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please how much will it take to clear a 2005/2006 peugeot 407 to lagos

well said gamechange

@ boy1, if you have nothing serious to say to help Tara,then don't say anything at all, this remark of you is just stupid,

Why should she do that after the way he is treating her? He is the one that should be doing that? Bad advice,

Am sorry to hear that He wants to throw you and your child out just like that? Or does he want only you to go? Time to take action girl, this is your life your talking about here,

did he told you that he is one of those people that has to cheat before you got married or?

very immature answers here, male models are gay and you must be very sick in love to listen to her, guess the first one hasn't got the skills to ever become a model and the second one can't even get a girlfriend, help the guy out with some usefull advice instead people,

A bankloan or loan from your family should help you, just check out the possibilities, and if you can't then he should buy you out and then you use the money to buy or rent something yourself, there is a solution to everthing, eventhough you think at this moment there isn't one,

then i suggest you get a lawyer as soon as possible. You can't live under the same roof!! Get separated, make him leave the house, you buy him out so the house will be in your name. i know it's a lot to deal with so make sure you have some good friends that will help you get through this, but you need to do it. If he starts taking home girls it's going to be hell,

There is no reason fr you to keep on living like this. Just pack your stuff and take your child and go to your family until you got a place on your own. Ask for a divorce and sew his ass for all the money he has and get a good monthly childsupport arrangement. Stand up for yourself and take action, that's the only thing you can do right now,

Well, if they like you enough, and you get along with them, then they will try to help you save this marriage. It wouldn't look good to them either if you guys would separate,now would it? And knowing what happend in the past and what he is doing now is disgracing his family too? It could be that they see you as somebody who wants to help them preventing and protecting his family from this? Have you ever thought of that?

I don't have children of my own yet,but i have friends that have separated who have children. Believe me that this situation isn't healthy for the child either. Maybe you can talk to a brother or sister if he has any? Or to one of his close friends? Tell them what happend,try to get them on your side and make them talk to him to get through his thick scull

then i suggest that you treath him with leaving. Why did you let it go on for so long? I understand that you love him and that your scared to leave him, but there plenty of men out there that want to have a girl like you and treat you like you should be treaten. With respect,love,good communication and most of all ; unconditionally. You don't need this man, he doesn't deserve you!! Your really a better person without him. Believe me, i have had my share with man, not many, but long relationships and let them walk all over me,because i thought that i couldn't get better and feeling so depressed about it. But i took the courage and broke with them,because i told myself that i deserved more then that! And i think you should do the same!

My fiancee has the same opportunity, even got contacted by a magazine to put his picture in it. Offcourse i am proud that they want to do that, but on the other side i am afraid that things might change between us. Thinking of other girls looking at him in a special way makes me shiver. Would even make me feel that i could loose him anytime to one of them. But if your in a serious relationship and it's a stable one you have to trust eachother. So i told him to go ahead with it, and now he is the one having doubts if he should/would do it, maybe i should call that reversed psychology? lol  

your husband obviously don't have any respect for you. Him cheating on you isn't right. It's ok to talk to somebody about your situation,but did it have to be a man? Why not a girlfriend? Talking to a man about it gives you the perspective from his eyes (man) instead of getting it from a womans perspective (the one you need now)

I suggest you talk to your husband, tell him what is on your mind (what you have been talking about with this guy) If your husband doens't want to change his behaviour,you have no option left then to leave him, because you really shouldn't let him treat you like this!! And he would continue behaving the way he is. No man is worth it to put you down. Your better then that

Good luck!!

hi,

i would like to have some more information too about the courses in Lagos. It's not for me, but for a friend. Please send details to his email: francisj600@yahoo.com

thanks in advance

here are some adresses on sites where you can look for schools in Sweden:


http://www.study-in-europe.info/default.asp?title=Sweden&area=811

http://www.studyinsweden.se/Home/

http://www.lu.se/o.o.i.s?id=10904&template=.sitemap.t

https://www.studera.nu/studera/1374.html

good luck everybody!

