₦airaland Forum

victrick105:
Yes I agree,
But women caged themselves more than the society caged them.

I believe you are right at the bolded.Because even in this century some women have refused to empower themselves and change from the status quo.It was nice discussing with you devoid of insults.Have a blessed day.

victrick105:
Nobody is telling any woman how to live her live, the point her is that women Relegated themselves, while men were at the forefront; making breakthroughs in science and politics, nobody made a rule that women should not be given a chance... Look at your history chat for example, fewer women than men made ground breaking discoveries, except for a few like love lace Ada, the rule of the society is that respect and status increases the more you contribute to the society, from where I come from, respect is earned and it's not something you dish out like a plate of food, the fewer women who did extraordinary things got equal recognition like there male counterparts, women like Queen Victoria, Ada love lace, Marie Curie, Hillary Clinton and Co earned there respect... But this days, even an instagram twerker is playing feminist and begging for respect... We don't beg for respect, we earn respect.

Truth is women were caged back then.
And are currently being liberated.
And I agree with you respect is earned.
Good night.

junnyjake:
You read my post with a preconceived notion of what I was trying to imply, that's not cool.

Who's worrying for the lady's choice? Didn't you read where I was wishing her luck finding someone, who agrees to her terms?

Okay bye.
You need not tell me about your plans with your future wife whether or not she answers your name I didn't ask you

junnyjake:
Great, let her hold on to that philosophy tightly and never let go under any circumstance, while she waits for the man that would accept her marriage terms, as for me, you're taking my name as my wife.

You can tell that to the woman you marry and if she agrees no problem but forcing her.You are stepping out of bounds.
If you are so interested in the surname to be uniform you can change yours to hers it is not a crime.
You need not worry for the lady a man that shares her ideas would come.She has every right to choose what she wants.

victrick105:
With all due respect to chimamanda and Kim Kardashian and Co, I don't place them in the same league as Hillary and Curie

I don't care the main issue is are they successful in their fields yes or no?...

Greatness get level, this women are celebrated world wide and still manage to know that family should not be messed with.

The likes of chimamanda and the other famous women who refuse to bear their spouses names did not say that family should be messed with...

If you notice, it irrelevant people who make a storm out of a tea cup, a busy mind doesn't have time for silly thoughts like this

Who told you this?under the law no one is irrelevant we all have what is of important and less concern to us.[/quote],

it's as if u are at war with men, the last name of your name should not be bothering you if u have better things to think of

..Your name is your identity so keeping it or not is an important thing to think of.

Pls I am a supporter of womens right and I believe in equal rights, but modern day feminist seem to hold a grudge against men and have completely misunderstood the real essence of feminism

I am not questioning you on that? Feminism is the liberation of women from patriarchy and change of surname or not is a part of it.Nobody is missing anything in sone countries women keep their surnames and the children bear both parents surnames.

fights for womens right, and I don't see how a womans last name has any thing to do with her rights. It's just for easier identity and status in the society.

It does because women have rights to choose whether or not to keep it and freedom of identification is a right for humans.Every individual has a right to choose you do not categorise or tell liberated women what is of relevance to them.And it is a part of womens rights.

babyfaceafrica:
her problem...when there are millions of orphans and less privileged people around, you are buying car of 102million for a child less than one?...issorite..even dangote cannot be this stupid and senseless!!

In as much as I believe in giving to the less privilege.It is her hard earned money so she should spend it as she sees fit. Who knows if she even helps the under privilege.

@topic,Linda should come and born me

JJOF:
Why dnt ladies pay GROOMprice?

If ladies say they want to pay groom price.
Majority of you men would say it is unafrican and not your culture.
Besides no price should be paid on anybody.
Because some men managed to pay 50 naira bride price on their wives does not give them the right to treat them any how.

victrick105:
Marie currie kept her husbands name and still continued making scientific breakthroughs even after her husbands death, Hillary Clinton still bears her husbands name and is a force to reckon with in the world of politics...so many great women never raised such silly points, but this days the internet has given every irrelevant individual the voice to spew trash, it's troubling to see that the feminist of this days are more of anti men than fighters of women's rights

Chimamanda and Co that did not change their own names after marriage.
Are they not still successful and breaking glass ceilings.It has nothing to do with your success story.
Change of name is a choice and not a must.

