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Khd95:
Tho i was never a fan of pre wedding madness,but this is the best i ve seen here on NL....but wait ooo lawyer + soldier,na die oo

Exactly, and very descent. Not most of these nonsense holding their asss as if there is food that has not been eaten b4.

God pre-wedding pixs

Love Machine:
Them don steal money come burn vital documents to evade prosecution.

Exactly. That is Nigeria for you where there is no forensic experts to uncover what went wrong. Chop and burn evidence or kill whosoever that stands your way. Nigeria is a sick country.

alignacademy:
Frankly, if you call your home in its current state “happy”, then you really need more help than you think.



“She is everything to you”? If you are in a relationship where you set yourself up to desperately “need” the other, you are in a position of weakness. Marriage should be a union of 2 mature individuals. You need to get out of this weak mindset ASAP.



Brother, please!

The trust has already been breached (else you won’t be typing this post). Please treat this matter with the seriousness it deserves. This is not an issue of “trust” or even “love”.



I hate to break it to you like this but all the great advice already shared with you here won’t do you much if you persist with this misguided “Hollywood” concept of love.

STOP this sickening needy attitude. If you don’t know, you’re probably a laughing stock already, among your wife’s colleagues and even your neighbours. (Yes, word does go around.)

As a matter of urgency, sit her down and tell her how her behaviour is ruining the family. Please in that conversation do NOT mention anything about how much you love her bla bla bla… because the issue isn’t about love. It’s really about your peace of mind.

One more thing: don’t issue any empty threats, like “I will send you back to your father’s house”. Your ACTIONS should speak for you.

Call up an elder in her family and tell them that their daughter is misbehaving, that they should talk to her. Do NOT go into specifics about what you observed; just tell them their daughter is misbehaving.

Then follow up with being nice AND firm. Once in a while, do not eat her food (yes, your case needs some fasting!) When she asks if anything is wrong, be very nice and tell her you are fine.

Like I said before, a lot of great advice has already been shared here. But remember none of it will work if you keep up your pussy-cat act

Let us know how it goes

You are a real man and you nailed it. Let op stop talking of this useless love issue and confront the problem as it is. No man can even buy a gift for my wife and I keep mute in the name of love, talk less of going to the extent of calling the mother of my children 'my baby' and I will take it kindly for a second.

I have got my life to live and she got hers and she can take a walk or I do either way.I will kick her asss out of my sight.Nonsense.

Her boss already bought her over and no matter how the guy goes about it, she cannot stop unless when her boss is done with her, he will then sack her and hire another lady.

Op's wife is a very weak woman hence the man was able to buy her over by providing her with those materials. He would wanna fvck her until he completes the cost of whatever he has given her and would throw her away.

The lady is just a wicked woman. If the guy doesn't take time, the guy could brainwash the lady by asking her to kill her husband and he would stand to take over her.

Op's life is in danger and he is handling this with kids glove.

Note op, your wife is deeply into relationship with her boss and only God can save this. Also, you are a weak man as you have used the so called "I love her so much" to weaken yourself. You are a manager of your home and have failed to handle this issue rightly.

For me, I cannot take it for once talk less of watching her chat and also delete her chat history. what a fvck.Well, you do not have a wife for now. You are living with a cheat.

Corruption is fighting Magu.

The house is not descent hence their refusal to confirm Magu.

Nobody than fight corruption in the 2 chambers and they all see Magu as the one that could ruin their political career hence they do not want him.

foooOOlsih old woman ranting and defaming people around. She should remain in prison custody till further notice. .

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na im one man, get mind tif..SMH

He should be executed. I pray we enact China law here in Nigeria so that corrupt public servants gets death sentence when found guilty.

greatnaija01:
so such movie production does not make available enough security for their CAST? what rubbish? In hollywood... there is security and you can not try rubbish......

How can they look for security when they are just after making money without considering their safety. Making movie in Nigeria is so cheap that they just keep wandering here and there looking for people to give them a free place for their movie.

I have been approached by many of them to use my place for their act but I turned them down.

Truth said. I was highly disappointed that the House of Assembly could stand to humiliate Magu by their decision not to confirm his nomination.

With the high level of corruption within their circle, it will be very difficult to have Magu get fair judgement by the chamber.


If they can do that to the president, then then have clearly shown that they have no respect for his position and person
Too bad.

From his looks, one wcould know that he is insane.

Otobo knows she is telling lies but as you know devil, she cannot stop until a curse starts working agianst her and those sending he would abandon her to her faith.

Gurumaharaji:
Shut up woman...You are one of d problem of this nation because u supported this government at inception. Your just bittered because u were abandoned....So just shut d fucck up

That is why this country cannot move forward with people like you. Illiteracy is a disease. Were you told that she was looking for job? Your generation cannot even near a dime where she has gotten in life.

The senate is corrupt hence they do not want people who will send them to prison.

Kobicove:
This is just one side of the story...

I would also like to hear the other side of the story

What other side of the story are you looking for? Will the woman cut her body or inflict such injury on herself to get even with the guy?

I am not after that, but MUST condemn any action of violence against women no matter the provocation even if you caught a man on her top, allow her go rather than taking laws into your own hands.

When you ladies go about trying to marry all these guys that live in clubs and jumping from one woman to the other and you feel you have gotten a celebrity.

85% of most of them are not worthy to be a responsible husband or father to their wife and children.

How can a responsible man be beating his wife in the presence of friends/visitors. That goes to show how useless he is. Must you beat your wife to get even no matter what she did to you? Hell No.

Any man that raises his hands on a lady no matter the provocation is not worthy to be alive.

