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Blessedmercy8:
Share husband as Xmas gift for them now.

The truth is, men don't know what they want and true like you said, the lack of availability of jobs is also a major factor preventing the average Nigerian from getting married.

As for the single ladies, please don't show a man ( or the whole world) you're desperate for marriage as this can send him away. Just be yourself. What will be, will be.

I have never been to Shiloh and will never go there especially if it's for husband matter. I believe when the time is right, every single will get married ( that is if they are willing). No need to cry yourself to stupor because it doesn't bring the husband anyways. Rather it will make you age faster. I don't let it bother me even when people rub it in my face, reason I'm aging backwards.

This is not something one can make or force to happen if it's not yet time except you wanna go fetish about it which has its repercussions. So, I'll advise you live your best life. Make the best of your singlehood while it lasts and keep looking young.

Life is meant to be enjoyed, married or not. Don't limit yourself because you have not conformed to society s standard of "completeness" and "happiness." You will wreck.

Once the Artificial Womb Is ready.

All these nonsense emotional blackmail will come to and end for Woke and Focused Men.

A Welcome development.

Time to make huge money.

Cheeers..

dazzlingd:
I met this babe at an event, babe is cute and all. The vibes was good and we exchanged contact. I got home and chatted her telling her it was nice meeting her, she didn’t respond. I called her the next day, she didn’t pick up. I noticed she read message, she saw my missed call and she didn’t respond to me. Wtf, does she expect me to keep calling her like 10 times and sending random messages before she responds. I did the needful by deleting her call log and the chat and deleted her number so I’d have no reason to ever make the mistake of chatting her.

Fast forward to one month later, we met again in another event, I didn’t even recognize her like that again because ladies change a lot with different hairstyles and make up. I was with this group of friends and I noticed she kept looking at my direction, later she came close to where I was and was chatting with someone close to me, then I knew she was the same lady, I greeted her and asked if she was Victoria (fake name) she said yes and she saw my message about a month ago. It was cool and told her I lost her contact. We exchanged contact again and after getting home, I thought she would have had sense. I messaged her again and called, she ignored. Then I deleted her number again. After 2 weeks, she chatted me that she wanted to check up, I didn’t even have her number anymore so it took me time to figure out she was the one. I saved the number a 3rd time and thought she had finally had sense. Then I responded to her chat, she ignored, called her again, she ignored again even when she was obviously online. This time I deleted her number for the 3rd time and blocked her number to ensure she will never reach me again. I don’t have time for a hide and seek game like a psycho

You are a bonafide SIMP.

I usually ask average people out once and that's It.

But for the higher classes, I can do that twice and that's It.

You seems to have scarcity mindset and you are not Valuable enough.

ogbonti:
naija man - life is not always about cash cash cash but comfortable living - easy access to basic necessities and knowing that u can get justice as an ordinary man if not 100% of the time but at least 75% of the time

if anything we learnt during the pandemic

we saw Nigerian politicians leaders and even traditional rulers so called royal fathers hoarding palliatives meant for the people to survive on during the lockdown and many useless politicians started making excuses that they wanted to share it during their birthday

that doesn’t happen in the Uinfaxr citizens and residents where paid to stay at home just to be able to feed and take care of their basic need s

a country where even if i are poor and without medical insurance no hospital will deny u treatment - yea they may put that as a debt on your credit report but by law they will have to save your life first

will u get that same privilege in Nigeria?

so everything is not just about cash cash my brother - quality of life matters

Thank you for outlining these Vital points. I'm too tired to be explaining these things to Nigeria Urchins. It Is the reason why I Ignored one of them up there.

For example, I have been running my generator for at least 14hours a day since last week. They switched off the power since last weekend.

Thank goodness I am operating a prepaid. If not those Idiots would still go on and bring me an outrageous bill by month end.

The Kind of suffering Nigerians are suffering should be a full case study. Most of them are suffering without them knowing.

dgbaba:
Coming from someone who possibly just finished charging his phone with a generator, just drove through a pothole to access his street, has no running water in his house or workplace, has no access to a good, up to date hospital and is probably using a piece of paper to fan himself right now. Stupidity indeed, the joke is on you.

How come I didn't see this earlier.

You are a full time badass savage.

Nigeria sufferings na your Mate..

PoliteActivist:
I was referencing a typical Nigerian, which obviously you are not.
A typical Nigerian who suddenly comes into $40k will immediately become "big boy", buy better car, get better place with better furnishings, expensive funerals/weddings, upgrade their profile in society which comes with bigger exoenses, be show-off generous to relatives and friends, etc.
Before long the money will be gone and they'd be back exactly where they were.

Lol You have said It all.

How come you arranged this so well. You seems to have had first hand experience of the Trenches In shiiithole.

Very empty brain zombies.

Arguing with most of you whom have never leave the shores of your Red Mud Huts which you call Houses would be a stain on my personality and waste of my precious time.

