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The Middle Portion has got a fairly different paint color

silverkings:
My wife to be visited a pastor abi prophet.

After prayers, the man of God asked her about the man that deflowered him and told her that the young man is cursed because she cursed him after the did.

Ọmọ I shock. She told me everything before meeting this pastor.

Well o well

That your wife-to-be patronizes such people should be of greatest concern to you now.
Your life is already in a grave danger.🤔🤔

Owon:

Tell your mom to pray for herself
She's the one struggling
No be her mate be Okonjo Eweala, Alakija etc?

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RollinTNDA:
I'm financially ok despite the failling economy. But mumsi thinks im still struggling.
I sent her 200k last month for upkeep. i had some personal struggles in my life which i told her to pray for me..

On friday a got a video sent to my whatsapp from my relative. A video of my mom in one church as the pastor prophesy and call my name
My mother run out to the altar and start telling the pastor that i'm struggling that all my mates have married and build houses but whatever i do it dosent work.

Mind you this is a televised church program and she had the guts to disgrace me infront of many people
Now everybody back home will know i'm struggling. These are ny personal problems i confided in her secretly.
I can't even come back home to visit,everybody in the street know my matter see finish

Im so confused on what to do
I called her and yelled at her since then she refuse to pick my call

Now you would understand the reason First sons assumes the role of a Father and husband to their "MOM" (the supposed widow) at the demise of their Father
It's traditional in Africa. Women are wired differently.
Since I learned to start walking away, my mental sanity has returned.🤣🤣
If not for them, most Religious gatherings would have gone into extinction.

Seems you get personal Beef with Dr. Okafor.
What an Epistle....you even highlighted your write up.

Agbegbaorogboye:
That the bible was written by humans does not make it less of a sacred scripture
I don't know whether you expected God to have written it himself to give it a seal of authenticity
Till today, God speaks through people he does not speak by himself

Same way God speaks to others through their Religion.
If humans can write, Nothing should stop an Almighty God from writing us a Divine book & possibly updating it. 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️
I'm a Christian but I don't believe non Christians will go to Hell.
The issue of threatening people with hell is madness & doesn't show religious tolerance.
I'm rational in thinking. I'm a Christian because my parents are Christians and I have come to love the Christian way of adoring God but that doesn't mean everything about Christianity is true. Same applies to other religion. It's doesn't make them genuine too. Religion remains a man-made creation to worship God, but criminals monetize it..
This is humble submission which can be defended anywhere. Most clergymen know that.
I still stand to be educated with FACTS and not sentimental attachments.

Agbegbaorogboye:
This is pure superstition with no biblical basis
All these talk of spiritual side to sex is just superstition
Sex is sex
God that instituted sex did not classify it as demonic or non-demonic
Sex is a moral question throughout the bible and not any spiritual bandage or covenant
Anyone that believes this is just a believer in superstition

Bible was completely written by humans.
GOD has no iota of hand or imprinting in the Bible. No evidence supports that.
If you say God wrote the Bible, then who wrote Quran, who wrote Hindu books?🤣
There are several communities of this world who don't base their logics on the Bible yet they prosper far more than Nigeria. In fact, such communities experience miracles too.

Then your last 4 sentences are perfect.👌🏾👌🏾

planetx:
I have never disvirgined a girl before, so that means all the girls wey I don knack and them plenty, the men that disvirgined them are in serious wahala. Even the one that disvirgined my wife that one na extra serious wahala.

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Honestly they keep disappointing me. The worst being that most of them are university graduates

Nnamdipapa:
To think this dofus has a Ph.D. in Microbiology. people like him are a part of the mental rot in that country

Honestly.
It's so pathetic.
I weep each time I see scientists and academic juggernauts make unscientific, baseless and unfounded remarks in the name of Religion. Yet these Religious leaders can't answer simple questions like " What Religion is God"
IF God is not a Christian then what will devaint Christians be doing in hell?
Then if God is a Christian that means "Religion is higher than God"
How can a Religion be higher than the God it was originally created to adore
People are born into tribes and not the other way round.
People can't think for themselves again.

They will not still LEARN it.
It's now becoming a CURSE

Nnamdipapa:
RUBBISH!

You have to be extremely stupid to listen to this fluke.

Honestly
It sounds unprofessional and crazy.
How people sit down to listen to trash in churches and gatherings without pondering & questioning the authenticity and validity of such trash remain a puzzle to me
I will show that Pastor 1 million "perceived idiots" who don't go to church and are not even Christians that God has blessed tremendously.

Racoon:
Abeg where this epistle dey for the holy Bible?

He is Lying.
A Big Fat lie.
In as much as I detest such, he is Lying

I will show him 1,000,000 "Perceived Idiots" God has blessed tremendously without any iota of curse. He should stop lying.

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These Men should stop Lying.
What about consequences for deflowering men? Thought Ladies now say virginity also applies to males.

Ogaaa na Big Lie be this.
Let's stop all these emotional blackmail.
Meaning there should be consequences for marrying a widow & Single Mother too.

