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Adiahaakwaibom1 so sori for ur lost, pls take hrt God will comfort and strengthen u. amen |
mumsgirl27:ooh sori cappo I ws worried, I tot if u dont show face today i will ask for ur fone number to call. don't wori u will be fine by his grace. u dat use to ginger me dat May is nt far again. |
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God ll go before u nd u ll com out victoriously. in Jesus Christ name. amen |
opeyemiore:welcome welcome |
abeg I dey find my cappo mumsgirl27 , Roseey0, rosekatiej,, missusadey , 4realwoman mamatwiny , I blive God for ur come bck. Forevergirl , Imahaps , Omojolagbe, Blessedmum , bigiyaro, yetty002. ope y'all are gud, I miss u guys. ( I tink dis hormones don start again) |
Mammybabe:congrats ma |
youngmommypat:no ma, team may ure still my senior. |
youngmommypat:welcome ve a blessed stay. amen |
ebonychic18:congrats ma |
SomebodysMum:ooh TankGod, congratulations ma |
jadareese:barnawa gra vry close to u, jst d river separating us. which of d hospital do u use? Im a first time mum, dnt knw which hospital to use. |
laura23:sori for ur lost, its well |
omotolanibaby:congratulations dear, TankGod for his gracious gift. |
abike12:congrats dear ure welcome ur stay here ll b beautiful nd full of gud health through out ur nine month. in Jesus name amen |
completey and proudmama38 seriously dnt knw wat to say bt God ll reward nd bless u. d heaven over u shall nt b shut, for dis very act of love d evil one shall nt see u nor ur family. amen congratulations kelizosuy, thank God for his gift( Adele) because of her ur shame shall nt b remembered, favour shall follow u, pains u shall nt see again. above al God ll kip her nd bless her, she shall nt jst b a joy to u alone bt to d world as a whole. |
congrats dear |
[quote author=beyedew post=61378899]BS! Starting from when the kpekus that resulted to this pregnancy, this preggy has been eventful. From threatened miscarriage, to me resigning from work, to experiencing heartbreaking weakness (someone that was very agile), to mood swings, to having malaria, upper respiratory tract infection, typhoid and hepatitis all at once, to wasting money going for scans all to know the sex of my yellow pawpaw and the boy no just wan respect em self, to having vericose veins, although my gynea said it was bad (em dey tell em self), to having correct boils everywhere for body, even inside my trust bank, to having akpu behind, to being depressed, to developing hbp towards the end. My sisters, I saw it all. But in all, I give glory to God. After waiting and wasting money going for scans, I decided not to go again, during my 1st baby's time, my bag was already packed at 5months, but in this my bun, at 37 weeks and 4days, I just got essential things that wasn't dependent on the sex of lo. October 6th saw me going to the market to get essential things, after all my waka, I just decided to pity the bun and go check in another scan center to see if I can have a positive result about its sex. Can you believe that this dude was still hiding oo, I asked the sonographer how big em kini dey cos me no just understand, he said "madam, don't worry, he will perform well when the time comes". I use fear and faith together believe am. During the scan, the guy just gave me a heartbreaking news, my baby was heads down but facing up, that was all he said. I got scared, he also changed my edd to 18th instead of 24th. I took the result to my gynea and he asked me to go do a repeat scan downstairs, I rushed down, all the energy I didn't have before came flowing. After the scan, I took my result to my gynea and it was same. My amniotic fluid was reduced, baby's biophysical profile was 8 as against 10, baby was heads down but facing up. I got weak and started crying, called my dh, he ran down to the hospital, we both went in to see the Dr, he gave us till 10th of Oct, that if labour hadn't started by then, that we should come so that I would be induced. Choi, I called all the medical practioners in my home and they all encouraged me and told me to keep an open mind cos if induction fails, na cs pere! O Christ in heaven. I prayed and I prayed. I chatted mommy Zaynie up (God bless you a hundred fold), told her I needed items for baby boys and I told her how urgent it was. Unfortunately, new born baby boy stuffs weren't available (mamas una try, una no even say make una remain for me), she then offered to help me go to the market and get stuffs from the market for me, but unfortunately, my dh said no, I owe her a lot for even suggesting. Meanwhile, I was ordered to rest seeing as I was probably leaking fluid and my gynea suspected that maybe my placenta was older than it should be. 7th of Oct, I called my bestie, she came around, told her to get me few baby boy's stuffs, I planned using my 1st baby's stuff that I hadn't given out too. Thanks to God she got good stuffs too. I washed everything I needed, packed my bags and then 10th of October, I was off to the hospital with my dh. We got there and my bp was checked, I was in the clear, no real contraction yet, just all the kweke kweke ones. My Gynae asked a nurse to go check me (can't remember what he called it sef, cervical wtv), she did and I was asked to lie down for 30mins before wearing my trouser (yes ooo, I was determined to slay while in the labour room mbok even though I get plenty vericose vein, but na when you open the cloth you go see am na! Atleast I didn't paint my face ni, so I tried.), after all had been done, I was informed that a room had been set up for me. I went there and I slept for a long time, amidst contraction that wasn't really all that painful. Around 6pm, I rang for a nurse that I needed to poop and the nurse came and said she needed to check me, I told her that I was sure it was baby that was doing me but better shi.t, still she insisted, so I allowed her now, shebi na she I go blast with poop abi, after checking, I asked her how many cm I was and she said I just started that I was just 2cm gone, choi, I weak. I sha went and