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 Family › Re: Please "Go And Marry" Is It An Advice Or Insult? by Aparche(f): 1:32pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
FalseProphet1:What has marriage got to do with borrowing money? Are there not married people that borrow money from single people? If you don't want to lend her money then tell her plainly that you won't give her...which one is go and marry. Besides, does she not pay back? 2 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Activists Arrested & Beaten At Dunamis Church For Wearing Buhari Must Go Shirts by Aparche(f): 4:29pm On Jul 04, 2021 |
Mikkycee777:And why should they wear it to the church of all places, then come out for altar call at the same time (so that they can be seen by all & photographed) ... knowing the kind of unreasonable government we have? We are not ignorant of the devices of the enemy... 1 Like |
| Christianity Etc › Re: A Cobra Was Found In My Office - Bishop Oyedepo by Aparche(f): 8:54am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Amotolongbo:'We' the sons & daughters of God always thank Him for everything. Whether petty or great; it doesn't matter. Because in everything we give thanks to our Father. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Aparche(f): 9:30am On Jun 24, 2021 |
@Op... It's only someone who is spiritual that will understand that you have a real problem. The fact is that many people here are either carnal christians or unbelievers who think that going to church is what Christianity is all about. There's a reason why the bible says believers should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. The fact remains that both of you are not spiritually compatible. And in the long run his spirituality or non-spirituality is going to affect yours. Just know that for a born again Christian, the question of who to marry is an important spiritual junction; and the decision you take can make or mar you for all eternity. Life is not just about the physical. 4 Likes |
| Christianity Etc › Re: MFM Church Bride Weds Without Makeup, Rocks Makeup At Reception by Aparche(f): 7:15pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
This make-up artist is so unprofessional...how can she come online to rant about what she was paid to do. And what gives her the right to post her clients wedding pix like this in public. We take a lot of nonsense in this country! Something that can get you sued in saner climes... 1 Like |
| Crime › Re: Woman Jailed For Performing Sex Act On A Married Stranger While He Was Asleep by Aparche(f): 1:27pm On May 27, 2021 |
I don't understand! Did this happen in their hotel room or their house? Don't they lock their doors? How can a strange drunk woman have access to your bed while you were sleeping, and you even thought she's your wife...where did she come from? Meaning that you could have been murdered in your sleep. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Private Secondary School Vs Emzor Factory Worker by Aparche(f): 4:11pm On May 08, 2021 |
You will not have any time left for yourself if you choose the teaching job. You will end up using your weekends to write lesson notes consistently. Then on weekdays when school dismisses by 3pm, how are you sure you will leave immediately? They might want you to handle extra-classes. On the other hand, if you choose the factory work, you are free on weekends. And since it's based on shift, any time you're on night shift it means you're free during the day. Ultimately, you should choose the one that will give you enough time to acquire additional skills. So that you can have a side hustle that will generate a steady income for you as time goes on. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Iniobong Umoren Raped By Uduak Akpan Before He Buried Her. Family Demands Corpse by Aparche(f): 4:26pm On May 02, 2021 |
Missyajoke:Don't mind them... wicked set of people. There's no difference between them & the man that killed that lady (...was he not on nairaland?). They don't even feel sorry that someone's life has been cut short. They will open their mouth and speak evil against a dead person that they don't know from Adam. Evil people! God is watching y'all in HD.  4 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Aparche(f): 3:32pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
This forum is so biased! If it was a lady complaining that her MIL visits without notice, majority of the people here will call her an evil DIL that doesn't want to tolerate her MIL. If I hear! 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Christianity Etc › Re: My Experience As A Pastor by Aparche(f): 3:09pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Lostchild:You people know nothing except how to insult people. Must everything be spelt out for you? How can you ask which knowledge give wealth in Nigeria. That in itself is an ignorant question...Go an learn sought after skills such as internet marketing, crypto currency/ forex trading.etc even plumbing, electrical work, generator repair...and see whether the knowledge & application of those skills will not give you wealth. |
| Education › Re: Felt Bad My Students Said I Am Into Yahoo, Teaching Can't Afford My Lifestyle by Aparche(f): 8:49am On Apr 01, 2021 |
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| Education › Re: Felt Bad My Students Said I Am Into Yahoo, Teaching Can't Afford My Lifestyle by Aparche(f): 10:18pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