We men should be responsible enough to note that women exhibit funny attitude that could be provocative, but beating them is not the best option, rather take a walk and allow things to calm down and you talk it over with her. I still stand to say it that The Nigerian Women are the most endurable women on the face of this world and they do respect their partners more than other women from other part of this world.

Can you imagine the kind of blood coming out from a woman he calls his wife.Too bad. I blame these ladies that are after some of these guys.

Those ladies should make sure that they wear double undies with an iron key to their pvvssy if not, the guy would wanna finger them.

0rlando0woh:
You and I know that Agabi is full blooded Yoruba

For real. This is not a matter of ethnic issue, though a Yoruba boy but he is a thief and it's a pity he chose to live a life like this.

stankezzy:
e be like say u no start from de beginning , the girls father has come out to deny her and any thing she is doing , that his hands no follow still all this setanists are making noise,the part that leo mezie an actor that every body knows forgot to say was that aside giving him money he also prayed for him and no trace of kidney/liver failure was again found in him,it is like in the bible wen people were flocking Jesus because of what he was doing and the pharases became jealous

Exactly. Those calling the Pastor names are laying a curse upon themselves and the lady is already cursed. That is why many people run away from helping people these days. You give people food, satanic agents tag it that those collecting food from such people giving out to the less privileged were using same means to collect their destiny.

Prophet T.B. Joshua has been the MOST persecuted by the agents of satan using ladies and some gullible men to attack him.

sugarwiz:
God is beginning to deal with fake pastors everywhere

Watch what you say about this issue herein as regards the subject matter so that you don't lay a curse on yourself for life . When an agent of the devil is fighting, they fight with everything within their reach.The said Mr. Leo stated that same man of God sent him 8million when he heard about his case without seeing him in person.

The likes of Otobo and her cohorts can try and blackmail some men of God like this.The said Otobo who said that the pastor has done some tradition wine carrying to her parents; and I now ask, how can such not be recorded? Why must she declare that her laptop or evidence got missing? Her parents are they not alive?

I also read that her father denied ever seeing the pastor come over with her daughter for any marriage or introduction.

Many great men of God has faced same accusation. They have accused prophets like T.B.Joshua and their likes and still, God has been on their side. This will come and pass by and same prophet would continue to do the work that he was called for.
She is laying a curse on herself.

The guy should be executed now

He should be executed too.

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Abeg, if the Fanta is cold, Pls gimme.

Those wrist watches are those mallam wrist watch that is not more than N1,500. From the look of the fridge you will know that this topic is just useless as that fridge is even Tokunbo fridge and empty bottles of wine.

Poverty is a curse.

The public should also witness their execution same way so that they will not be hidden by same people and be replaced with ordinary criminals.

This should be the best judgement in the history of Nigeria. They should be executed in the public so that other officers could learn.

MathsChic:
I think you are under an illusion of grandeur. You have a feeling you are smart. But indeed you may not be as smart as you think. It's the wrongest thing to think a boss who remarked, even if in passing, about your superior presentation skills, would now be thinking of bringing you down, when all he needs to "bring you down" is to merely fire you. And hire someone else.

If he found work for you between 10am and 4pm, it could be for a host of other reasons, and for nothing related to your paranoia. If he thought the DSTV needed to be shut down, there could be a thousand other reasons for it and not for the hunt you think.

You need to watch it. Sooner those feelings you harbour will creep out and in no time will become perceptible to your boss. You should know that once that happens, insubordination is the interpretation. I'll suggest you simply do your thing. Do your job and don't entertain those feelings of greatness, which, frankly, ain't even great anyways. Concentrate on honing your skills and not on who's after your phantom glory.

In other words, stay focused, oga.

In fact, you just said my mind and straight to the point. Another part of op's feelings, is that he is too egocentric hence his feelings over who he thinks he is or how he feels his employer/s sees him.

DIKEnaWAR:
RIP James. You did your part while you were alive.


Nollywood is a hoax. Better find a job instead of forming actor there. It only pays prostitutes like all of them girls. How can anyone tell me that an A list actor cannot afford hid medical expenses anywhere in the world? Do you want me to believe that is a movie industy?

I am going to tell this story at the risk of unmasking my identity here. (Cos I have told it to friends many times)

I went to visit a cousin of mine in Yetunde Brown Gbagada once. Who did I find washing a 504 station wagon with a giant of a woman standing beside him? Prince James Uche and the giant lady was the wife. Their living condition was way below his television status.

The only business that pays now is politics. Shame that honest people can't make an honest living in this country and take care of themselves and family. Shame that crooks like Buhari, Obasanjo, Jonathan and Co who have deliberately and wickedly refused to build good hospitals here are being ferried abroad and treated with our money.

Thunder fire them and their families 2 zillion x 20 zillion times.

Ameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

You people talk too much and act nothing. You guys there should have done the needful to get them off instead of coming here to express yourself when you know that you will not get any form of assistance to sort them out.

neocortex:
The problem with this victim's story is that he chose to share it on the
international women's day, it won't be taken serious as it would if it
didn't coincide with women's day.

How can we reduce sexual abuse when victims keep quiet.

All those shouting "liar" aren't that bright.

Note that he was advising parents to watch over their children and who they allow them stay with. These days, too many young men becoming gay every day.Choosing such a day is good better because it's a day marked for women.

How can Bayern be so wicked to be scoring goals like this. They want to kill Wenger? The man is old and as such, Beryern should not send him to his early grave.

Please Beryern, have MERCY.

Arsenal disgraced. Just don't know why Wenger wanna be qualifying to be in UEFA.

That is the reason her breast is flat. How can such a lady's body move a man to wanna stay 2hrs doing what? Maybe a man under the influence of drug who cannot reason well.