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EducationRe: Do You Think Pharmacologist Should Be Also Given License To Dispense Drugs by AnthCunny(m): 8:51am On Apr 17, 2020
shollish:
We spend 5 years for Bpharm and 6 years for pharmD studying about 6 departments in the faculty EACH Semester! With not less than 3 practicals EACH Semester!
We are not playing in Pharmacy bro! Its a professional course . Not every pharmacy graduate does MSC in pharmacology, I guess you need a lot of orientation.
Lol... you are funny. Calm down abeg...stop the over-hype.
EducationRe: Get in here. by AnthCunny(m): 1:28pm On Mar 26, 2020
Sexytincoll:
I think the later was used.
Wow...ur story is really inspiring
EducationRe: Get in here. by AnthCunny(m): 8:23am On Mar 26, 2020
Sexytincoll:
Dont be discouraged,i started a little above your gp and my target was nothing short of 4.5, so I had to sit tight and made up throughout the rest semesters. I met my targets all through and just graduated with a cgpa of 4.75 in chemical Eng awaiting service.You can actually do that as well,but you will have to be less active on social media.Best of luck
I understand that there are different methods schools use in calculating CGPAs. In some, the higher you go, the higher the percentage of your GPA for that session will contribute to the total CGPA. In some, it is equally, i.e everything is summed up from first to final year and divided by the credit units you offered throughout. I just want to ask the system your school use.
FamilySpoken Words On Valentine by AnthCunny(op): 4:58am On Feb 14, 2020
Wind of Valentine by AnthCunny

What is it I perceive here?

Hmmmn, something scented of a rose flower and flavoured of a roasted wildfowl
I can hear the dance of forks and knives as they merry with the plates
And clicks of champagne in wine glasses screaming 'cheers!'
How I wish I could savour this mood; much more as you would
But hell no! What I see is a display of dramatic love that dies off when the fries on the table are eaten up and the wine in the bottle dries off
And I keep wondering; when did a night to wine and dine become Valentine?
Someone take me back!
Back to the days of old when this love was shared between fathers and mothers; brothers and sisters and brethren of God's family
When passers-by give cheerfully to strangers without bothering to tell the story on Facebook and Instagram
I desperately long to feel those moments of unadulterated love; where the rate of love was not measured by gifting of weighty cash, nor having a party bash
But by the little smile you make on faces of people who least expected it
Gone are the days when this so much talked about love was blind
So blind it was that a freshly plucked flower by the roadside would warm the heart and make it feel loved
And a scribbled note of 'Hy Anita, happy lover's day' will make Anita know that someone somewhere still holds her to heart
They say change is constant, but why must it be this love Christ so much emphasised on?
Why pretend to keep by the rules when we end up becoming fools in the sight of God?
When the feast in Church is over, off to the bar you cruise with your lover;
Parte after parte you drink till you are high, till the remaining sense of proper reasoning in you bades you bye
And to finally dot your show of love, you wrap yourselves in the dark, under the duvet till you black out
Just like the Biblical foolish rich man, you feel fulfilled
'Enjoy yourself' you would tell yourself
And in the wake of the morning, you become quiet like a hen brooding over her eggs
Flashes of events the night before forming bright images in your head, then you begin to ask yourself 'were they really worth it?'
Then memories of how you sold your virginity for a table decorated with vanity get stacked up in your head for centuries to come
Oh, you decide to play a fast one, you swallow abortion pills, kill the child in womb, but fail to realize that the cry of an unborn child will haunt you till you die
Thoughts of regrets
When you stand before the judgement of the mirror, who you see is not just who you are
All 'cos of a night, you've lost sight of your dreams to become a role model for posterity
Not when the birth of a child becomes the evidence of a broken oath of Chastity and Purity
Just as St Paul would say, 'O foolish men, who has bewitched you?'
Who has turned your heart against the teachings of St Paul as regarding the fruits of the flesh?
For the want of feeling belonged, the sins of fornication, drunkenness and other forms of sexual immorality is trivialized
The wind of valentine
Before you make up your mind, ask yourself again
'Is it really worth it?'

LiteratureCulture Stripes (short Story) by AnthCunny(op): 3:59pm On Feb 05, 2020
Culture Stripes by AnthCunny

