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Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 9:38pm On May 12, 2016

You can still try to contact Human Rights Crusader Joe Odumakin on this issue and as a woman, she will have this issue taken up and even aired. Never give up 'Teeshafoods'

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Crime › Re: Lekan Shonde: I Didnt Kill Ronke, My Wife, God Is My Witness by andyanders: 9:05pm On May 12, 2016

cynhamscakes:
His narrative is shaky. Too many loopholes and he has given himself away already by repeating what he heard and the fact that he slapped her, not to talk of absconding.
He probably strangled her out of anger. He didn't really plan to kill her. Too bad.

If only he walked away at least for sometime to clear his head.... Too bad

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You nailed it here.Too many loopholes that has given him away. By saying he overheard her speaking with the so called man and you just slapped her and walked away. He contradicted himself by saying that he was told that there was police in his house and he ran away.

He said, he is a Lagos boy and can stay for years and nobody can see him. That is nonsense when you have murdered sleep. Nowhere mehn.

That statement is enough to nail the idiot.

Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 8:05pm On May 12, 2016*

Teeshafoods:
Uhmmm insightful. He's been calm sir......I confirmed from sources. All his raging like an animal has reduced in the last 24hrs....people who I never imagined has viewed this post. Some sense is entering him now. I know it won't last though.......we have started work on getting him already. I was at Femi falanas office today and mum is going with me tomorrow. Making progress! Will keep you all informed.

Good to hear that. I am soooooooooooooooooooooo glad that you went there to table this issue. The promise I have for you is that you will not mourn your mum through accidental death/violence, rather when her God wants her back.

Having experienced what your mother must have passed through, it will help you understand life better. Never allow anybody take advantage of you in life. Cry out for help because this is a global world an things has changed. You must be ready to tell the world what you are passing through in your marital life when an abuse starts. Never say 'he will change'

Follow this up to see that this man must come to his senses and understand that you guys are no more those little children of yesterday he use to abuse. Teach him a lesson. Make sure that your mother is kept off from him because his type is those that would wanna commit murder when boxed to the wall. When these steps are been taken, your mother for her own interest should stay off from him.He is never EVER a father.

Let us know how far later. May God protect you and yours.

Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 12:07pm On May 12, 2016*

delpee:
Andyanders, God bless you much more than you can imagine.

And may God Almighty bless you and yours immensely. We all need each other because we are brothers and sisters. Each and everyone of us came to this world through a woman hence we cannot/should not neglect any woman because they are our mothers.

Some men tend to be acting as if they were not brought to this world through a woman hence they act like animals.

No matter how a woman got you provoked, take a walk and know that they are the weaker sex. Some men look at women as if they are not supposed to be while not knowing that same woman you look down on, can decide to kill you without any form of any trace linking her.

This part of the world, women tend to be looked down on and treated like animal. Therefore, this is the time to fight for their right. The abuse of women these days is getting out of hand. Our legal system is not working as corruption has taken over their practice.

You see a father molesting his female child and nothing is been doing to put away such men away from the society.I am advocating for a life sentence for pedophiles and rapists in this country.Most women are going through pain in their respective homes and they are not speaking out. People should encourage them to speak out because the end result of their silence is the deaths we are having now.

Romance › Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by andyanders: 11:00pm On May 11, 2016

Listen, if you marry this guy beating you, we can only read your obituary here on nairaland. In fact you will be the worst fo,,ol on the face of this earth if you marry a guy that threw away a lady he was legally married to, same guy that the parents rejected you? In fact you are an idiot.

Crime › Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by andyanders: 10:35pm On May 11, 2016

Cant believe that there is true love these days because some men who cannot be man enough to run their home would result to now see their wife as devil.

Once a man starts checking your bag, your phone and start showing sign of anger and violence, walk out of that relationship.

Due to the current situation of things in the country,most family that their wife are providing for them tend to experience domestic violence from the man because he feels uncomfortable and is prone to start laying suspicion on that woman.

Ladies should be careful when you start noticing your husband suspecting every of your moves.

