₦airaland Forum

Tundenoni:
Coronavirus news continues again today.
Where are Okooloyun , Yemkem , Dr Iguedo at this crucial time?

davodyguy:
This is catastrophic

Xisnin:
Dumb comparison.
Angela Merkel couldn't have known that her doctor is positive.
But every sane person would have suspected Kyari who just came back from Egypt and Germany.

RuudVanNisteroy:
They are regretting as it starts spreading to them. Which hospital will be able to take care of them.

SpecialAgent:
Just need a bit of financial security, if am sure of that, I could even marry tomorrow sef

seanwilliam:
wetin dey your mind??

pmoye:
I feel your pain and your shock at what our society seems to have become. But you got a number of things wrong which I will treat point-by-point

1) the economy is never to be blamed for ladies who are materialist. Otherwise we can also go ahead and use the economy to justify why yahoo boys, ritualists, religious leaders, politicians, and armed robbers go ahead to rob people. Economy or no economy individuals reserve the right and the choice of their response to it. Some ladies respond with hard work, smart investment and building businesses, while other ladies choose to become entitled to other's money.
2) physical beauty must never be an important fact in choosing a lady. Once she feels entitled to what you have you have to cut her lose, except the sense of entitlement is mutually tolerated and exercised by the two of you. I don't have to point it out that many of our men too are too damn entitled to the possession of their friends, families and partners.
3) stop painting our mothers in holy halo: some of them are worse than the ladies of our generation. In summary, it takes a ph.u.cked up mother to raise a ph.uck.ed up daughters, and many of us men are also a culmination of our fathers. Accept that ugly side of the truth and then we all can admit that many of us have been messed up by the very parents and society that produced us. In fact a large number of Nigerian men and ladies are choosing not to marry because of the examples they have seen in their parents growing up.
4) A man should only marry when he is financially able to take care of himself, his wife and his children. The same goes for men that have reckless sex and later insist a lady should terminate the pregnancy. Only a stupid man makes such a mistake, and a dumber lady allows herself to be put in such a position like this by a man who has no plans. It doesn't matter how long it takes you as a man to become financially capable of marrying, make sure you are before you are married. It may take 1 year, 10 or 20 years: this life is not a competition. And it is highly irresponsible of you to try to marry and produce children when you are not economically equipped to do so. You end up producing materialistic girls that tax prospective suitors out of their mind, and boys that are subjected to the kind of hussle that their fathers should have done.
5) Yes, money is pretty much everything. It is only a freakishly rich man or woman who is qualified to say money is not everything. You may think it is not everything, but it damn well answers all things.
6) This is my last point on this. There are no rules for relationship or marriage. Each lady you meet as a man is different from the last. So, be kind enough to treat them with respect, of course until they mess up and show you that they are not deserving of that respect. We all have met great girls who give no rat's ass how much you have, and they are only interested in your vision. So, can we cut down on the stereotypes against women? Shall we?
And no, I ain't married either, but this hasn't stopped me from meeting some great ladies. And yes, I have had nasty experience with Nigerian babes. The entitlement mentally is almost strictly a Nigerian thing (some, not all though, but a significant 'some'). Many of the European girls I know would get offended if you even as much as try to pay for their meal.

Good luck searching for Ms Right.

seanwilliam:
wetin dey your mind??

seanwilliam:
This life sha, as young guy like me wey no get stable source of income now, how e one take be?? And most naija girls are broke . I dont even have problem with dem being broke, the problem is their entitlement mentality....
Well as I dey so, I no fit kill myself atall, I go enjoy myself well well for this bachelor, and I go marry when I'm comfortable.. I no fit kon start my life with suffer suffer.. if I get this degree finish, na to travel go Scandinavian countries go do masters and find one shima, give am beta belle make she give me beta pikin..
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To people that are ready for marriage, no matter how, you still have to be comfortable small before you go consider settling down.. e better not to marry atall than to marry and begin to suffer yourself, yourwife and your innocent children..
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Afterall jesus no marry now.
If pressure too much on u, then become a baby daddy.. atleast you don get seed for ground..
Also if you are not really ready for marriage, there is no point in dating naija girls cos most of dem will just suck u financially, emotionally, materially and other ally
I no sure say this country get hope again..


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P.s. to anyone reading this my ranting abeg make una begin husle earlier ooo.. if you hit better money once, use am build house first.. after that one find beta investment and continue with your husle..

Do anything wey fit give you money , it might sound crazy, but no one is going to ask u how u take make money except SARS and Efcc.. ..
Afterall, orijin is a wonderful brand..
Aro1
Nextd18

ogbuefi677:
The north sowed wind,they are now reaping whirlwind.

I have been paying bandits = Hell Rufai.
Declaration of state of emergency is declaration of war against us=Borno elders forum
A fight against boko haram is a fight against the north= Sheikh osama buhari

Charmingrascal:
Sowore we are with you in our prayers

I used to be a Buharist but I doubt if I can continue to support an insensitive Government like this one we have in Nigeria at the moment.




Buhari came like someone with a good plan for the Country but he got confused and all his ambitions were trampled on by the cabals
It is obvious that Buhari is not the one controlling his Govt.

He is a tribal and religious bigot
Some of his policies are good but he does not know how to go about them or perhaps the cabals are sabotaging his efforts














Nigeria security architecture has failed us, people are being killed everyday, I am not a war monger but if these atrocities continue I think another civil war is inevitable.


The best thing is for Nigeria to be restructured, let every region control it security and resources..
Let Fulani control their cows and fura de nunu so that we can have peace

vr0xen:
You wont see and slawormir the real niggas on this thread. nope you will never see dem

thundafire:
Dat white hair zombie day plunge us into dis Terrible state looking for relevance anyway it's better to see dey light early than remain in the dark apart from Ngeneukwenu and dat are perpetually blind

ContractKiller:
For the first time ever on this forum this niggar somehow managed to make sense. Atewo for him

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Don't trust any cleric, particularly a cleric whose creed glorifies having sex with children.

edo3:
Not by wearing black n white alone,, let's defend ourselves since all d security apparatus is made up of Hausa fulanis.. I know what am saying.. Let divide ds hopeless country..

Okoroawusa:
Hungry kidnappers.... when police catch them na 100k kidnap go cause am.

Neoteny:
Depends on what's burning

Weed is bluish