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Speaklove:
I have mentioned what you are dealing with but I don't think you saw my post .
Many things people have said here may not help deal with what you are going true .
And from your explanation I don't think you know what is happening to you .

So I went in search for a link to help you download a book( PDF file ) that I believe some of the things written there will open your eyes to the unseen wars behind you.

YOU ARE BEING MANIPULATED BY A DEMON WHO FILLED YOUR HEART WITH THOSE DESIRES .
YIU HAVE SEEN THE MAN BEFORE BUT WHY IS IT NOW THAT YOU WANT HIM ?

you will find the answer to that question in this book by Kenneth hagin .

Jesus Christ himself was the one who showed ha gin what I want you to see .

Click the Link below and download the book and read it on your phone .

https://todaygospel.net/pdf-kenneth-e-hagin-i-believe-in-visions/

Read it from the beginning to where a woman was shown to Kenneth Gavin in a vision by Jesus Christ and you will see that you are dealing with the same thing at the early stage .

If you don't fight this thing you will suddenly come to hate your husband ,lose you marriage and even get caught with the Reverend and only after then you will find out that you don't love him but you were being manipulated all this while by a demon who is speaking into your mind and you thought it is your own thought or you are not even mindful of such thoughts in your heart .

This is a solution .
Say
"You demon of lust and adultery and fornication. .
I command you in Jesus name to flee from me .

Say it and confess tbis words to your self .

"I am the righteousness of god in christ jesus
I am free from the power of satan
I am dead to sin and alivr to god .

Satan you cant olhave dominion over me becuase i have authoirity over you and all your demons .

I am a new creature created in tbe image of god in holiness and righteousness.

Jeus christ is in me and he does not commit adultry

I live and walk in the spirit and not in the flesh .

The grace of christ is suffient for me
His strength is made perfect in my weakness .

I have overcome the world and the evil one

I died with christ to sin and i arose with hiM froM the death. into the newness of life eternal by the power of the holy spirit that is in me .
My body is the temple of the holy spirit
My mind belong to christ and i have the mind of Christ .

God has not given me the spirit of lust or of adultery but of power and of love ,of sound mind ,of self control and of self discipline .

I am righteous by the grace of God I am not a sinner .

Confess these words to your self and you will see that thing leave you .

We suffer fr im the devil because we don't build the realities of our new life into our consciousness ,and because we don't take deliberate steps to manifest them .

1 Peter 5:8-9
[8]Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.
[9]Resist him, steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same sufferings are experienced by your brotherhood in the world.

James 4:7
[7]Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.

Thanks for sharing this, however I've been able to manage my feelings lately....I'm not more burning with lust for him again...I guess time and chance made this happened....Thanks for your insights too.

Foolish woman, however she probabaly married her husband outta pity , the reason for her mad actions without proper checks and balance...

Nice!

azammi:
I wanted to ask to , AntiMen hope you are doing good now?

Hmmmm, Really Complicated.

EkyyyKelson:
How are you doing? Any positivity on the issue yet?

I can't give all details here again, send me a mail if u can.

kobarney:
Hello @ Antimen! Just checking up on you. Yesterday was Easter and a very busy Sunday for the Christian family at large. I hope you put to good use the advice given.

Can I send you a message?

CrownedPhoenix:
AntiMen

Thanks Phoenix...

This is duely noted....

Ummmm..what a life...

You alone will carry your cross yourself, but you need a made up mind to do this.

azammi:
Did he reply?

No ,just read and went mute...

Since I said goodbye after the lips emoticon

Abc2Z:
Hummmmmm

You are not the one having the feelings, the Rev made you have the feelings and I can boldly say you have made a costly mistake by sending kiss emoticon.

Well you have to wait for his response to know your next move: if he warned you not to send such, use the opportunity to tell him it's a mistake and pls stop chatting with him. If he also send a romantic emoticon use the opportunity to tell him you made a missending it then tell him that the two of you should give each other space to avoid stories that touch.

Tell your husband that you need him to advise you, that you notice that the Rev is crushing in you. Why must he always mention your name, why greeting you alone in a gathering. Tell your husband you want to save your marriage.

If you fail to stop this now, I can boldly say it that your marriage is at stake and your husband will know latter and by then he would think you are already in a relationship with the Rev.

Feeling for another person aside your husband will tell in your marriage except if your husband don't notice.

Don't think it's nothing. The Rev also crush on you.

Distance yourself.

There's this day I stylishly told my hubby about him always calling my name like he's whinning me, my husband said something to defend him like he just likes hailing me that's all.

kobarney:
Do not tell your husband certain thoughts will surround his head. It is best here to apply wisdom. Your actions will ward off your reverend IF HE HAS YOU IN MIND or will distract you from getting fund of him. In church surround yourself around your husband and other persons of interest. Count all the beautiful things you see in your man you don’t find in any one else. Make conversations with your rev brief and almost immediate. AVOID CONTACT.. you should act natural as in smile or laugh when talking with him but literally run. Never have a private meeting with him. Save yourself this stress now.