Hi ilosiwaju,

thanks for the information, but i have daily contact with my man now, so everything is ok,

take care

Hi Missy B,

Don't worry, i am faithfull to my man! Will actually travel down to Lagos in 2 weeks for a 3.5 weeks vacation He is transferred to Lagos now and doing the rest of his NYSC there.

And Mr.Crackles is just somebody i talk to once in a while, no signs of romance there so no danger

take care

only 170 today in Ikeja

Thanks Nimshi,

i had in mind already that it will go down, so i was thinking that i would exchange half the money i want to use already next month and will change the rest when i get down there,

Hi, i'm going to Lagos in august and was wondering if anybody had an idea how the market for the dollar will be then. Will it go down or up? Is it a good idea to change dollars to Naira now because the rates are high at the moment?

@Benincitys

I'm sorry that you had a bad night at a bad hotel. But i told you that the airporthotel wasn't a good hotel to stay in, Knightsbridgehotel in Ikeja is much better and you pay like 12.000 for a suite a night with excellent food, warm water, aircondition, friendly staff and good security. Please try that hotel the next time your in Lagos, you and your baby will have a more pleasures stay then, am happy that you at least had a good time with your family, and thanks for telling us how things went down there

@Benincitys

Did you went to Naija already? Found a good hotel? please let us know

Most of the people that get scam emails that involves names of known companies just delete them and do nothing. By doing nothing the people who are responsible for doing this kind of scams can continue and might find a innocent person that isn't that ware about this kind of online fraud.I see it as a duty for everybody that can't be tricked by this to report it on places like Nairaland to make it known to the people and to warn the ones that are trying to do this kind of scams that they can't fool me and to warn them that people are after them to get there asses in to jail!

People that scam should be ashamed! Get a normal life, an education and earn your money the legal way, like billions of other people are doing!

@MissyB,

Sorry for the late reply, but for some reason i don't get emails with updates anymore, even when i checked the box that i want them, guess i need MrCrackles to fix that for me 

But don't worry, i stick to my man, no other man will get me but him. He is back in Lagos now and will stay there, so the crisis is over now, 

Guess that's the backside of a long distance relationship, when you can't talk to eachother for a while, but i have a vacation to look forward too in august,


Just give MrCrackles a chance, he ain't that bad if you get to know him a little 

one person says 1 dollar gives you 148 naira, the other person says 1 dollar gives you 177 naira, how is that possible? Is the 148 the rates at the bank and the 177 the rates on the streets Please help me out here

if i would have one i would take it away immediately with a tweezer, never will my man see one on me, would be very ashamed

isn't she ashamed having them? Isn't she taking them away? It's not very hygienic, the girl should take better care of herself,

Is that in Lagos? so for $1 you get N165 at the moment? Wow, that is much more then the N116 i got in october last year,

how much will i get changing dollars to Naira? last time i was in Naija it was 116 for a dollar

some girls get feelings back for old boyfriends when they bump into them again in any kind of way. Reminding her what you guys had makes her feel good. I guess that is why she wanna stay in touch now she found you again. Just make clear to her that you moved on, have a girlfriend and are happy so she will get it and know that there won't be anything more then a friendship on facebook, your not hurting her with saying that, because that are just the facts. And because she suggested that you guys could be friends she should expect to hear that from you, if she doesn't want to hear that she will back off and then you surely don't have to have hard feelings about it, because that ball will be in her court, good luck!

@topic

why do you want to have her as a friend after what she did? She broke your heart, make you move first to Lagos and then to Europe, you didn't let a new girl in your heart after that? She isn't worth that!!

Why torture yourself again? As soon as she can talk to you again she will bring up the past. Is that what you want? Your hiding already when she is online on facebook? I guess you answered that question yourself already if you want her as a friend then. Move on and find new love,

well, this is my thirth and i have been faithfull and i'm 100% sure (don't ask me why i am so sure) that my ex-boyfriends were and my current boyfriend is that too. But that is my relationship, can't speak for the other ones. If you treat eachother in a satisfying way then you don't need to seek elsewere, just keep it exciting. That can be done in so many different ways,