Wey our Ladies when you need them

ednut1:
read my original post. His potential weak sperm will do well with a younger babe

👌 Perfect.
U nailed it.
Let's remove sentiments. GOOD
I have managed Young Guys with Azoospermia who have got auto-antibodies against their spermatozoa. Life is not fair. It can go either way no doubt. But the OP's question is entirely dependent on AGE.
In that context, the women are more implicated.

ednut1:
miscarriages, Down syndrome and other conditions are sometimes caused by the sperm but we rather face women only 😂

The Index Question remains...
Can you judiciously pick a woman of 36 over a woman of 26, if you love both of them, they are of same tribe, same accent, same beauty, same academic fate, with both doing well at the same time and both respectful...?

Secondly, which of the above two women would you advise your Son or Younger brother to marry, especially when he doesn't have kids yet.

Be honest and let's stick to the OP's Topic
Please answer me, I'm waiting

AliEzeOlu:
Hello friends, so I met this lady in 2022 and we plan to settle down early next year. But the problem is, she's gonna clock 36 in December.

I heard about ladies and their biological clock plus menopause etc. I dont know, considering women's biological clock, is it advisable for a 40 year old man to marry a 36y/o?

Try and Get her Pregnant before tying any knot, if you want her to be the Mother of your kids.

ednut1:
ok

Yeahh..
But can still father millions.
But from 65 chances of having Achondroplasia sets in. Though, it's still not scientifically appreciable because men have had kids even into their 80s and 90s provided they can achieve and sustain erection to propel the semen. That can't be said of the women.

Memory Verse
Each ejaculation by a man constitutes 20million and all you need to fertilize an Egg is just one healthy one. That can't be compared to a lady who have only 500 eggs to play with after puberty till menopause with each egg dissolving per month, sometimes 2 incidentally (12 months a year)

ednut1:
40 years old weak sperm vs over the wall woman is a recipe for disaster

Point of Correction the sperm of a 40 year old is not weak. Sperms start becoming fragile from 65

Hellisreal70:
A 40 year old man like yourself should know the answer to the question you are asking us.

Make u na calm down naaa.
He just needs an advice.
No one knows it all

happney65:
Why would you even consider a 36 year old for anything?

Aha!

Are you cursed or something?

Are you suffering from inferiority complex so tey you cant see younger girls,younger pussies below the age of 30 around you?

Which kain of rubbish and foolishness is that?

Calm Down Abeg.
A 36 year old woman can turn things around 4u too. What's all these. He can get her Pregnant first. He shouldn't listen to any pastor except he is a medical doctor.

Please get her Pregnant, First.
And move on with your marriage.

iwaeda:
You may be that one.

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Be laughing.
You don't know what women go through.
When you see Mothers pushing their daughters to get married quickly you would think they are FooLs. They are not.
IVF is #5 million now in Naija.
$40,000 in California 😭😭😭

Imagine spending on IVF and these babies turn around to disregard & disrespect you in near future

AliEzeOlu:
Hello friends, so I met this lady in 2022 and we plan to settle down early next year. But the problem is, she's gonna clock 36 in December.

I heard about ladies and their biological clock plus menopause etc. I dont know, considering women's biological clock, is it advisable for a 40 year old man to marry a 36y/o?

Get her pregnant first, since you Love her and still interested in BABIES.

iwaeda:
I have seen a 63 year old woman, given birth. God doesn't deal with number.

How many of them?
You can't be using just one in a statistically relevant society. Did you know one is almost negligible where you have millions.
Pray you don't find yourself in such web in current economic environment 😭😭

Medically, the best time to have the best babies for a woman is between 18-25.
From 30 expect anything.
From 35 pregnancy is tagged high risk
So, if you are marrying a woman with the intention of having babies with her, please consider her age. It's of highest priority in this regard.

Scientific Explanation
The onset of Menses in a woman signifies the beginning of womanhood. That means a 12 or 13 year old girl can get pregnant, however we advise such is pushed to 18 to allow for Pelvic adjustments and compensation in anticipation of vaginal birth.

Maturity on display

This one no be anything naaa.
Not new at all. Time immemorial.
All my resourceful Exs have been on Pension for donkey years even after dissolution of relationship. This includes the married ones.
The ones that turned it into entitlement got denied eventually but those who came up with proposals to put such into good use are still on it. A good Ex deserves such when in " NEED"

My Concern:
IF these "TaTas" at this very young age already have "Exs" that means Rapture is imminent & there's no hope for "Natasha"

Hmmmmm
Appalling

You are paying ordinary 200k annually and you are weeping. Just imagine.
200k for 12 months.
You Guys have paradise in your hands.

Jerkbaba:
It's just ridiculous! How can you see a guy chasing a girl for weeks just because you want to fvuck her. Why not just go to 2k or 3k brothel and quench your konji? Or better of just jack off in you room and continue your life?! When I surf Instagram and see all those stupid skits that these useless male youth be making. It agitates me so much! Why would you make video of you demeaning men and making us look stupid all in the name of this content creating nonsense. You'll see them be fooling themselves for these Vagina creatures and they think it's cool. Very annoying! They'll be dressing like them, trying to act like them. Why the obsession with them? Why do these males of this generation want to be like women so badly? Why are they so obsessed about them? It baffles me! They're acting like them, they're dressing like them, so are even wearing make up like them! What the hell is going on! If you're a male, act like a male and vice versa!

I understand the place you are coming from
mEn are increasingly becoming domesticated.
It's overtly unfortunate

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This one na my spec