The attire is beautiful and it fits her

She is beautiful.
I just need the jewelry
It is usually Indians that wear such type of jewelry so beautiful.

swave7:
Useless entitled lousy ąss pûssy. You're just good for nothing these modern times, forming slay queen everywhere, nothing upstairs. Filthy creatures!

Oozuuoo .
Do you have to insult your ancestors to prove you are a nincompoop

So informative,nice thread

Luizkid:
Pls add'SIN'..

Nonsense.

Abortions:
How about HOE

Go and invent it na is anyone stopping you. ?
You may just be the first transgender person to invent such since you are so interested.

Daeylar:
For the first paragraph that will contain the monicker,
This here that looks like a message notification,
(Circled in red in the first screenshot)
press it at the last word at the end of the sentence you want to quote, it gives you this.
{

That's all.


Then for the rest of the persons post, just select from the beginning of wherever you want you to break up, {third screenshot}
when it's selected then press the symbol again
{Last screenshot}


And you're done

Thank you so much
You are a darling.

Daeylar:
And I stand by it. any problem?

So he should be able to try to make an innocent woman's life miserable just because it would be best for him? So it's OK for people to make your life miserable because it is best for them?
Hmmm, Good to know.

So you see nothing wrong in what he said? No wonder.

Seems you are also praying for a menopausal lady who can't bear children to marry you, so you can cheat on her while she desperately tries to please you just to get you to stay faithful. Stressing and tormenting the poor innocent lady just for your pleasure
The wickedness of men.

And if sadism and lack of common sense had a face, it would be yours. (And the clown who made the original post)

Misogynist like you, is there any other word you guys know apart from bitter?

Common gerrarahere

Deaylar please how do you do this?
How do you shorten his post and quote him little by little in details rather than altogether.

Sheflex4real:
ohh easy

Waiting for the proof

As for the one who said he is yoruba that is why he is a Nigerian what of those children born in America and Europe and identify themselves as citizens even though none of their parents are Americans or Europeans.

I agree with Falzl I am human first then a Nigerian before anything we need to stop dividing ourselves along ethnic and religious lines.

Gecoz:
So na im b ecile I dey quote, sorry oh..

It takes one to know one.
Get out boy.

Sheflex4real:
I totally agree with you...

But

If you don't thinks Women are design to be more Emotional than Men, then clearly you know absolutely nothing about Human being as a Specie.





ohh and for the record I can prove it.

Please prove it.While doing that define emotional and logical and tell me if any is gender specific.
You have the floor.

This is nice.
But trust Africans to believe it is witches and wizards of the marine Kingdom that are worrying them.

Sheflex4real:
[s]Naturally Women are Emotional, while Men are Logical. So Technically Women are bound to be more Jealous than Men because jealousy speaks to emotion.[/s].....

Who is telling you these lies?
Do you know what it means to be logical and emotional ?

Being emotional and logical runs in both genders.
Stop generalising what you cannot factually prove.

Bamibor:
Succinct, objective and veracious comments.
You couldn't have said it better.

Thank you

swave7:
Bïtch stfu, fúck you know bout football? Getcha ąss in the kitchen & pound fufu

I know a lot more than you in football.
So run along to the kitchen where you belong and pound fufu for yourself.

Gecoz:
This one na confused fellow... Like say u grow up with them or like say u be their friend.. oloshi

Quiet dude what's your problem?

Emceesaka:
God will continue to bless you in knowledge and every other things you need. Basically the truth

Thank You

Messi is a GOAT.
He has been compared to many greats in football not CR7.
He doesn't need to leave Barcelona he is a legend.
I love CR7 more than Messi in many things but in football I give it to Messi.
CR7 himself would have left Madrid to a bottom place club in serie A so as for him to help them make the top four but he went to Juventus an already made team that would win the league with or without him.

waldigit:
There must be social security system, anchored around Agriculture and allied industry. Especially for children, youth and elderly. We need contributions of specialists such as agric economics, regional planners,agric engineers. I have spoken from professional point of view. We many clueless people in our developmental decision making.

