her priority in church. Mind you these are just 1st ladies that are so power intoxicated. Imagine they're now Presidents?

I use the heavens to beg you.
If you want to discourage yourself do it.Do not discourage young women who dream of becoming influential and holding power into thinking it is a bad thing.
Both men and women can become domineering and mismanagement power.It is not a gender thing do do not generalise
I would rather advise that you encourage women to break the glass ceilings rather than take us backward with your way of thinking.
Sometimes statements like yours make me believe the popular saying that women are their own enemies

hpretty:
More beautiful, well educated, powerful, wealthy, good character women joyfully took their husband's name.
So, who are you?
That is how it has always been.

Advice: Don't marry any man you feel you can not bear his name.

Let us hear word Jooor.She is a human being and has every right to whatever identity she wants to answer and there are powerful influential women who did not take their spouses last name.
Do you even know the origin of surnames?who told you it has always been like that?Nothing is static it can always change.In some countries the children bear both parents surnames.And there is no law forcing a woman to bear her husbands last name.
Whether a woman chooses to answer her spouses last name or not she has every right to get married.

MrBrownJay1:
Any person who allows themselves to be "bought" or paid for (like a common object), should therefore accept that they've become that person's property, whether male or female.

So as much as I don't believe in this bride price BS, I certainly can understand why some men believe they OWN their spouse.....and demand to be refunded if that same spouse don't act as they (the buyer) deem fit.

I agree.Hence why I believe that the bride price of a thing or list in a traditional wedding is a business transaction.Which in my opinion should not be encouraged.