I used to think that it's only developers & programmers that can work as freelancers. I never knew that there are thousands of skills that someone can offer from the comfort of your home; ranging from simple to complex, general to specialized. Thank God for the lockdown that forced me to start looking for another source of income just in case salary payment becomes irregular. September last year someone told me about an academy that runs a digital marketing program & virtual assistant training program. I decided to do the VA training program. Invested some money on the course & after two months intensive training, I registered on some job sites. Got my first client on Guru & my second client on upwork. The job was to write personalized one line messages for the list of contacts they gave me. Although the pay wasn't all that great; I made $220 b/w Dec. 2020 to Feb 2021. But it helped me to realize that I can actually earn money working from home. So I decided to invest that money to acquire a specialized, high-paying skill. Currently, I'm on another intensive training to acquire copywriting skills. I'm looking forward to earning thousands of dollars per month as a direct response copywriter, so help me God.  7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Fashion › Re: Lagos Restaurant, Grills By Delis, Denies Lady Entrance Over Her Outfit by Aparche(f): 3:26pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
abbey621:So why don't you wear only your boxers to work and if your boss react ask him if they have any written policy for dress code. You'll be talking about human rights as if the other customers in that restaurant are not humans that also have a right to have their meals in peace without being assaulted with a walking pornography. 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: He Is A Cheat, Yet Won’t Let Me Go by Aparche(f): 9:13am On Mar 09, 2021 |
SILVERLINES:Wicked advice! This is how you people justify evil. What type of nonsense love are you talking about? "Love" that has no respect for her & for their relationship! You want her to settle for someone who has no self-control? A man who is already sleeping with multiple women before marriage? Let me tell you if she leaves him, she will find someone else who is a thousand times better than him... and she would be very glad that she did. @op, if you want to die before your time, go ahead with that marriage. You will be worthless to him, he will never respect you anymore...he will sleep with your maid, with your sisters, with your friends, and any female that is close to you...and there's nothing you can do about it! WHY? Because you accepted this nonsense from the beginning... by going ahead with the marriage! Thank God you have not married him & you've not even done engagement! LEAVE HIM NOW & focus on your life. Don't go into any relationship immediately, just focus on improving yourself, getting a job or starting a business...adding value to your life. If he continues to threaten you, report the matter to the police! If you go ahead with the marriage...Let me just tell you SORRY in advance, because you will NEVER be happy in that marriage. 5 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Girlfriend Smashes Cheating Boyfriend's New Iphone 12, Plasma TV (photos) by Aparche(f): 8:53pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
mccloud224:Hiaan...Is it that reading comprehension is no longer taught in secondary schools these days? All you know is how to insult someone, read & understand you cannot! Please kindly go back & read that post slowly... don't you know when someone is being sarcastic? |
| Christianity Etc › Re: My Giving In Church Vs My Giving To Others: What Is The Cause?? by Aparche(f): 6:47pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
[quote author=LadySarah post=99281143]In the same situation too. I was trying to adjust but after watching Johnson Suleiman's video, nah! let me keep giving to those genuinely in need. haven't even been to church this year self. God help. me. [/quo The worst thing a person would do to himself or herself is to base his/her Christianity on the behavior of another human being instead of a personal relationship with God based solely on His word. When you die & face God in judgement, nobody will be there with you, even the very person that misled you will not be there. It's only between you & your God! |
| Family › Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Aparche(f): 3:01pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Op...I think you should start ghosting him. Start ignoring him and whatever he does, pretend as if he doesn't exist. Talk to him only when it's absolutely necessary, otherwise anytime you're alone with him in the house, carry novel and be reading. If he says something, expecting you to respond...ignore him. Start giving one word answers to his questions & comments, like yes, no, I don't know, Ok, fine. Also if you used to beg him to help you do chores or borrow stuff from him. STOP! When he realizes that you hardly talk to him & he trying to gist with you, and engage you has become an uphill task. His brain will reset and the insults and mockery will stop. 2 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Lauretta Onochie: "CNN Lied To The World About Nigeria" by Aparche(f): 5:12am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Dear Madam, CNN published their report with evidence. If you claim their report is fake, then present to us the evidence you have that their report is fake. Tweeting accusations that you cannot support doesn't cut it for us. And for those that keeping saying that CNN has been known for fake news. All I have to say is this: "The truth in the mouth of a known liar will always remain the truth." |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Not Attending Church Every Sunday. Is It Such A Big Sin? by Aparche(f): 9:22am On Nov 15, 2020 |
cfree14:He told you it's wrong not to go to Church, he didn't tag you a sinner. Of course there are times that someone who is faithful in church attendance may not be able to go to church, it's quite understandable. But you also have to ask yourself if you would have decided to stay at home because you are tired had it been it's work you are supposed to go to. This will help you know what you value more. |
| Romance › Re: I Caught My Guy's Fiancee In Another Man's House by Aparche(f): 10:10am On Sep 05, 2020 |
If you don't tell your so called friend then it means you're not a good person & you are supporting the girl. Since you said the girl promised to call you to explain, why not record the conversation with her as evidence. Then inform your born again friend what you saw, send him the recorded conversation as well as the contact of that your other friend you went to visit, so that he can confirm what you saw. It will be a terrible thing if you keep quiet & allow them get married without at least divulging what you know. My Pastor will always say that next to hell fire is a bad marriage. 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: King Air Jet Rams Into Fence At Lagos Airport After Brake Failure by Aparche(f): 7:30pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
