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 Family / Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Aparche(f): 11:04am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Op...I can deduce from your post that you need some space, you're tired of seeing her at home 24/7, so you are pushing her to go out and start something. But has it occurred to you that your wife (just like me) may not be the type of person that likes doing business? Well...at least offline. I'm sure she will prefer office work, but the problem as you said is that all the interview she attended has not yielded any results... actually, the fact that she attends interviews is proof that she really wants to work. As for travelling to the East for Masters, I can bet you that the reason she doesn't want to go is because she's pregnant...she can't imagine carrying pregnancy & running around for lectures at the same time. I have a feeling that your wife is introverted, and doesn't like stressing herself much...if so, then she's very much like me. My advice is this, since the normal office work she desires is not forthcoming, you can introduce her to the concept of remote work. In this day and age, she can work as an admin assistant, teacher, call center agent, writer remotely. All she needs is to get the requisite skills. One thing I'm sure of is that there must be something that your wife enjoys doing. If you identify her interest, she can be trained and offer her services remotely. 1 Like |
| Education / Re: Mirabel Obi, UNN Twerker, Attempts Suicide (Video) by Aparche(f): 5:00pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Oh Lord I pray for this young lady Mirabel... strengthen her in this moment of weakness. Please do not let this single lapse of judgement on her part to be the end of her... because that's what the evil one wants. Help her to come out stronger and better. And most importantly, draw her close to you at this time. May she fulfill your purpose for creating her...in Jesus name I pray. 1 Like |
| Career / Re: How Do I Make My Excess Time Productive by Aparche(f): 2:03pm On Nov 05, 2021 |
slawormiir: Stop deceiving yourself. You and the people liking and sharing your post. I know it makes you feel good to believe that some how everyone who's making money is into shady deals like you. But that's not true. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Salary Earners- What Is The Highest Amount A Salary Job Has Paid You. by Aparche(f): 6:38pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
nanceeleecious: How To Write Effective Proposals on Freelance Platforms (using Upwork & Fiverr as case study) Long Post Alert... Before I start, here are 2 things you should take note of: i) Avoid using generic copy and paste templates to send proposals...I know it's faster and easier for you, but it doesn't work. ii) Write personalized proposal for every job post...the content should be dependent on the job post by the client. I know it's not easy...and it will be time consuming. But if you want clients coming into your inbox to discuss further, then your proposal had better stand out. Now let's get into it: 1) Address your proposal to the person that posted the job... mention the person's name (if possible). Instead of writing, Hi there, Dear Sir/Madam, Hi, Hello Ma,... Do a little bit of research to get the person's name...on Fiverr you will clearly see the username of the buyer. It may not be their real name...use it like that. On Upwork, if the person has hired & received reviews from other freelancers, if you scroll down, you may see where they mentioned the person's name. If not...you can go ahead and use --- Hi there! 2) Show the client that you actually read and understood their post...the best way to do this is to repeat exactly what they want... For instance if the client posted something like: I'm looking for someone to help me research and write the first lines for my cold emails outreach. I'll provide you with a list of contacts and their data, and your job would be to bla bla bla. In your proposal, you can start by saying: Hello Karl, I see that you're looking for someone to help you research and write the first lines for your cold emails outreach...then get into the body of your proposal. 3) Body of the Proposal: The first thing to do here is to demonstrate to the client that you can do the job... The best way to do this especially if you're a newbie with no sample and review would be to talk about the process... that's a run down of how you'll do the job. Just a short summary will suffice... If you have done similar job, tell them about it and post the link to a related sample. Afterwards, you can talk about yourself and your qualifications or skill set. 4) Make life easy for your clients: Post a link of your portfolio or sample in your proposal...as against attaching your sample at the bottom and expecting the client to start downloading it, especially if you're using Upwork. Note: You should save your samples in google drive...if you want to show only one sample, you can copy the link to that particular sample. If you want to show the client your whole portfolio, copy the drive url. 5) Always end with a Call To Action...eg Send me a message, let's discuss further about your project. Do these, and hopefully more clients will come into your inbox. 26 Likes 10 Shares |
