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Mediapace:
Lemme know them ladies now,time to ask my own questions :

*Is it possible for a lady to love a man she had never met before ?

*How do you ladies cope with a virgin Man during wedding night? And Do you like it when a Man is a virgin i.e. Has no experience about sex likewise you during honeymoon?

*Ladies how do you feel when a man break up relationship with you cos you aren't busty &but-ty?

*Can you date man that is not that handsome to your taste ?

Cc
ishilove
twaci
optional1
Laveda

Penboy:
really??
how am i supposed to know when I'm leading a woman on??

I'm just being nice for all i care.

Cutehector:
Fourth Question

When a girl visits a guy in his house/lodge and they are just new in dating, is it appropriate for the guy to initiate any form of intimacy

or is it advisable for him to be patient enough until when she is very much confortable with him so as to avoid any form of awkward moments

Cutehector:
well its a pity u'v been associating with the wrong set of guys... My condolences to that.. So i guess u just want a guy who's gona mean wat he says ryt?

firstking01:
My humble question...what do girls really want in life, i bet the op can't answer this question cos even google sef no know am

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Ladies in the house

Some girls find it hard to trust good-looking guys that are asking them out.

They feel they're flirts. Why so?[/color]

Cutehector:
ah mean who just does dat... I think those who do that are more of the females, not males..

RoyalBlak007:
Girls always have "assistant boyfriends"..Which is so true...there is always that other guy who's better than their current bf...who might be 'just a friend' or 'my cousins friend' or 'my bf's elder broda'

[color=#AB56BA]Say something to this....true innit?[/color]

STFUareyouG0d:
It's very possible she gets same commitment even when he's got side chick.

Having a side chick does mean she's not committed to her main chick. maybe men are just wired like that (Not trying to justify cheating).

I've seen married men who places their wife and family above every other things cheat on their wife

My point is, a wise dude can still keep a side chick without changing nothing

That said, I'm a 'one girl' dude

Cutehector:
Third question

In your opinion ladies, what are those things you don't like that guys always form a habit of doing

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Thanks for your answer

One thing that bothers me again about girls


You express your feelings for a girl you truly like, and she's like'' you just want to use and dump me''

I don't get why some of them think like this

Cc: Twaci and other ladies here[/color]

STFUareyouG0d:
Why do girls get mad/jealous when their BF gets side chick?

Cutehector:
second question

Is it proper for a guy to begin to give gifts to a girl at the early stages of dating?

Maxi112:
is it right for a girl in a relationship to masturbate?

shurlermoz:
Turned down 1 before and presently running away from another. Thing is, I get scared of shit like that.
I mean, why will a girl just want me like that? There must be a motive, you can't just love me, I'm not nice.

momohsteve:
I did once & later regretted my action. I've been trying to get back at her but she's proving otherwise. Her birthday is even today.

esonuu:
i stil dnt knw why i changed my mind or wat compelled me to do so

ugolance:
All this while you've been dating onions as boyfriends!

esonuu:
U aint falling in luv,u jst get infatuated wit doz guys cos of one quality or d other which u saw in them,it did happen to me more dan 5 tyms..infatuation is always intense,u feel like u gona die without dat person,u mistake it 4 love but at d end,it aint...giv ursef sum time,try startn tins wit sum1 as frnds,dnt rush it,tak ur time,study him,get to knw wat/hw he feels towards u b4 u nw start dating/courting..it worked 4 me,a lady i told openly dat we cannever date,after two and half yrs of being jst frnds,nw we are dating and doz tins i dnt do for oda guls i dated or did out of pretense,nw i do it for dis one willingly without expectn sex or any pay bak 4rm her.GOODLUCK HONEY

bitchcrafts:
My attention caught the 'nice' word in your post. I like nice, so wondering if nice will be nice enough to hold a nice chat with Mr.bored...

linusbnn:
I will be forced to ask her if she SEX in her dream or have any romance like almost always. Spiritual husband matter no be beans oooooo

humilitypays:
No one has told you the problem...I think they are all beating around the bush.

