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Nairaland General › Re: I Want A Fight With Pendo! by Ammyng(f): 6:44pm On Feb 24, 2012

Where's my camcorder? ? grin

Jokes Etc › Re: Question! by Ammyng(f): 6:39pm On Feb 24, 2012

Yes, all for you baby Corky

Jokes Etc › Re: Question! by Ammyng(f): 6:34pm On Feb 24, 2012

Van snickers:
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Romance › Re: Six Women For Im Church Get Vision About Him Being Their Husband by Ammyng(f): 6:32pm On Feb 23, 2012

You have phd in fabrication dontcha?

Romance › Re: Na Mostly Ugly Girls Dat Give U Problem And Heartache by Ammyng(f): 6:28pm On Feb 23, 2012

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=877192.msg10252996#msg10252996 date=1329945210]Why do ugly men complain like females? huh

[/quote]

ogugua88:
^^^ Because they were rejected.

Ammyng and 99 others likes

Romance › Re: Insecure Men Turning It On Women by Ammyng(op): 6:19pm On Feb 23, 2012

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=877355.msg10253844#msg10253844 date=1329956245]You said the key words, Why do we allow society to label us? Why do you? It is a question we as women need to answer for ourselves. Society doesn't define you, you do. This is what I have noticed on Nairaland/Offline that most people who are insecure doesn't like confident and secure people. It reminds them of what they yearns to be and it hurts them to their core that they can't be secure with themselves.

People praises you more when you are down and out, but people throw dirt and spit when you hold your head up high and go against the grain. You have to be strong and know your worth.

Intelligent people and those of substances wouldn't even allow a mob to dictate their lives. Don't let a mob tell you how YOU SHOULD be a woman/human.[/quote]

pendo89:
you asked a good question in the first paragraph but I want to reply with another question. Why allow yourself to feel what the society expects you to feel, in this case insecure? why take blame?
No 2 relationships are the same so you can't go on applying one general term, the society uses to describe a certain scenario.
Society has its standards which keep fluctuating.If u try to compete you will end up breaking cz u just can't measure up or keep up with the pace.
Learn to chew the meat and do away with the bones of the society cz not everything thrown at us is beneficial.
Will gv u a nice eg, this forum is like a nl society. You read threads daily where people label others ugly and as a result end up causing unnecessary online outbursts.
But question is ammy, do u feel ugly cz smbody called everybody on nl ugly? you ammy are a beautiful girl but if 3/4 of the nl society calls you ugly,you don't have to let that affect ur way of thinking or destroy ur ego. Live happily cz u know your worth both inside and outside.
so do not conform to outside set standards all the time,but allow the outside to conform to your standard.

Not all men act the same when insecure. Just like not all women act the same when insecure. I know some that get oversensitive and some that hide behind a false macho bravado. If someone is insecure you cannot hand-feed them confidence, it is something they have to find on their own. You can suggest different confidence building strategies or just respect them, acknowledge when they do something good and remind them of accomplishments they should be proud of, but that is not sure-fire. The only person you can change is you (me)

Romance › Re: 98% Of Nl Girls Are Not Goodlooking #fact by Ammyng(f): 6:15pm On Feb 23, 2012

lefulefu:
beync admit the truth nah
dont i look good tooo?
u know say u was trippin 4 me the other day

Is this really you?

Romance › Re: 100% Of Nl Men Are Goodlooking. by Ammyng(f): 6:49pm On Feb 22, 2012

REALITY101:
Hey Ammyng careful gurl cuz haters gon say something.

Freedom of speech grin

Romance › Re: 98% Of Nl Girls Are Not Goodlooking #fact by Ammyng(f): 6:42pm On Feb 22, 2012

@Poster what is the population of girls on this forum?

Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Has Asked Me To Choose Between Her And Nairaland! by Ammyng(f): 6:40pm On Feb 22, 2012

The choice is yours sir.

