₦airaland Forum

alizma:
The directive didn't say the place should be unsealed, I think the president only steps in to give the affected people some time to enable them pay up without further sanction. The question now is , has PDP paid the rent? If yes I think that is when you can start talking about the unsealing of the place but if not, the FCDA is in order at the moment.

There was an order for extension of dates, from the initial sealing off of those places, so what the authority should do is to unseal every place prior to when the extension dates expires....

Mr FCT should know where he stands, not stepping on toes that made him stand and make the toes feel like they are weak....

This was the same issue in River State....emotional judgements over critical judgements..

Anybody who thinks he is the most powerful should ask where the likes of Abachas are.....

Please we should be powerful to influence Nigeria to be a better country, better for the masses and not all these useless dramas ....

Where will all these nonsense take this country that is decaying to actually

I see Tinubu being very correct in cancelling the sealing off notice of those places, as there are more headaches in his table than what will be solved in a round table .....

KillahPriest:
I paid off $3.4 billion loan, and I want to borrow a new loan of $21.5 billion.

Please, who am I?

You are a drug merchandise possibly a baron in the game....

Mods abeg, I didn't talk much ooh...

Putindbutt:
Pls stop quoting me, allow people who go to school quote me.

But your comment didn't sound like the people you want it to attract shaaa....

Am I banned ? Somebody help me check pls....

Brendaniel:
Someone who supported another person to wreck a country for 8 years so that he can come and rule the same country most likely doesn't have good plans for that country

it is simple logic but of course to some people tribalism and religious dominance is more important than logic and progress

Let me not talk before the Ororiburukutu APC mod assigned like a monitoring spirit on my profile will will ban me again...

But to say the least before I get banned ....this is the summary of the situation of Nigeria from( 2015-2025) APC grabbed, stole and ran with Power.... 😂 😂 😂....

Hope I didn't talk much mods??!

georgeakins:
Our blodas dey see pepper for their Mkpurummiri side.
No wonder nothing grows on their soil aside ugwu leaves.

Sounds like the voice of a side chick.....stick to the main topic pls

Ikaeniyan0:
Una no dey show us this kin pictures before o. You were all once claiming the east is a paradise and everybody is a billionaire.

If this kind of erosion hits your region, you will be in Cameroon refugee camp using Rainbow line to make calls as there is no hope for like 12 years...

Remember somewhere , they are still discovering that one Pit toilet is no longer comfortable for one community....

You should rather wow it out than talking like who has gap teeth on his molars...

Mods.....that particular mod should touch the button and ban me...
Am back here from work, let me rest small...

Meanwhile, .....Wike , .....y?

mod is waiting to read what I will type..... 😂 😂 😂 Before banning me....

Elyonboy:
Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

Editor: The pix is a file photo, not the girl's Photo

Most problems women do encounter is bad friends around her...

Is she the kind that welcomes friends around her or the kind that minds her business and Family?

Because soon after marrying her, she will realize she is yet to see herself enjoy life before marriage, she will begin to see you as who took advantage of her when she knew NOTHING about life....

There is a tendency she might change later in life if you can't take full control of her lifestyle, emotions , finances and also watch her kind of friends....
There is work to do anyways.....

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this account).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they supported me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't support me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

Can you guys go for separation first to know if there is even any value of marriage attached to her life....I understand your situation, marrying who wants a larger life always...

Is this kind of women that makes their men to go robbing or carrying drugs outside airports just to impress her but I love your attitude and character towards her, maintain yourself always...

Afrojuju2017:
The boy is an hypocrite, he was supporting Obi during presidential elections and the same week was seating with APC local elements just before the delayed gubber elections.

He's been seen gleeing when he meet Shettima in imolast year and now has a chance to meet the president. If he thinks this gives him political cover he's very deluded, from what I've heard Tinubu is not covering anyone except for his inner caucus and his family.

Osun State elections is around the corner, if Adeleke doesn't defect to APC we'll see how these Agip types say nonsense shebi he likes doing atache to Davido

Unfortunately, I don't count the guy, what political class or achievements can he be placed on He is just using his wealth to connect to people, everyone knows he has no political grassroot effect...

Sirianese:
You guys are bigger hypocrites than the Yoruba...you claim you don't bow but that's only because the money isn't enough

If a Yoruba man bows to your face and trashes you behind your back it's because his spirit refused to bow: no amount of cash on earth would induce him to genuinely respect you

Y'all are only about money...not good at all

So how much did Cubana CP ask Pres. Tinubu to give him
Does it mean he won't stab PTinubu at the back because he is not a Yoruba man

healthmister01:
I thought they say igbos don't bow for anybody 🤔😂 this one kneel down finally finally.

This one is on a personal mission not to the interest of the entire IGBOS....

Hope you Gerrit now?.....

Nazgul:
NF must defeat Chelsea and qualify for the UCL. No UCL for Chelsea next season.

Who be this...no allow me dial thunder number for you ooh.... hmmm

CommonSense1967:
Nigerians vs IPOB

Don't mind the guy, he thought he is wise, he never knew it is only IPOBs that the student loan was boycotted from...

He never knew it is only IPOBS that buy a liter of fuel at #980 ...

