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unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

Since you are on the safe side, bounce it and move on, wish we are close neighbors, let's have some cool bottles and proteins ....

But the next move is to bring the guy and the wife for a dinner like attention,....remember to bring your Mum and Dad along since they are now involved, then break the news for them all ....and laugh it loud...

But for now, enjoy the Bollywood movie.....

But this shouldn't be news here on Nairaland except if it for the ranting that will follow suit from who them be and who we are.... 😂 Lols

Ofemannnu:
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Stop putting Obi in the same sentence with Soludo.
Obi failed woefully when he was the governor of Anambra.
lol
Let Anambra catch up with Ibadan and Ogun first before it can be compared to Lagos.

Were you his PA when he was Governor of Anambra State, if I run a check now, you may still be in Nursery School when he was Governor...

Ibadan and Ogun are not comparable to Anambra State, I have been to the two States, they can only boast of landmass with scanty developments in the most populated areas but not development as some places are still made of bushes and forests...

Talking about Lagos, Lagos has secured large areas with visible developments that can make people survive in the areas, that's the target of Anambra State..

Chucks13:
And this is one of the reason we sworn to almighty God we will never allow obi to rule Nigeria.

If you like deactivate anything deactivateable as God live obi will never smell Aso Rock in his life. We have sworn about it.

And by 2027 we will change the game on him.

Imagine smeeone not yr a president already a dictator anda datan who do nt want criticism? Obi nwanem I swear to Chukwu Abiama we will never let you rule Nigeria in you life time.

Lols , is like he took your girlfriend away from you and changed her life through innovative thinking and meaningful lifestyle, this one you are barking like a demi-god....

Easy ooh, ropes are no longer expensive in the market and forests are coming up more and more....

You can't swear against the will of the Masses...

Dalohad:
Sowore you are barking at the wrong tree. Please face the government of the day, tormenting Nigerians.

Is only a dog who gets fed by his owners neighbors that can bark at his owner....

The chain around Sowere neck is in Aso rock, no dog barks to his owner when the owner is holding his chains on his neck....

The only thing that we can say is that he is proudly demoting himself from contesting for even a Councillor in his ward because he will fail woefully....

You don't get relevance or fame neither do one rise to fame by laying abusive words to your Mentor , no no no no....

Let him start from being the Youth chairman of his Village first, then by the time he can become Governor of his State, he will begin to respect Peter Obi.... 😂 😂

Solution is indeed doing great in Anambra State, following the foot prints of Peter Obi who broke the rule of godfatherism in Anambra State and started on a new phase likewise Obiano who capitalized on the money kept in the banks for capital projects to the State ...

Soon, Anambra State will be competing with Lagos in terms of organic development within the villages and towns....

Whiteshield:
Maybe you were a teenager when GEJ was President, that's why you are peddling such falsehood.
Akin Adesina was the highest appointee under GEJ, what was his portfolio?

You are saying GEJ didn't fully sideline Yorubas. What was worse than what he did? Or, he should have run Yorubas out of Nigeria.

There is a thread of where Yorubas met GEJ to complain about the marginalisation of Yorubas. Go and see the comments of Igbos. Today, you are crying.

Have you seen GEJ hobnob with any SE political figure since he lost? He now knows better.

What more can be done to South West when the same South West proposed that no Igbo man will be President and always rally around North to keep the motion alive??

You cried of mere office positions within a Government which has favoured you as Obasanjo who is a Yoruba man got 8 years before Goodluck Jonathan....

Is it not greed that made you feel Igbos were highly favored just into mere offices than the post of Presidents

I was not born before Goodluck Jonathan became President but inside the blues where I was I smelled greed, hatred and manipulations against the Igbos of just having mere offices and appointments during Jonathan's government...

So leave that side alone, Yorubas have been favoured Alot yet you guys cry Alot as well of marginalization...

The issue here is the fact that Only South West votes can't count in the scheme of affairs in Nigeria unless there is a collabo...

The same applies to South East, only South East votes can't count in the scheme of affairs unless there is a collabo...

So apparently, we all need ourselves to grow Nigeria, if you shout and cry of Marginalization during Jonathan's government, how do you expect Igbos to cry when none of their son has not even become vice President of Nigeria talk more of President?

