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@op are u rili sure dis dude is a 9gerian? Cos 9ja boiz aint dat dull oh! He had sumtin to hide. Nd he was checking his fb on ur laptop? Nahhhhhh, dat boi is definately frm TOGO,BENIN,CHAD or maybe EQ GUINEA,

Advocator:
I beg to differ.   marriage without sex is like tea without sugar and only the diabetic patient opt for marriages w/o sex.

true talk bro! Rite on point!!

Sijo01:
My step uncle (my dad step younger brother) have been married to his wife for close to twenty years with no issue (child) and they’ve being living happily together. The wife as far as some of us are concern is the bread winner of the family. The both family have advise them to get a divorce and try their luck somewhere else but the couple ignored this. The woman has even lost her friendship with some members of her family, but this never disturbed her as she believed God will answer her prayers one day.

The whole story changed about four years ago when my uncle impregnated another lady outside his matrimonial home, the wife was devastated but she never gave up. The lady gave birth to a baby girl. My step uncle immediate family were not only happy but all the love they have for their son’s wife died immediately forgetting what the woman has done for them all.

After sometime my step uncle impregnated the same lady again and she gave birth to a son. In other for the wife to still be seeing her husband as he now spend most of the time outside his home, the wife rented a bigger apartment and they all moved in (including the lady), she meets about 95% of the family needs.

To cut the whole story short, My step uncle and her so called lady that bore him two kids turn the innocent woman into a daily punching bag. Regardless of this, she was still with them in her house until recently (2weeks ago) she could not bear it any more; she packed her things and went to her father’s house.

Now the issue is that my step uncle wants her back, e bi like say hunger don visit him & he new wife and he is trying to use my dad, mom, & my siblings ‘of cause him no say me nor dey send am’ to achieve this because we were the closest to her.

I want to stop him from achieving this because i believe he's doing it for his selfish interest. SO PLEASE NAIRALANDERS YOUR VIEW & ADVICE WILL BE APPRECAITED. The woman is happy now and I believe she will get another man that will treat her nicely.

its a rili sad story i feel 4 d lady. Well i ll advice u guys to forgive him bt u have to let him chop stone a little, So as to realize dat he 4kd up.

190:
[color=deeppink]I have to change my church tomorrow then

cos there are no better women in mine

Only old old women with big big nyash everywhere[/color]

roflmfao, 190 u no go kill pesin oh!!

sauer:
i went to church today for the first time in more than 7 years. Was difficult getting along with the singing and dancing and whatever. What caught me though was the number of 'really' and 'quite' beautiful girls I saw there. I mean, I never saw so much gathered in one place, except perhaps during adult conventions in las vegas. I mean, wtf! No bad thoughts, but just wondering if church really matters to girls/women as such.

yea! Bro datz d NORM, di9 dayz.

@poster, congrats gurl. There's nothing 2 be afraid of, u just have to be sure he's d 1 u wana spend d rest of ur lyfe with,

Hotie Tima:
no matter what it is your first boyfriend will forever be special to u.

and it's so hard to leave them at the end of the day.

but what will one do if they first love come back into they life while they are married?

i surely don't know, all i know why are the first boyfriends so special to us

special indeed!!! If u first bf was dat special den y aint u married 2 him! My advice: dnt go back 2 ur vommit hun, U aint a doggie.

mcheewww!! Sum peepz jst dnt knw when 2 be serious!! @poster u story's a sad 1. Bt i ll jst advice u to let d gurlz parents knw wats on ground, i guarantee u they ll have a change of heart! They cld even offer her to u 4 free and help owt wif other arrangements, cos i guarrante u no ibo family wants to be shamed,

mcheewww!! Sum peepz jst dnt knw when 2 be serious!! @poster u story's a sad 1. Bt i ll jst advice u to let d gurlz parents knw wats on ground, i guarantee u they ll have a change of heart! They cld even offer her to u 4 free and help owt wif other arrangements, cos i guarrante u no ibo family wants to be shamed,

cos it makes d relationship, berra. Most tyme guys or ladies dnt rili want d truth frm u. So wat d hell, Cook up sum gud lie and spice it up with curry nd tyme. So as 4 it 2 make more sense, lol

mmmm!! I dnt rili knw, Bt i ll jst say its 50-50 sha

ifyebere:
As a guy the day you find out that your girlfriend has another guys GSM (2)numbers offmind what will you do? You scroll through her phone and you find out they communicate well, what will you do? This guy also her friend on FBK, and @ every comment this this guy updates your girlfriend is always there to write something on his wall, even him updating a comma she'll comment on his wall. U confront her of all these she tells you "why trouble your mind switz?", he's just a friend, i just like him he's cool, neat, handsome etc, U scroll through the guys pixs on FBK he's not to compare with you haba, My bros wetin un go do, i'm experiencing dis now.