Like you said. It was there before but not it’s intense. Had you handled this earlier on this would not be the case. HANDLE THIS NOW.

LET ME ADD. the human mind is fickle, too fickle. You may have subconsciously fed in your mind your rev tone, soft spoken ness perhaps, smile and mannerism which may seem attractive to you and now you’re yearning for it which is actually a problem BECAUSE YOU ARE MARRIED.. you must fill and replace those thoughts and expectations that you are married and with that of your husband’s. You’re on a ticking time bomb. It don’t matter how much you say I can’t cheat on my husband. A simple chat where you appear to like him could just be it and boom..

PS you should have deleted that kiss emoji you mistakenly sent. A mistake is meant to be corrected. Don’t be a fool.

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He read the message before I could delete it, so I said it in my mind that God knows I never meant to send it..
Deleting it would be damage control.

azammi:
I’m not saying he is bad but it’s clearly showing that he wants something with the behavior and holding hands I don’t see this as him being concerned with your spiritual growth or anything like that . I think whenever you are in church try to be sitting with your Husband and be with him majority of the time in church and stop giving it too much thought cause the more you think of him the more you will want to see him .What you’re feeling is lust and it’s coming from the attention he is giving you [/b].i’ll like to ask you What are you thoughts when you think about him ? Do you find him attractive? How old are you ? Does your husband give you the same attention you get from rev? , does he make you feel wanted? [b]

I'm in the choir, while he is usually busy during service attending to other things, when church closes and there's a procession outside the church , the choristers go out first followed by the priests so there's always an opportunity for him to reach out to me amongst every other person .....

Well my thoughts about him is generally about his teachings in church, how well and soft spoken he is,imagining sitting with him and having conversations like a brother, appreciating that he honours me amongst other people especially when another lady my peer group also married is throwing herself at him but he is not giving her the attention she needs and all that....

So that's basically what I think of..

azammi:
Is your name Rebecca ?
Anyways Matthew 5:29 says And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell. So woman you have it here . If he greets you answer him but with the way he gives you attention I’m sure he has a crush or feelings for you that why he is giving you unnecessary attention. I’m guessing it’s an Anglican Church

Yes bro, an A.g church.....
I avoid him, he finds a way of coming close,he did it thrice yesterday...Greeted me thwice at different times during ......, held me hands at another time to move back during general prayers somewhere...

There was no interaction,but came home wondering wats up with me....Whenever my husband and I are having conversations my mind is always somewhere else cos of this issue...

I want to be myself again....
This is not me...

EkyyyKelson:
This is really serious... Trust me, you can't stand that man in privacy. You're likely not goona know what happens within just 1o minutes. You have feelings for him. It's evident. Now, the most important thing is avoid being in a private place with him. Avoid it even if your hubby is aware of you meeting him. This should be your number one priority.

I avoid this man, but he finds way of coming to me...everytime...

Coming to me reminds me of him which makes the feeling triggers.
Normally after church closes, I have to wait for my husband around the church cos he has to reach out to other people in the church, so while waiting this man finds a way of coming around, we exchange gestures , talk if necessary and then depart....
I avoid him, he comes to me, what I hate most is the way he greets only me among people , I feel awkward and I'm feeling it might just stir up jealousy in others...
These are my thoughts and I feel I might be wrong about it.........

If only he can avoid me, I'll be very fine, someone mentions that I snub him, how can I possibly can without sending negative messages to other people around...
Someone who is supposed to be respected and honoured is someone I'm asked to snub.....
Don't think that goes down well with me.

BluntCrazeMan:
Your moniker is my wahalla ryt now

I've explained why I'm Antimen severally, go over my previous posts.

sexyyoyo:
Proximity brings passion . I wish you can still read through my advice to you.
My best advice as a married man with experience to you is to first Stop the communication with him , if possible block him on phone ,social media without having access to you and deleting anything that will make you remember him . If he care to ask you why , simply tell him that's how you plan to live your life henceforth. Talking to the Rev or your husband about it is a NO No, the Rev might capitalise on your weakness and cause more damages to your mental health if he had feelings for you but scared to tell you.
You admitting to him gives him the go ahead .
Avoid any discussion or prayer session in his office or private places to avoid it started with a kiss before ending up with pregnancy that drugs or abortion won't solve but a bastard child .flee completely and be more closer with your husband than before so as to set yourself free from the bondage you are in now . Ire ooo. God will uphold you and your marriage so as not to fail because once you fail and tried that path , there is no turning back oooo. O ti bo niyen

We don't chat nor communicate, except he wants to pass a very vital info to me, and this happens once or twice a month, our communication mostly happens in the church and he's the one who usually initiates it.......
I might be somewhere, the next is just see him come close, calls my name, smile at me and pass or have a conversation if he wants to talk.