The heavy rainfall that morning made Dr Steve's office humid and cool. It was still raining, but lightly. The weather condition had made the hospital environment less noisy for a typical Monday morning. The janitors, clerks and assistant health workers who would have been chattering noisly in their local dialect were nowhere to be found. Perhaps, they were in some corners of the building keeping warm. Or even in their bed with their spouses sharing body heat - trying to keep healthy.
Dr Steve checked the time on his wrist-watch for the upteenth time. It was 9:25 am. He was still indecisive if to begin attending to patients. One of the nurses had already dropped some files on his table. They were about ten in number. The expression in his face when the nurse dropped the files spoke loudly of the stress he had to pass through everyday.
"Gabriel Ivy." Dr Steve called out the name on the first file. No thanks to the cozy effect the weather was having on his voice.
Just when he was about repeating the name, he heard three quick successive knock on the door. A lady entered. She was in her late 20s (so she looked) and had her slim figure cladded in a pair of blue jeans trousers and grey coloured sweater. Her red sneakers giving her the vibe of a youth full of life.
"Ivy?" Dr Steve asked.
"Yeah."
"Have your seat," he offered. He didn't seem to be in a hurry. His eyes was fixed on her as she walked briskly to sit on the only chair directly opposite to him. Her fair skin caught his fancy. Dr Steve had never hidden his likeness for light skinned girls, especially when he was in the midst of his peers. The case of Ivy was a bit spectacular. Her pitch-dark neatly combed hair arranged in a ponytail made him drowse in more admiration.
Dr Steve would have continued with business of the day if not that she was lost in admiring his office. There was really nothing special about his office, save for some old colourful posters and calendar that were either advertising some weird drugs or enlightening patients about a disease or the other. Ivy took her time to look through the award plaques that were strategically placed on his table. Maybe the awards would convince her to trust the doctor the more.
"So, what's the problem?" Dr Steve asked when he noticed she was done admiring.
Ivy was unsure of what to say "Fever, I guess." She blurted. "Occasional fever. Fatigue. I just don't know". The confusion on her face was glaring.
Dr Steve was not convinced a bit. He knew something was amiss. He just couldn't place his fingers around it. He rested his back fully on the chair while folding his arms indicating his patience."
"Tell me another thing," he inquired further.
"Like what?"
"...like the remaining things wrong." Dr Steve wasn't one of those doctors that would hurry to scribble horrible names of drugs for patients to buy. Over the years, he had learnt to be patient with his patients.
"C'mon Ivy, if you don't tell your doctor, who then will you tell?" He tried being persuasive.
Ivy felt her face redden with tears gathering in her eyes. She was still having a double mind if to pour our her heart to the doctor. She avoided eye contact with him - just to prevent the tears from rolling down.
"My breasts."
"Huh? What about it?" Dr Steve didn't hide his shock. He leaned forward with his two hands supporting the weight of his body on the table.
"Pains. They've gotten sores that would refuse to heal. I've tried everything. It would itch till I bleed." Ivy was no longer conservative with her words and emotions.
"For how long?"
"Three years."
"Three what?!" Dr Steve exclaimed. He wasn't sure he heard right.
"... and just recently, I started noticing a lump beneath my left breast," she continued.
"I don't get it! Have you been sleeping all these while or what?! For three years? And you have done nothing about it?"
It was until Ivy's watery eyes started shedding off its tears that Dr Steve realised how unprofessional he had become. The anger was just too much to contain.
'So with all the jingles, posters, enlightenment, people can still be this ignorant,' he had thought.
Memories of what happened 15 years ago began to play in her head. As she remembered each detail, her cry became louder.
"Talk to me I've, why did you take this long?"

******************************************

(Flashback - 15 years ago in a remote village in Kastina, a Nothern state in Nigeria.)

Ivy clenched unto the wrapper of her mother as they waited for their turn. Five other women with their children were also seated on the long bench at the narrow corridor that served as the waiting room leading to the 'theatre'. The air reeked of dust with a mixture of tobacco smell and Aboniki - a popular massaging balm. The sunlight that permeated through the broken wooden window made the cracks on the walls of the mud house very visible. No one seemed to be bothered. Probably, the faith they had in the scantily thached roof had extended to the already falling mud house.
Ivy could feel her heart beat faster. She was just 13 years old and had no ikling about what was going on in the room opposite where they sat. The old torn curtain did a great job in obstructing her view, but not the screams of her peer in in there.
"Mummy, please... it's painful," was all Ivy could hear. She looked up to her mother to find some consolation for what she was going to pass through. Her mother's face was blank. No hope.
"Next!" the old woman in the room squealed.
It was the turn of Ivy. Ivy's mother pulled Ivy up from the bench and dragged her into the room. The sight Ivy beheld sent cold shivers down her spine. It was a bit smoky in the room as a result of the fire the old woman used in boiling water for her business.
Ivy could still see the previous 'patient' lay on the Bamboo bed. She had the upper part of her body bared and her sprouting breast hit continuously with the head of a broom.
"E don do?" the old woman would ask the girl's mother between intervals.
"Errrmmm... it's okay for now. Let's be watching it." The girl's mother who was having a hard time restraining her daughter from escaping finally approved.
"Wahala no dey," the old woman stopped and started putting her equipments in order. "but I get some materials we she fit dey weather for chest make the breast for no dey show. Na strong elastic material," the old woman continued while trying to advertise some elastic bands that could be worn on the body.
"Next time," the girl's mother waved it off.
The little girl was soon dressed up by her mother and led out of the room.
"Lie down," the old woman commanded Ivy. "You no go commot your shirt first?" She asked rhetorically with an irritated face that left more wrinkles to her already wrinkled face.
Ivy obeyed and laid flat. The imagination of what it felt like made her hands and feet shiver.
"Madam, which one I go use?" the old woman asked Ivy's mother.
"I don't know. Anyone we go better," the confused mother gave her permission.
"Na turning-garri go better," the old woman said referring to the wooden spoon used for cooking.
Ivy felt her heart sink.
"Mummy, please, I don't want to do," Ivy begged her mother for the hundredth time.
"Shut up!" her mother scolded. "Do you want all the boys in the village to be following you around? Do you want to carry belle at this your small age?" Ivy's mother continued scolding with her stern face that hadn't smiled since they stepped their feet in the old woman's place.
"My pikin, no fear," the old woman tried assuring Ivy through a wry smile that made her look more horrible. "E no go pain you too much. Every woman wey you dey see for this village don pass through this thing - for my hand sef. Na for your own good my pikin."
Those words only aided in making Ivy cry more. Ivy watched as the old woman dipped half of the wooden spoon into the boiling water and held it for about a minute. Thereafter, she proceeded to where she was laid and pressed it forecefully on her sprouting breasts. The loud scream that escaped from her mouth was the last thing she remembered that happened that very day.

