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davidodiba:
So sorry man.....
But do you really love her?

Love is dead already bro.

Johnsmartinyang:
No too much trouble..u can wait it out our matrimony laws will legally separate if after three years u live separately... I went thru such a silent divorce too....if after those number of years u need no consent from her or the certificate for a divorce

We aren't living together anymore. Am not in contact with her anymore

oyb:
get to work deleting

You have no job. And do you think I gave time for this shit of yours. Why do you have to mix up my quote with someone else's. You know I didn't quote all that. I don't blame you. Mumu

Pepsi101:
Are you out of your mind?

You're advising a man to keep a cheating wife because you think "anything can happen".


No sane man will ever keep a cheating girlfriend talk more of a cheating wife,only spineless and useless excuse of a man does that.

Read your comment and you are so on point bro. For those saying that I should forgive her yes I have forgiven her but to take her back is a no no. Most people don't even know what cheating means, a cheat will always be a cheat. And if I take her back do you think I can take my mind off the fact that she cheated? Some guys thinks it's easy to take a cheat back and that's total crap, you are digging your own grave. I even had a dream that she strangled me. Shortly after she came back from her boss meeting I contracted a PID disease from her which I used about 11k to treat myself. Yeah I can forgive but can't forget, I am a kind of guy that once the trust is lost its gone for good. There are many women in the world and why would I take her back. I am even glad that am free, I am focusing more on my life and my daughter. I only wrote this so that guys should learn from me, Never rush into marriage and make sure you read the signs before engaging. I didn't write all of this to ask guys on whether I should take her back or not. I have realised my mistakes and God help us all. Guys once again don't rush into marriage and read the signs like I said.

InfernoNig:
I'm sorry man. The mistake you made was getting out of the house yo get high. That's wrong, it makes you neglect the right thing that needed to be done at that time. Well its all history now. You are not alone in this cheating wife issue. Even we single guys face a lot everyday from cheating girlfriends. Like my case last year, my girl broke up with me accusing me of cheating (I never cheated) 5month after she put to bed for another man. I was hurt, I cried every night. But its all the past now and I am glad it all happened now cos I can't imagine how hurtful it will be if I had married her. Be safe man, take time to heal before you start another relationship.

God bless you bro. It hasn't been easy but I am getting better.

femijay8271:
bro, so sorry for d pain but u knw wat? just forget everything about her and start afresh as you have said. as I use to tell my friends that if u have dis doe, Tell a woman to sit in d toilet for 3 days, she will because of d doe so bro, make some doe and forget woman. make Almighty God help you.

Bless you bro

IamD18:
It's a very big abomination in Nigeria to see a woman who will respect, value, be loyal and be faithful to her husband during hard times.
You'll only see their loyalty when you are doing well, not duration hard times.

Contact a good lawyer and flee from anything that has to do with that prostitute of an ex-wife.

While doing all these, also go for DNA test to be sure you are father of the said child. So that you don't end up being used and extorted because of a bastard child.

I already did that. Thanks bro

I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.

She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.

Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.

Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.

One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.

I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.

It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.

I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.

Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.

Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.

In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.

Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys.

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Marriage is too stressful. You base your happiness on the other.

This Nigga ain't scared of death. Buhari Why!!!!!

sean1000x:
If Sergio Ramos is a cancer to football, what then are afonjas to Nigeria?

Your Brian is officially dead. Must everything be about tribalism. Oponu

As much as hated what he did I still like Ramos. Salah fcked himself up.

Owill1:
but dem no fit get diz sense wey u get..so painful weneva i c dem dey do laulau.

Exactly, all they think about is Benz Benz Benz

If the EFCC wants to arrest young men living large without an identifiable source of income, then they should first start with Yusuf Buhari rather than patrons of Lagos Night Club. Yusuf does not have a job, he has not done NYSC. His father had to borrow to pay for his nomination forms. So where did he get the money for his BMW power bike? After Yusuf the EFCC should then move to the Sons and Daughters of our politicians who also live large. Most of you guys hating on Gboys you are only envious and jealous of them. My advice to Gboys out there when you get that dollars invest into farming, snailery, agriculture in general.
Let's betterment the society, our environment, the people around us, give to the needy, and bless the poor instead of flaunting the money, pumping expensive champagnes, wasting cash on oloshos, look for a woman that will build your dream for you and surround yourself with visionary friends.

Funny Challenge

What most human beings don't know is that we all look alike. God and mother nature put a coverage over our eyes that's why we can't see it.

I had a very terrible dream last night. I saw myself coming down the plane and the first person I saw was buhari, he wore white clothes and he beckoned on me to come but I didn't answer him sha. Guys what does this dream mean abeg.

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hommespecia:
Thomas Horbbes

Thank you sir

BlackPantherxXx:
Send your account number....i need to send you to a school and to see a good optician.

Read again and see where i wrote that i have played all the games and i am aware of God of War : Saga which has 5 games in it.

Hungry boy...now, go and hawk gala, your customers are waiting.

Bro make I send my account number? Hunger DE wire me abeg

NwaAmaikpe:



The Last of Us is still better than God Of War even on it's worst day.

My friends tells me that the game looks too real. I would like to play that game soon.

Whether na Infringement, whether na Advertisement, whether na drug money, whether na YAHOO MONEY BABA GOD PLEASE BLESS ME THIS YEAR. BLESS ME WITH AN AFORMATIC SUV PLEASE O LORD. Please Lord let me enemies see my success and commit suicide.

GURUGRAPHICS:
wow



are you bored and in need of some entertainment?
then add me on skype at isabel okoh... for a video chat session...

...serious buyers only!!!!

What kind of entertainment?

IsaAbubakar:
there's nothing like ghost
it's just a fringe of our imagination
once someone is dead
he becomes as lifeless as a log of wood
asalamualykum bro

So true and there's nothing like hellfire

ShyCypher:
How are we sure the surgeons sewed him back intact?

I'm askin' because kidneys are now around 5m in the black market. Heart, liver & bladder all command respectable sums.



Also, I hope the surgeons weren't Afonja?

If so, his skull might already be in a sack somewhere around Oshogbo.

You should be given an award for the most foolish person in the world

TimFisher:
Am just laughing at u in Swahili

Don't worry you will be the next in line!

Ewu!

Bro that guy might be the inspector general.

LeeMason:
Learn how to swim, it wont take more than 3days attempt

Many people don't know swimming is a necessity. It's one of the best exercises that works for the whole muscles and it could even safe your life. It took me about a week and I learnt to swim perfectly

SapphirePRINCEX:
hmmmm there is more to this... How old was the baby and why did the neighbor knowing she was lifeless pour something into her eyes?


Now I have to be very careful how my baby falls o

My baby is almost 2 years now, I never allow her fall down for any reason. Babies are too fragile just like glass cup

Living a righteous life? I think we all sin everyday, No big or small sin before the Lord. Apparently we all go to hell.

Front page at last. God bless salah. God bless Liverpool