pooped my thing. By then my dh had gone cos he was called for something important, so I called him and informed him about what the nurse said, he came back and stayed with me, we were just gisting normal gist. Shortly after, a nurse was sent to come check on me and also to ask me to come down which I did. Na there problem start. They used one instrument like that to check for baby's heartbeat and they couldn't find it. Eh!!! 3nurses checked but couldnt find it, my Gynae was alerted and he got into the room, he used same thing to check, went round the delivery table checking for baby's heartbeat, nothing! Hieee, I popped on myself. My Gynae ran to his office and got one portable stuff like that (I don't know the name and it was the least of my problems), poured that liquid stuff that sonographers usually pour on someone's stomach before carrying out a scan, and he started searching for baby's heartbeat. After a while, it was found but it wasn't as strong as it should be. Once I start contracting, the heartbeat would reduce, then pick up after each contraction. Baby's heartbeat was reading 92 as against the normal 140 (+/- 20). He then told I and my dh that he needed to carry out cs and he needed to carry it out ASAP. Immediately I heard cs, my bp started rising. By then my mil don show. I started crying, when my dh saw that I was crying, him too started, imagine person wey suppose dey console me, I leave my own cry come dey console am, later him go dey form jagaban! My dh asked my gynea if we could discuss and he gave the go ahead and told us to come see him in his office after our discussion. By then, momsy was already calling all the pastors that she could. Unknown to us, baby's heartbeat was dropping more and more. After our village meeting, I and my dh went to see the Dr and he told me that really soo many things were wrong with the baby (God forbid), not me. My fil called him and he told him same thing that if we wanted a life baby that we needed to carry out cs and we needed it ASAP cos he said I was just 2cm gone and there was no guarantee that baby would stay put all through the period of labour. My dh looked at me and said "baby, make the decision", and I said to the "Dr, please bring out my baby". We got to the theater and when Dr checked baby's heartbeat, it had dropped further, O Christ, then the nightmare started. Dr said he wouldn't be able to give me general anesthesia or even that one that would know me off from my stomach below cos it might affect my baby. Then he asked me if he should go ahead and give me the general one or just local one while I bear the pain. My mil screamed and said Dr please give her the general one please, but I told my Dr that I had suffered too much on this preggy to not go home with my baby, dude bring it on, motherhood is divine. He started administering the local anesthesia, chooking me needles everywhere, I was given 40mls of the local anesthesia (and I fear needles like mad), my 2 hands and legs were bound and the procedure started. 1st layer, I didn't feel any pain, didn't even know when I was cut, then 2nd layer, the painful biatch started, O Jesus, it was hell. My dh who promised to be with me in sickness and in health ran away. My mil was holding my head and her tears were falling down my face while speaking in tongues (she sabi now, me no sabi speak kpam), my sisters, it was hell. When my gynea got to the 4th layer, I thought I was going to die, my only hope was the fact that I was going home with a living child mind you amidst all this, I was still feeling contractions. I started chanting "Overcame" by Ada. When he said he wanted to bring out my baby and he tried bringing it out, the kind shout wey I shout ehhh, he told a nurse to please knock me out, that I had tried. I was knocked out but made to understand that I was still chanting my "Overcame", I know I was chanting it while in ulala land but didn't know I was chanting it in real life. I also heard the cry of my baby while in ulala land, it was very weak. They said Baby had already pooped inside my stomach and had some poop on his mouth. He was quickly cleaned up and hooked to an oxygen tank although for few minutes (he weighed 3kg). After I was stitched, I was allowed to sleep in the theater for good 2hours before I was wheeled to my room with everyone still in attendance. My Gynae ordered that I should be given the best room in the hospital cos I deserved it. I really OVERCAME. We are still at the hospital and I'm recovering very fast. I OVERCAME. I don't know how long it will take but ima get my flat tummy back (yea, I'm vain like that). I don't and won't wish my enemy the experience I had. It wasn't easy at all. seriously don't knw wat to say bt in al we TankGod for his gift nd u overcoming. God is faithful |
Stephaniecoa:ure welcome ma nd congratulation ones more, wish u a blessed nine month. in Jesus Christ name amen |
ahnie:hapi bday ma |
Olubassey92:wow team may ure welcome wish u a blessed nine month. |
belladsweet:congrats dear nd welcome, I pray uve a blessed nine month. my sabi mamas ll give u info on al u nid to knw. |
belladsweet:congratulations ma |
duchessgoddess:congrats dear |
beyedew:congrats ma |
proudmum38 I'm so short of words sori for ur loss. we knw u ll soon b bck here on the thread. amen |
proudmom38:yes its d doctors report, d bible says who's report shall we blive. dia shall no lost in Jesus Christ name amen |
mumsgirl27:im doing great my Honorable cappo, d purging has stop tanx for asking. May far ooh bt ll soon b on my way to see my gynea sha. ve a great day |
curvilicious:with belle u fine lik dis, without belle na miss world u b. |
jadareese:yes ooh wat part of kd |
4realwoman:eya bt TankGod u dnt experience ms at al. |
4realwoman:urw dear, I'm much beta today ve been sleeping al day nd eating no stop I pray I dnt get to fat. |
4realwoman:my dear its well u ll b fine. if uve anointing oil, anoint urself everyday nd speak life to lo. we all shall see may nd carry our dear lo in Jesus Christ name amen. |
hoping to learn a lot from you all and make friends