You Zombies should keep on enjoying your poverty Infested Hellhole. Bye.

BJanta:
How can someone has 10 million Naira
and be planning to move to Malta. He
needs to move his head to a
psychiatrist first. It's not that terrible.

10Million Naira Is Just $15,000.

$15,000 can't even buy me a Land over here. I need at least 15Million Naira here In my location to get a land.

Poverty Is a terrible disease and slavery of the mind and brain.

You sure need to be admitted Into the Psychiatric Home truly.

Sleekcode:
See the imbecile_ cautioning people.
Just ask him where his kids are schooling first


Nonsense

Azin Most Nigerians are the most demonic hypocrites In the whole world.

Mission carried out by "Highly Trained & Skilled Personnel" hmmm. Welldone.

Many SIMPs and Sex Starved Niggurs won't still listen. That's how worst It Is for most guys.

Long overdue and Undiluted truth.

westlius:
Na so one of my Secondary school classmate Amaka we reconnected on FB and she been dey PH as I dey.
Omo she come beg me say she dey stranded as a sharp guy I alow her stay for how becos of free nacking I no no say na wahala I cos my self.
She stayed with me for 1 month come dey whine me say make I marry her, omo dey sack me for work one month she come my house. Amaka wey say she love me die comot for my house immediately I tell her say I no get work again

Japaed

You are right.

But Yoruba ladies too don dey use style Join small small. Na Fraudsters, Politicians, Married Men, & Ritualists most of them are running after now.

Delicious22:
He think he can play a fast one on the moderators

Azin he Is a very uvslss nonentity

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Moh247:



If you no be Olosho or Yahoo boy abroad

Be rest assured you must work for every cent you earn, pay tax and pay bills like your life depends on it (actually your life depends on it during winter and when hungry)

*If you be waiter, you must stand for atleast 8 hours attending to customers and you must have manners

*IF you be security guard, you must stand on your feet and patrol for 10 hours straight (if you think standing is easy try it for just 3 hours straight)

*If you be cleaner, get ready to use your hands to clean public toilet with gloves and pick horrible items stuffed in the drainage for atleast 6 hours daily

*If you be caregiver, you must change Adult shitty diapers or that of an Imbecilic child, and monitor them all day, feeding and cleaning them

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Stop vomiting nonsense. All these Jobs no matter how low have great packages overall which makes a whole lot of sense. I have three guys who were doing menial Jobs here In Nigeria as at 2019. These guys can't boast of 100k In their account as at then. Fortunately luck shone on them and they traveled to UK because they had relatives abroad. In less than 6 Months, Two among these guys sent A Camry 2013 home. Me sef shock because they usually upload the factory they were working In on their status. These are guys that can't operate computer and even An Android phone effectively before you come and be saying they are doing Yahooo there.

You don do factory work or security work for shiiiithole before? Nigeria Is one of the most worst place to do Menial Jobs. Them go use you so tey, Your life go finish without having anything to show for It.

slimanyd:
Chai. I remember those years when I dey work for yale biscuit, Where we go dey pack buscuit on our toes for hours ,dey carry packet , Lpl. This ones no taste any Sufferings B4 them japa. AJE,

That's why abroad is not for the rich and comfortable ones. Atleast stay nigeria where una don make millions without sweating or working under duress. Nah. You won't.

An average ajepacko wey don work for sumal or yale or BAT as casual worker ,wey don stand for 6 hours packing cartons for factory doing morning, afternoon and night shift join body to make ends meet no go ever complain say he is suffering abroad.

But guess what ,Nature doesn't favor those kind of people to travel abroad cos of financial strength which is needed as POF for travel.

May God bless all real hustlers out there jare

You have literally said everything I want to say.

You need to see the way I am looking at that Mumu up there complaining she Is suffering. Person wey her skin look like that dey suffer. People wey their parents don "Soft Land" for them here In shiiithole.

Many people like her are here on the nairaland and the travel section. You will hear, I can go to abroad oo. People wey never do factory work or go hungry for Just 24hrs talkless of experiencing straight 48hrs Hunger. Abeg make I stop here Jare.

One of the most useless players shiiithole ever produced.

jcross19:
you are evil... By making life so unbearable for poor masses? Huh 133million are living below poverty level, in fact that's great achievement!!!. Lest I forget APC urchins are buying fuel 90 naira only now!!!

Lol you are wasting your time and energy quoting bloody Infested illiterate animals.

You have no Idea how these people View the southerners and westerners. They can kill you all to develop their poverty stricken territories for all they care.

Even Abacha too was a Bonifide Niger.

I only blame the evil greedy british..

That's his True birth of Nation. Most of The Fulanis are from Niger, Chad and Mali..

This Is quite terrible sigh.

The Original Goat.

Not that yeye fake FLUKE.

Happy festive season In advance comrades..