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Politics › Re: NNPC To Sell Fuel Below N145, PPPRA Releases Official statement by andyanders: 9:29pm On May 11, 2016

Where is Tam David West?

He needs to come and speak now.

Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 9:12pm On May 11, 2016

Teeshafoods:
Infact I am very grateful for the likes of you who has taken time to follow through this case. I wish I know who you are really. Issues arising daily but I thank God she's scaling through. I am to see her again today. Am going to pick my kids from school. I am going to her this evening. Will come back here if anything comes up but am sure something came up because she called me this morning that he disconnected her room light,removed the ceiling fan and disconnected the tap that runs water to her bathroom. All these signs are telling her to go. He has taken a few of her clothes and burnt it too. Well,that man in his office told he he has a mistress in their company and am sure that one is doing somethings.............oh my God,I don't even know whether to laugh or cry.

Oh My God. The man knew he had a mistress in his company and still would want your mother to hang in there? Something is not right here. The man is equally into what your dad is doing.

Now, why can't you guys arrange and get another place or rent a place for her to stay since she wouldn't want to disturb you guys?

Must she wanna die in the hands of this wicked man? Cannot understand why she still want to hang in with him. Tell her to get out or you stop picking her calls.Threaten her with those words to see if she can get out. Since he has disconnected those amenities, why must she still wanna stay?

What is his position with the company he works? Have you people submitted a written letter to that effect?

Crime › Re: "My Husband Ties Me Up And Rapes Me Daily" - Lagos Woman Opens Up by andyanders: 9:04pm On May 11, 2016

allenuzoma:
front page tins...I'll take DAT....Her husband rapes her...Not bad..am in support of it...after all he's ur husband...Is it not better than going after small gals...Why not give him so much pleasure DAT he will even get tired..My advice for u is to enjoy it DAT way!!!!!

I can see that you are a product from ape. No normal human being would state what you just stated above.

May anything that belongs to you be raped even you as a man, you will experience rape by gay guys. Idiot.

Celebrities › Re: Funke Akindele Buys Keke Napep For Twitter User Who Asked For Help by andyanders: 8:57pm On May 11, 2016

derespect:
Funke Akindele, with this you have done, I pray u will experience peace of mind in all ur endeavors.
Ur marriage will no longer suffer collapse.

Amen for her. That is the kind of good news people like her should be doing.

Funke, you are blessed and more blessings of the Almighty shall follow you all days of your life for imparting on the life of the needy.

Family › Re: Husband Smashes Wooden Plank On His Wife's Head During Argument (PHOTO) by andyanders: 2:08pm On May 11, 2016

Let the authorities there locate the woman and trace to get her husband arrested and prosecuted for this crime. Enough is Enough.

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Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 10:24am On May 11, 2016

Teeshafoods:
OK. I have read and understood your concern. I pray God won't make me guilty in the end. I still have those numbers shared here. I will resume calling and if possible go there to explain my plight. I pray this is settled once and for all so I can go treat my mum. Honestly,I now feel OK. Mum was in my house visiting and we resumed talks on the matter. Do we know she now bleeds without control even if its not her period. Like the woman with the issue of blood. She's been on it for 3 weeks now. She says when he starts his madness,she just feels blood dripping down her legs and it continues for a long time till he dosent talk to her again. Looks like am loosing this woman. I will do something. Looking at her,I wanted her to stay with me. I asked her why she's going back home and she says its not right for her to be with me in my husbands house and again what example is she showing us if she leaves that marriage is for better for worse that she knows the extent Dad can go and he's been on it for years so if he wanted to matchet her,he would have. My brain almost came out of my head.........anyways,I will add prayers,talks and action to the issue. I know one day,I know I will sing and song and tell a story with songs of praise.........

Amennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. I am already putting you, your mum and family members in prayers. I feel your pain, I understand what it means to have a mother and to know what women pass through in bringing up children. Only a madman would wanna kill his wife.

Take her for medical check up as I know that her condition of the blood flow is as a result of the trauma of the abuse she is passing through, though I do not trust such a man as he could turn fetish and do some kind of bad things.