*********************************************

(Present day at Dr Steve"s office)

"I'm scared, Doctor. The pains I experienced all in the name of Breast Ironing are still fresh in my head. I don't want to have anything to do with my breasts again. I can't go through such pains again," Ivy cried. Her tears tasted saltier than it should. While her lower lip seemed too stiff as she tried chewing on it to prevent her teeth from clattering. Intermediately, when she tastes the blood spilling from her bruised lip, she would transfer her aggression to the middle fingernails of her right palm, making sure she chop off everything till they bled.
Dr Steve wasn't prepared for what he was seeing that morning.
"Listen, Ms Ivy, you have no idea of the danger you are in right now. Something needs to be done. Treatment has to begin! It could be breast cancer or a serious infection that had eaten deep into your system. Don't be a coward! Anytime you keep wasting here counts. You may even die if care is not taken." Dr Steve tried all possible words to encourage her.
"I don't care. I don't bloody care!" Ivy screamed at the top of her voice.
There and then, Dr Steve knew he had lost it. There was no way he was going to convince a traumatic patient who had resigned to fate. He relaxed a little and thought of what next to do. With a jerk, he removed the stethoscope that hung on his neck and pulled off his lab coat.
"Let's pretend I'm not a doctor for now," Dr Ivy said trying to put up a new character.
"Why?"
"It doesn't matter, just look at my face. Look closer. What do you see?" Dr Steve asked.
Ivy tried figuring out what he was driving at, but couldn't.
"Look here." Dr Ivy used his fore-finger to draw a horizontal lines on the two sides of his cheeks.
"Tribal marks."
"Correct! Tribal marks! These are tribal my dad made me have when I was seven years old all in the name of culture! He disfigured my face. He made me hide my face whenever I was with my mates. I became an object of ridicule. My self esteem kept on going down every day." Dr Steve sounded like he was going to break into tears. He allowed her imagination wander a bit. It was no good imagination. She shook her head trying to stop the imaginations from coming.
"Do you think you are the only one that has been bastardised by some ridiculous cultural practices?" Dr Steve asked with a father-like tone. He could feel a sense of guilty come over her gradually.
"Ivy, many people have been there and are already pulling through. You want to be left behind? You want your past to kill you?"
Ivy shook her head lightly.
"Then let's begin treatment! Over there, LIE DOWN." Dr Steve geticulated at the bed in his office.
'Lie down,' the exact words the old woman used years back had come up again.
"...for physical examination." Dr Steve quickly added.
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CrimeRe: THE WOMAN I SAVE, SHE HAVE A SUCCESSFUL SURGERY by AnthCunny(m): 10:54am On Jan 02, 2020
frndfghtr:
she gave us 80% assurance
Ok. Let's hope for best.

And if you don't mind, give us update. Like expenses made so far, what is left and what will be needed.
CrimeRe: THE WOMAN I SAVE, SHE HAVE A SUCCESSFUL SURGERY by AnthCunny(m): 8:46am On Jan 02, 2020
frndfghtr:
By the grace of God it has been done, but some one suggested we move her to optician's specialist in Ogun, but the issue their is that she is undergoing, many other treatment at LUTH, Like broken body, and the facial wound, even the brain surgery case, but she is now stable and can talk normal, eat by her self, walk arruond, but still on bandage eye, well I will go their today, to see the doctors for review and check up thanks for ur concern I so much appreciate, let's pray for her together
Did the doctor say she will be able to see again?
CrimeRe: THE WOMAN I SAVE, SHE HAVE A SUCCESSFUL SURGERY by AnthCunny(m): 4:13pm On Dec 29, 2019
frndfghtr:
UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE to the groly of God lukayat have 143,900 on my account, NAIRALANDERS!!!!!!!!
Wow... keep up the good works
EducationRe: AGIP(NAOC) Scholars 2019. Discussion Thread by AnthCunny(m): 8:29am On Dec 20, 2019
Ok. I don't know of anybody.
EducationRe: AGIP(NAOC) Scholars 2019. Discussion Thread by AnthCunny(m): 5:37am On Dec 17, 2019
Praize185:
please who was shortlisted ?
Shortlisted for the exam or awarded already, which do you mean?
EducationRe: AGIP(NAOC) Scholars 2019. Discussion Thread by AnthCunny(m): 12:03am On Dec 06, 2019
ThankGod001:
no
okay... thanks
EducationRe: UNN Portal For New Student Asking For Application Remita Number by AnthCunny(m): 6:23pm On Dec 05, 2019
Why not join some of their Facebook groups and ask there. I believe you will get answers.
EducationRe: AGIP(NAOC) Scholars 2019. Discussion Thread by AnthCunny(m): 6:20pm On Dec 05, 2019
Please is there any update? Have they started awarding?
EducationRe: Shortlisted Candidates For Nigerian Agip Oil Company (naoc)scholarship Exam 2015 by AnthCunny(m): 9:38am On Dec 05, 2019
Please who knows if NAOC has awarded for this year?
PropertiesRe: Should The Tenant Who Is Served A Quit Notice Still Pay The Landlord? by AnthCunny(m): 7:48am On Nov 19, 2019
All these blind arguments sef. Please if you want to argue, quote the Constitution for us.
FamilyRe: Can You Truly Forgive Someone Without Him/her Apologizing? by AnthCunny(op): 8:22pm On Nov 06, 2019
olushola72dot:
Yes of course when we are yet sinners Christ died for us
You mentioned Christ, so let's see the Bible way.