Take for example, some loving spirited guys adviced that I stay away from him and avoid close contact with him, I needed the advice, but this same pastor greeted me on two different occasions during evangelism, I couldn't look into his face , I was embarrassed for my friend who was beside me, he didn't greet her ,only me on two different occasions.....and at other time after church service, he held my hands to move back during prayers ,I didn't go to meet him, he always have a way of coming around me.....leading my feelings on but going mute until the next meeting in church....

Ezemeiyogu:
You can control what you think.
Until you tell yourself that you re not helpless in this situation, you will end up messing with this your crush.

If I want to hate someone eternally, it doesn't take me a day to develop a negative feeling and the person is my enemy.

Develop negative feeling, simple!

Highlight the steps, let's hear it out.
He has a loving personality, even my husband speaks well of him..
So I can't imagine any negative thing bout him and start hating him...

Roycemadeit:
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Our feelings are born from different scenarios and influences, some are of no known origin. But, since the world will live would try to tell us to have a particular type of feeling for one person they fail to explain why we feel crazy about another person. It simply shows that our society doesn't know enough to tell us how to run our lives. Most people would rather run by the ideals of society relating to relationships than go by what their body is telling them. Most times when we please the expectations of the society we displease ourselves and when we please ourselves, which I must say is best, society will scorn us.

Having read through, I see some saying cry to God, relocate and all sorts of things. Yet, I will like to ask you a question... Will you be happier running from these feelings or will you be happier exploring them? Now, put in mind that marriage is an illusion and it shouldn't override our ultimate desires, which is freedom, but should be viewed as something we do solely because we want to experience who we are, In relation, to our partner... Peace![/color]

So in a nutshell, you're asking me to explore my feelings with him?

seunlizy:
You a woman give him any reason. Tell ir husband dt u want tl leave the church for a while dt ur spirit is not connected to the church. That u will soon come back.

Delete the reverend fatter phone on ur phone, anything dt connected u guys together. Take My 2 kobo ooo

You guys just advice that I leave the church as if it's that easy,
This church is a big church and we are prominent members here, even if my husband understands with me, what about my group members , these guys would ask after me, and if you can't find any tangible reason, they might start suspecting that my hubby and I are having issues given my abstinence, please I don't want members to start having different assumptions of me because of one lust for a reverend..
And thanks Still for the comment,. I'm Working on my feelings and I know I'll feel better with time...

Emmanuel30a:
What would you not see and say about lust... When it burst... You would rust like dust and saw dust. You have no cost and no worth. You are like an idiot bigot slut and an adult holocaust harlot. Cut the crap... You would rot in hot pot and you would be shot and slot into the depot of hot pot... You are suppose to be a salt in GODS' vault. It is your fault that you have default to be a salt in GODS' vault. You are an insult to GODS' vault and GODS' court. Halt to be an harlot. Halt to be a slut. Halt to lust after pastor... Like pastor like harlot. Are you a Jezebel?

So because you wan give advice, you turn rapper...
Thanks.
You've been noticed, now get off my mentions, if you have nothing reasonable to say.

TimFisher2:
You can't call him out or ask him to stop calling since you don't have substantial claim that he really want you


But if I may ask? Why is he calling you out..what does he normally discuss with you all the time...why always you all the time...I am pretty sure you must be very beautiful

Well , I don't know why..
It's sincerely becoming embarrassing for me....especially in the front of others and he is very loud about it....He can just pass and hail me by calling me "Mummy ...........'', if I try to look away, he must mention it again until I acknowledge his presence.
Our discussions are based on general church's activities, he loves putting me on church's program, like asking me to go for Bible quiz, read scriptures to the congregation etc even when he knows I'm not the spirit Koko type...
As regards being beautiful, yes I am , always beautifully dressed, have a strong singing voice , I sing differently from the other members of the group,great poise etc... and these exactly are some of the features his wife possesses asides that she's more spiritual than myself.....finish....

I guess I'll be fine....
I'll have to be more intentional about avoiding him, if I have to clash with him, na sharp greet and pass....

Thanks for your concerns.
God bless u.

TimFisher2:
My dear I never wanted to respond...but my spirit was troubling me

Can I tell you something...you see that sex or sexual frolicking that is making you go hunger between you and the so called man of god

Once you have it you will regret it till you die...because things will never remain the same again

I envy your sweet beautiful home...never you allow Devil to spoil or scatter it

Take it or leave it...once you had sex with this man..your husband will definitely know in one way or the other...imagine the shame..your husband might definitely throw you out of the house..and your children will be most affected..they might curse you and caused the day you choose to be their mother

Maintain the woman of virtue you are!