I hate men who abuse women and children and the society should stand and defend them. Our legal system is one of the worst and I pray that this is taken care of in our society.

Crime › Re: ATM Machine Dispenses Fake Naira Note by andyanders: 10:23pm On May 10, 2016

Had same experience with Fidelity Merchant Bank machine.

Collected 15k from their ATM machine and later went to buy petrol and to my greatest surprise, N1,000 I gave them was discovered to be fake. Couldn't go back to the bank cus it was late.

What happens here is that the officer responsible in loading the ATM must be responsible for this act.

Crime › Re: Latest Scammer: This Guy Scammed Someone #45k(photos) by andyanders: 2:47pm On May 10, 2016

Are you sure that is the true pix of the guy that defrauded you? Sometimes, these criminals lift people's pixs from their profile pixs and use same to defraud people.

That is why it is not right to send money to anybody whatsoever the reason is online. How come you met someone online and now pay such amount to the person you do not know his house, office and whereabouts?

Op, you fvcked up. You have to grow up. Anybody you cannot confirm his identity in person, never send money to the person.

Celebrities › Re: If Not For Money Or Sperm, Women Really Have No Need For Men - Charly Boy by andyanders: 1:39pm On May 10, 2016

Charley Boy on point.

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Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 10:38am On May 10, 2016*

Teeshafoods my sister, I know you have tried your best for a mother you loved so much and God knows that you have tried to do what you were supposed to have done for her.

I cannot but pray that the man realize that he has to pay for his action if this woman dies in his hands. Physically and Psychologically, he has already killed her through his threats on her life. No matter what we do here on earth, we must one day answer for our action in the presence of our creator.

What I still would want to be done is for you to get back to same guy from your Dad's company who spoke with you guys and make sure you record his conversation as a witness for saying that you guys should drop taking action over your dad on this whole issue when threat to life is involved.

Ask him the action he has taken or discussions he had with your dad against his action that would want him to say that he cannot carry out his threat. Ask him his reasons for asking you people not to take action over your dad's threat.

Or write your Dad's company and deliver the letter to his company and the police over this whole issue. As I said earlier, why not report him to Femi Falana's office at GRA Ikeja. For me, you still need to cry over this to their office so that the man will sign an Undertaking over the life of the woman.

Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 9:47pm On May 09, 2016*

delpee:
Very sad story! Andyanders God bless you marvellously. You've done so well. Seems there's some secret shared by the parents which they are not talking about. The woman sorts of feels eternally bound to the man.

I wish they thought of taking her to see a doctor/ psychiatrist when she turned up on her own. Such a great pity.

@Teeshafoods
Keep praying and working. God can turn around any situation to His glory.

My sister, you're welcome and thank you for your prayers. God will continue to protect us from evil hands. As a matter of fact, I can feel the pain Teeshafoods and her siblings are going through and it hurts.

In fact, I have taken my time to go through their situation and willing to help out in my own little way, but you cannot interfere when the abused is not ready/willing to help herself or to speak out.

I hate when women are abused.Women are like an egg and should be handled with care. Women are one of the most sensitive/intelligent creature that God has created. Only a woman know who owns the baby in her womb.

A woman can easily kill a man without traces if she wants to be wicked. Some men turn their women to be bad. Now, if that woman wanna kill the man, it will not take her anything to do away with him.If your relationship is not working out, take a walk out of it and seek for divorce. Marriage is not a Do or Die affair these days.

In this their case, the woman has been mentally destroyed and I want her children to find the best way to help her out. The problem there is the woman who is not willing to help herself, rather would want to die in the hands of the man.

I pray God in His infinite mercy, because of her children, return her senses back in order to let her see the way out of her situation.

Crime › Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by andyanders: 10:24am On May 09, 2016

texazzpete:
If you're dumb enough to believe this story, I wonder why anyone at all should marry you.

Sometimes I wonder why people fall for all these fake bank email scams...then I see that we have some truly gullible folks among us.