Luke 17:4 Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them.”

Luke 17:3 Pay attention and always be on your guard [looking out for one another]. If your brother sins (misses the mark), solemnly tell him so and reprove him, and if he repents (feels sorry for having sinned), forgive him. (Amplified)

1 John 1:9 says, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

I could go on and on. In all these passages, confession and repentance were conditional for forgiveness to take place.

My own interpretation to the Bible passages. I stand to be corrected.
FamilyRe: Can You Truly Forgive Someone Without Him/her Apologizing? by AnthCunny(op): 7:57pm On Nov 06, 2019
[quote author=Florblu post=83798801]What would happen if he refuse to apologize the moment you reminded him of his wrongdoings? Will you feel different or will you deny yourself of the joy you deserve?[
/quote]

I wasn't holding any grudge against him from the onset and I still had peace of mind and joy.

If he refuses to apologise, we might argue over it trying to blame each other. But if it is certain and clear to both of us that he is at fault and still refuses to apologise, we will still be cool, I will let go, no grudge against him. But saying that I have forgiven him over the incident is different. He MUST apologise (in one way or the other), before I can say I have forgiven him.
FamilyRe: Can You Truly Forgive Someone Without Him/her Apologizing? by AnthCunny(op): 6:17pm On Nov 06, 2019
sholay2011:
Good thread but the responses have been one-way traffic.

In truthfulness, you are right OP. the process of forgiveness is never complete without repentance (except in cases of pure ignorance). Even the ever-loving God who can forgive anything will not forgive you except you repent.

What most people claim to do when they say they have forgiven is to 'let go' and 'ensure the bitterness or resentment goes away' (even though it may come back intermittently if something triggers the memory of the wrongdoing). But the complete process of forgiveness is a step towards the reconciliation of relationship, like it was prior to the wrongdoing. So, most people will let the offender go in the hearts (as good Christians) but will no longer want to do anything with that person (who wants to risk it? grin). And this can never be overcome when the offender is not repentant, no matter how 'kind-hearted' you are. It will even be foolish to do such because God doesn't do such. Your relationship with the Father cannot be truly restored until you repent.

Now to cases of ignorance such as your little child messing around or a passenger stepping on your foot in a bus, forgiveness can easily be complete because you are convinced it wasn't premeditated, calculated or the offender does not have access to full information or wisdom. Jesus Christ did this on the cross for those that nailed him (Father, forgive them for they don't know what they are doing.).

But in cases where there was a tangible relationship and also depending on the gravity of the offence and if it is not a case of ignorance, there is no forgiveness (that leads to complete restoration of the relationship like it was before) without not just apology, but repentance. And the mistake we all make is to place the burden of the whole process being complete on the offended person, whereas the offender has a vital role to play.

It is always important though that the offended has a heart that is willing to forgive and one that easily lets go of resentment. Having a heart willing to forgive towards someone does not automatically complete the process of forgiveness.
Thanks so much for your input�

I've experienced situations where I 'forgave' someone that offended me, although he wasn't aware that he offended me. I felt was kind hearted enough to forgive him without his apology. To be honest I felt a kind of peace within me knowing fully well that I've forgiven him.

But the day something led to something that I had to remind him of something he did long time ago, he apologized quickly with all sincerity. There was a new kind of peace that enveloped me. It was then I realized that I was deceiving myself when I told myself I didn't need his apology.

For the fact that I easily reminded him of his earlier deed showed that I was still expecting his apology.

Maybe I'm a different human being... lol
FamilyRe: Can You Truly Forgive Someone Without Him/her Apologizing? by AnthCunny(op): 6:03pm On Nov 06, 2019
Allsingles:
We all need forgiveness and we all need to extend that same forgiveness to others not just today, but every day.
IT’S TIME TO FORGIVE.
Do you struggle with forgiving people when they wound you emotionally? If so, please you shouldn't.
Spend some time with your friends, your spouse and family members today and ask him/her if you have wounded them emotionally and then sincerely apologize for hurting them.

THE BENEFITS OF FORGIVENESS.
When you Forgive anyone that offended you, you will feel relieved and free from emotional truama too.
A woman of God, Joyice Meyer; says and i quote
"Do yourself a favor and Forgive"
So you are actually doing something awesome to yourself emotionally when you Forgive anyone that offended you.
Forgiveness is not a must do but it's compulsory and very crucial that you do it and....
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/07/i-will-never-forgive-you.html
Thanks for the advice
FamilyRe: Can You Truly Forgive Someone Without Him/her Apologizing? by AnthCunny(op): 4:26pm On Nov 06, 2019
buyfromalaba:
@AnthCunny

I don't think you are a man for typing such. Or you don't want to enjoy your life in peace.

