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FamilyRe: Happy Birthday To Family Section's World Famous Leapling (CHAIRCOVER) by Aparche(f): 5:20pm On Mar 02, 2012
Hapi buff day madam CC, may u live long enuf to give ur invaluable advice 2 our children's children on nairaland grin
say amen
FamilyRe: What Does It Mean To Be A Submissive Wife. by Aparche(f): 10:18am On Mar 02, 2012
This issue of submission came about because there can't be 2 captains in a ship, just as you don't see 2 CEO's calling the shot in a particular organization; otherwise there will be chaos, a lot of bickering and no progress. I believe this is the same reason why in the Nigerian police force whenever a DIG is promoted to Inspector General, other DIG's are authomatically retired. The person in charge might not necessarily be the smartest, kindest, most loving etc. It just that one person has to call the shot for peace to reign. In marriage, God in his wisdom has decided that the husband should be the one calling the shots while the wife should help him. It doesn't mean the wife has automatically become a door mat, footstool or lost her mind, it's just that there has to be a leader & a follower.
FamilyRe: For The Single And Searching by Aparche(f): 3:28pm On Mar 01, 2012
chinchunqugwonyunchanqwaaaaaa, you won't understand, I'm laughing in chinese
FamilyRe: by Aparche(f): 3:21pm On Mar 01, 2012
I love the smell of dust (don't know why), when I was younger I used to deliberately raise dust & then inhale
it. Then I will spend sometime sneezing; It was pure *bliss* grin
FamilyRe: A Baby Girl,she Is Just A Week Old. by Aparche(f): 4:41pm On Jan 23, 2012
tpia@:
Big bumper

the title of the thread is who wants a baby girl.

This girl is cold blooded.
No, the girl is not cold blooded infact I think she is humane & still has a conscience. If she is cold blooded she would have aborted the baby when she realized she was pregnant(which by the way is a very easy/selfish option) or maybe she could have given birth to the baby, dump her inside one gutter in Lagos & go back to school pretending as if nothing happened (afterall nobody knew she was pregnant). But she didn't do any of these instead she cried out for help. I have heard/read many stories of newborn babies abandoned in unhealthy/unsafe places by their mothers who probably found themselves in the same situation that chioma found herself. I applaud her for having the courage to do the right thing.

I want to thank everyone who has helped & is helping this girl in her quest to do what's best for her baby, may God bless y'all.
FamilyRe: Married But Fond Of Another Man by Aparche(f): 2:29pm On Jan 18, 2012
^^I thought he meant that he's above 30yrs of age,
FamilyRe: Man Accused Of Witchcraft Hacked To Death By Relatives by Aparche(f): 2:39pm On Jan 17, 2012
maasoap:
Prove he was not. Which culture in Nigeria fine people with "she-goat and bottles of kain-kain? May be you're not Ibo and you're not informed as well or, you're ignorant of your culture.
Were u so blinded by ur hatred for ibos that u couldn't see that the victim is from Akwa Ibom State(Even his name & Local Govt. were mentioned). Or is it ignorance that is worrying you? (maybe you sincerely believe that Akwa-Ibom is an Igbo State) huh
FoodRe: How Do You Think Is The Best Way To Drink Garri? by Aparche(f): 3:20pm On Jan 06, 2012
IG + cooked beans=nice cheesy
IG + moi-moi= yummy kiss
IG + bread fruit pottage = OUT OF THIS WORLD! cool