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Salary Earners- What Is The Highest Amount A Salary Job Has Paid You. by Aparche(f): 11:53am On Nov 02, 2021 |
temi4fash: To get remote job, you need the following: 1) A skill: what service(s) can you offer? Example: graphic design, web design/development, UI/UX design, 3D-animation, social media management, data entry, lead generation, copy/content writing, proof reading/editing, transcription, appointment setting, Admin Assistantetc...there are so many services you can render. If you don't have any skill, I'll advise you to choose one based on your interest & the need for it in the market and learn it. 2) A Laptop: the type you should get depends on the skill...if you're into programming or 3d animation, & maybe graphic design you need a higher grade laptop than if you're into writing. 3)High speed Internet: You can buy a modem, use wifi, etc whatever works for you. 4) Dedicated work space in your home/room: basically comfortable table & chair, so you don't develop back pain. After getting all these things, you can then do the following: 5) Sign up to Freelance Marketplaces such as Upwork, Fiverr, People Per Hour, Freelancer...there are so many of them. 6) You can focus on any two of these...set up your profile and optimize. And be truthful while at it...if you're from Nigeria, state that as your Country and use your real name... 7) Start sending proposals on these platforms everyday...send as many as you can, it's a game of numbers. It won't be easy initially because you're just starting out, but if you're consistent you will get clients. And most times, if you do a great job for them, they will keep coming back to patronize you...some may even Also on some of these platforms, you'll see some agencies or businesses advertising for positions... if you apply and get the job, you don get guaranteed long term remote job be that. 7) For payment: Most of these marketplaces have escrow services, which means your client pays money to them, they take their share and give you the rest...you can link your local bank account to receive your funds. You can open a Payoneer account, you can open a domiciliary account etc...there are so many you can get your money. Finally, anyone can do remote work... it's not for a special group of people. Just set your mind on it, and gradually it will start falling into place. 81 Likes 18 Shares |
| Crime / Re: Woman Dies After Husband Set Her Ablaze For Insisting To Travel For Mum's Burial by Aparche(f): 4:47pm On Oct 23, 2021 |
Tunagee: I don't care whether you claim to be Christian, Moslem, Atheist, Agnostic... One thing I can deduce from your comment is that you're EVIL. Your heart is FULL of WICKEDNESS. 3 Likes |
| Romance / Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Aparche(f): 3:23pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Abeg where did this idea that it's a taboo for siblings from one family to marry siblings from another family come from? As long as it's not the same bloodline there's nothing wrong with it. My dad and his younger brother (same father & mother), married my mom and her half sister (same father, different mother's) respectively. And they were all from the same village, but different kindreds and families. |
| Religion / Re: 22 Doctrinal Beliefs Of Deeper Life Church by Aparche(f): 9:53am On Sep 19, 2021 |
OtemAtum: In the grand scheme of things, your opinion doesn't matter neither does my opinion matter...the Truth will always remain the truth. And there's nothing we can do about it. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Education / Re: 10 Dogs Owned By Anambra School Proprietor Feast On 2yrs Old Prospective Pupil by Aparche(f): 6:50pm On Sep 18, 2021 |
Speakright79: Nawa o! This one you are already abusing & insulting the mother. Please where is it written that it was the mother that took the child to the school? It says 'a parent' took the child to school...it never mentioned which parent. |
| Family / Re: Is This Chemistry Or Is It Bound To Happen In Marriage/relationship? by Aparche(f): 6:01pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Pegi23: And you sound like you're jealous! That you will never have what she has...even in your dreams. 5 Likes |
| Career / Re: How Can I Pursue A Career In Public Health by Aparche(f): 2:22pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Anuoluwa12345: Kindly note that Master of Science in Public Health degree (Msc. PH) is different from Master of Public Health (MPH) degree. The first one is more advisable if you're pursuing a career in Academic field... The other one is a core professional degree. 2 Likes |