Common let go and move ahead, face other challenges and try to look for what make you happy.

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You just typed 'let go and move ahead', and I totally agree. That is what is expected whenever you are hurt.

My point is that there is a thin line between 'letting go' or 'moving ahead' and forgiving. I think forgiving someone is not just a one person thing. The offender has to admit his offence, apologise or show remorse before the other person can proclaim forgiveness. Meanwhile, the offended person may decide to move on - not disturbing himself with the offence - but that doesn't necessarily mean he has forgiven the person.

Hope you get where I'm coming from.

My thoughts though.
FamilyRe: Can You Truly Forgive Someone Without Him/her Apologizing? by AnthCunny(op): 10:29am On Nov 06, 2019
Kalashnikov102:
For sure! Especially in relationships, families..some forgivness hurts more
True
FamilyRe: Can You Truly Forgive Someone Without Him/her Apologizing? by AnthCunny(op): 10:26am On Nov 06, 2019
Carbon2Oxide:
That's me. I hate the word "sorry" so much. I just let it go and move on
So that means you forgive people without them having to apologise?
FamilyRe: Can You Truly Forgive Someone Without Him/her Apologizing? by AnthCunny(op): 10:23am On Nov 06, 2019
Skyfornia:
Yes ofcourse...If you forgive the person...you are doing yourself more good.
Now to you OP, can you forgive your child any crime committed towards you even when he/she didn't apologize? If yes, then you can equally extend such gesture to someone else.
If my child is still a kid, I might totally ignore his/her actions. But if he/she is a full blown adult, it might still have to apply. That doesn't mean I will start treating him/her differently. Although I didn't helave parents and
siblings in mind when making the post.

What about painting a scenario where the person that offended you initially repeats the same offence, don't you think that the way you will react will be different from the way you will react if he had apologised the other time? You might feel belittled and taken for granted. This might go a long way in showing that you never truly forgave the person.

I'm just being Human in my thoughts.

Thanks for your input anyways.
FamilyCan You Truly Forgive Someone Without Him/her Apologizing? by AnthCunny(op): 9:38am On Nov 06, 2019
Good day Family

I've been thinking and have decided to share my thoughts here.

What does it really take to forgive someone? Let's say someone offends you and the person is fully aware. Now the person refuses to apologise. After days or weeks of being hurt, you decided to 'forgive' the person. Will you call that forgiveness? Personally, I don't think you have forgiven the person.

I think there is a thin line between 'letting go' or 'not holding grudges' and forgiveness. What you simply did was 'letting go' and not forgiveness. You simply decided not to hold grudges; not to let your heart heavy.

I think the offender MUST apologise or show remorse in one way or the other before forgiveness can take place.