nBag:Likewise me, I don't know why but I just like him. You can tell that he's fully into this world & only interested in satisfying the cravings of his flesh without a care about his eternal destination. My earnest prayer for him is that he will have a personal encounter with Jesus Christ (not religion) & become delivered from spiritual blindness & death. God can use him mightily. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Hyundai Dealership Employed Dog As Sales Person With I.D, Desk In Brazil(Pics) by Aparche(f): 10:12am On Aug 08, 2020 |
konkonbilo:Please stop this generalization! I can assure you that there are many families in Nigeria that have pet dogs that are well taken care of; they feed them well, bathe them often, play with them, sleep with them, take them to vet periodically for vaccination & generally treat them like members of their family. We still have dog lovers in this country abeg. |
| Education › Re: Sperm Don't Really Swim But Spin - New Study by Aparche(f): 2:21pm On Aug 05, 2020 |
Kissiemu:Take it easy! The Spirit and the Bride says "Come"... |
| Art, Graphics & Video › Re: How Wildlife Photographers Get Their Contents (photos) by Aparche(f): 11:54am On Jul 31, 2020 |
Tickles001:At first glance that was exactly what I thought. It's really amazing & beautiful. |
| Romance › Re: My Fiancee Insists We Spend N500k Or Less On Our Wedding But I Want To Spend N1M by Aparche(f): 11:47am On Jul 25, 2020 |
omoadeleye:From the post, I believe the lady has shown that she's better at managing money & she's not selfish at all. If the Op is wise, he will allow her to be the one to manage their finances in the marriage, with that they will never get into any financial hardship. |
| Sports › Re: Ifeanyi George’s Family & Girlfriend Get ₦20 Million From Enugu Rangers (Photos) by Aparche(f): 3:29pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Justarandomguy:The money is not directly from the club, but from a Life Assurance arm of an Insurance company. The club obviously insured all their players. Go and educate yourself on how it works. |
| Family › Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Aparche(f): 11:39am On Jul 04, 2020 |
foreverdiamonds:It's one thing being tempted by such an amount of money and then trying to play a fast one by keeping it to yourself; that is greed. But when a human being like her calls & begs her to return the money because he made a mistake, and she still refused and instead proceeded to transfer it to another bank account just so that they won't touch it. Then that is wickedness, and goes to show that she is inconsiderate. And then when the person she loves call to ask her about the money, she denies it, until he confronted her with proof. Kai! This one has gone beyond mistake abeg. This is character problem, and in marriage we pray to marry someone with good character. 3 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: Father's Day: Uche Elendu Blasts Trolls Calling Her Father Poor On Instagram by Aparche(f): 5:28pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
I cannot understand how people can judge that the man is poor based on that single picture posted. All I see is an elderly man who decided to take a picture with his grand daughter wearing his stay at home clothes. My dad has some old & faded t-shirts & trousers that he loves wearing at home & he's very much attached to these clothes. Yet in his wardrobe he has nice clothes he wears when he's going out & when you see him you will know that he's very comfortable even though he's retired. Does putting on faded clothes in your own home automatically translate to being poor? Why are people so myopic? No sense of reasoning any more  |
| Education › Re: Lockdown: We Are Hungry - Private Schools Teachers Cry Out by Aparche(f): 9:49pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
hstar:You should have at least included the initials of your account name. What if somebody trying to send you money makes mistake by typing a wrong digit in your account number & another person's name shows? That's how the money meant for you will go to someone else... 1 Like |
| Education › Re: Lockdown: We Are Hungry - Private Schools Teachers Cry Out by Aparche(f): 9:24pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
tutudesz:So you want him to sell his phone before he can eat? If he does that, how will he communicate or even get information about any job opportunity. OK, after selling the phone probably at a giveaway price & eating all the money, what next? He should then proceed to sell his clothes abi? In situations like this, if you don't want to give, just wakapass instead of making some comments that are not helpful. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Aparche(f): 3:48pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
fieryy:You sef! Is it that you didn't read what op wrote or what? Isn't it obvious that the op was guilt tripped into going ahead with this marriage. Didn't you read where she threatened to either kill herself or the op if the marriage didn't hold? You think that wasn't force? |
the way these white guys care about dogs ehn is beyond my imagination, if you think we're taking care of dogs here in Nigeria just go watch all those videos online that those white guys post on Facebook and on Instagram you go know say we no even de close. The dogs sleep with them in same bed, play with their new born bady and even lick thier skin which can never happen here in Nigeria, there even buy different toys for the dog, some dogs even have thier own bed and chairs inside the house. They call themselves dad and mom of the dogs can't even keep mentioning what they do but it's just so different from the way we train dogs here. If they can treat dogs like humans how much more them treating their fellow humans. Na that side real humanity de no be africa.