Think it out, is only greed that is speaking here...

Whiteshield:
Go and ask GEJ.
When Yoruba elders were complaining of marginalization, what did he do?

Yorubas supported him in 2011, he started misbehaving.
The day he said Igbos are the pillars of his administration was when he lost.

Buhari picked a SE man as Vice, two times. What happened?

But he didn't win until he aligned with the SW.

Unfortunately you don't understand South East Politics ...You don't pick anybody from South East and expect them to rally with you.

If you don't pick an industrious son of the South East, then you are on your own ...

So forget about Buhari picking a South Easterners...

On the issue of Buhari aligning with South West before he won, is the same thing I told you..South West went to him in the person of TINUBU to collaborate and there was an agreement in the collabo, that power will be giving to him after Buhari... that's what made South West stand for Buhari as TINUBU told them the secret...If not, Buhari will still fail woefully because he was a failure in his first Military Administration...

So even South West and Tinubu owe the entire Nigerians an Apology for bringing a failure to be the President of Nigeria that's if they have conscience to do so anyway...even Tinubu said he came to correct the failure of the past President during his campaign... 😂 😂

Goodluck was not fully voted by Yorubas and in his administration, he didn't fully sidelined Yorubas, go and check records, but that is by the way ...

Heffalump:
It's been scandalously proven several times that Sowore is working for Tinubu secretly. Now he can't even hide under any guise anymore. Politics doesn't fit him a bit. He's better of an activist.

He is a small boy who should be contesting for Student government offices , and can be easily be bought over ....I don't see him as even an activist, he has trust issues .

Who is Swore abi Sowere in the affairs of this nation if not because Tinubu is in the system...

This was how MC Olumo's son started bragging about his father and how he owns Nigeria the other day....

People of low class mentality shouldn't be found in a developing nation like Nigeria but Nigeria is unfortunate anyway....

Engen:
Is there another South-East I don’t know about?
Tinubu won the last election without a single vote from the region—so what’s all the fuss now?

And he won it with only South West votes abi

Arrogancy and Pride can't be removed from you all ....

adicius:
Fact. Ebonyai state or whatever you call it, plus the whole of the south east will not decide 2027 election. They are irrelevant in the grand scheme of things.



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And only South West votes are relevant in the grand scheme of things Let me buy your cheap grammar...

You better stop this arrogant and Pride filled lifestyle....
If the North decides to work against the South West, there is no relevancy to be added to South West.....

After all, Goodluck Jonathan was not voted much in South West, but he won...he was flushed out when the North collaborated with the South West....and left South South and South East ...

Whiteshield:
South Eastern votes are actually irrelevant in Presidential elections.

Go and ask GEJ and Peter Obi

Have you ever wondered why Hausa people don't brag about all these?

Because they understand Politics and work with who works with them ...

They know if they dump South West, pick up South South and South East, that South West will be irrelevant in the Presidential election as well, so what's your problem

Is it South West votes that are relevant in Presidential election?

Dtruthspeaker:
Precisely. The report is not telling us how they travelled. Whether by public transport or personal vehicle.

You are right, That's another issue to find out...

They can't just disappear into the blues just like that....
The major point of call could have been if they entered Anambra State that night and there was no communication again, then it will mean a bad omen...

They will surely find them I pray, and let it be in a good shape ...

Bobloco:
This is the same Yahaya Bello whom the EFCC chairman promised to prosecute, stating that he would resign if he failed

He was employed by the same boss Yahaya is serving , so the case is settled....

If you don't Gerrit....forgerrit

ElevationD:
And more misery and hardship is a goal for you from 2027 till 2031.

Don't mind him, with a cup of garri in his hands searching for sugar, he is saying Hardship is a goal in 2027....

Nigeria is divided along common sense shaaa

But I thought Oshogbo and Ogbomoso refineries are working together with Kaduna and Port Harcourt refineries?

Does it mean the Federal Government doesn't know about this achievements to allow IPMAN be talking this or allow Dangote reduce price anyhow

Please how many barrels of oil did Port Harcourt Refinery and Oshogbo r finery produced today???