What do you think?
EducationRe: UNN Medical School Thread by AnthCunny(m): 11:51am On Nov 01, 2019
Emmaxy9:
Thats nice. I just have to learn to condition my mind. Succeeding here with books means closing eyes on all other good options there is and focusing on one and reading and understanding to core.
You are the guy that sang a duet with a girl on your faculty dinner?
EducationRe: Agbami scholars. Discussion thread. by AnthCunny(m): 10:10am On Oct 03, 2019
ThankGod001:
SENT!
Thanks
EducationRe: Agbami scholars. Discussion thread. by AnthCunny(m):
ThankGod001:
Hello!
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LiteratureThe Monkey Theory (short Story) by AnthCunny(op): 4:18pm On Sep 22, 2019
Professor Leo: The Monkey Theory (Fiction)
" Mr Gibson, not now, Please." Prof. Leo muttered to himself, not until the churning of Mr Gibson's heavy duty truck became loudest.
"To hell with you and your road-forsaken shapeless truck!" Prof Leo screamed amidst hitting the wooden frame of his king-sized bed. This made his wife stir a bit. A deep sleeper she was.
It was just 4:35am and the neighborhood was already getting noisy. The noise from motor vehicles; the clanging of plates from kitchens; the hitting of pestles against mortars; the opening and jamming of gates were few things that characterised a typical weekday morning in the neighborhood.
Prof. Leo switched on the lamp by his bedside, sat up and began his morning meditation. His eyes peered through every nook and cranny of his spacious bedroom as if he was looking for something. That morning seemed to be very unusual. He couldn't just place his fingers on the thing making him restless. With a quick turn, his gaze beheld the beautiful face of his wife still sleeping. He couldn't help but smile sheepishly.
His smile was short-lived by the thought of his 10-year childless marriage. The feeling of guilt enveloped him.
"Why can't I give this beautiful woman a child of her own?" He questioned himself.
"Or is she barren?" He continued
"Well, patience." Prof. Leo consoled himself. At 39, he still believed that there is no cause alarm.
The alarm on his wall clock began to ring.
It was 5:00am already.
Prof Leo brought out his laptop and logged in to his Facebook account. This was a way of keeping himself abreast of things happening around hi.
He began scrolling down his News feed. So fast he was that he nearly skipped a post made by a colleague at work. He picked an unusual interest to see what the post was about.
"21-year old Microbiology student commits suicide." The post read.
The picture of a dark-skinned girl greeted his curious face. The girl's face was a beauty to behold. Her white gapped teeth was alluring. Prof Leo couldn't help but to admire such a beautiful creature. It was so saddening that she was dead.
Prof Leo shook his head. He was already imagining what her parents will be passing through.
He was about scrolling past when something struck him. The face looked familiar. He tried remembering where he had seen the face, yet he couldn't. The conviction was so strong.
Prof Leo was almost giving up on his memory when he suddenly remembered.
"No! This can't be!" Prof Leo screamed, causing his wife to wake up from her deep sleep.
"This just can't be." Prof Leo was already loosing hold of his emotions. His memory became clearer. He could see the previous day's event playing before him. His eyes turned watery. The tears were forming. They weren't just forming, they started caressing his fully bearded cheek.
Sia, Prof. Leo's wife, couldn't believe her ears. It was her husband sobbing.
"Leo?" She called.
Prof. Leo on realizing his wife had woken up, started mopping-up his tears. The more he cleaned, the more they flowed.
"Leo, what is it?" His wife inquired.
When she realized she was getting no answer if she kept lying down, she sat-up beside Leo. Her eyes fell on the beautiful face of the suicide victim.
"Who is she, Leo? What happened to her?"
After so many months or probably years, Sia found herself showing deep concern for her husband. This was one of the few times she caught her husband crying.
"Talk to me, Leo!" Since couldn't bear the silence. Her tear-glands were already betraying her. She couldn't stand the sight of her husband crying.
"She was my student. A 100 level student." Prof. Leo replied his wife while trying to control his tears. He had always being a fan of the popular saying, 'Real men don't cry'.
"Oh! Is that so?" She asked mockingly. She gave a loud hiss.
"Is that what is making you cry?" She began to taunt him (as usual).
"Leo, you will not cease to amaze me."
"Stop it!" Leo confronted his ever-annoying wife.
"I'm just having a guilty conscience. Maybe I was part of the reasons she killed herself." Prof. Leo placated her (in what seemed to be like a confession).
Sia was torn in-between having pity for her husband and mocking him. She settled for the full gist instead. Reaching out for the laptop, she clicked "...see more" to read the full story.
"21-year old Microbiology student, Celine Hills, commits suicide as a result of fustration. Report has it that the 100-level orphan was fond of lamenting about the inability of her uncle to buy the necessary books and materials she needed for school.
"However, Celine took the decision to end her life after one of her evening biological practical classes. Celine was found dead by 11:20 pm in her room. Her death is believed to be caused by an overdose of unknown medicine-tablets."
The story began to make more sense to Sia.
"Leo, were you the one that took them on the practical class?" Sia inquired from her husband. Her husband only gave an affirmative nod.
"Leo what did you do to a poor innocent girl?!"
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(FLASH BACK)
3:52 pm, 9th November, 2009.
Prof. Leo hurriedly walked into the 1st-year Biology laboratory in wde strides. Checking the time on his wrist-watch, he realized the degree of his lateness.
"How time flies these days," he thought while using his white handkerchief to wipe off the bead of sweat that was forming on his face.
Within a minute, he was already settled on the podium of the spacious laboratory. The laboratory was one of the recently commissioned projects in the school. Painted in light brown colour, the white LED bulbs made the laboratory more admirable. The only fault the laboratory seemed to have was limited number of chairs. Some students were seen standing at some strategic positions in order to get a good view of the lecteurer.
"Good day, class." Prof. Leo boomed through the microphone with his husky voice permeating the air.
"Good day, sir." The students responded. There was a little upsurge of noise. Some students were taking final positions on their seats will some were arguing over ownership of chairs.
Prof. Leo checked his wrist-watch again. It was 3:58 pm. He was already one hour behind schedule.
"Please, I don't have time to waste. There are many things to cover this semester." Prof. Leo pleaded.
The students took a cue and all resolved to be quiet. There was drop dead silence in the laboratory.
"Before we continue for today," Prof. Leo began, "I hope everyone has his/her dissecting sets. Like I said in the previous class , the ones in the laboratory will not be enough for everybody. You have no other option but to get a personal one."
The class erupted into another round of noise. Too many people murmuring. It was a habit for students to feign unawareness whenever unpleasant instructions were given.
"Listen up!" Prof. Leo became charged. He wasn't ready to dance to the tune of the students this time around.
"If you don't have your dissecting set, please leave my class."
The rowdiness grew worse. Students started running to and fro the laboratory, probably to retrieve their dissecting sets from their friends. Some were making aimless noise, definitely to fustrate the effort of the lecturer.
Prof. Leo stood upright on the podium with a stern face, secretly admiring the students dressed in their white laboratory coats, and some over-excited ones wearing surgical face mask. He knew the perfect face to put up when dealing with rebellious students.
"At the count of three..."
"Sir please, we will get ours in the next class," some students cut him short with their plea. Many students soon joined in pleading