| Family / Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Aparche(f): 6:24pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Hmmm....this is a dicey situation. Op...since your dad have not finished paying some previous loans he took. Just assume that you're the person that will end up repaying any loan that you take for him... because he may not have money to pay when the time comes. If you take 500k loan from any Nigerian bank you will end up paying 800k or more including interest... probably for a period of 2 years or more. And they will be deducting nothing less than 30k from your salary every month... it's likely going to be more than this amount. The question is...can you survive on 40k or less every month? If you're taking loan better take an amount that you can repay easily... Don't go and put yourself in a situation that would make you resent or hate your father, especially if he's unable to keep his word. And for those saying that your Father suffered for you. Well, it's his DUTY as a parent to train you & your siblings either in school or to acquire a handiwork... otherwise he shouldn't have given birth to you. 2 Likes |
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Now That Things Are Expensive, How Do You Manage Your Salary by Aparche(f): 11:33am On Sep 07, 2021 |
akus6060: It's this mindset that keep many of you from taking opportunities that would literally transform your lives. The erroneous thinking that "If it's working for him, why is he revealing it to people instead of keeping it to himself. And why is he charging money...blablabla" Do you think every body is selfish? Don't you know that there are people whose desire is to teach others what they know?...people who love to lift others up. They're not afraid of competition because they know that the sky is wide enough for every kind of bird to fly at the same time. And of course, they have to charge money because most times people don't place much value on anything they are given free of charge. God knows that if I had this your mentality, I wouldn't be where I am now...in my Copywriting journey. The person that taught me Copywriting has made so much money with the skill, but he chose to start a copywriting academy. And he's charging a lot of money to teach people the same skill. Honestly, I thank God for the money I paid, 'cos if it was free of charge, I would have abandoned the program... because of how intensive & difficult it is. A program I thought will take me 6 weeks, I've still not completed it... although I'm almost done. But I can see the results: I was able to set up & optimize some gigs on Fiverr by June...earned $40 in July, $68 in August, and this Sept. I've earned $97 so far... All by just applying what I learned to execute few gigs ...this is someone that knew absolutely nothing about copywriting. At least I've recouped my investment...and I know it will keep increasing. So Bros. remove that mindset & goan learn a skill...you can even use YouTube to learn FOC. Forgive the long epistle. 6 Likes |
| Education / Re: Are You Now Working In Big Companies? by Aparche(f): 8:40pm On Sep 04, 2021 |
cucumbar: Unfortunately, that's the society we've found ourselves...evil is now good, and good is evil. 1 Like |
| Career / Re: Why I resigned my bank Job for bread-hawking -HND Holder by Aparche(f): 12:37pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
wink2015: It seems you didn't read the post. He is not trekking. He is using Motorcycle to supply the bread to customers. But the quantity he can carry at a go is too small & he has to keep going back to the bakery for more. And he says that sometimes by the time he gets be there the bread has finished. What he needs is a car or a (distribution van) to scale his business. I pray he gets one soon. He's on the right track. 1 Like |
| Family / Re: Help, My Fianceé Masturbates by Aparche(f): 11:49am On Aug 16, 2021 |
[quote author=wyt post=104830232][/quote] "She wants to change, that why she wants to get married"... Op, so you believe marriage will change her? Marriage doesn't change anybody! And you cannot change her. What you're seeing now, you will see worse when you guys marry. Unless you have no problem with all these things you've discovered about her, and can live with it. Otherwise...I see you complaining that you're not happy in your marriage. This I have seen! |
| Family / Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Aparche(f): 3:42pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Op...why not look for job during holidays and make your own money, even if it's peanut. At least it will help you appreciate the fact that it's not easy to make money. And it's also not easy to spend money you've suffered to make anyhow... |
| Crime / Re: Brenda Ataga Demands N1billion Compensation From Naijaloaded by Aparche(f): 4:25pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
MartinsD12: It beats my imagination how you can conclude that someone you don't know personally is evil & unforgiving just because she chose not to talk about her husband's murder publicly. You people just read something on social media about someone you don't know and based on what you've read, start speaking evil, and accusing that person. It's not good! 1 Like |
| Religion / Re: Bill Wiese: 'I Died & Went To Hell' (23 Questions About Hell) by Aparche(f): 6:43pm On Jul 11, 2021 |
