₦airaland Forum

GoldenJAT:
Not Again!!!

bigpicture001:
Hw can u have d goose that will lay d golden egg and still lack support. ur old enough for marriage both age nd emotional, uv got a job to mk it work,ur ready for it... nd at this stage u say ur still trying to please a gal...?. ur not serious. just yell "am ready to marry " nd see d way fyn,responsoble gals would com after u...I did it and am with a gud gal now..funny enough. I met her here on nairaland....stay dere dey doo teenagers relationship..u nvr serious!

Earthbound:
I didn't say so. I'm just saying bide your time. Study her. Take her on an actual date before deciding whatever the theme of your relationship becomes.

Chuknovski:
its not bad to try something new

Earthbound:
It's paramount for you to understand that she's most likely simultaneously chatting with 5+ guys at the same time. Don't be in a haste to emotionally attach yourself.



Cheers!

EMEKUSBOY9:
It does not even make sense. so she is not even attracted to you before

GrammarNazi1:
You were doing what?

...chatting...

Or were you charting her territory?

Earthbound:
Which kind of women do you mingle with?

donbachi:
Live ur life,not hers

YourImaginaryBF:
wear boxers and singlet.

IstandWithGod:
The only challenge is that some of them will still spillover after all that signing out parade while some will later have permanent seat here on nairaland because of lack of job even after graduating with good grades...such is life.

Idrismusty97:
My brother na only you dey enjoy sex with mad woman o and na only you no get choice.

franchasng:
True.

Women enjoy sex more than men only when they are having sex with their dream man or preferred man, and women have more self control towards sexual urge than men.

Also women enjoy sex more than men when they are having sex with their desired man, but men enjoy sex even with a mad woman, this is where the difference lies.

Women are very preferential or selective with their choice of sexual partner while most men don't have choice; any woman is okay for them no matter how she looks, a very disgusting trait in majority of men

Women prefer to have sex with a man they feel is above them in mental capacity, financial status, social status, academic status, career status while men don't care about the financial, social, mental, psychological or emotional status of their sex partner or target.

A woman can be truly fulfilled having sex with one desired or chosen man till she dies but a man will never be truly fulfilled and satisfied having sex with just one female till he dies; it hardly ever happens, in fact it never ever happens
Bro u hit the hammer on the nail, men have no selective if it come in sex unlike women, please send me your WhatsApp number I want to have a private talk with u thnks

Twagrill:
Am i the only one feeling this girl isn't really into the guy.
Guy just be very careful in taking decisions. Don't ruin your life on top girl ooo... Abeg

neyobills:
Pls can u help me get her jazzman number,the thing pick well well lol

But on a more serious note I see nothing to worry about.

Wish her the best of luck in her interview and ambitions, if she eventually get the visa(your worst case scenario) get her a tourist UAE visa and one for yourself and I'm sure it would be a wonderful getaway for u both to meet,bond and know each other better and she can fly to the Us from there and u back to base,i don't know your budget but as they say all is fair in love and war as I see d tin done hook u well lol.

If she gets to the US(your worst case scenario)then flips then it was never meant be but will have memories of getting bouncy bouncy in bed to catch up with at least if u get lucky.

If she doesn't agree to the all expenses paid Dubai trip then it's crystal clear there is more to it and the lady isn't into u as much as u are into her. i don't even need to travel to dubai, my fear is that u kno western life is not our culture, for our women that fly to western world, most of them do automatically change basesd on the life over there and human right stuff, my fear is that she may go there and see life style that can make her to depart on her right way, becoz if im the one first there before her then it would be better, i can easily procure her

neyobills:
Pls can u help me get her jazzman number,the thing pick well well lol

But on a more serious note I see nothing to worry about.

Wish her the best of luck in her interview and ambitions, if she eventually get the visa(your worst case scenario) get her a tourist UAE visa and one for yourself and I'm sure it would be a wonderful getaway for u both to meet,bond and know each other better and she can fly to the Us from there and u back to base,i don't know your budget but as they say all is fair in love and war as I see d tin done hook u well lol.

If she gets to the US(your worst case scenario)then flips then it was never meant be but will have memories of getting bouncy bouncy in bed to catch up with at least if u get lucky.

If she doesn't agree to the all expenses paid Dubai trip then it's crystal clear there is more to it and the lady isn't into u as much as u are into her. i don't even need to fly to dubai to meet her, i can fly to USA to reside there becoz i now has a green card, as she told me about her interview date yesterday, i was very happy and i encourage her and also been putting it in prayer for her, but if she is really into me too i can fly to reside in USA to be together

ednut1:
Some pple are destined to be unfortunate in life sha. Gal wey u never see smh. Wise gal mk she go her USA abeg

Twagrill:
Am i the only one feeling this girl isn't really into the guy.
Guy just be very careful in taking decisions. Don't ruin your life on top girl ooo... Abeg

Offpoint:
if you really wanna settle down, then you don't have a problem. there more women out there than men. don't give me the "I want the right woman" line, there's no such thing as "right woman" or "right man". get whoever you want and settle your differences together.

About your post, simply tell her your intentions and if she's not cool with it... women population exceed that of men.

wordbank:
Find a chair and sit down naaa
What is all these u want to settle down, u want to settle down
Are you high?

Offpoint:
Dude I have my own problems and women is not one of them. I got a bigger problem.

wordbank:
Bia Bia Bia hia
Are you even an Igbo man?
How can an Igbo man be this du**
cynthie140 come and marry ur husband oo

Diamond23:
Broz mi I be sista ooo , tnk God u saw it with ur eye xo wot she z saying z d truth nd as for d housing project z Vry gud idea u can still run it frm der. Instead of coming bk to 9ja Maybe u locate to where ur fiancée wnts to work.....buh if u r will to put on ur endurance coat 9ja will be happy to welcome u

cruchenutii:
I see, story has finished then. No p.

US Visa is now hard o, so let her collect it first. Then you can now start worrying. besides they just shut Abuja Consular Office.

cruchenutii:
What does she mean by not yet right time & what is she hiding?

Why don't you just come back home If possible September & marry her, at the Registry, No paparazzi. End of story.

Then if she travels, You can join her. Also I don't know how you want to Start Afresh in US.

Diamond23:
Hmmm, u v not met her face to face nd u r dz madly in luv with her, hope she feels d same way abt u?. My dear Facebook Nd phone luv z just a scam, u need to met her face to face for both of u to confirm ur feelings towards each oda if it’s real nd for d aspect of coming bk to 9ja to invest abeg check Vry well in order not to make a mistake. Wot she said abt pple leaving 9ja z real..

cruchenutii:
Sorry brotherly, since she has an Interview this month. Let her collect Visa first then you can be worried.

Anyway, You can go & continue your hustle in America if possible.

As for her changing her mind, It will depend on her, also You will have to keep working in Italy, while she stays in America for some time before one person decides to move over.

Honestly bros, All these long stories depends if she loves you. If she doesn't, It's OYO. you are right bro but u see my fear is that she may change as u kno how western life use to be becoz when our women come over here they use to change automatically and she may end up following one nigga over there

amicable247:
that is what i wanted to do, to travel from italy to stay with her in AMERICA but bro u know 9ja women are not trust worthy, may be she may have one bobo she planed to marry after she enter AMERICA becoz we only met on facebook and we so much on communicating to each other, but the problem is that im not the type that will like a woman to be the one that is inviting me, even im planing to come down on december to meet her before she told me this this night and i was so cold