He never knew that the price of things are 300% cheaper in other places than in IPOBS..

He never knew IPOBS are the ones suffering most in Nigeria...

He is dying in your ignorance of insanity ..

triple996:
THESE PEOPLE CAN DO ANYTHING

How can you stab a helpless infant that did nothing to you ?......... heh?

These people are very wicked

Even savages dont do these to themselves.

See people am sharing a country with

May be she grew up from Ogun state but was brought to Anambra State to learn humanity only to find out she is already pregnant....

So many terrible things do happen to those people

Judolisco:
how many people aligned in Anambra when he was governor? Na dis country all of us dey oh

Show me the vote ratio of Tinubu in Osun State his home town during Presidential election and the ratio in Lagos his city boy cabal home where he divided the Atlantic Ocean for eko boys to enter into Lagos State....

For the records, 99% of voters stood for Him in Anambra State from 2007 till today....

Na Nigeria we dey but some claim they know better ...

Rilwayne001:
Peter Obi is actually a slow weakling.

He's way weaker than Jonathan.

Peter Obi's spokesman have spoken....the problem with Peter Obi is that he is not a thug, whatever problem that comes to him, he won't hire any thugs to find a solution for the issues or dispose dollars and solve his way out , but he will follow due process to get to the point of the problem....

Does this mean he is slow? Or weak.....

You rather love those politicians that break laws by buying judges over...
Win elections by using thugs and dollars to settle delegates..

I guess this is your definition of a fast politician and a hard one. ..

Judolisco:
so you're admitting you all voted blindly in d last election?

Yes , he voted blindly because he knows had it been Peter Obi won, those people will align with his principles and theft free kind of lifestyle from EFCC but since he didn't win, look at the people from LP, all of them can't keep becoming good, they need to run to the party of saints to either commit sins of looting or to be covered of their loots.....

You now see what is happening about all these defection saga ...

Arostar2023:
What's the point in fixing LP now? LP is far too gone... starting from the time of Apapa. LP has served its purpose . Obi gave it and its leaders life...but success was too much for them to handle. Hence the internal party wrangling. Moreover, this is not a country where principled men rule, where meritocracy and hardwork pays. Corruption rules here friend.

With this gospel , he will flee from you 😂 lols

Let new clubs that have not tasted Europa go for Europa then let Liverpool, Arsenal, Man City, Chelsea and Now Totee...go for champions League....is a good combo

Big influential men in Nigeria think and live differently so this is not an issue....
When they are in power, respect them and honor them as you meet them....

But don't buy into any idea that won't benefit your people....

Tenisam:
Walahi this your talk get as e be.
You sef sit down and think about am for a minute, how does it make any sense even to you ?

Is not a talk for the kids, is a deep reflection of the condition of Nigeria brought to us through zero transparency....

What you saw written there are all facts , go and check by yourself....

We have to wake up in Nigeria and do the right things or continue to wallow in mistakes that will set us 15 years backwards...

shortgun:
Do you know that Tinubu has never done any charity work as a private citizen outside Lagos state.
Think about that for a minute

Tinubu has no time for even his kinsmen which are all croned because he has no father or mother....
He has no sisters or brothers
Everything he has near him are all fosters...

If Tinubu is an Igbo Man, nothing will make him smell any seat not even class prefect because Igbos don't hide their mouth, he will always be asked to go and provide his parents before coming to contest elections...

But no , is not so in the SW, once you are an elder, your sins are forgiven, you become a demi-god and people around will only pretend to be in good relationship with you......they will never talk or say the truth...if you now have money and political connections, you finally become their god of the land ....

SEGLIZ:
you can just imagine a man that hasn't bribed his way in politics experiencing so much love across tribe and ethnic groups. yet some people compare him to those that has always pay their way to success.
if only you can experience liberation!? just that hate has blindfold you from true freedom.

If you are a Christian and you seat down to analyze why the Jews preferred a born notorious criminal as against Christ Jesus, that kind of hatred is what we see in this present times...
A man EFCC can't knock on his door for good 8 years he was a Governor, while some criminals Governors who knows EFCC will come after them after their tenure ends are rushing decamping to the criminal made saints party ....
Their hatred is welcomed because we know is for a good purpose later on ..

Ilekokonit:
Don't you people have kids What is the effect of your prolonging the drama going to have on your kids or your wife's mental health

If she commits suicide in this her state of mind, do you realise that you will RIGHTLY be blamed for her death

If your hands are clean as you assert, all you should have done is to invite your farm worker and his pregnant wife and present them as proof to your wife.

It's not fair for you to toy with your wife's mental health like this as people's brains are wired differently and what seems like child's play to you may cause a full scale nervous breakdown for others.

Do you really love and value your wife's mental health

Hmmm quite a good one but having a wife who can't trust me is also a mental health issue to me, because her breaking down , inshort it seems like the story is not real ....

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

Since you are on the safe side, bounce it and move on, wish we are close neighbors, let's have some cool bottles and proteins ....

But the next move is to bring the guy and the wife for a dinner like attention,....remember to bring your Mum and Dad along since they are now involved, then break the news for them all ....and laugh it loud...

But for now, enjoy the Bollywood movie.....