I think they have left Anambra State going to Uyo from the Story read here...

They entered Asaba by 7pm, ate food and continued to Onitsha in Anambra State.... because that is the first place after head bridge...

By 10:20pm, they were reached and there was a conversation, couldn't one of them say where they lodged in Onitsha or what or how they finally found where to lodge At least there should be an information from the conversation...

By 6:16am , one of them posted on Facebook the birthday of his wife, showing they were still relaxed wherever they are with no issues...

And that's the last time they were communicated....

For them to be going to Uyo, at exactly 7am in the morning, they should have been on their way to the park to board a bus going to Uyo Akwaibom State...

Two things can be possible here.....
Assuming if they mentioned where they lodged in Onitsha, then Police will trace the hotel and know if they logged out in the morning...

If Yes, then , Onitsha in the morning is not a dead zone , no one can harass anybody...

So definitely, they boarded a bus and left Onitsha to Uyo...

Let the search also extend to Motor accidents , hospitals and kidnap cases outside Anambra State as no one can kidnap them in the morning in Onitsha without the news going round which is equally impossible...

gasparpisciotta:
Must we use ethnicity to color every achievement?

What is wrong if the heading reads:
‘12 Nigerians in diaspora build a “world class” hospital in Anambra state, Nigeria.’

But when it is time to give South East the President of Nigeria, we will remember the propaganda and ethnic hatred of 1966 coup targeted on Igbos....
Two must agree before they work together....

The day I went to report an offence committed by one of my clients to a Police station was once the day I reaffirmed my trust never to have a close link with police....

Imagine one of the Police men telling the P.R.O who would handle my case , that he has been here, why she takes customers, than am now the third person.....

Even the sentence or whatever they said I should write comes with #5k non refundable bill , then I need to fuel their car and possibly pay for handcuffs before we can move...

I just got tired instantly, told them an not interested in the case again, and went home , cooled off and moved on ....

If Nigerian Police stops you on the road, please stop, play along with them, don't assume they can't do what you feel security personnel can't do ......

TimeManager:
Governors are not only reducing their debts , they now have more money for projects and to increase salaries of workers. Thanks to Mr President. The Governors have never had it so good in the history of the country, it's like they're in a dreamland. Pessimists can try as they like to put down the efforts of the federal government but your Governors who are literally kissing the feet of Mr President know how he has helped the fortune of their states. It is only left to you to hold your Governors by their trousers and demand accountability and transparency. Rather you focus on the wrong direction, at the center, in greed of power grabbing but unfortunately for you, there's no vacancy in Aso rock. Focus more on your state and by 2031, we shall be discussing who will be the next President.. Remember our own Patience Jonathan has also warned you. Case closed.


--Kiss the truth!

I dont think Tinubu was invited in this news.....why trying to smuggle him in like Seyi

Be careful young man ..

Guestmale:
What is the ideology behind this coalition,is this coalition going to return pms back to ₦180 naira and dollar back ₦200, anything short of this can't fly, Nigerians will prefer to continue with devil they already know than saint they never tested.

Obidients should stop relying on imaginary northern votes come 2027.

Very funny, this devil that is gradually taken your pocket and dreams to the grave, is it the better devil

Why was PDP Jonathan chased away in the first place
When they told you is #216 better for $1?
Is fuel price or #190 better for fuel pump price

But because people thought APC could be better and deliver they were voted in by all tribes, thanks to God you called them DEVILS....that's what they are actually, zero human conscience...

Now that you have seen the failures of APC from 2015 and the grand fathers they support to be Presidents , people that Shou be in old people's homes, your mind and sense should be telling you, that you need to flush those devils out...

helinues:


Atiku, Peter Obi and Elrufai are not the one in charge of their party Pdp, LP and SDP

Which political party are they going to contest from?

Wike is in charge of Pdp
Abure is claiming superior in LP
SDP is more like a sister party of Apc, Elrufai don't have the command

Do you know L.P before Peter Obi erupted it from the grave yard?

So relax, Is not when you use Lagos tax payers money or Rivers tax payers money to claim a party that you become popular ...