Blakjewelry: I want to answer this question. Warning: This is going to be a very long read. But it will help us understand certain things... Man is a spirit, has a soul and lives in a body. Your spirit is not like smoke or vapour, rather it's the inner man and it looks exactly like your physical being...it is immortal (this means that it can never cease to exist.) What you call touch neurons are part of your soul; which is the centre of your feelings & emotions. Your soul is also immortal, just like your spirit. Your body on the other hand is mortal; it will die, decay and cease to exist. But while it is still alive, it is the container of your spirit/soul. Let me explain to you how it works: When you're alive, your soul gravitates more towards your physical body to allow you experience the earthly realm (this world). As a result you can feel pain, pleasure, sadness, joy, understand things, remember people, taste food, enjoy sex etc...the soul makes all these possible. However, after you die (remember it's only your body that dies...), your soul will then gravitate towards your spirit. Don't forget that your spirit looks exactly like your physical body...same form, shape, colour. So, just as was the case with your physical body, your soul will enable your spirit to experience the spiritual realm (heaven or hell). As a result, even though your life has ended in the earthly realm, you will find yourself alive in another realm (either in heaven or in hell). Depending on which part of these spiritual realms you find yourself, you will still feel pain, pleasure, joy, sadness, hunger, thirst, remember things, regret, gladness etc... your soul makes all these possible. The difference between the earthly and spiritual realms is that on earth your soul allows you to experience both the good and the bad things.... you can be happy one moment & sad the next, in pain today & enjoying yourself the next day. And it's temporary. But in the spiritual realm you can only experience the good OR the bad. If you're in heaven you will experience only the good. If you're in hell, you will experience only the bad. And it is for eternity. Think about how you feel when you're experiencing good and pleasurable things; you don't want it to end. But when you're experiencing bad or horrible things you want it to stop or go away. Then think about eternity in either heaven or hell. Which one would you prefer? If you want to enjoy pleasure and all the good stuff forever, there's only one way to ensure that... Jesus Christ is the way. All of us, based on our nature are supposed to end up in hell when we die... irrespective of how good you think you are. If you don't want that for yourself, you have to ask Jesus Christ to save you. And you must do it now that you're still alive. When you die physically, it becomes too late. This is why Jesus Christ came, died and rose again....so that you don't have to go to hell. But then, it's your decision to make. Call upon Jesus Christ now and be saved! |
| Family / Re: Please "Go And Marry" Is It An Advice Or Insult? by Aparche(f): 1:32pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
FalseProphet1: What has marriage got to do with borrowing money? Are there not married people that borrow money from single people? If you don't want to lend her money then tell her plainly that you won't give her...which one is go and marry. Besides, does she not pay back? 1 Like |
| Politics / Re: Activists Arrested & Beaten At Dunamis Church For Wearing Buhari Must Go Shirts by Aparche(f): 4:29pm On Jul 04, 2021 |
Mikkycee777: And why should they wear it to the church of all places, then come out for altar call at the same time (so that they can be seen by all & photographed) ... knowing the kind of unreasonable government we have? We are not ignorant of the devices of the enemy... |
| Religion / Re: A Cobra Was Found In My Office - Bishop Oyedepo by Aparche(f): 8:54am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Amotolongbo: 'We' the sons & daughters of God always thank Him for everything. Whether petty or great; it doesn't matter. Because in everything we give thanks to our Father. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance / Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Aparche(f): 9:30am On Jun 24, 2021 |
@Op... It's only someone who is spiritual that will understand that you have a real problem. The fact is that many people here are either carnal christians or unbelievers who think that going to church is what Christianity is all about. There's a reason why the bible says believers should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. The fact remains that both of you are not spiritually compatible. And in the long run his spirituality or non-spirituality is going to affect yours. Just know that for a born again Christian, the question of who to marry is an important spiritual junction; and the decision you take can make or mar you for all eternity. Life is not just about the physical. 3 Likes |
| Religion / Re: MFM Church Bride Weds Without Makeup, Rocks Makeup At Reception by Aparche(f): 7:15pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