nothing bro! bt it depends on wat u rili fil 4 d chick sha, if she aint all dat 2 u. Den y loose a free p*s*y my advice wld be kip her bt try nd get sum1 berraa, ***no jonzeinggg***

rully2:
What will you do if a really close friend told u that they would have dated you if you were not in a relationship already    Especially if you are attracted to this person in question .

ama do sumtin bro! Ama rili do sumtin!, u ever heard abt HOME & AWAY?

tpiah!:
you always know the ones looking for visa.

true talk my broda. 1nce they get wind dat u stay abrod they r down 4 whatever game u wanna play, @all guys, ladies love lies so i give it 2 em all in abundance!!! Plenty of it,

jobowen:
Many a times I come to see that many among girls prefer guys that tells the lie and this could lead into marriage. Even guys likewise prefers those that tell them the lie.
Which do you desire that could lead to marital relations?
Your candid answer would be appreciated.
http://www.saveyourmarriagetipps..com

dumb question!!! Who need a lieing girlie, mchewwww,

i ll say its frm both sides, bt na ladies do pass.

tomba:
thanks guys. So that means i shud just 4get about any serious thing with her and opt 4 a more serious one? Cos i av a chic waiting.

sharp guy abeg carry on abegi,

Crude Oil:
You two should get a room and take care of yourselves. Okay ?

lol,

BABE!:
^^ ehn be loving it! Lovers Club! lmao,

I didn't like that. That was just--pfftttt, Anyways the thread is gone!

lol baby baby baby!!! ***finking*** am rili missing dat ur beautiful face oh, lol, u wld have mobilized mi 2 vote 4 ya like buhari was tryna do to win last week's elections, i wld have voted 4 ya dats if u were ready 2 settle mi oh, lol

Lord_Reed:
One thing folk fail to realise is that relationships are like the sea, it has a high tide and low tide but the sea itself is constant.

That you are having issues is not reason to feel it is all over. Look at the things that make the relationship, I am talking about the foundation now. Why are you with this person? What things do you have in common? and so on.

Making things work in a relationship will always require conscious action both in the good times and the bad times.

Unless you no longer value the relationship you should do what needs doing to put things right.

I personally will talk, study, pray and seek advice.

true talk.
@BABE why did u get d thread abt u and d od chick locked, I rili loved d topic oh,

2buff:
^^ Your crack isn't necessarily "crack" 

Maybe not so in naija, but in this part of the world I think everyone pretty much has a crack.

EDIT: Actually perfect example in naija = blackberry for girls. It will take a really patient and "wonderful man" to deal with and rehab these crack[size=5pt]berry[/size] heads.

k bro i dig!! May God save us frm d blackberry syndrome in 9ja, here in lasgidi ladies have gone nut ova dis tin.

i will stay! All am gon do is get anoda hawt chick 4 child bearing! Dat way d equation is balanced, ***cos me i need andy2 oh***

i will stay! All am gon do is get anoda hawt chick 4 child bearing! Dat way d equation is balanced, ***cos me i need andy2 oh***

190:
it happened to my friend and he stayed

poster

stay with her

190. I dnt think dats d rite fin to do cos u dnt betray a brodas trust. Even if u do u dont rub it in his face.

Dunddy:
while trying to sort out their differences, my friend's exgirl fell in love with me.
though they are no longer together and i like her too, i can afford to go too deep into the relationship cos of its complicity.
what do i do. its been over 3 months now since it all started.

guy i ll advice u 2 run 4 cover cos when d bullet backfires it aint gonna be funny, nt 1 bit cos all d blame of d crashed relationship ll be heaped on u, lyke 1 of my guys up there said i ll advice u 2 jst chop nd clean mouth, lol.

2buff:
Everyone's a crackhead, you just don't know it yet.

Until your crack leaves you for a week.

hahahaha! Datz a rili gude 1. Bt do u wana knw sumtin, ***AM NOT***