chaircover:

Dont shoot me o!

But is it fair that this guy’s picture is splashed on this page. We only ever heard one side of the story.

I am not the discounting the posters story or her immense hurt & pain at the time but you know what they say about a woman scorned.

The incident happened 3 years ago and the poster has moved on with her life.

Please moderators bring this guys picture down.

I dont know him o!, Just a voice of reason.

oops i didnt see this, ok now someone take those pics off, its just too childish posting pples pics on the net like seriously we dont need the pics for identification do we?

arrrrrrggg stephanie i hope u r not considering posting pics of you lot in bed someday?

maybe i will like to see that one

banom:

No point wasting time with a deluded mind.

running as usual?

no point wasting time with you too sweetie, cos ur lies aint with proof

spikedcylinder:

There's sure a pristine difference between an intelligent woman and err. . . the direct opposite of that. Both posts say the same thing in very very different ways.

obsessed with me aint you?

_{jump inside river if you like, obviously still hurting cos i mentioned your hubbys name on the net},LMAO

hope you dont mind if i ignore you? i know u dont

banom:

If they say so, then it is no longer deception, deception is all about distracting people with something alse why you are upto another totaly different thing.

Did they tell you, yes or no?

ok its obvious the answer is no? so you dont have a proof ehn? all these youve posted here are all baseless acussations aint there?no proof, and no valid point.this brings us to square one

your point holds nothing

no matter what happens, the man should slow down his roll a little

Trying to act all intelligent and smart isnt going to help the relationship

reasonable and responsible men always give their lovers a chance to express themselves smtimes,voice their opinions, listen to them and allow them carry on the lead a little

dragging points with a woman shows that the guy might turn out to be someone dat will nag in the nearest future

now i know why stehanies hubby left her

her childishness drips from her posts

posting pictures here is uncalled for? whatever for

banom:

Answer my simple question and stop ur usual nairaland christian gambling.

cats got your tongue?

did you also notice how you avoided the collection part and jumped into extortion

now to answer your question

banom:

If you decieve,manipulate and extort people and they bring out the little they have to give you, what do you then do ?

accept it , if they are happy to give it out
as long as i am not deceiving them,or forcing them to give it out

now answer my question


Did this people tell you that they are being deceived, manipulated or extorted from? yes or no?

banom:

If you decieve,manipulate and extort people and they bring out the little they have to give you, what do you then do ?

Peoples hands were not forcefully thrown into the offering box was it?

the last time i checked people were not dragged to the altar for collection ,neither did they give a law that everyone must give out something during collection, ur point holds nothing still

banom:

But there is COLLECTION.

which is normal in a lot of churches be it in nigeria or overseas, your point holds nothing 

At the initial stage, I thought it was pride but I later discover that it was as a result of the home( broken home with a single mother) she came from. She believe that a girl should not show love to a man so that he will not throw her out when they get married.

the mum told her dis

@tope

mo wa, ba wo ni, omo dada

oh yes her mum is really at fault

cos a lot of us grew up with our mums advice and is still going on with it, the mum must have been telling her dis right from her baby days, hence her behaviour now

though im kinda surprised cos at 29 she should know better, but after a secong thought, there r still women who are in theor 30s dat are just like her

No matter the two sides elrazur, there is no biggie in saying sorry or thank you to your lover

if you are waiting for two sides then you have to contact every single member on dis forum dat have opened up a thread and then ask them to bring the second party

i dont like her acting, and her dressing is terrible , she should just be her self, its obvious shes really struggling hard to try to dress well

Secretz:

@ Poster,

Her behaviour is clearly from her childhood experiences. People like that are set in their ways and it's often hard to pull them out of it. . . .

Am sorry, but me too I can't marry anyone like that, not after 3 years of thinking they will change and they haven't, it will be pure frustration and a mental torture.

Her not apologising or saying 'thank you' is because she doesn't want to come across soo helpless and needy, or feeling as if she owes you something, as soon as she lets her guards down by apologising and saying thank you, she is likely to believe that you will then think you have control over her. Hence the point her mum has been making to her.

Give me her number jare, I go talk some sense into her. . .    

not always true, some girls on their own ar just full of pride. they know wat to do but their pride wont let them

the only thing im sure her mother would have told her is, never you trust a man no matter what he does for you ,or never u make urself inferior to any man

shes 29 at her age she should know better, teach her a lesson by dumping her, let her go report to her mother wat happened, who cares?

Oxone:


for God sakes stop hounding her

Bite me!!!!!!


i still stand on my previous statement, i wont be surprised if electraa is plantinum bank abi wetin she call hersel

poster is just stupid

seriously

cindy85:

this one they are taking pictures outside and in supermarkets does it mean they have no house??

dumbest question/post so far from a very dumb poster

so picture taking is meant for the house alone abi?

go and tell other stars taking pictures outside to restrict the picture taking to their homes alone

i still stand on my previous statement, i wont be surprised if electraa is plantinum bank abi wetin she call herself

see as pple dey lie for here

taxi drivers are human beings tooo


how im i sure you dont even like the attention

cos if na me ,shme no go gree me to come here talk say kabu-kabu driver dey inloff with moi

i still stand on my previous statement, i wont be surprised if electraa is plantinum bank abi wetin she call herself

Enquirer:

Don't think it's any of our business whether they settle down or not. Should think our focus would be on enjoying their artistic creativity, not interfering in their private lives, tatafo or not.

mafolayomi:

funny enough, this is all you can do about it

sugabelle:

@ poster

when you give them husband/wife, shior . Why don't u dash them ur brother/sister or even ur own spouse if u're so concerned.

zombie united , "see your mouths like bla bla bla"

did you guys not see the link, as if na me write am

ode raised to power 4, for all of u

waterworks:

ok madam sistah woman calm down! u take everything so seriously you are too defensive. its not a matter of life and death. its an advice forum yes. but its also a getaway (at least for me) so stop taking evrything so personally we might not have seen you face but trust me we have seen you! forever talking one long story here or defending another long story there.  do you know how long it takes to start reading all dese long tings? ure egging your 'haters' on, its not that serious and you're boring us all to death! sometimes simply walking away does the trick.  Are you calm?  Ehen more like it.

are u minding her, she has been typing grammar since on dis forum, still it hasnt changed anything, neither has it stopped people like me from saying the truth here

let her keep talking about marrriage or defending her self or marriage,in fact she can defend her marriage from now till the next generation,the truth still remains and stands

it(her marriage) is a marriage based on contract(green card)

patwhizkid:


You are jenny!

are you ok? who told u jenny is y me

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@4play

yes ooo , kedu

amosexy:

If u dont know wat to say,cant u just move away. since u believ it a nollywood story,then it will come to reality in your life.must everything on NL be a story?Dont alwaz u ur mouth to think,learn to use ur head.

you are a certified slowpoke

platinumnk:

hahahaahahhh u think i would make up another name to catch oxone. . . i am HIS NL wife, I have no need to find my own husband sheesh!!

a desperate girl can do anything

we are talking about pastor wife,who dey talk about beauty for hiaaaa

u pple should not derail this thread ooooo


the blessed dont mind d haterz, u is ok

haba nlders, do u pple just wake up and form nollywood stories,without atleast brushing ur teeth?

@ 22 i wasnt thinking like a dullard jackie