"Shut up!" Prof. Leo feigned annoyance. Deep within him, he felt a soft spot for their plea. The number of students that hadn't gotten theirs were few. He felt the urge to pardon them.
"I said shut up!" He thundered again . There was no way he was going to fall for some deceptive plea.
"Listen up. It's not my fault. I am not the government that has refused to provide enough equipments in the laboratory. If you don't buy your own, how are you going to learn ?" Prof. Leo's question had a way of making the students mute again.
"Sir please, we will get ours next week." The melodious voice of an average height dark-skinned girl standing by the far end of the laboratory responded to Prof. Leo's question.
Everyone turned their gazes towards her. The looks on the students faces seemed to applaud her of her courage.
Prof. Leo was enveloped with mixed feelings. The young girl's appeal sounded like an insult to his authority. He wasn't sure. 'It might just be the plea of a committed student', he thought.
"Young lady, what is your name?" Prof. Leo asked.
"Celine Hills" The girl answered. Fearless but with a humble look.
Prof. Leo had never been so confused in a long while. Such a beautiful girl. Her bluish eyes were bright enough to melt the stony heart of a tyrant king. He began envisaging such a beautiful damsel as his daughter.
"Our of my class!" Prof. Leo roared, banging his fist in the wooden lectern.
Prof. Leo was taken aback by his own action. He never meant to do what he did.
"Does it matter?" He questioned himself inwardly. "These students need to see me as a tough lecturer." He justified his actions.
Celine packed her books and made for the door out of the laboratory. She was already crying before she got to the door. Other students who hadn't gotten theirs joined her out of fear. Celine's friends and 'well-wishers' also followed her to console her.
Prof Leo was restless. The urge to teach left him. The laboratory now scanty. He checked his wrist-watch for the upteenth time. It was 4:15 pm. So much time wasted already. He sighed and started flipping through the pages of his book.
"Please, turn with me to page 16 of your practical handbook." The practicals started.
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(PRESENT DAY)
10:30 am, 27th November, 2019.
It was another occasion of the Annual Matriculation ceremony of the university. The matriculants were seated, beautifully decorated in their matriculation gowns. The 3,000 capacity auditorium was filled to its brim.
Seated on the podium included the Vice Chancellor, Deputy Vice Chancellor (Academics), Registrar and Deans of various faculties. The matriculants were seated at the front rows of chairs. Parents and well-wishers were seated at the far end of the auditorium.
The ceremony had started in earnest with the Vice Chancellor giving his opening speech. This was quickly followed by the oath-taking by the students. The manner in which the students chorused the 'sacred lines' depicted their lack of understanding of what they were doing. But, who cared? It was more like a ritual to observe all protocols.
"Next on the line-out for today's event is a talk by Professor Leonard Adney," the emcee announced. From the way the students clapped and shouted, one would have mistaken the speaker to be a very popular personality. The students couldn't be blamed. Their joy was too much.
Prof. Leo walked majestically unto the podium. His steps were short and precise.He was claded in a black tuxedo and black Italian shoes to match. His head bore a clean shave - the type that reflected the light rays from the LED bulbs. His beards were more fuller than it used be. It was obvious he was mourning.
"The Vice Chancellor, Deputy Vice Chancellor (Academics), Registrar, Deans,..." Prof. Leo started reeling out protocols. He we had no papers with him with which he read from.
"It's with great pain that I stand to deliver this lecture (as I choose to call it)." Prof. Leo began his introduction. The atmosphere in the auditorium changed all of a sudden. Quietness soon enveloped everywhere. Some were curious - curious to know why a professor should be wearing such attire to a joyous occasion.
"It's been 18 days since a should-be matriculant took her life." Prof Leo addressed the matriculats. "My own student, under my very watch." He emphasized.
"To this end, I've decided to centre my lecture around this incident. I title it The Monkey Theory. Yes, the Monkey Theory." He reiterated amidst murmurs over the weird topic.
"Listen up," Prof Leo drew everyone's attention while moving away from the lectern on the podium in order to get a clearer view of his audience.
"Many years back, during my Masters degree program, I stood under an orange tree in the heart of the university's zoo. It was my usual spot each time I needed to meditate. All of a sudden, I saw a monkey swinging from one branch of the tree to another, right over my head. He was with a banana which he held preciously. He soon settled down and began munching it."
Prof. Leo paused his story to assess the level of attention he had garnered. Everyone was looking at him. They wanted to hear more more.
"Then, I began to wonder," Prof Leo broke the suspense, "how he got the banana knowing fully well that it is near-impossible for a monkey to climb a banana tree."
The students looked surprised. Some began to question the authenticity of Prof. Leo's revelation. Others keyed-in into Prof. Leo's revelation and tried solving his riddle.
"Listen up," Prof Leo called out again. It was obvious he couldn't do without telling his audience to listen up. "You will agree with me that the banana is the monkey's favourite food." The students responded with heavy affirmative nods. "In fact," he continued, "whenever you see a monkey, you are likely to see bananas by its side. But, how does it get them?!" Ptof. Leo asked with so much energy in his voice.
"As I stood under that orange tree that day watching the monkey, I heard the monkey say something. You know what he said? He told me, 'hey young man, stop staring at me. If you think I'm going to share my banana with you, then you must be joking. It took me a whole lot to get what I'm eating!". The students bursted into laughter at his illustration. But Prof Leo's countenance was not changed a bit. He meant every word he said.
"Listen up once again. My dear students, everybody wants to achieve success, but they fail to realize that it costs a whole lot.
"Wether you like it or not, the best things of life are seemingly almost impossible to get. It takes you something extra-ordinary for you to get there. Something different from the physical strength you possess. Something different from the norm!
"This led to The Monkey Theory I coined out. Here is what it says: 'SUCCESS IS SWEET; THE ROAD IS TERRIBLE; IF YOU PERSEVERE, YOU GET THERE.
"This was what Celine Hills, the suicide victim, failed to understand. You are all seated here happy to have gained admission into this great institution. But one thing you shouldn't fail to understand is that it is never going to be easy.
"There are times you will fall. There are times you wil perform poorly. There are times you will feel like giving up. There are times you will be fustrated. There are times you will be down financially. There are also times you will feel abandoned. If only you can hear the voice of the monkey. It is asking you, 'why can't you persevere just a little more?'
"We, your lecturers, want the best for you. Nobody hates you.
"And before I drop the microphone," Prof Leo took a long pause. His emotions were beginning to take over him. "I want to implore my fellow lecturers to see to the welfare of these students. They are ours. Let us be a part of their success story. Thank you."
Prof. Leo took a bow and started going going down the stairs leading to the podium. Everyone in the auditorium stood on their feet to cheer him. The ovation was louder this time around.
THE END.
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EducationRe: Agbami scholars. Discussion thread. by AnthCunny(m):
ThankGod001:
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LiteratureAs I Kiss The World Good-bye (poem) by AnthCunny(op):
AS I KISS THE WORLD GOODBYE
By
Ojei Emmanuella Ngozi

