@ poster;u want people to eat u raw,in a country like nija were there is no job,u get luck to earn 90k in a month and u they complain,u are ungrateful.my baby sis finish uni for the past 2 yrs she still they look for  job,pls give me the name and address of that company,since 90k a month is too small for a man like u.IDIOT

INTELLIGENT ADVICE FOR MY GIRLFRIEND PLEASE,THIS IS HER STORY, l meant my boyfriend an igbo boy in 2005,he was new in Europe,and an illegal immigration like me,we were neighbours in the same building,we stated dating,he lives in the 1st floor why l live in the second floor,l live alone,he was living with a friend,so he is always in my house,he was the only boy l have ever truly loved,3 months into our relationship,he propose marriage to me l accepted,cos l was blind in love,he want a child,l stop taking my pills and that same month i was pregnant,that was when l realised that l am making a big mistake,we both,don't have a job and resident permit,l have a white man,who has been taking care of all my needs since 2002,he is 22 yrs older than me.he paid my house rent and give me monthly allowance,so l don't lack anything,l told my igbo lover the truth from day 1,he knows everything,what will happen if this man finds out that l am pregnant for sure is not his baby,cos l don't sleep with him without condon.so l decide to terminate the pregnancy,it was my first abortion,,l almost died,l used my girl friend
hospital documents ,and he was born,1976 and l was born 1981,so they actually gave me overdoes,l almost die and then they call my fiance,l lie to him that l have an oval kest,when he arrive to the hospital ,he finds out the truth,l have no other choice than to tell him what happened,he was angry at first then he said he will forgive me on one condition,l should move in with him,so that will get married.l was confused,but l cant do without this man,if l say no,it is over between us,how will l live,my igbo boyfriend,told me not to worry that god will see us through;l refuse,and so l choice comfort instead of love,l move in with my white man ,who was financially OK,we get married and l have a kid for him,then l was miserable,l don't love him,but l have everything and l don't lack anything,so in 2008 my ex contacted me,l was more than happy,l will never forget that day,it was as if a dream come true,l took my car and rush to see him,he lives 1h30Min's from me,that was it,we stated dating again,he was still single,he told me he finds it difficult to carry on after our separation,but alot have change,he has his own personal apartment ,a resident permit,and a job.he ask me to divorce my hubby and marry him since l was not happy in my marriage,l need time to think,so will started dating again,this time around,we see twice in a month,it was fun,but the most difficult was the fact that l have to lie to my husband,somethings l spend the weekend with my igbo lover,and my hubby will be alone with our baby,is difficult to lie to an innocent man,who means me no harm,but l don't love him,l am miserable in my marriage,but l cant live him to marry my igbo lover,l love my lifestyle of the rich and l can intend to give all this always for love,so l don't know what to do,since two days now,my igbo boyfriend dont want to talk to me again,his phone is off,he said,l destroy his life,he said he is 35 and single because of me,that l should live him alone,l love this boy,but l am confused,my husband love me so much,he is a good husband and a good father,he has been there for me,he picked me from nowhere,he carried all my burnden,he makes me who l am today,he gave me that life l have always dream of,but l don't love him,l tried so hard,will are incompatible,so l am very sad in my married,l love my igbo lover,ever if he has nothing to offer me,l love him,l cant imagine my life without him,l don't know what to do,advice pls,l am too confused

l am 29 yrs old woman and a mother,l look like 22 and l am very sexy,my friends call me sexy mama,sometimes is good to look younger than ur age,it depends on the situation,when l started my job,one of my co worker was so mean to me,one day l was like Helen how old are u ?SHE SAID 22YRS ?l SAID OK?l AM 29 AND A MOTHER,she was so surprise,she said wahoooooooo,u look like 22,and is difficult to believe u are a mother of 2 kids,now she is my friend,l told her to mind the way she talks to me sometimes cos even my baby sister is older than her.

l was born 14 novermber ,l am not a sex addict

mobo444 u again,this boy,you non go ever change,wonders shall never end,u make me hate benin boys so much.WHO DO U EVEN THINK U ARE?gods gift to nija girls?na only stupid nija girls go marry or date looser like u.idiot

listern,mobo444 is from edo state,an accountant,a girl paid for his fair to london,he is one of those jobless ,puree benin boys in europe,gold diggers,who wants to ripe were they did not sow.An educated illiterate.IDOIT

hi lhebrooke,l am very interested in ur 4 bedroom bungalow,how much would it cost me to get a plan for it and do your think a plot of land 100 by 100 we be ok. email me tina_babyg@hotmail.fr please.THANKS

bring back my elder brother victor.i miss him so much.MAY HIS GENTLE SOUL REST IN PEACE

wahooooooooooooooo l love your poem.

my parents cant chose my husband for me never,if they dont like the man l want to marry let them stay away from him,is my life,even if l choses to marry a blind man,is my life and not there business,period.

happily married for 7 years now,l dont share the same bedroom with my hubby,reason,l have difficulty sleeping at night,so,l dont want to distured his sleep cos after a hard day job ,he need to rest,so,l enjoy sleeping alone,if i cant sleep l watch television,or stay on net in my room.

my holy bible,under my pillow;l cant sleep without it.

can you married and have a child for a man that is 23 years older than you(he is single,never been married,no kids),if he is financially OK and very humble.imagine you are 30 and he is 53?

if yes ,tell me why yes
and if your answer is no tell me why?

no