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Sounds like fake news.

Inyaky:
Your comments here shows there are good and intelligent men on nairaland who have good understanding not those myopic and double standard men who are quick to call women olosho but now against a woman who refuses to be used . , in your other comment you mentioned that women s thought processes are quite different from men which is very true, i respect people like you. All I see from the story is that the girl is not ready yet and may want a defined relationship before going intimate. God bless you

thanks a lot for your observation. God bless you too 🙏🏾

There are so many teachers these days…

Problem seriously wants to rest but you people wouldn’t allow it be.

There are reasons why people say they’re not ready for a relationship and this is one of them. Keep pushing and invite problems into your life.

hopeforcharles:
It's a waste of time trying to make u see his situation. But you my good sire is a pretentious and holier-than-thou person. Trying to make sure he is seen as a bad person. You should change your ways.
And with this i will not reply your tagging again.

🤦🏽‍♂️

hopeforcharles:
You still don't get it.
Have u been depressed before?
Have u incurred a very big loss that you just lost hope and need someone to save u?
If yes think of it as the situation where that young man was and he needed saving. At his frame of mind all things sexual is super far from him.
We human need each other to survive.

What if I’m depressed and I asked for your balls for rituals to redeem me from my depression?

Know the value of things to people before asking for them. If he needed cuddles he could have paid for one. If he needed it that bad, whether he has sex with them is his own decision. She’s not his girlfriend, “BOUNDARIES” is a word used in situations like this! Whether you’re spending or not. He said their relationship was with no strings attached. The best he could have gotten from her was words of encouragement or if she had enough money to help him out. NOT THE BODY! Whether sex is involved or not! If a lot other women have devalued themselves before the world it doesn’t make it the norm!

AyobamiOluwole:
But she came to my place for that reason Bro. Pls get that part. She came to my house for that reason.

you didn’t get the part where I said she didn’t want to do it…. Read carefully.

AndrewTate:
The mistakes of this generation are plenty… one of them is young men not having the right knowledge about women.
Women are not as decisive as men, they are softer and more “child like” no matter how hard they try to portray themselves as. I’m sure from the moment he said that to her deep down she was troubled cos she didn’t want to do that but now she can hardly say no cos she has put herself in that situation by ignoring her gut feeling which has probably told her it was a bad idea to keep receiving things from a man she wasn’t in any form of intimate relationship with. Some girls would be able to fight through and struggle with their conscience and allow him have his way then feel damned deep within there after and keep devaluing themselves leading to other acts of self destruction after that. But she couldn’t do it.
The thought process of men is very different from that of women. Women need a lot more guidance from care. As for men, the universe wouldn’t even cut you a slack before you face the consequences instantly and there’s only betterment as a result. But for women the damage is mostly permanent.

Treat women with more care and love today lads! She’s someone’s little girl 📌

AyobamiOluwole this is your answer to your last mention of me.

Fahvvy:
With the exception of Noah's comment, every other comment above is trash ...

You told her exactly why you wanted her, she agreed and she came ...

If she's chickening out at the last minute, then she should leave for someone else to come in and fulfil that need - simple! ...

The only issue I see here is you not kicking her outta your crib sooner! ...

Once she started her nonsense, you would've sent her parking - but alas! It's better late than never ...

The mistakes of this generation are plenty… one of them is young men not having the right knowledge about women.
Women are not as decisive as men, they are softer and more “child like” no matter how hard they try to portray themselves as. I’m sure from the moment he said that to her deep down she was troubled cos she didn’t want to do that but now she can hardly say no cos she has put herself in that situation by ignoring her gut feeling which has probably told her it was a bad idea to keep receiving things from a man she wasn’t in any form of intimate relationship with. Some girls would be able to fight through and struggle with their conscience and allow him have his way then feel damned deep within there after and keep devaluing themselves leading to other acts of self destruction after that. But she couldn’t do it.
The thought process of men is very different from that of women. Women need a lot more guidance from care. As for men, the universe wouldn’t even cut you a slack before you face the consequences instantly and there’s only betterment as a result. But for women the damage is mostly permanent.

Treat women with more care and love today lads! She’s someone’s little girl 📌

hopeforcharles:
Don't mind all those peeps nailing you. In the public every body just want to condemn you no body really cares about you.

Should I tell you what my wife did for me?
She noticed my mood.
Came and hugged me and told me don't worry you will win another day.
Made food and gave me
When the child was disturbing my eating time she called them off
Served me chilled drink
And faced the fan to my side.
After some minutes I felt better and energized.

That girl has lost a good friend
A Friend in need is a Friend indeed.
You needed her then and she didn't show up for you.

He needs her? So her body is what she should just give up to any “friend” who needs it for comfort?
If your “wife” told you she used to give her body up for cuddling to her “good friends in need” before you married I doubt you’ll be proud of that.

AyobamiOluwole:
You are right. I only felt it was not too much to ask for.

well it is! And more disgustingly DISRESPECTFUL to you as a responsible man and to her as a woman.

AyobamiOluwole:
Thank you but pls tell me how pls. And also consider that I did this out of frustration from a trade loss and anger.
Share me your perspective,I'll really appreciate.

Her body for you to just chose to “cuddle” with is crazy…. Your spending on her was never pre-agreed to be one with strings attached so keep it that way. You want to “cuddle” with her cos you’re sad about your business? and not because you’re both in an intimate relationship. What is a woman to you?
If you can’t continue what you’ve started without keeping your hands off her then end it all or formally propose love to her and be in a proper relationship. Women are valuable humans too!! Geeeeeezzzz
Having to explain this is crazy sad!!!

You are mentally unstable.

Risingblue008:
There are slumps in the united states
Let him go and do it over there

there has to be that one idiot 😂

You’re definitely not sane, you and the people that made the “study”.

If it’s a true story…

Do nothing, just watch him learn important life lessons.
While you also take notes.

Who is this one

This one wants to even make matters worse 😂🤦🏽‍♂️

Watianoengineer:
Still reasonable, if Peter Obi had won, this portion of food would likely sell for 5k due to his inexperience in handling the economy.

what a way to console yourself on the result of your bad decision.

Datguy5:
My friend will u shut up

Why is this nonsense even a question

first, I'm not your friend.
Secondly, I'm typing and not talking.
Lastly, never quote me if I weren't referring to you.
Now fly away….

New discovery 😂

A feminist must rise to the occasion and prove this man wrong ASAP!

I'll start practicing…

Anny69:
I'm sure the guy assaulted her first and there are women out there that you shouldn't dare raise your hands against because you'll end up being hurt. Abeg leave the girl alone, the man didn't sha die.

I get…”women supporting women” till it’s their brothers and sons.👏🏽

Chris brown once said… “When a rich nigga wants you…and your nigga can't do nothing for you…ohhh…” I've forgotten the other part 😂

EbolaTinubu:
You need to submit yourself to any psychiatric hospital around you because, na market you dey enter so and you no no.

😂

Jennyclay:
It’s so glaring it was a self defense because being in a heated argument with a Nigerian man is also dangerous

They are all violent in nature, they are quick to raise their filthy hands or carry cutlass to butcher someone’s daughter

Bunch of woman butchers!!
Evil men!!

😂 crazy

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