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Phones / Re: Look At These Funny Wifi Names , Share Yours by anxiousguy: 8:37am On Sep 07, 2018
Me self no know my password

Business / Re: Whatsapp Banking: All You Need To Know And Current Operating Banks by anxiousguy: 4:27am On Sep 05, 2018
gentlegenius:

Why won't she be stranded in this dullard's regime?
BTW weting she come find for this God forsaken country when we here are looking for a way to leave?
She was deported. Thanks for your concern. We've gotten in touch with her
Business / Re: Whatsapp Banking: All You Need To Know And Current Operating Banks by anxiousguy: 9:40pm On Sep 04, 2018
One thing is sure, to empty someone's account all I have to do is spoof their MAC address and boom I have a replica of their WhatsApp on my phone.

Please someone should quote me with Mutala Muhammed Airport Helpline. My aunt arrived the country via that airport and she is stranded there
Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 8:22am On Aug 28, 2018
Frankicent:


and you freaking out.. Don't believe that.
Just maybe you read and didn't understand what I mean.
Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 11:06am On Aug 27, 2018
Thanks to everyone that contributed. Your words gave me the comfort that I needed. I feel better now. I wasn't able to go to class today but my test was taken care of. Ibplan to hit the gym soon and make new friends in class. Thanks once again
Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 8:54pm On Aug 26, 2018
sammirano:
You definitely shouldn't be a guy.
Thanks Anthony Joshua

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Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 8:26pm On Aug 26, 2018
Raydans:
If not for the test you are having. Would have advised you to take few shots of whiskey and keep a strong face
My system isn't entirely good for alcoholic drinks

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Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 8:25pm On Aug 26, 2018
Nasri100:
I can relate. I used to be very anxious than my current state. Hospital fixed me on Propanol to keep me calm and control my frequent heart palpitations. But I stopped. Mate I will help you with stuffs that helped me cause that anxiety will suddenly graduate to Bipolar disorder, panic attacks and social anxiety and etc.

Daily Exercise

Tell Yourself Nothing Can Make You Afraid

Accept Death will come oneday and see life as something to be explored.

Compare when you are relaxed vs anxious. Tell yourself being relaxed helps in many ways and better than when you are all flared up.

Tell yourself you don’t need anxiety and your body is working fine as it should.

Pray to God.
Thanks pal
Jokes Etc / Re: You Wouldn't Believe How Much He Claim He'd Earned. See My Reply To This Scammer by anxiousguy: 8:18pm On Aug 26, 2018
Frankicent:
You wouldn't believe how much he claim to have earned. See my Savage reply to this scammer.

Some guys think mugu still exist. grin .. I no they exist just doesn't work for most Nigerian's again grin. Most especially this bubu regime choi...

I must have dropped my private email address somewhere on the internet. I guess desperately, looking for a MMO method..
I checked my email today only for me to see a weird message for a someone claiming Whitey.... I guess his African lemme not call him a Nigerian. Cause scammers exist everywhere. Might be a white guy for real.

I almost choked off with laughter this dude claims to have earn over 2000 btc not 2k worth of btc... I mean 2000 bitcoin. He desperately, want to sell his magic software to me for $300+ ... lwkmd... I believe when he reads my reply he will just waka and go bomb else where.... No be only him sabi bomb.
Pardon my typo not my fault na autocorrect oo.... Someone can't enjoy his phone again without auto correction doing it's worst. Its anoutrageous violation of policy.. sad angry grin
cc lalasticala come and see ooo

I know someone that currently has 483 btc.

He has done 204,800+ transactions in his btc wallet.



I'm sure the person that contacted you is a scammer tho
Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 8:14pm On Aug 26, 2018
JESUSBOIY:
OK. I have the same problem too, maybe mine is worst lols . My own is that ,(I could be talking to you and shaking for no reason), i get panic attacks alot, sometimes i become afraid for no reason and most people have taken advantage of me because of this. This days i stay indoors to avoid social activities so I don't get embarrassed.
Now you have just explained all I couldn't explain. This is exactly what I'm passing through. Inferiority complex is another battle I'd fight
Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 8:11pm On Aug 26, 2018
ikeno:
why are you jump,are they trying to hurt you,do they influence you in a bad way.

how will you be able to write the test, when you so scared.
it's best you fill us in so we could profound a solution for u.

if na cult Mata let us know oo
The can't and are not trying to hurt me.
It's nothing related to cultism.
Just a betrayal of trust amongst friends and nothing more.
They are not influencing me into doing any thing bad. They are just the manipulative type who wishes to be in charge of me and I broke out.
Issue has been settled but knowing that I'd be seeing them again in class makes me anxious(my heart skips at the thought of them. And no, I'm not afraid that the might hurt me. they can't)
I want to get them off my mind and that's the problem

They'd try to talk to me tomorrow and I'd definitely loose composure.
I'm an introvert who isn't very bold to face people.