Romance › Re: 100% Of Nl Men Are Goodlooking. by Ammyng(f): 6:29pm On Feb 22, 2012

I'm new here so I don't know about this. But I met Reality in Houston last week, dude is fine kiss

Romance › Insecure Men Turning It On Women by Ammyng(op): 6:24pm On Feb 22, 2012

When men check out other girls, it's not their fault, it's ours for being 'insecure'. When they have inappropriate relationships with other girls, it's not their own fault it's ours again for being 'insecure'. I never hear people saying to men that they should stop being so insecure, instead it's usually still the woman's fault for being a 'sl ag' or some other derogatory term. Why do we continue to let society lay the blame for these things on us? Why do we just accept that we must be 'insecure' and try and fix ourselves when it's the guys who have the problem?

Obviously I know that there are anomalies and not all men/women do this but this blame culture is very prevalent in our society, and it feels as though i'm the only one who will not take the blame for something which I don't feel I'm wrong about.

Before anybody jumps to any ironic conclusions, I am not a jealous girl and do not have these problems in my own relationship with my boyfriend, we are both very considerate of each-other, so it is by no means a personal anger issue, just an intrigue into my observations about the different treatment of men and women as per their behavior.

Romance › Re: 98% Of Nl Girls Are Not Goodlooking #fact by Ammyng(f): 6:48pm On Feb 21, 2012

So what?

Romance › Re: Nigeria Turning To Sodom And Gomorah by Ammyng(f): 6:46pm On Feb 16, 2012

Hmmm

Unlimited

Jokes Etc › Re: Food G-- Hotie Tima by Ammyng(f): 6:22pm On Feb 16, 2012

I'm liking this forum. kiss

Romance › Re: Opening The Door For Ladies by Ammyng(op): 6:46pm On Feb 15, 2012

Exactly what I had on mind before creating this thread.

Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Pull This Tricks? by Ammyng(f): 6:45pm On Feb 15, 2012

Talk about childishness

Romance › Re: Igbo girls too like money. by Ammyng(f): 6:41pm On Feb 15, 2012

Who doesn't? Maybe they (we) are born in bank called home where a lot money were stacked. Tribalism in 2012? SMH @ ignorance

Romance › Re: At This Age And Still A Virgin? by Ammyng(f): 6:54pm On Feb 13, 2012

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=867105.msg10188907#msg10188907 date=1329155195]I agree, plz dont ock this thread. Pure entertainment. cheesy

All the virgin in the house, say whoop whoop!! wink

[/quote]Whoop Whoop

Hotie Tima:
All u mother[size=1pt].[/size]fuckers came here and had nothing to say

coz u didn't have ur other dog's to follow ya

be a man for once in ur life, say ur mind have ur, own opinion how fuc[size=1pt].[/size]ken hard is that.

but as soon as i am out of here niggah wants to act like they are the man. when u all know who are the real pus[size=1pt].[/size]sy talkers here next time u want to say crap at least say it when i am here not when i lock out.

starting cshits u can't finish ain't kool.

Your explicit is too much for a virgin. Please work more on improving your English instead of wasting the lil life you have on Nl. Friendly advice. grin

Romance › Re: Will You Watch Champions League Or Celebrate Valentine's Day? by Ammyng(f): 6:42pm On Feb 13, 2012

Valentine's day is highly overrated.

Romance › Re: Who Met His/her Current Bf/gf Or Life Partner Through Nl? by Ammyng(f): 6:34pm On Feb 13, 2012

qholar:
Ammyng Amy

Close your dinosaur eyes and make a wish.

Romance › Re: At This Age And Still A Virgin? by Ammyng(f): 6:44pm On Feb 09, 2012

rokiatu:
As usually a good thread is gonna get ruined with stoopid people and stoopid comments.

I missed the 2007/08 NL/

What's so good about self proclamation of virginty to stranger's who I don't think are really going to give a crap? #curious

Romance › Re: At This Age And Still A Virgin? by Ammyng(f): 6:39pm On Feb 09, 2012

There's nothing to be ashamed of itnit even as false as it may sound.

Romance › Re: I'm Sad For Nairalanders Who Don't Have Boyfriend/girlfriend For Valentine by Ammyng(f): 6:29pm On Feb 07, 2012

So Valentines day is all about boyfriend and girlfriend? Really? Odi nma

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