justwise:

Fear this religious minitant

justwise:


Say that to amebo no1. She read it upside down

davidylan:

I'm a man . . . na so we dey start small small. You dont tell a woman to move in with you outright. It starts with leaving her hairbrush, one spare set of tooth brush, a pair of pyjamas, one shoe . . . before you know it she's moved in fully.

IFELEKE:

You dated for just 2 months and the next thing on your mind is to pack gradually into his house?
Well, you can(if you wish) but don't come back here crying.

davidylan:

After only 2 months?

Firstly - NEVER EVER leave with a man who hasnt married you. The probability he will marry you later is closer to zero.

Secondly - Once you start living with him, say bye bye to your self-respect and dignity.

tpiah:

its more convenient for him.

and you get to feel special.


na today?

ThoniaSlim:

Personally I won't advice any lady in her right sense to move into the house of a Man she's not married too. . .Period!

eina:

seems you cant read again abi? I said my girl first slept over,  ;meaning the first time she slept over.

Feelitx:

I can say for a fact that only a man who really adores you will allow you drop any piece of female clothings in his house.

eina:

this is total nonsense to me!!! i dont see anything wrong when a girl sleeps in her mans house in a 2 months old relationship. infact theres still nothing wrong if it happened 2 weeks into the relationship. it depends on how fast the guy makes the girl very free, confident and relaxed with him. my girl first slept over in my house in 3 weeks and I didnt call her a LovePeddler so why should i call the one that slept over in 2 months a LovePeddler? about leaving the clothes behind, how is it supposed to be a problem? the guy said that so whenever the girl decides to come again she would be saved the inconvinence of carry her clothes. thats it for me.

Feelitx:

Amebo: I thought you were female.What do you know about a man's emotions?

justwise:

Meaning u don't know what u are going on about, every rela/ship is not the same. asking her to leave his cloths does not mean moving in. To many rela/ship, 2 months is a long time, so asking her indirectly to move in after 2months does not mean he is irresponsible

shezy:


i even told him maybe i will change job,even if i change how am i sure it wouldn't be worst?

justwise:

u are speaking double dutch.

ashaby:


@sugarfoot
Dont u dare blame the man, who go see awuf wen no go chop?

Feelitx:

He obviously is beginning to get into you. No man does that if you don't have a special place in his heart.

JJYOU:

it is not worth it. you are bigger than this and i suggest you choose a better cause and fight.

you know better than this.

shezy:


their was a day he beat me cause of this issue later he apologise through message that he was sorry that i know the cause of everything
though he is a very nice guy and i[b] know he really loves me[/b],if a guy loves a girl you will definitely know that.i know he loves me and he is very caring,his family are very nice as well but this issue in my relationship is killing
pls what can i do?i know you all understand more than my explanations
and don;t mind my English pls we are all learning
I'm really in love with this guy and i don't want to loose him

kindly advice

lechatte:


She is having sex with her sister's husband and says she is in love with him. What they are doing right now is horrible but if he was married to her, it will become legal. You can pretend it doesn't make sense or you can see it with your eyes wide open like I'm doing. Who better to be a second wife than a sister? If she doesn't want to marry him, then she should pack out of that house like she should have done at the first hint that Oga was interested in her.

omotf:

Landwin and Amebo no1 why are you people washing your linen publicly,obviously you know each other,why can't you people settle your scores privately rather than embarrassing your self publicly.please stop this nonsense

JJYOU:

why do you dignify this person? you are smarter than this.

michelin89:

Does that include women? Coz I don't remember ever bleeping her!

landwin:



It's your mom that got raped,you idiot,you should be seeing a Neurosurgeon after being Zap.e.d up by every user in this forum,clit.

ifyalways:

are u even a lady or just one she?
Face scrubs and masks. . .u can put that at nite.How long does it take u to apply a lotion,mosituriser and cream?u have to go through her list again.
abeg,carry go jare.
Plus,who cares abt when u wake up?u can as well jump out of ur house without a bath.which work do u do that warrants u leaving ur house at 5:30 am?the last time i checked,even Bus-conductors and molue drivers dont leave that early abi u dey trek from Oshodi to Obalende?
awon were mushin. 

She confessed that she has two cards but managed to show her husband one and concealed the other incase of any eventuality

Any Time Money (ATM) banking is a break through that has brought revolution into modern banking services in Nigeria as it remains one of the fastest means of accessing cash from the banks.

ATM gives one direct access to quick cash. But, the secrecy attached to it has become a new test of trust on the part of couples.

How many married men and women can trust or reveal to their beloved partners the secret code which guarantees access?

http://nigeriafilms.com survey on this issue reveals the strategies which couples have adopted in handling cash cards.