where IG is a constant meaning Ijebu Garri. cheesy
FamilyRe: I Have Fallen Out Of Love: What To Do? by Aparche(f): 7:08pm On Jan 05, 2012
~Minx~:
Yes I have made up my mind but what is going to be my reason for ending the marriage. There are lots of people involved, his family, mine, what do i tell them. He has not done anything wrong how would i justify such a big move
Do you have Children? (I hope not), I think you are making a big mistake; why should you leave him just b'cos you don't feel any more "spark" in your marriage considering that he's trying so hard to make it work. How sure are you that the "spark" with the other guy will last.
FamilyRe: My Mom's Elder Sister Is Threathening To Throw My Family Out Of Her House by Aparche(f): 3:07pm On Jan 05, 2012
@poster: Is your dad bedridden or , (just curious) 'cos 10yrs seems a long time for him not to have found something doing.It looks as if he has given up & chosen the lazy[s][/s]easy way out; leaving all responsibility for the wife. The way I see it, your mom cannot bear the additional responsibility of getting a house/apartment for your family & the insult will definitely keep coming until y'all pack out. So what can YOU do to help? (are u still Schooling? How old are u?). May be you can ginger your dad to rise up & be a man.
FamilyRe: I Have Fallen Out Of Love: What To Do? by Aparche(f): 11:08am On Jan 05, 2012
I don't understand, what exactly do you want to solve? Because it's like you have made up your mind to end the marriage.
I don't see how I can help you with this.
FamilyRe: My Mom's Elder Sister Is Threathening To Throw My Family Out Of Her House by Aparche(f): 8:47am On Jan 05, 2012
@poster this your story is one sided, you are just trying so hard to portray your aunt as a very BAD person & garner sympathy for your family. Guess what? It is not working. You even sound as if you expected your "WICKED AUNT" to have completed her house, sunk a borehole & if possible put in a generator 4 your family to use (rent free). Wake up dear! your aunt has tried for your family big time, you didn't expect to live in HER house forever did you? She has to complete that building & she can't do that while y'all are still squatting there, can she?
FamilyRe: How Poverty Made Me Abandon Assault Case On My 12-yr-old Daughter –victim’s Moth by Aparche(f): 8:19am On Jan 05, 2012
I don't blame the woman for deciding to settle out of court (though I felt that she should have pushed for a higher settlement, 30k is too small), I blame our justice system that is too slow in prosecuting cases. Who knows how long this case would have lasted (maybe 10yrs)and the woman would have had to be wasting money on transporation coming from Enugu to Lagos & back each time the case is adjourned. And of course with the recent hike in cost of transportation how could she have coped. I believe she wouldn't have settled if she was residing in Lagos.
FamilyRe: 5 Things Every Extrovert Should Know About Introverts by Aparche(f): 7:54am On Jan 04, 2012
I like reading articles or books that explain to me why I act the way I do. This is why I really enjoyed reading this article & took my time to read all the posts. I have always wondered why out of 8 Children born by my parents, I am the only one that like keeping to myself. Others prefer being with friends, neighbors, even one another. When I was growing up (even up till now) I never visited neither did I have anyone visiting me (I have only one very close friend, we attended the same primary sch. were in the same class in sec. sch. & studied the same course in Uni.). When I was in school I never asked questions in class because I didn't want to draw attention to myself (all eyes looking at u &…). I remember in primary 6 during a quiz competition b/w girls & boys, the quiz master asked a question and to my surprise nobody knew the answer not even the intelligent ones in the class but I knew it! The answer was even in my book, yet I couldn’t say it so we lost that point & the competition (I really hated myself for this). Before I started using mobile phone, I used to worry that apart from family members I won’t have any other person to add to my list of contacts & that I won’t be receiving calls. I couldn’t imagine myself standing in front of people to speak (the thought of it alone petrifies me). Thank God I have outgrown my chronic shyness. Even though am still an Introvert at least I’m more outgoing and friendly & above all I love myself just the way I am. wink
FamilyRe: How Will You Advice Him? by Aparche(f): 1:43pm On Dec 21, 2011
This is a dicey situation & from the way your friend wants to handle it, he's gonna end up regretting it. @ poster, you have to advice your friend very well. This is definitely not the time for him to be talking about a secret second wife who he will marry, instead he should concentrate on getting his gf to see reasons why they need to break-up. The truth is that they are not compatible medically unless they don't plan on having children. Otherwise, he had better put sentiment aside at this point & do the right thing.
Christianity EtcRe: Where Was God Living Before He Created Heaven?i Just Want To Be Englightened. by Aparche(f): 5:42pm On Dec 15, 2011
In 2Corinthians 12:2, paul mentions a third heaven; this means that there are three heavens: 1st, 2nd & 3rd heavens. First heaven being the air that we breathe(atmospheric), second heaven the place where angels and devils dwell(earths heaven), and third heaven being God's heaven(planet heaven). In my opinion Gen. 1:1 was referring to either the 1st or the 2nd heaven or probably both. Remember that He had already created the angels before he made man. So they must have been dwelling somewhere,
FamilyRe: What Do You Do If Your Relationship With Your Wife Is Like This? by Aparche(f): 12:30pm On Dec 15, 2011
^^^ grin grin, u wan try??
BusinessRe: Ikeja City Mall At Alausa by Aparche(f): 11:29am On Dec 14, 2011
lagerwhenindoubt:
abi, you can imagine my shock - no where to pose with IPAD or sit in the open showing off grin grin grin no mind dem dayokanu gangsters going to shoppign malls looking like brooklyn or compton gangsters grin and Eko-ile the Rascal (na joke ooh)
.

