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oga nor try am. 650k in nigeria is Solid. Europe nor be as you see am. Nor go let long throat make you lose the gold wey dey your hand. The global economy is stuggling and firms are dropping workers. The convid mess and the war in Ukraine is impacting europe more than you can imagine. You are doing excellently in niaija. Keep your job for now.

charles009:
Hello Folks,

I need una inputs, I tried scanning through nairaland threads and I am getting more of technicalities and rules lol. I need real experiences. As everybody around me dey japa so I decided to give it a thought. I work with a fintech company and net a little over =N=600k monthly. I am considering relocating to either UK,Germany,New Zealand, Australia or Canada. I am married with four kids. They said study route is the best .

A few of my colleagues that travelled just dey dull my ginger. My Oga who nets over 750k, we spoke today and he is considering a security man job, and claims net pay is over 2M monthly. Biko I cannot come and kill myself.

My friend, we spoke this evening and he responded oboy make I no lie you, na shit i dey pack for here, the good news is they say it will always get better with time. What if person no come eventually become citizen, is it a must you go become citizen.

I don talk to over 10 persons today and they all saying everything is though. Me I don't like stress, where me and wify go dey overwork just dey pay bills. Ofcourse I no get strength for menial jobs, make one oyibo use me take dey shine lol....

I no get any exceptional skill, I be sales man ooo.

Would you advise I still gamble and go with family abi make I hold my job oooo.

Please, I would welcome suggestions and advise.


Thanks Guys

I know spending on a lady I am yet to get married to is very risky to do but I did all this because of love.

Which I let her know it’s not my responsibility doing all this things for her.

I am not just comfortable spending a dime for her right now…

I really appreciate everyone over here[/quote]My Response: You are sounding too weak as a man. All relationships should be a mutual exchange and not a one-way traffic where only one person contributes. What will you do if she eventually decides not to marry you? As it is, you are paying her to date you and i tell you it will most likely backfire. Try and go a while without spending on her and see how she reacts. Lastly, has she ever gotten you something tangible as a gift?
Be wise lest you will bite your fingers. You are not in love but simply infatuated with her beauty. Love is not crass stupidity.

Alpha males enjoy their marriages for the simple fact the ladies know he has no problem calling it quit if she won't bend to his leadership. A man must be firm in dealing with his women lest he perish

BiggyB242:
Of course, that's why you should have some element of bad boy in you. Don't be too predictable.

Your bias is apparent. Most Nigerian ladies are not hospitable to their in-laws. This is a well known fact.

whiteroses:
Do you give resources away to your siblings ? Or did they initially had a habit of assaulting or despising her and you turned a blind eye ?
There will be a reason why she loathes your family.
She’s not a house help that you can use her matter to play games. If she sensed that, she will fight back.
From your write up I can see that your family over steps their boundaries. They don’t need to be coming to your house often and act like they want to take over. If they are around your wife is the boss of all of them and cannot be relegated to the background.
She’s your other half. She’s more important to you than your family.
Two should become one and you ca no longer cleave to your sister.
Nonsense… Your wife is fighting for boundaries if you ask me. If your family has your balls in their pockets please free that babe.

You are an Alpha. Love what you did

9jausedauto:
Treat her family the way she treats yours but this time make hers worse than she treats yours, oga trust me she will change, my wife tried it, she is still suffering the consequences, she even moved out of the house thinking I will come beg her my brother I didn't move after three weeks her family came begging, she has change towards my family completely but I still dy give her family heat, she don beg tire

Limassol:
Please Which is more profitable and in demand: UX/UI or Android development? if none, suggest best IT skill to learn in 2022.

They both have high demand. I just think many people are going into UI/UX because of they are avoiding coding. I think passion should drive ones choice. There's a huge market for both ui/ux and android dev

GrantIkenna:
The truth be say, e no easy to teach programming. The prices are not justified, as i taught myself web, android and now embedded systems. But it wasnt easy, the difficult days i felt like quiting, wasted over 6months, before i discovered how to learn. If you have the patience, teach yourself.

What technique did you use?

definitelyME:
Sorry for posting this here..but I really need answers because I don't understand what is going on here.. So I decided I wanted to learn computer programming so I started searching for where I could acquire the skill. I can across these guys yesterday but I would not mention their names here.. I asked how much it would cost to study software engineering because its a six months course..could you believe how much these guys mentioned for me? 850k...yes that right #850,000 and that's not all it still goes as far as 1.7million naira..

Please If i may ask, computer gurus in the house.. Is there any way this prices are justifiable? Because I don't get..

You don't have to pay anyone to learn coding. Freecoursesite.com is a website you can download programming tutorials for free and that's what i am using presently. Also, tutorials from You tube will be of help. All you need is dedication and consistency. Pick a niche and run with it.
Android development, front-end dev, Back-end dev, IOS dev, Full-stack dev, Flutter Dev etcetera. Pick one, get the tutorials and work hard to master it. Also, altschoolafrica.com has a solid package and i will implore you to check them out.

how does one get across to you?
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aeishac02:
hhhmmm

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please do share the info if you get it from him. I am really interested in tech

Excel70:
Yes ,I am ready to study hard.. where can I get materials for this courses