If not for Nigeria, some people's homes will be in jail anyway....

anonimi:
This is so true.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qg_1mly5Gm8?si=FyIGgN2HhrWHqOEj

Lols they will avoid this your short clip of a truth....

Vergovert:
He is useless to APC.


You can have him

No, he has gone and cleared himself from EFCC, so no need to be with you.....

Na who carry sins of public looting dey join una...

blacknp:
We Know the man from Agulu, He is wasting his time, he doesn’t stand a chance in the world of winning the presidential election in 2023, 2027, or winning any presidential election anytime in the distant future.

He is a good actor in the game, he is making President Tinubu The Strategist opt his game, it takes 2 to do the tango.

It is mission impossible for an Igbo man to replace a Yoruba man as president of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Totally impossible.

Here comes your hatred for IGBOS, but for how long will you continue to feel this inferior over them

Can you now see that Yorubas are the reason Nigeria is backwards as well? Because you people have refused to speak the truth and support the truth but prefer to gamble with any other tribe to make sure IGBOS don't see the light....

But we keep on shocking your evil thoughts as we excel in whatever we lay our hands on...

More blessings upon every Igbo man, Nigeria will later after decaying, beg an Igbo man to be her President....

Rebelutionary:
Some of you just wake up, pick up your phone and type whatever drivêl that floats your boat!

Obi that can't stand Apapa and Abure is the one in your mind you feel that should be drafted to eliminate "Wike's satanic influence"?

Una dey think before Una talk so?

Pesin wey never fit handle small LP, na PDP Una wan "give am"? Is it not from the same PDP he ran from?

Comrade this your talk no follow at all at all!!

So why do you think he left PDP?....he said he is not ready to share shi shi when others were sharing dollars like Tbu...

He didn't leave PDP because of any other issue..

This same man you said couldn't handle LP , was the same first contestant Governor in Nigerian State to win his court case after three good years of constant pursuit until Judiciary couldn't stand him and his evidence....

I don't think you know him, except u want to mock yourself thinking you know him....

First...they rumored that Peter Obi will join APC ..

After that, they now target Kwankwa

Let me tell my dog to hide, ....lols because everybody must join APC ...

yemre:
HE Peter Obi making donations here and there #10m each time and place. You try sha o.

But, remember that the impacts of your donations is limited to the things your fans are able to lay claims to.

Why not take up projects (infrastructure and/human capital), have them supervised and have them successfully completed and then it's named after you to further propagate your good works.

That way, people can come up to say "he built a hospital for the Anglican community at so so place, he built a school for so so community in Anambra state, he constructed a bridge to control flooding at so so place in Anambra, he did this, he did that".

It is much better that way than donating to support.

As it stands, if I also make donations of #10,000 to that same building, it means we both donated funds. So, how are we different? Because none of us can lay claims to it.

Do things that your supporters will use as campaign points for people to see and make good comments.

Just my own personal opinion.

His impacts and donations are based on the needs of the schools or hospitals he visits as building a school hall , hospital etc is also one of his legacies....

yarimo:
He is trying to hide the shameful treatment from Rome , after he was told to stand in the sun never to come inside the event venue

Tinubu went to Rome and while coming back, dollar price rose by 1.2%
Food prices rose by 5.2%



Peter Obi who you said can never go to Rome because he was not invited, returned from the same Rome...

Gifted two schools #10M each to eradicate poverty that your government brought to Nigerians ....

Which of these two people should a sane person follow


Remember, he was a past Governor in 2007, how does he make his money that he flies to any country he wants, donates millions on a dairies? And yet to be in the book of EFCC or being in the circus of the corrupt politicians forfeiting dollars or Naira ....

Which other past Governors has his kind of personality
Who is this man actually

See, this is the kind of man you should study and emulate, if only you can drop this politics of eye service ...

Ibechris2:
Especially those foolish men in their 30s and 40s still hibernating with their parents.

Plenty in Lagos.

Menh, life is hard they say but you see this one, na by force to debunk ooh....whether life is hard or not...

But atimes, some of the men are really the one inheriting the parents house, renovating and even feeding the parents even as they are living with them...

Some siblings are always unfortunate to realize that in a family, at a certain age, everyone is on his own her one on time, some will still be having the notion that they are helping the family....