This is someone who has already been caught in a lie (Neighbors say he's been beating her regularly, as against his claim that he has not beaten her in years).

You are right. Wonder why people cannot reason right.

Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 10:20am On May 09, 2016

delishpot:
OP, there is nothing you can do to help her. The woman has made her choice. What do you want people to do now? The man can't be arrested if no one is there to accuse him. If you must act, then take your mom away from him forcefully and keep her in a medical fa cf ility if there is any around. She need some brain resetting.

Exactly on point. She does not want to walk away from an abusive relationship and wouldn't want him to be arrested is beyond explanation. Nobody can prosecute the man if the woman is not ready to speak out.

I have explained this to her.

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Crime › Re: I Didn't Kill My Wife - Ronke Shonde's Husband by andyanders: 10:17am On May 09, 2016

nnowu:
Guy na lie,everybody dey ur case now,u must face the law!

Exactly. It is no more a family business of ' We have forgiven him' He must face the music,tried and convicted to life or executed by any means.This is him Vs the State government.No more family business.

You can imagine how he is dancing around with his story.Let him tell the story to the gods and not educated people.

He bought food and both of them ate that night when he earlier said that he was inside the house when she walked in and was making a call to the guy expressing how good she felt after their love making.He came out and confronted her and she confirmed she had an affair with the guy. He just walked away from her and never beat her. He should tell that to the gods.

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Family › Re: My Husband Beats Me With Cutlass; Targeting My Eyes- Domestic Violence Victim by andyanders: 7:48pm On May 08, 2016

So she cannot get out from the relationship? Some ladies are funny.

Anyway, I cannot blame some guys that abuse women.I blame ladies who just walk into relationship closing their eyes claiming, I love him because he can afford Tantalizer or fast food or even be taking you to a beer joint where you foolishly drink and open your legs without thinking. When your parents warn you not to marry such men, you start calling them old fashion.

When the guy starts abusing you, you have nowhere to run to because you already ignored their warning not to marry such guy.

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Crime › Re: Ronke Shonde's Murderer, Lekan Shonde, Wanted By Lagos Police by andyanders: 7:05pm On May 08, 2016

olamirey:
So so sad,wen I read stories like this,I always thank God that I walked out of an abusive marriage.I almost died too,but I. Left. And am the 'best' for. It.
May her soul RIP

Good for the action you took. Never allow a man destroy who you are or your life.A woman or a man should walk out of any relationship that is not working out.

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Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 7:01pm On May 08, 2016

How far with the situation?

Crime › Re: Ronke Shonde's Murderer, Lekan Shonde, Wanted By Lagos Police by andyanders: 6:43pm On May 08, 2016*

lielbreema:
A certain lawyer killed her banker husband some months ago what would u say about that?

To as many ladies that read this, STAY AWAY FROM THE MEN LIKE THE ONE I'M QUOTING, IF YOUR BF OR HUSBAND SOUNDS LIKE THIS DUMP HIM ASAP!. HE IS THE TYPE THAT WILL KILL HIS PARTNER!

You are right. The guy is sick by saying what he just stated. Not every marketer with any bank go about marketing with her body. A bad woman will remain a bad woman, no matter whatever you provides for her.

What has the silly man achieved by killing the woman who gave birth to his children? God have mercy.

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Crime › Re: Ronke Shonde's Murderer, Lekan Shonde, Wanted By Lagos Police by andyanders: 6:23pm On May 08, 2016

DDeliverer:
why should a girl get married to a guy who is older than her with over 20years? I know tis definitely not love....no, it can't be.
why should a lady remain with a man that beats her?

there is a mystery in this our world that I'm still trying to understand--'ladies love me that beat them'. They might claim they don't, but they do....and they won't leave that man/guy until they are DEAD...as in this Mrs ronke's case.

mtcheew..

It is not even the age barrier that is the problem here, rather, staying in and managing an abusive relationship is the problem here. Is marriage DO and Die affair?