As a young man myself who has lots of married and single guys....both rich, poor and average guys...I will itemize your possible issues with guys below:

1. You have very high taste of men- he must be tall, dark fair, muscular, born again, have a good job....in as much as these are good screening criterias, they most often lead ladies into falling for the wrong guys. Wrong guys in terms of married guys or those in committed relationship....playboys only out to catch fun with as many ladies as possible

2. You show signs of desperacy towards guys you are dating: no man (rich or poor, handsome or ugly) admires a desperate woman. This is why many ladies get dumped....they make any guy that end up dating them to feel like they must marry her at all cost since you agreed to date them and maybe have sex/romance with them.

Once a man notices that a lady is desperate to marry, he becomes scared....scared that the lady maybe the wrong woman for him...scared that the lady may have some defficiencies or secret why other guys are running away from marrying her and now she wants to impose herself on him.

Once a man starts to feel you want him to marry you at all cost, he starts to look for a way to escape from you via any flimsy excuse.

3. Do you work? How much do you value your work or business?

Unfortunately, in our present day world....Nigeria as a case study...the economy is harsh...and this has made men (rich and poor) to start filtering women to marry based on their economic viability. If you have a good job and make these guys to understand that you have a viable job, career or business...believe me, most of them won't run from you. most won't quit but will most likely end up settling down with you.

Men have learnt from ladies....guys now select would-be-wife based on where she works....the business she does....her family background....where she lives.....her financial status and more...yes, guys have started digging diamond too...sadly


4. Lastly, you believe that any guy you agreed to date owes you a lot since you have not been dating any guy...that you are a rare gem...yes, even though you may be a rare gem, but making a guy feel like you are doing him a favour dating him will only make him feel bad and start looking for a way out.

Make him feel worthwhile....not by pestering him or by stalking him but via certain actions.....gifting...calls....and also don't pester a guy.....give him space....make him feel like you aren't forcing yourself on him...make him feel like he's not being caged by you but then make an indellible mark in his life, how? Help him in his career growth...business growth...give him useful information and links if you can or come across any that will help him grow....forget all the nonsense some ladies preach that if you help a man grow....that he will leave you to marry another girl when he's made...its all fallacy.....I have never seen it...all guys I know married ladies that made positive impact in their lives, so don't listen to those preaching negative message about helping a guy grow.

Finally....finally....pray....find a way to pour your heart to God in private prayers...not via a pastor or brother this and that...believe in yourself....read the Bible...book of Esther.....and quit being desperate and be friendly....don't look down on any guy.....listen to guys trying to say hi...listen to their bullshit if you can.....the best guys mustn't come driving a range rover....sometimes....your Mr Right might meet you in a bus and it doesn't mean your life is doomed...if you will be rich....you will surely be....all you need now is a trustworthy companion to share you life, you vision, your dream with and God will sure bless you materially and financially when the set time comes...quit choosing men based on their financial, job or business status!

bitchcrafts:
hi!

Alezy:
that I the book u read to harden ur heart to an unrealistic position. When mr right finally shows his face, u won't even recognise him again.

bad idea to me

SkinnyDude:
where are they?

Catalyst4real:
[size=16pt]Here is your problem.

You give guys the cookie before they even develop true affection for you[/size].

Eleniyan15:
MrLP


Broda you aff bleep up
apologize too her first... then start from the beginning
friend package ni oooooooo bfor you try one more time... you sef talk am 75 unread messages it shows that a lot of guys have not even upgrade when it comes too wooing Ladies

I feel you don't got a lot forget about the cash stuff
The issue here is that you have invested in this lady Buh she's not ready too invest back .


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your mind set)
If you read this fvking book trust me your life would change....
just read the book sha if you love her and if she dey do strong head bleep her and gerrout
we go drop anoda book for you too read then you become a beast,lol ( Art of seduction)

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vizier007


let help a Broda ooooo

SkinnyDude:
i really want to start hating ladies.. my friendship and relationship with them is useless, fruitless. and don't last.. they always try to cheat, cheat, use me..