@bold it us unfortunate but Nigerians blindly continue to vote these clueless people because of 3000 naira and bag of rice etc shared to them on election season.
Thanks for your input.

LordsApostle:
God bless you for this, wish I could kiss you!!! I have complained about this, over and over, it have cried, I'm now going psycho cause of this; it is so so bad!!! So bad..
This ideology is not just limited to the youths, even older Nigerians, making money at the expense of others, so you go build big house in the village, even with the blood of others... So terrible

I am the Op I am serving a ban with the monicker you mentioned.
Awwwn thank you let me kiss you too
It is a menace slowly and unfortunately eating into our society.

Nice one and I am the Op you quoted.I am serving a ban.

jaxxy:
Thank you for this. The get Rich Mentality is a plague and ultimately a curse. Our politicians sadly created and feed this ignoble and dark syndrome by stealing public funds and getting away with it whilst doing nothing credible in office.

Is that not stealing, Corprate/political armed robbery? They set the bad examples to the yahoo boys who now defraud and in their minds believe there is nothing wrong with it... The Get Rich Quick Syndrome.

Also our social and moral mindset has been distorted and turned on it head. In civil climes criminals are not celebrated no matter what, if the source of ur wealth is questionable u cannot be a public figure worthy of praise from govt or credible quarters. U are always seen as a blacksheep of society even if u have billions cos the source of ur wealth is public knowledge.


Anybody whose wealth cannot be explained is shady not worthy of public praise so as not to encourage shady practices and crime.

We have a FAILED SYSTEM unable to effectively discourage social vices. The solution is to evolve positively by upholding the right values in society and Govt or else we will go nowhere and achieve nothing significant.

Thank you

LordsApostle:
Majority of the problem we have comes from these religious houses, even the religious leaders are also out for same goal an average Nigerian youth has, for them they care less on how the money comes, what's more important to them is for them to bring money into the church, so them(religious heads) can also build big houses at their villages and live in affluence, that's all that matters to them as well, not dignity in labour or value system. That's why you see them giving from seats and prestigious positions to politicians and other influential People, and care less about legitimate individuals with legitimate means.

KOPT33:
@Ladyhippolyta88 -- is this true? This is a very weighty allegation. Are you a sex worker?

Nope.
The guy should post the picture and whatever with valid facts.
He is a nasty troll seeking relevance and I don't find it funny.
I am the Op I am serving a ban.
I am not an hypocrite.
Even the site the idiot claims he saw my profile.I do not belong to such platform.

Obaofusa:
I swear I can expose her if she dares talk rubbish

I am the Op,
I got banned please expose me.
With valid proof of who I am and what I do?
Ai am not an hypocrite Mr man do respect yourself. And stop being childish. Funny enough I am not on that platform. I am sure Kopt33 is waiting for you to prove your allegations

JjBankys:
I still don't understand ooo sorry

For your message area when you tap on change color what ever shows in any of the colors you click.Replicate it on your signature or try to copy the format in a book or something and replicate it on your signature.Exactly the way it is.I don't know how else to explain.

JjBankys:
how did you add colours (difference ones on your signature )how did you do it? Could like to know as well.

Same thing the way it is written on your message area apply it on your signature.If you want red.on the message area after you tap on change color tap red it what it shows you replicate it on your signature .e.g red you would see [color = # 990000](write what you want in the middle)[/Color ] this would give you red I didn't join it together so that you can understand but when doing yours ensure that you join it together so as for it to work on your signature.It is the same format for any color you want but note that the number for red is for red only same thing applies to the other colors try to replicate how it is shown in your message area when you tap any of the colors replicate it on your signature it would work.If you don't understand it and couldn't get it mention me again and I would try to explain in simpler terms.