You have seen him abusing you physically and you say, I will not leave the house? Then, you have invited demon to destroy you. The man has a good job and the wife, a good job. I believe something is not right by saying ' So far I have children with him, he cannot do anything' is wrong.

We should try to understand that an abusive relationship cannot be trusted even if children has been brought to this world by both.

An abusive man is a Time Bomb and can explode at anytime. Therefore, ladies/women should not stay in any abusive relationship. When you find the threat, get out and never look back. Some guys are frustrated and tend to pour their anger on their intimidate family member. When you have a husband that is not happy with your job, either you quit the job or both of you find what is the best option for the interest of their relationship.

Never hang in or marry a man who is very possessive in nature. He suspects your every move and never trusted you whenever you are not around. If you are a working class lady, never marry a man who is suspicious and possessive in nature.

Too bad for this lady.

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Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 10:47am On May 08, 2016*

I feel your pain and you guys must stop this. He is a pedophile,insane and needs not to be with any human being.

Listen, your mother is just compounding the problem because there is something going on between them hence your mother said, if she gets out of the relationship, that he will die. Why can't she get out if she is not hiding anything? That is what I am not getting right. You are with a man who is not legally married to you despite having issues with him and he wants to kill you, you still don't want to get out from the relationship.

She is still hiding something or there is something your Dad did behind her that has put her in that condition of which, she doesn't know, unless she is delivered.

Have you guys gone to where I asked you to go? That can only work if your mother is willing to open up.

Travel › Re: My Cousin Is Stranded In The US.. Needs A Place To Stay (He Is Single & Handsome by andyanders: 10:37pm On May 07, 2016

Sounds stupid. In fact with what you have just stated, he needed to be sent back to Nigeria. What kind of conference that he attended and after the conference, he now wants an accommodation to stay. It is wrong because you have shown that he has no intention to return.

Listen op, America is not Nigeria and nobody is gonna accommodate him?

Too bad mehn.

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Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 8:55pm On May 07, 2016*

My sister, I am human and is concerned about your mum's situation.I feel your pain and feel so bad that you, your siblings and a loving mother is passing through this pain.

I have just taken my time to go through your script and cannot hide how bad I felt over this whole issue. You stated that even people from your dad's company came to tell your mom to get out from his house and she refused and only wanted the man to kill her.

In fact, I believe there is something about their relationship that your mother is not telling you people hence she vowed to stay and die in his hands.

Call your mother and ask her if she has any hidden covenant she took with your dad. Ask her if she took blood covenant that she has failed to tell you guys. Something is wrong here.

How can she refuse to get out from the man since they are not legally married? They were Live In Lovers and the result was you guys. Now, if she refuse to get out despite the efforts you guys has taken over her affair, don't you think that this is not right and that something is wrong somewhere?

I need you guys to go see her and ask her something that she has not told you guys. She is not telling you guys the truth over this.
I will wait to hear from you guys.

Crime › Re: Man,henry Ogundele Threathens To Kill Wife And Throw Her In Suckaway. by andyanders: 10:53pm On May 06, 2016

well, it is not right to put your mums number here and as the situation is, nobody is gonna call her. I cannot even call myself cus it is not right. I think you earlier mentioned that you have taken her out? Well, he is still her husband and she may have her reasons why she would wanna stay with him. She knows what is best for her.Since they are legally married, she has answers to everything.

If she want to stay with him, well it is left for her and that is it.

So take care,

Celebrities › Re: Afrocandy Shows Off Bootylicious Curves (photos) by andyanders: 9:28pm On May 06, 2016

The worst legs I have ever seen in my life. Can you see that this is an eye sour?What kind of a man would wanna sleep with this lady? I believe her body will even have odor.

Celebrities › Re: Majek Fashek Dumps Ayiri Emami by andyanders: 3:46pm On May 06, 2016

The weed has affected every part of Majek hence he is talking trash.

Family › Re: Missing 3 Siblings In Lagos (Photo) by andyanders: 3:25pm On May 06, 2016

The wife and the man has unanswered question and must know where these children are. He separated from their mother and the children missing for about six weeks and himself and the wife don't know?

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