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my dear, ur 24 rite? he says this doesnt mean u have to believe that! have u asked what his reason 4 wanting 2cu is all about?

well personally for me, what happens in vegas stays in vegas, i don't say good morning where i have already said good nite.

here's a start, ask urself if u wanna see him (or want him back), ur answer will determine the rest.

just another over-flogged issue.

no, i love my space from time 2 time ( u know the little box thingy). its gonna be chokin if we're in each others face every second.

abeg, make them let me hear word. this virginity saga is out of hand. virginity this, virginity that, blah,blah,blah, then dey take am go CBN?

Needlelady:
By their fruits we shall know them. Just touch his crotch and squeeze it real hard, the veins will come to the surface but if the veins refuse to show, that is an indication of an overused man.

lol, forget it dear. make do with d tokunbo, jst remember to get a spare tire o!

angeleses:
question- have you had enough sex with her? if yes, then u got nothing to loose o - bro.

sho, na wa o! (some men i must not meet)

joycee87:
male virgins ,u can only find them at the age range of 1day old to 10years old,after 10 years sorry u can't find any,all of them have tasted d forbidden fruit,so if u want a virgin check within d age range i just gave u,but be careful,because u might be accused of child abuse

lol,

my dear, unfortunately while ladies can revel in their virginity,most men don't. infact a man who has know idea where babies come from will claim he's been around the block. i guess its an ego thing for them, wanting to be alpha males.

Anuli ph:
You must be really naive to think that your Guy A jambite is faithful to you.
you are working,probably finished with school, in Enland, and you want to wait for sb who still has 5 years down the line. Do you think Nigeria is like England? He's probably not even thinking about you right now, with all those beautiful chics on campus. Get real.

please don't stick to stereotypes.

Sweet T- sha dont let the association of aggrieved non-virgins come after u o!

and leave cadet alone, haba.

@ thonia slim and almondjoy- those were rlly encouraging words, atimes we have to let go and let God.

@poster- the truth is pain makes us forget we have an inherent ability to heal ( though we may be scarred).in time, you will get ova this and find something greater.

cadet- thanks. just drawing inspiration frm your post. virgins have suffered in this land. kai!

Cadet:
Really, to be anything is wrong!

To be a virgin is not dignity, but opportunity

To not be a virgin is opportunity, not dignity

To be a woman is a tragedy , just unfortunate not to be a man

To be a man is an unfortunate, just a tragedy not to be a woman

What disgust me is that people will always find the wrong in anything

Anyways, just my own oppinion

when pple differ in their perspective on certain issues, the next thing some pple start chorusing is hypocrisy, but the real problem is that d world is filled with conformists, pple who lack true knowlegde of themselves and everything else, who believe there is no other life outside the one they live.

- virginity is not lack of opportunity, pple have their reasons for wanting to keep themselves.

-virgins don't necessarily make better partners cos it takes more than sexual relations to make a relationship work.
-virginity (our sexuality) does not totally define who we are, its only a part of what we are
-to the virgins out there, kudos to u! to the non-virgins, life goes on.period.

nope. the heart is not a warehouse, there's just no room 4 two.

Cadet:
hmm. explains why almost all Nigerian men shout unnecessarily, like baboons in the jungle

ver funny.

big father:
Could be spiritual or family issues !

could be the case.

not everyone is cut out for marriage, maybe the guy is such a specie.

sista-jay:
It's nice to be in the know

seconded

SAM MILLA:
THE most romantic sms*
hmm, mine is, ''Delete my ID from your messenger list*

that was more like a goodbye kite.

hollandis:
Telling people your problems MIGHT add more to your problems

yup, if u listen to the wrong folks, u'll do the wrong things.

whats this?

i try not to, but atimes it slips thru my mind.

"i'd rather be in your world, than live without u in mine"

that was frm my ex 2 yrs back , funny thing is he's still alive.

tolerance seem to be an over-rated word atimes. why all the unecessary vemon?

i feel "like" is a conditional attachment and fondness for someone, love on the other hand is unconditional and deeper. i believe pple can graduate frm when they like someone to when they fall in love with that person. just my 2 cents.