This make-up artist is so unprofessional...how can she come online to rant about what she was paid to do. And what gives her the right to post her clients wedding pix like this in public. We take a lot of nonsense in this country! Something that can get you sued in saner climes... 1 Like |
| Crime / Re: Woman Jailed For Performing Sex Act On A Married Stranger While He Was Asleep by Aparche(f): 1:27pm On May 27, 2021 |
I don't understand! Did this happen in their hotel room or their house? Don't they lock their doors? How can a strange drunk woman have access to your bed while you were sleeping, and you even thought she's your wife...where did she come from? Meaning that you could have been murdered in your sleep. |
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Private Secondary School Vs Emzor Factory Worker by Aparche(f): 4:11pm On May 08, 2021 |
You will not have any time left for yourself if you choose the teaching job. You will end up using your weekends to write lesson notes consistently. Then on weekdays when school dismisses by 3pm, how are you sure you will leave immediately? They might want you to handle extra-classes. On the other hand, if you choose the factory work, you are free on weekends. And since it's based on shift, any time you're on night shift it means you're free during the day. Ultimately, you should choose the one that will give you enough time to acquire additional skills. So that you can have a side hustle that will generate a steady income for you as time goes on. |
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Iniobong Umoren Raped By Uduak Akpan Before He Buried Her. Family Demands Corpse by Aparche(f): 4:26pm On May 02, 2021 |
Missyajoke: Don't mind them... wicked set of people. There's no difference between them & the man that killed that lady (...was he not on nairaland?). They don't even feel sorry that someone's life has been cut short. They will open their mouth and speak evil against a dead person that they don't know from Adam. Evil people! God is watching y'all in HD.  4 Likes 1 Share |
| Family / Re: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by Aparche(f): 3:32pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
This forum is so biased! If it was a lady complaining that her MIL visits without notice, majority of the people here will call her an evil DIL that doesn't want to tolerate her MIL. If I hear! 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Religion / Re: My Experience As A Pastor by Aparche(f): 3:09pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Lostchild: You people know nothing except how to insult people. Must everything be spelt out for you? How can you ask which knowledge give wealth in Nigeria. That in itself is an ignorant question...Go an learn sought after skills such as internet marketing, crypto currency/ forex trading.etc even plumbing, electrical work, generator repair...and see whether the knowledge & application of those skills will not give you wealth. |
| Education / Re: Felt Bad My Students Said I Am Into Yahoo, Teaching Can't Afford My Lifestyle by Aparche(f): 8:49am On Apr 01, 2021 |
| Education / Re: Felt Bad My Students Said I Am Into Yahoo, Teaching Can't Afford My Lifestyle by Aparche(f): 10:18pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
I used to think that it's only developers & programmers that can work as freelancers. I never knew that there are thousands of skills that someone can offer from the comfort of your home; ranging from simple to complex, general to specialized. Thank God for the lockdown that forced me to start looking for another source of income just in case salary payment becomes irregular. September last year someone told me about an academy that runs a digital marketing program & virtual assistant training program. I decided to do the VA training program. Invested some money on the course & after two months intensive training, I registered on some job sites. Got my first client on Guru & my second client on upwork. The job was to write personalized one line messages for the list of contacts they gave me. Although the pay wasn't all that great; I made $220 b/w Dec. 2020 to Feb 2021. But it helped me to realize that I can actually earn money working from home. So I decided to invest that money to acquire a specialized, high-paying skill. Currently, I'm on another intensive training to acquire copywriting skills. I'm looking forward to earning thousands of dollars per month as a direct response copywriter, so help me God.  7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Fashion / Re: Lagos Restaurant, Grills By Delis, Denies Lady Entrance Over Her Outfit by Aparche(f): 3:26pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
abbey621: So why don't you wear only your boxers to work and if your boss react ask him if they have any written policy for dress code. You'll be talking about human rights as if the other customers in that restaurant are not humans that also have a right to have their meals in peace without being assaulted with a walking pornography. 2 Likes |
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