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Mypeople2:
You be better babe .Wait are you still single ?

Lol.. Very much single

I did it to my madam then. Any time I see my salary, I would always send a thank you msg to her.

I won't blame him at all.. Frustration can make you do and undo.. Nigeria my Country indeed.. It is well finally.

Ok na. Nice to meet you ma

Cases like this weaken me so much. God please, protect our girl children �

Double Double! May God bless us double so that we will consider the one to choose best for us.
My guy, I tap into your blessing.

The World is really coming to an end.

5k. 2009. Came out from secondary school. Didn't want to be idle. That 5k was a big money for me then. Lol. I bought my first phone with that money.. Hahaha. Reminiscing on good old days.

Gulder Ultimate Search most definitely. It's more educational. It teaches the need to endure all tribulations and persevere until you win. There's no rating. It's for all ages. No sexual explicit!
Bring back our Gulder Ultimate Search.

Hahaha.. It's not only in Africa that "Iberiberism" is rampant.

You shouldn't have asked her out in the first place. Or you could have defined your relationship with her from the start. And that your pastor sef.. What kind of prophecy is that? He should go and solve Nigerians problems first if he is truly genuine. Men are heartbreakers aswear.. Oya oh.. Let's see how you will detach from her.. Mr. "I wanted just sex"

Joy of Motherhood �

This issue of rape on our kids is alarming. Every parent should be on a tight lookout on their kids, this ain't funny at all. May God punish all rapists.

This Nengi is very responsible, unlike Erica. I love the way she comports herself. Wise girl.

Jesus!!!! This is despicable!!! God, protect us from evil ones

In this life, we should just be very careful and sensitive as we don't know who is envying us for no reason. The security guard that is supposed to guard her, killed her in her house. And a neighbor that is supposed to be a good acquaintance, is a partaker of this wicked act... Everyone needs to be careful, the world is full of evil. You don't even know who to trust again.

MomsMoneyZone:
Parenting can be quite an arduous adventure. It is hard enough with a committed partner, but when you are doing it alone, especially in Nigeria, the difficulty rises to a whole new level. It can be tricky, maintaining good mental health, thriving as an individual and nurturing your children in the best possible manner.

There are quite a number of women in the country who are single parents through the death of a spouse, divorce, abandonment or choice. While some of these women often feel like they have got it really rough, or that they are doing just about everything wrong; there are others who are successfully and joyfully raising children by themselves.

Wondering how they are scaling through? Jumia travel, Africa’s No.1 online hotel booking portal, shares a few suggestions to help smooth the journey of any single mother in Nigeria.

HAVE A SOLID FINANCIAL BUDGET

A majority of problems faced by single mothers in Nigeria is financially related and most times, it results from improper financial planning. As a single mother, it is essential that you draw up a financial budget per time and stick to it. Calculate how much you earn, what your main expenses are and figure out what is left over for saving and plan accordingly. This ensures that you live according to your means per time and you are do not always run into debt.

PLAN AHEAD FOR EMERGENCIES

Life is full of uncertainties and so it is important that as a single mother you have solid plans for emergencies. Aside from putting money aside for urgent situations, ensure you have you medicine cupboard filled with relevant medication for cases or allergy or infections. Look for emergency babysitting service in your area that can often provide help fairly quickly in situations where you are incapacitated and need care for your child. Also, create an “emergency list” of friends and family members you know you can call on for help in dire situations.

ADJUST YOUR PRIORITIES
A number of single mothers in Nigeria tend to fall into the superwoman trap, assuming they can pull off combining a 9-5 job with house cleaning, cooking meals, and tending to their children’s needs. As a single mother, it is important that they stay realistic about what you can and can’t accomplish in a day and set priorities. Lower your expectations and give yourself time for a break. You do not even have to do everything on your own, free up some personal time by hiring help from time to time.

AVOID “COUPLE ENVY”
This might seem trivial but is a major cause of depression for many single mothers in Nigeria. You are a single parent, things are extra difficult and you most times get lonely; it is normal to feel envious of friends who have kind, involved husbands, men who actually want to be with them and pitch in, but it is important to avoid getting caught up in the illusion that everything would be perfect if you just had a partner.

Remind yourself that everyone has problems, even married people. Constant envy breeds resentment and bitterness, which eventually drains your energy and causes you enough stress to ensure your situation gets even extra difficult.

BUILD A COMMUNITY
Do not be too proud or shy to rely on people around you when you need help or support. Forge a strong community around you, people who can provide emotional support and a sense of belonging – the perfect antidote to the isolation brought on by solo parenting. Even if you are in a city like Abuja where social life is not over active, you can push yourself into social situations, join a church or a club, and attend events in your location.

Do not be afraid to open yourself up to others. Just because you are a single mom, does not mean you or your child should not have other people to go to. Have a diverse social circle and keep a positive outlook on life. If you sit around and play victim to your circumstances things will just keep being difficult for you.

https://momsmoneyzone.com/2020/09/01/how-to-survive-financially-as-a-single-mother-in-nigeria/

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Nice.. Are there any online Platforms or forums for single mothers you can recommend?? Any organizations of sort??

As he is claiming cancer just to get money.. May it be so for him. The true cancer go soon come for you, na there your eye go open.

Lack of money has made people go the wrong path in their quest for money. They can do anything and everything for money.

May God help us.. No matter the situation of things, may we always be truthful in our dealings.

GboyegaD:
You could try apply to the Big 4 since you are 26 and finished with a 2:1. Keep the faith and continue to apply online. May the odds be in your favor.

Please, what is a Big 4??

Rgade:
Don't mind Nigerians. You will always see them making excuses for a failed economy...
"Go and enter business". Like that's how easy it is.
Shebi the capital go fall from heaven.
If na so business dey,then nobody suppose dey poor for naija,because majority of Nigerians are into the so called "business".

Na money person take dey enter business oh.. No money to start with..

Life can be frustrating.. I understand his plight..

uncleteeh:
i have unfollowed on YouTube. dem be scam.

Let me do the same.. They used an expensive strategy.. It's bad. Toiling with people's emotions. What they did can cause heart attack oh..

To think I wasted my time, data, energy in writing, and viewing their youtube course. Choi.. Devastating.. If to say I get money, I for sue them.

She just want to trend too

Africa used una to get subscribers.

As at the time I subscribe to their channels it was about 48 subscribers.

After a week, I said let me check their Youtube channel and see if there is any update.

Boom!!! I saw about 1.4k subscribers. I was like what?

And then, looking at the time management course they asked us to view, you will find out it has the highest number of viewers.

These people know what they want. They used strategy to get subscribers and viewers for their channels.

I have never been scammed in my life. Which money I even get wey person fit scam me sef?

He should come down to Umuahia abeg

May God help us all..

Op.. Wish you were a female. You won't be complaining. We girls love to look everyday youngie..

I will not return if na me oh lol

Let me book space

It is well, las las