See once you start having sex with him...a lot of things will change..guilt will run over you..before you know you will start avoiding going to church and it won't take time your husband knows about your abominable act

Not only did you bring Shame to yourself...you did as well brought shame to the so called man of god family,your family,your husband family,church members and the church itself

Don't be surprised that the so called man of god might be cunning...he might have mastered the art of seduction game to be making you trip for him..and it won't take time..he gets you down..haven't you disrespected your husband who always hold you in high esteem

He should have known his boundary and limits that you are a married woman...if someone is calling out his wife like this...how would he feel?those your friends might have start sensing the connections between you and the man..it won't take time..they spills out the beans to your husband and to everyone in the church..they are just waiting for the moment it will happen

You are the reason other non Christians mock us..I don't know what you guys learnt in the Church...picture yourself as Christ is looking at you as you re sleeping with this so called man of god..is that not disgusting?

That's why i stopped going to church long time ago...because Christians have ridicule,embarrass and brought down the sanctity of the God most High

Please don't ever do it...go home..prepare yourself beautifully and make love to your husband...make it a habit so as to reduce the Konjidietics and tensions and start seeing the so called man of god as your elder brother...you will be alright last last.

Lastly don't disclose this to your husband..so as not to bring mistrust..you alone brought this..and you alone can fix this!

May God empower and strengthen you as you overcome this temptation..also hold on to God,Pray and He will guide you.

Thanks for the admonitions sir, I'll sure make use of the advice given,but I just want to ask if it's okay to tell him directly to stop calling me out?
This is the source of the infatuation or lustful feeling...

I liked him as a brother from the beginning but it metamorphosized into an unusual feeling....
I'm just in an entanglement...

Just Today again, there was a program in church, I tried as much as I could to avoid him, but guess what as soon as the program ended, just when I was about leaving, I sighted him, but avoided him only for him to call me as he often does, then I proceeded to just talking generally with him before another senior pastor came to interrupt and that's how the discussion ended...

I serious feel I'm in an entanglement ....

But one thing is sure, I'll never ever sleep or have any form of intercourse with him.....

fimzzy1991:
Please let's talk Antimen on my email perhaps God will use me to help you from my experience. Thanks.
lizzyawe2021@gmail.com

Right away.

frozen70:
That's lust
Advice yourself better by being discipline
Just like him without having feelings for him

At first I liked him..
Until he started giving me unnecessary attention,that's when crushing began.

As I talk to you, I'm in church ,I try as much as possible to focus on my purpose for coming but my mind keeps wandering cos he's here....

I think the best bet is to tell him to avoid me, probably that will make me feel better....
Or I pray he gets transferred from here.

frozen70:
That's lust
Advice yourself better by being discipline
Just like him without having feelings for him

Thank you ma....

AjiBussu:
Alright oo
Remember, Tomorrow is confession and private counselling with daddy G.O.
Remain blessed sister in the Lord.

I don't attend a Catholic church, stop the false assumptions.

princeeze1:
There is always a day of weakness! Maybe it’s the day your hubby will do something that otherwise hurts you, and you cry to pastor for counsel or succor. From what I have seen , you know it is fire, you know it can burn, you can see it raging, you feel it’s so wrong, but of course you enjoy the attention stylishly. Fiscus105 gave you the best advice, but there is a very good excuse why you cannot flee from the fire.

I told you reasons why I can't take his advice....

I'll rather take it as one of the feelings that will die in me...cos I know this nonsense wouldn't manifest physically, my body is my pride and nothing whatsoever would defile it...

Thanks for your concern about me sir.

fikayormi:
Your husband will be one big simp cos I’m pretty sure you are the one controlling him and ruling the house .

Whatever rocks your boat tho who I’m I to query?

He is not any of the names you called him..
But believe anything you choose....

fikayormi:
But with your moniker Antimen, you are not supposed to get married talkless of having feelings for your rev. How come ? You must be one crazy hypocrite

I don't like the bossy attitude of men, I hate men being dictatorial, I hate their superiority tendencies and things related, asides that I'm human with feeling with sincere love for my fellow humans..
My husband is such a sweet loving man with the Rev having same attributes.....I'm usually have soft spot for men with those features and this doesn't mean that I boss my hubby around, he's in charge of everything that goes on in the family but very diplomatic and understanding...

Next...

AjiBussu:
On a kpokpogiri level, You go soon collect... Greet Pastor for us oo

I no fit collect....I get too much pride for my body.