Bright, a banker said he cannot in the name of love or trust reveal the secret number of his ATM cards to his wife. He predicated his stand on the banking law which prohibits any customer holding the card to reveal the confidential code numbers to any person.

“I can’t quote or reveal the serial number no matter how much I love my wife because the banking policy prohibits such exposition, to any third party and that is why you are warned not to show it to even staff of the bank, he said.

He said the risk involved in such exposition is great and in the event of any eventuality, it becomes difficult to get who could be responsible.

Evangelist Nduka however said because a husband and wife are being viewed as one by the Bible, there is suppose to be enough love and trust amongst couples to guarantee proper handling of such confidentiality.

“ I will not fail to show my wife the secret code so that she too can go and withdraw money with it for the family, especially when I don’t have the time to do so,” he stated.

The clergy said his wife knows all the account numbers because the money belongs to the family where both the man and the woman are the major stakeholders.

“So even if I hold multiple ATM cards, nothing stops me from showing or entrusting her with the code number with which I can withdraw cash from the banks,” he maintained.

Price Emmanuel Ogba, a business man also believes that couples should share such confidential matters with one another because of the high level of trust and love that bound them together.

“I shall reveal the number to my wife based on the natural love and trust I have for her and I believe that she will be responsible about it.”

Beatrice, a trader who has been married for past 22 years said as a wife, it is expected that she should be submissive to her husband by Africa tradition and biblical injunction.

“I have two cash cards and my husband knows the secret code numbers, and a times he goes to the bank to check my account and to make withdrawals when occasion demand,” she submitted.

Beatrice said she never entertained any fear of the husband trying to act funny about it in any way, because she trusts him.

But for Onengia, a legal practitioner, showing your spouse the secret code of your cash card is not a way of showing that you love or trust her.

He expressed fear of the implication of betrayal by some wives that may wish to be smart as they will take undue advantage of such opportunity to defraud the man.

If you consider the story of Delilah in the bible and other such painful experiences from women, you cannot trust a wife with such things,” he said.

Grace, a journalist and a wife said, showing such a cash card to your spouse depends on how one trust his or her partner.

“If you think your partner is that trustworthy, then you can reveal it to him. If not, it would be foolish to show him because in this men-controlled world, most husbands would begin to claim ownership of the money as they claim to own the woman.

She confessed that she has two cards but managed to show her husband one and concealed the other incase of any eventuality.

Similar opinion was expressed by Mr. Christmas, a transporter based in Port Harcourt. According to him, he decided to operate several accounts most of which are not known by his wife.

He said as long as he lives up to his family responsibilities as a man and husband, he does not believe that showing her your credit card confidential number is necessary.

He concluded that at worst he can. reveal the number of some of the accounts and cards codes to her but would still keep the rest to himself as the head of the family.

Another respondent Mr Inko-Taria is a bit different. He is a polygamist and would not imagine what would make him to reveal such confidential things to his wives.

Inko- Taria who has three wives explained that revealing the numbers to one of the wives would stir up serious misunderstanding amongst her mates and that would creat bad blood.

“I can’t expose to any of them the secret numbers and I cannot even discuss that with my wives because of its dangerous implications,” he said.

He said life is full of several disappointing experiences where one partner could spring surprises that make the man look like a fool because he was trusting a woman.

According to him, such a situation calls for extreme caution on the part of the man but accepted that the wives are supposed to show all their secret codes to the husbands because they are supposed to be under them in whatever they do.

He said any wife who hides such code from the husband has ulterior motive which if not addressed could cause serious problems in the home.

Prince Cletus, on offshore worker however took some extreme stand when he said “it is madness thinking of entrusting a woman with my ATM cash card. If any fraud is commtted because of such trust, whom shall you hold responsible” he queried.

“If my wife insists that show her my card code, then she must be up to something which I am sure, she cannot get.” he concluded.

Jennifer, a lecturer and housewife said, “ I used to operate a joint account with my husband until when few years ago, he took advantage of my trust to acquire a second wife to himself. Since then, such trust has gone.”

“ Even though he is my husband and I am expected to be submissive, I don’t think exposing the confidential code numbers of my cash cards is part of that submissiveness.

“ If he is broke or is in dire need of money and approaches me for some financial assistance, that is different, but to demand to know the secret code will not be acceptable to me. never at all,” she maintained. What do you think?

landwin:


Now,Listen up you fool,I have been ignoring you, but you keep frolicking around me and my comments,being a kanu fan doesn't mean I would like to marry him you idiot,it simply means someone admiring someone who has given so much to his society and a patriot to his country and hail someone who doesn't sit back behind his cheap computer to talk Poo. like you do.


Dumb bitch.