As I kiss the world goodbye

Sitting here with no more feelings
The feeling of existence and being human
I no longer possess
Those peaceful chirps from the morning birds
As they queue up excitedly on the gigantic cedar tree
Outside my window, like an orchestrated choir
Suddenly no longer amuse me
I long for greater promises above all I see before me

To you friends,
I know you will be the first to wail
Epistles of greatness I possess,
You will proclaim to the world
The constant help you have rendered to me you will acclaim
How you would have to help more only if I have asked you will lament
Well I say thank you,
Thank you for your claims, thank you for being you
For the days you backstabbed me I say......... gracias!
Indeed u pluck spears from my eyes
Even though you neglected the several in your own eyes
Then the spears from my eyes,
My heart you use to dismember
You were quick to judge me to the world
A river-full of tears I have donated for your sake

As I kiss the world goodbye

To acquaintances
Sometimes you regard me as sweet
Maybe to please me I guess
Then most of the time, I am the devil you see
Well, thank you!
Thank you for making me feel unwanted
And in my face proclaim love to me
Those thousand storms,
For your sake I have sojourn
Never in a hurry will I dispatch
I hope you got all you wanted from me
The bucket I mean to kick
And unfair of me will it be
Without first raising to you a final..... Aloha!
Or better still.......... Au revior

As I kiss the world goodbye

I imagine how it will be,
Men will lift my once underrated body,
Which of course would have been adorned,
With those clothes I never got to wear
Flowers will reside all around me
When in days I had sought for one of those sweetly perfumed roses,
But never have I received any
Aaah!...... My heart breaks and from my eyes tears freely escape
You were always needing me
And I was always there,
But when I needed anyone,
A thousand miles they will be away from me
Ouch!........ I wish I never remember these days anymore

As I kiss the world goodbye

To........ mi familia
You were always there,
Always expecting more,
Making sure i understand,
That I am a burden you we're meant to carry
For a sickly child, what is to be expected
Times before I had tried to make you see
"I did not create myself this way"
But now...... I don't want to know anymore
Hmmm!......... Maybe you were right,
I don't belong here,
I never did,
Sorry for the bother,
Thank you for letting me see the world,
But now I want to go away
This way I won't bother you anymore,
Even at death I still acclaim you as my beloved
I don't judge you,
I only admire your courage,
Keeping up with a "problem " like me is a job,
A blacksmith,
Who bends those stubborn irons into adorable objects
Could have never coped,
Like a more stubborn iron,
I have proved unbendable over the years
For all I say thank you

As I kiss the world goodbye

I plead to my creator,
Do not reject me, for in your bosom I come
I have one last wish,
That I will come visit the world again
But has a more better person
Who deserves all the love the world has to offer
As a stronger person,
who can take all what life throws at me
As a better person,
That brings smile to every face, I meet
As a selfless person,
That makes the world a better place for others
And not just myself
As a resilient heart,
Who will not take suicide as an option,
To run away from crisis
As a freedom fighter,
Who will fight and curb the ills of the society
As a me,
That will love all,
Even when I don't feel their love
I will believe in their smiles,
And reside in any amount of comfort I find,
For one cannot have everything
But has for now, the deed has been done
I can only wish for a better next time,
What an eventful life.............. Au revior!
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FamilyRe: I Need Your Financial Help Concerning my education once again by AnthCunny(m): 10:02am On May 01, 2019
Damitism:
I won Total and Binuyo Foundation scholarships.

The most important thing to win scholarships is to have a good result, especially first class. That was the major reason I won the scholarships. We did a test for Total. They were simple questions for an average student. I believe they shortlisted us using our results because those of us I know that were called for the test has very strong first class result from 100L.
Thanks bro. I wish you success in your career.

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