My broda no mind them jare, some people dey fall my hand for this country, notin do u! If surulere no work try Ikeja wink
BusinessRe: Ikeja City Mall At Alausa by Aparche(f): 11:02am On Dec 14, 2011
grin ^^^ Pls u guys should not crucify largerwhenindoubt, I understand where he's coming from; seeing as shoprite surulere is the closest he's ever come
to anywhere resembling yankee, he expected to see young & funky guys wearing baggy jeans, T-shirts with bling-bling and fancy looking timbaland boots & probably head-warmer. Instead he saw alaba boyz wearing bathroom slippers shouting at the top of their voice huh what a shock!!! grin grin ;
FamilyRe: Olden Days Vs Modern Days Marriages by Aparche(op): 4:10pm On Dec 09, 2011
jennykadry:
Women back then tolerate one minute men but now, mbaaaaaaaaa nu, only 30minutes minimum kind of men are accepted everywhere. cool

Tufiakwa back then wey be say if our mamas need some loving, instead of going to their husbands and grabbing their di[i]c[/i]kkksss, what do they do? rub white powder round their necks as sign say kongi dey hold them sad

Tufiakwa again, those days wey be say women managed "missionary" position all their lives but now? if you are not multi-talented you don't stand a chance in my car not to talk of my bedroom cool

Tufiakwa the third time, those days that women had to manage di[i]c[/i]ksss only without the use of fingers and tongues. cry cry

Back then wey women saw dirty talking as crime and were happy to have quiet men (breathing like Samson when he killed the lion and freed himself from the chains delilah's people put on him) as husbands.

Thank goodness for liberation, now breeze don blow and okuko(chicken) nyash don open.

PS only men with multi talented VISA(accepted everywhere)dic[i]k[/i]ss are allowed into the chambers of the fountain of living waters grin cheesy. We accept only very wealthy and well fed di[i]c[/i]kssss now with potentials and when I mean potentials I mean d ones that will come out of ya throat and make you break the da vinci code with praises. Those ones you go on your knees and sing praises and worships with and for, that so tey annointing will catch it and it will start responding by shooting out with happiness like when Naija first regained freedom. cool

I hope Mr poster that yours sincerely here have answered your question. Thank me with a RR sports cool
huh
FamilyRe: Olden Days Vs Modern Days Marriages by Aparche(op): 10:42am On Dec 09, 2011
AYODEJI4LOVE:
No insult meant,but if i may ask,did you know what most of the women then suffered and endure for and on is worser(if english permit that grammer)than divorce?look at the way women are been used then as slave,then instead of divorce they can easily get a new wife just like somebody said earlier.
Love is blind then but now love can see and love is now wiser than before.
I guess in those days women were treated like 2nd class citizens, they had no say whatsoever in how the home was run:
all they did was to take care of their husband's/children's need. Their desire & feelings were totally disregarded, that's why
most of them had a master-servant r/ship with their husbands.
FamilyOlden Days Vs Modern Days Marriages by Aparche(op): 4:30pm On Dec 08, 2011
I have always wondered why marriages during the time of our great-grand/grand fathers never failed(no cases of divorce),
despite the fact that most of them were arranged marriages whereas in our own generation there are a lot of divorces,
in spite of the fact that we choose our partners by ourselves these days. Isn't it an irony, what do y'all think?

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