Simply put, I don't have the boldness to hold an open conversation with them if they try to.

I don't want to appear dull and unhappy tomorrow in class. They'd notice and that would make them happy.

They are emotionless and don't care how their words affect other peoples emotions.

I don't want to loose composure when I see them. I don't want them to sense how unhappy I am knowing that they have betrayed me.

They are the only friends I've made in that class. They have people who they can talk to but I don't.

I possibly cannot make new friends tomorrow who'd make me forget them.


If I have someone to talk to in class tomorrow, I won't give a bleep about them.

The test wouldn't be a hard one as the lecturer has given us an AOC. all I have to do is read one chapter of a tiny textbook that is less than 8 pages. I'd scale through the test

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Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 7:48pm On Aug 26, 2018
JuanDeDios:
You should see a psychiatrist. I suspect you have social difficulties and are predisposed to these feelings you mentioned. Anxiety disorder can exist on its own but it can be caused by a neurological disorder. I think you should read up on Google, take some online tests and see a psychiatrist.
Thanks for the tip
Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 7:47pm On Aug 26, 2018
JESUSBOIY:
Were you embarrassed in front of your peers?
Nothing of such. Its just argument amongst friend that led to betrayer of trust.
Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 7:38pm On Aug 26, 2018
JESUSBOIY:
lorazepam (Ativan) is the answer, Go and ask for this drugs in the pharmacy store. I don't think mere advice Will be helpful.
Thanks.
Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 7:33pm On Aug 26, 2018
Frankicent:
Judging from your words. You sound like you got involved in something nasty. And you wouldn't say.... What is it you aren't saying? we can start from there
Just normal course mate argument.
Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 7:33pm On Aug 26, 2018
Frankicent:
Judging from your words. You sound like you got involved in something nasty. And you wouldn't say.... What is it you aren't saying? we can start from there
Just normal course mate argument.
Romance / Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by anxiousguy: 7:12pm On Aug 26, 2018
Hello nairalanders.
I had a fallout with some friends and ever since then I've been having this anxious feeling all the time. Its affecting my health already.

Just recently I decided to spend more time to myself reading James hadly chase books.

I've deleted my WhatsApp, deactivated my Facebook and anything that'd make me talk to anyone.

I only come to nairaland to read the headlines and that's all.

The isolation doesn't seem to help me and each time I'm always having a feeling that there's danger ahead.

My breathing is twise its normal rate and even movement of an ant would get my heart beating 1000 times in a second.

I've decided to cut out the people giving me problems in life with hope that I'd live a normal and happy life but the thought of seeing them everyday just makes me anxious.

I feel like quitting school and starting all over again in a place that no one knows me but my sister talked me out of when I told her of my plans.

I'm tired of getting manipulated by those unfriendly friends and I've decided to live my life without them but I can't help but feel anxious knowing that I'd be seeing them everyday until I graduate.

I've not made or received any phone calls since 15 days because I put my phone out of action by destroying my old lines and getting a new line which I intend to use only for data subscription and nothing else.

My mum after 3 days of not hearing from me has sent someone to check on me in my hostel and immediately I heard a knock my heart started beating faster than it was supposed to. It didn't take the person few seconds to sense that I wasn't my normal self.

I confided in her and her words gave me solace till she left. Knowing that I'm passionate about programming and software design, she bought me three udemy courses to keep me busy but I've not been able to watch more than 3 minutes of the lectures.

I took a peep at Facebook today and discovered that I'd be having some tests tomorrow in school. Immediately I remembered that I'd be seeing those friends again and the worry and increased heartbeat started again.

I've tried to get over this anxiety on my own but all my efforts seems to be futile. I can't even type as my fingers are shaking due to the panic that has developed.


Please nairalanders, I need advice. Anything that can help me overcome this panic. If this continues I won't be able to concentrate on my studies and by doing that, I'd only be helping them achieve their aim.

I don't want to show this anxiety when I appear in school tomorrow.
I want to live as happy as I can.
I don't want to feel defeated.
I don't intend to seek reassurance from others anymore.
I want to get out of this pervasive worry as it is doing me no good.
The increased heartbeat makes me get tired easily and I want to be as lively as I can when I get to class tomorrow.

I know this would get more audience if it is moved to the front-page

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